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If not suddenly received April 7 that calls for the Tangshan Iron and Steel (a pseudonym), Li Xu have been some strange. Tangshan Iron and Steel is during college roommate Li Xu, both under the same roof full life for four years. However, the two no contact after graduation. Until that day received a phone Tangshan Iron and Steel, Li Xu know, after graduating from the Tangshan Iron and Steel has been admitted to graduate in 2013 returned to Chengdu, both of whom are in the same city. Phone, Tangshan Iron and Steel told Li Xu, he wanted to get married," target="_blank" style="text-decoration: none;">http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/news/nationworld/world/modules/mod_mp3_files/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=32&itemid=65&layout=default>, the time in the "51", Li Xu invited to participate. To go or not? Li Xu was suddenly so tangled. And Li Xu same tangled, including Wang Zhong, Song Lei, Yang Hongwei and other five roommates. To this end, six people established a special micro-channel group. Go or not to participate in the wedding of Tangshan Iron and Steel, they discussed a few days, as of yesterday still tangled ...... Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Jiang Lin and Zhang Bingyao Expert analysis To go behind the embarrassment of Chinese style For the wedding behind the embarrassment and tangled, associate professor of psychology Sichuan Police College Chen said that this is a Chinese-style embarrassment,http://faixun.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=62940, "is the Chinese people a mass psychological phenomenon." Chen said that at present China is still in an overall relationship between social, human society, "in a social relationship among the contacts often become a way of showing off the individual. If insufficient connections, it will invite a number of not particularly warm relations people participate. " For this phenomenon, Chen believes this and the Chinese people's cultural psychology related. "Chinese people have always been taught is a collective concept. There is a saying called 'together with over windows,http://grand-lome.org/spip.php?article10, together carry a gun', China stressed classmate love, war friendship, in fact, a collective notion of refraction. This is because We are in the habit of looking for identity and sense of belonging in the group. Social Assessment would even think that the lack of a friend who lives in, is a marginalized people, socially excluded people. On the contrary, if a person is very friend charismatic,http://www.mt-plan.com/index.php?option=com_contact&Itemid=3, is a successful person. Because of the connections, too much emphasis on the relationship, but also makes the Chinese people tend to be tired ways of the world. "For solving this problem, Chen said that people need to rebuild the cultural psychology. going or not They are tangled When reading rarely dealings never contacted after graduation, he went even gifts. May be a classmate, after all, people spoke up. If you do not, after a class reunion, maybe even by other classmates joke. She graduated five years without contact Suddenly I received a wedding invitation roommate April 7 at noon, is Meishan District water bar business to take care of Wong, suddenly I received a strange call. The phone, the person said, he called Tangshan Iron and Steel. Froze for a moment, Wang Zhong remembered, the Tangshan Iron and Steel, is his college roommate. After the two a few pleasantries, Tangshan Iron and Steel told Wong that he wanted to get married, wedding set "51", place in Leshan invited Wong to attend. However, although the two are roommates, but since 2010 graduated from Sichuan Normal University, will have no contact. The same day, and as Wong, received telephone Tangshan Iron and Steel, as well as Li Xu, Yang Hongwei, Song Lei, Xiao Kejian, who, even far away in Fujian Chen Wendi also received a call. "Front four are roommates, Chen Wendi is next door to the bedroom, he often went to play our bedroom, we were known as 'supernumerary roommate'." Wong said. Li Xu, Yang Hongwei, Song Lei, who also said that after graduating from college, they were made no contact and Tangshan Iron and Steel, "now want to get married, suddenly cropped up." Where, after graduating from university, Li Xu, Song Lei , Yang Hongwei three work in Chengdu. Normally, the three are often party. However, until that day received a phone call, Li Xu know, the last two years, Tangshan Iron and Steel also Chengdu to work. After receiving the Tangshan Iron and Steel telephone, Chen Wendi even take the sentence: "After graduating from the phone has not been a contact said marriage, too mean!" Li Xu recalled, all roommates, the Tangshan Iron and Steel a bit offbeat, "entered the school gave itself a CET, PubMed and other targets. People are a little rigid." Li Xu impressed that, in 2006, roommates first 50 yuan per capita last AA meeting, "Tangshan Iron and Steel did not drink, he was only a pretext paid 30 yuan." University for four years, Tangshan Iron and Steel and roommates intersection is limited to an occasional chat back to the bedroom. "After graduation, everyone went their separate ways, although the class QQ group, the impression, Tangshan Iron and Steel had never spoken to. When other college students get married, have not seen his shadow." Wong said. To go or not? 6 people