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Girl funded too "cold" pedicab driver stopped funding Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Liang Liang and Wang Mingping Two voices Lao Feng should be tolerant The girl bones are good and strong self-esteem, but because of life experience reasons, becomes very low self-esteem. Her heart is very reluctant to become the object of subsidized, just out of frustration and accept the reality. So her subconscious exclusion with financing related to people and things. What she is not a bad view of the Lao Feng, but unwilling to face the fact that they are funded by the object. Feng was best not to use the standard adult to ask Lingling, should stand in her point of view to understand her thoughts. --- User ctve188 Girl to reflect on For this old man worth, as we in the bus seat, if they seat to others, people sit down after even a thank eyes are not, will feel worth. The seat is not for people's thanks, but others take for granted, I really feel uncomfortable. The old man subsidized girl, the girl is not to be grateful, but if even a heart-warming or anything, really no need to go funded. I do not know how grateful and polite, this girl reflect on yourself. --- Guangdong Mobile users Whether subsidized 14-year-old girl, in the face of sudden and funders,http://cabbage-search.jp, showing enthusiasm and a sense of distance is not representative of the apathy and ungrateful? Funders and what should be funded by the state of mind in the face of a child? Yesterday, the Chengdu Business Daily published an exclusive news, "a behind-funded and well-being people" about the tricycle master Feng was funded 14 year-old girl Lingling (a pseudonym) is the story of a four-year funding persist, Feng was the first meeting with the kids , because the child exhibited "cold", some chilling then stopped funding. However, the Chengdu Business Daily reporter through in-depth interviews and field visits Ling himself, learned that the child is not indifference, but because a strong self-esteem and low self-esteem intertwined, resulting in a relaxed posture she could not face Feng was the sponsor. After the Chengdu Business Daily this exclusive report, was reprinted hundreds of sites, causing heated discussions of thousands of users --- Some users believe that the girl was small, due to the reasons do not understand the expression of life experience and personality, not blame; but Lao Feng also suggested that funding commendable girl, girl "cold" performance indeed wrong; There are friends that children eventually grow up, Feng was not in his capacity as a benefactor to meet, or to do good on sour ...... As of yesterday, 22 points, only the comment thread on Sina news has exceeded 20,000. For netizens controversy and doubt, the Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Zai Ci and Cai Fangle parties and people around to help people better understand the matter. A Recipients respond to users questioned Lingling User questions 1: Why not take the initiative to make a phone call Master Feng? Shortly after the first meeting,air max 90 pas cher, Ling-Ling's grandmother gave Feng was playing to a telephone call,http://www.cpslm.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=522, the elderly hope Feng was able to forgive the doll's "rude," Lao Feng asked: "? Lingling own a cell phone, why not give me a call." Grandma hurried over to the phone close to the next phone to listen to Lingling Lingling quickly took the phone, but "Hey," a cry after the discovery, Feng Bao Bao has hung up the phone. Thereafter,tn reuqin pas cher, Lingling no reason to call in the 14-year-old girl seems, they have provoked angry Feng Bao Bao, the call to the phone seems to Feng Bao Bao money, she felt she had nothing. Ling-Ling's troupe in Ren Weiming opinion, "This doll is very shy, a heavy psychological burden, although very hard to learn, but the junior high school, the results have been moderate." Wei said the teacher, because introverted, very quiet, as help her relieve stress, it also specially arranged for her a cheerful girls at the same table. User Question 2: His family was poor but also using a mobile phone, you are not understand conservation, ungrateful? In the eyes of parents and teachers, Lingling very economical. "She one week living expenses 50 yuan, 10 yuan a day." Grandma Liu Guihua introduction, because his family was poor, Lingling in sick are reluctant to go to school, minor illnesses to drag, it can not hold a serious illness just to call home, and she Most of the clothes are a gift. This has been confirmed but it did Ren Weiming. "Because of long-term savings, malnutrition, Lingling some yellow hair." Wei said the teacher, school and teacher initiative eliminates some of the costs Lingling, and she took the initiative to apply for a number of grants. Because the teacher students care and attention in class activities and sweep cleaning, Lingling took the initiative to undertake some menial work, heavy work. Wei-ming, the "view from these everyday acts, she was gratitude, but special environment children grow up, something she did not know how to express." User Question 3: More willing to become a "people take care of others," whether it is rhetoric? Chengdu Commercial News reporters learned that Ling-Ling mouth said, "more people willing to become someone else's care" is not a lie. The villagers say that from this year, Ling-Ling family received 2,000 pounds of ground millet, because my grandfather has lost the ability to work, so she and her grandmother in charge of the harvest, when to play millet,http://www.hacosuke.com/hacobbs/hacobbs.cgi, millet 2000 kilos all this 14-year-old girl use school and weekend bundles play out, and then back home in his backpack. Reporters asked Lingling, so when you feel that tired, Lingling said:. "Not tired, grandparents dry not move,piumini moncler, of course, I do ah" Meanwhile, the village several relatives of the child, as long as the tinkling of a free will to go care. Lingling said happily: "1 year old little nephew saw me will laugh, I will cry a leave little nephew." For this feeling of being needed, Lingling obviously liked. Lao Feng respond to users questioned funders User questions 1: Ling-Ling is a little girl, why not go with his wife to visit? Lao Feng said, for him to support poor baby, his wife has been not agree, the couple has quarreled several aircraft. This can go visit Lingling, but also because their hometowns do disability certificate, his wife also came to understand the risk of stroke was salvaged him, made him to realize his ideas. But if you want to accompany his wife