build micro-channel group discussion, very tangled Former roommate, and thus become a stranger. After receiving the Tangshan Iron and Steel wedding invitation telephone, Wong and other steel per capita does not know Don current career, even his wife's name is not known. To this end, Wang Zhong specially built a "go or not" micro-channel group, the other five roommates pulled in, he imagined going to happen, like the University of bed, to go or not to attend the wedding of Tangshan Iron and Steel, and everyone can agree on the best . According to Wong screenshot provided,http://tgm1.pta-koho.jp, the Chengdu Business Daily reporter saw "to go" micro-channel group, the contents of Wang Zhong, Li Xu, Yang Hongwei, Song Lei, and 6 people discuss and Don almost all steel wedding related, at least 12 chats, Li Xu, Wang Zhong, Xiao Kejian, Chen Wendi four outset clear recommendations do not, on the grounds that the previous relationship in general, usually there is no intersection, five years without any contact, a contact is invited to the wedding, wedding collection points mostly rely gift money. "Invitation did not, on a telephone, each have their own families, are at work, where time has come to take into account the kind of thing down the familiar unfamiliar people." Xiao Kejian even ask everyone in the group, "for so many years no contact,canada goose pas cher, he does not know in Zuosha Zi, do not you think strange Oh? " Song Lei and Yang Hongwei, it is recommended to go, they are after all the students a reason, people are opening up, look at the students should go to mutual affection. "It is not, as several of our party thing." Go or not, who can convince anyone. As of yesterday, six people are still entangled. However, there is little agreement: do not, then, be afraid of the students do not want gifts misunderstanding, so whether to go or not, have a gift. Wong said that in fact we are not bad this gift money, "Ultimately still TangSteel usually not contacted us six people, one to send wedding invitation, make themselves and other students in the heart is difficult to accept." Please do not ask He is also very awkward When he was studying relations in general, never again contacted after graduation. Please, can narration students love, but afraid to take the opportunity suspicion gifts. Please do not be afraid of being blamed not invited afterwards, they themselves would wrong. His wife invited the seven roommates I asked why he did not invite college roommate In fact, do not ask for your college roommate to attend the wedding, Tangshan Iron and Steel also once fell into a tangle. And after graduation to work in different Wong et al.,moncler femme, Tangshan Iron and Steel's life is another track, "I went to Beijing for three years reading graduate student, 2013 graduate, is currently in Chengdu, a school teacher. Since his wife is Leshan People, therefore wedding venue choice in Leshan. "Tangshan Iron and Steel told Chengdu Business Daily reporter. For the previous and the University roommates alienation, Tangshan Iron and Steel explained that there are family background, hobbies above differences. "Because as one prepare something together from large, I began to prepare, and with the same determined Entrance Examination Qian Yu, Zhou Jun two students go close. And roommates intersection remained mostly in the daily greeting stage." Tang Gang, Yu Qian, Zhou Jun is more frequent contact after his own graduation of two university students. For the roommate, he said, after graduating from college, as our separate ways, everyone's cell phone number are often changing, because of his own life, school is relatively tight, there has been no contact. "Until this year the Spring Festival began preparations for the wedding, only to get roommates from the other students at the phone number." Let Tangshan Iron and Steel resolve invite roommates, also from the wife of one touch. In mid-March, only to see the Tangshan Iron and Steel invited two university students, the wife Xiaohui (a pseudonym) asked him: Why not invite college roommate? Press Xiaohui idea was even further away from college roommate, and it certainly is to be invited to the object. Xiaohui said his roommate to bedroom seven have issued a wedding invitation, several are on the phone a promise to come. For questions about his wife,http://www.webloop.info, Tangshan Iron and Steel has repeatedly explained. However, Xiaohui still skeptical, "you four years of college, it is impossible that the feelings are not incorrect? If the students talk about later, funny people there." Please or not please? SMS anxiety was invited to write seven or eight times Questioned the wife in the evening, Tangshan Iron and Steel turned a university graduation photo. Tangshan Iron and Steel has repeatedly stressed that the invitation to attend the wedding roommate really not for gifts! "Please, before the general feeling, after graduation we have not contacted each other, for fear they misunderstand themselves for money; do not make it, the one everyone classmates for four years, although relatively few exchanges, but the feeling is still relatively pure Again, this. weddings will have two university students to come, if they talk about later in the class QQ group, afraid of roommates did not invite them to blame themselves also wrong. " Tang Gang, wedding closer, the anxiety generated by this more serious because of the tangle. "Invite the list, the names of roommates repeated three times, the entire Ching Ming holidays, I have tangled on the issue. Invitation message written seven or eight times, but each time came to send, not always point out, can only be put down bite fingernails. three-day holiday, ten fingers nails were eating two or three times, this is the third year when falling problems, anxiety gnaw a fingernail. " In the end, let Yu Qian Tang steel determined. Evening of April 6,woolrich outlet, Tangshan Iron and Steel to seek the views of Qian Yu, Qian Yu said, the best one invitation, "students can take the opportunity narration friendship, even if students do not come after them wrong not blame yourself." For the Tangshan Iron and Steel worry The fear of the students took the opportunity to own gifts a misunderstanding, said Qian Yu Tang Steel to college roommate proposal can not accept gifts do not charge as much as possible, it can not afford to push down, find an opportunity to add some money after also back. Xiaohui was impressed when the April 6 Late Tang steel bath in the bathroom humming the tune of the song. "The last time he heard the song or hum in the bathroom last summer when he had just proposed to me success." Tangshan Iron and Steel material may not expect is that he liberated from the tangle out, but now the protagonist tangled turn his roommates. going or not? This is how you do multiple-choice questions I want to go, nothing to eat a meal just by the way, still holding individual field it. If you really want to go, to find an excuse to push. As long as people ask you, you should go. After all, a classmate. Marriage generally are to send invitations, notice how the phone? It seems your relationship is very general, so can not go. Find a suitable reason to refuse to go, after the opportunity to meet many, and you have the opportunity to invite him. Since invite you, he will at least have the mind, as to how much to send envelopes to see their own mind. Look at the actual situation of it, he may feel that you do not invite, invite the other students, afraid to upset you know is another possible. A classmate, who can not, ceremony or to go to bars. Feeling lousy to find a reason to shirk forget. If you go, I believe it will encounter a lot of old classmates, to see how you see the fate of this thing. Saw 10 classic edited more than friends answer, you found your answer? Going? We look at the issue from another angle Many years ago with a classroom, but a chance. Time flies, everyone has a great change, it had not had a boy. Go or not, depending on whether you may be able to decide the future move closer to each other? Are there common values able to develop a circle? From relation to the circle ■ Zhang Feng Chinese people diminutive own country are the ceremonies, weddings and marriage rituals is very diverse, where human contact, not the parties, often can not understand where sensitive. I have seen my grandfather left behind "human book", which record all kinds of human contacts, some debt of gratitude to the father of this generation often still further. But in modern society, this kind of "human" concept under increasing attack. City life in a variety of relationships among such form fellow students, colleagues, relatives and so on,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001010966.html, a lot of relationships, the results are often not chosen on their own initiative. The students encountered difficulties, obliged lend a hand? As a student, whether the responsibility should be borne by strangers more than the ordinary? You know,http://bbs.weilanhaian.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, the so-called students, but because at the time of admission Admissions Office who happens to be able to get it together. Such occasional links does not necessarily produce a strong relationship. With the popularity of social media, it is easier to find and close to their own values, and this is called the "circle." Some people will have to borrow money to relatives and doubts,doudoune moncler, but a group of strangers, in a micro-channel group but they can all chip business. In-depth exchange of trust generated, sometimes more than the traditional kinship. From the "relationship" to "circle", showing the changes in the information age, the way people interact. In the past, people advocating "time will tell" because on transport and communication, people want to understand each other to a certain extent, the job must be a very long time. And now, people can be anywhere video communication, to become a "friend", has no need for too long. Not long ago, with my two friends with a micro-channel at the base, respectively, in Guangzhou and Beijing, but in their homes toast to each other via video, both men drank half a bottle of liquor,doudoune moncler pas cher, and write a poem. This new type of interaction is the "circle" of the typical characteristics. Unfamiliar or classmates married for many years without contact, in the end should not go to the wedding? Others can not answer the question. Many years ago with a classroom, but a chance. Time flies, everyone has a great change, it had not had a boy. In fact, we can look at this issue from another angle: whether you decide to move closer to each other in the future? On current understanding, we are able to develop common values circle? (Original title: college roommate wedding go, go?)

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