go? After all, there are three from Zitong to more than 100 km road, only a one-way tolls would take more than 100 yuan, the couple is a bit distressed, that this money might as savings, improve the food to the next doll. User Question 2: Feng was not comfortable, funding doll is not to satisfy their own vanity? Lao Feng explained that he had previously been a month to spend money on the lottery, can persist for several years, a lot of money, did not always win. Once he heard the lottery station in the broadcast, said lottery money to charity. Feng was under consideration, its charity lottery, not as a direct subsidy to poor doll, this money out, his heart is also comfortable. He said he did not Fig children will grow up to have nothing in return, just want to spend more meaningful. View To respect the recipients, recipients do not feel pity, But feel that this donation is worth. Lingling for the case, the Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Cai Fangle and De Yangshi People's Hospital psychiatrist, national secondary counselors Luo Shu. "The vast majority of poor students mind is withdrawn, introverted, anxious." Luo Shu analysis, because of family background and upbringing led them to have inferiority complex, but what is often deeply embedded a strong self-esteem and excessive sensitivity. Especially in the face when the donor is particularly strong. Many of those donors will have social phobia, more donors are in here feel the pressure, when they did not know how to face, will choose to avoid the mentality, their hearts will be hurt. " Many of those donors will have social phobia Overly sensitive bones strong self-esteem Luo Shu presentation, a case of her recent contacts, but also one that accepts donations of poor students, the poor students most annoying is standing on the podium,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/menscasual/bottoms-2-menscasual.html, holding a red envelope and handed donors by donors, then took a red envelope ShouJuanZhe He stood on the stage to be photographed. Ashamed because of the poor, a lot of people do not want to expose their weaknesses, and stood in front of donors by donors all exposed weaknesses, and always feel that they are an object of pity, when unable to meet or fail to meet other requirements on a loss. "Their heart is fragile like a sensitive touch on the broken glass." Lingling initiative to take some of the heavy work so hard at school and at home, is actually a manifestation of thanksgiving, just quietly express. For the issue of using a mobile phone, 14-year-old Ling-Ling in adolescence, there are good things in the pursuit of yearning demand. But she herself was very economical, cost of living 10 yuan every day, so do not have to mind the funders Fung. Because inferiority complex, Ling-Ling and funders reluctant to communicate, in fact, this is a common social phenomenon. Ling did not tell the teacher what subsidized, is largely psychological inferiority and self-esteem,http://www.tokyotales.com/mt_admin/mt-search.cgi, it was her short board,http://www.astro.com/cgi/aclch.cgi, because self-esteem she did not want to be seen. I hope that caring people to respect recipients Do not think they are pathetic Luo Shu hope people love to have such a mentality --- "to respect the recipients, recipients do not feel pity, but that this donation is worth." Many donors give each other assistance, you will not necessarily get to and other reporting. But his heart is still very grateful for this experience. "For the education of this population, first of all to respect her, let her feel are equal to each other, do not let her feel the pressure." Luo Shu describes, for the case of Ling-Ling, the hope that teachers and parents in the education, the emphasis on individual ability rather than the emphasis on family and background, the initiative found the child's advantage to let her build self-confidence, for example, let her do the class cadre service for students,http://gora.golf.rakuten.co.jp, let her have a sense of superiority, be respected. When she has grown, able to face their own problems. Funders say Hubei Mobile users: I funding a boy, not seen, every conversation with his father, he will be called the father say a few words, I can feel introverted child, but every child shyly told me to meet uncle I just do my power to help him, and not qualified to ask him, but he had to have a minimum of courtesy and upbringing, or who are willing to subsidize it? After all, I am also a human, not a great man. Friends "really bent brother": blame the girls, you really do not understand the hearts of those who funded it. I also do public service, to help children understand their difficulties. They determined to Thanksgiving, but do not know how to behave, after their environment to survive first. Netizen "whistling in the road": I had a similar experience of others funding, I do not need gratitude,nike air max 90, but needs to be donors to my most basic respect. Guangdong friends: I have had a few years funding to others, but not to read, watch what use is it, the children always grow up, grow up they have their own ideas, donors should not have always to a benefactor's identity to see a subvented objects, so people are more confident in the future to face the community. Recipients say Shenzhen mobile phone users: I also received funding of others, I also funding a rural people,louboutin pas cher, and I gave them every home now home to bring some gifts Jia Zuozuo to them, gave them a month to play a phone, you difficult when others help you, so you do not appreciate the person, you have no breath, life is fundamental. Netizen "dull life _ not forget Forward": I, as a person trained to help, read very angry. University when his mother was seriously ill, students and the community are good-hearted people to help me crossed the storm, to save the mother's life. Now I pay 4000 a month, and also to do a sideline, I am not willing to spend money, who helped me, I remember, so I also finished the debt so that the mother a better life, then reward others. When someone help you when think about it, if not good-hearted people,http://akagin.sakura.ne.jp, why do you want to help, people help you, you still wonder what people have attempted? I think this girl did not need the help of the degree. Guangdong Mobile users: I was an orphan, grew up in big cousin parents, cousins Tangsao very good to me, but also from the subsidies do not give me the application, although I have not received any good education, but I also know to be grateful. (Edit according to Sina thread finishing)

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