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<description>&lt;p&gt;Huang Fei (a pseudonym) to take care of sick husband.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;They were married for 17 years, through ups and downs&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;He is suffering from cancer confined to bed, she quit her job to take care of him for five years&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;The burden of life, overwhelmed her, she wants marriage, not only for ourselves, but this family&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Increasingly arid grasslands of Inner Mongolia, Tuya's husband to take care of both legs Battle proposed remarriage condition: new husband must provide for their own battle together. This is the film &quot;Tuya's Marriage&quot; story.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Art and life are so similar. Recently, Ziyang Yanjiang within a district, there have been a &quot;Tuya&quot;: husband Xu Ke (a pseudonym) advanced cancer, spent their savings, carrying debt. Wife Huang Fei (a pseudonym) off at home, take care of her husband after five years, overwhelmed intend to divorce, and issued a marriage letter, to find a new partner, but deviant is the premise that marriage must take care of the sick man and his son together with her.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Wife marriage&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Husband suffering from cancer, I want to take him to remarry&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In the movie &quot;Tuya's Marriage&quot;, the Inner Mongolia prairie Tuya choose with disabilities husband remarried.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;On Ziyang City district yellow mud brick house on the 3rd floor. Huang Fei home a deep sense of taste, sick husband Xu Ke lying on her living room corner of the bed. Huang Fei after being laid off, worked for some time sales, and later her husband deterioration, fecal incontinence, she became a husband at home full-time &quot;nurse.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Huang Fei tears, told reporters about the illness of her husband five years of experience. In order to cure, he spent all their savings at home, his son 16 years old, is on the third day. &quot;He's sick to spend nearly 3,000 yuan a month, and then a son in high school, at home even harder.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Chinese New Year, on the foot of the street covered with yellow mud this year red lanterns and Chinese knots, coming and going of people immersed in a festive atmosphere. Huang Fei helpless carrying her husband and son, and wrote a letter marriage - &quot;marriage with her husband.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Letter was copied a lot of copies, Huang Fei send them to her friends. &quot;Even needle in a haystack, I am willing to try. If another destined, please take my letter to contact me.&quot; Huang Fei said in the letter, maybe this is deviant, but she fight it,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.islandtransportandtaxi.com/link.php&quot;&gt;moncler outlet italia&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href=&quot;http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/m-one-m/shevan-b.html&quot;&gt;http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/m-one-m/shevan-b.html&lt;/a&gt;, &quot;I had to do.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Husband cry&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;She take this step, but also for the family&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In order not to delay Tuya,&lt;a href=&quot;http://me.ujn.edu.cn/article/Review.asp?NewsID=1333&quot;&gt;http://me.ujn.edu.cn/article/Review.asp?NewsID=1333&lt;/a&gt;, lying Tang Chuangshang Battle determined to divorce, in reality, Tuya can only agree.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Marriage letter issued shortly after Huang Fei heart remorse, some self-struggle, her husband sat bedside, her husband told the truth.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;You go, live their happy life.&quot; Sudden move for his wife, Xu Ke very angry, tears kept streaming down.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;After crying, Xu Ke battle like the movie, like support of his wife: &quot;I can not give you happiness, I support you go.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;Where I go, will be with you, the more pain, the more I'm on your side.&quot; Huang Fei holding her husband's hand and said, she was also very contradictory, on the one hand I hope someone can help her share of life burden, on the other hand, the heart does not want it to be realized.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;A few days ago, my son told me that he was on vocational preparation, vocational school at no cost because.&quot; Xu Ke said he was in front of his son's face started to cry, son so sensible that he felt very sad, &quot;Huang Fei go This step also for the family. &quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Some candidates&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;After I heard that the family situation, or leave&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In the movie, the final,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sddistribution.fr/contacts.php&quot;&gt;tn reuqin pas cher&lt;/a&gt;, Senger called Tuya marry him, he is willing and Tuya, Battelle and the kids live together in a pasture.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;The movie's ending is satisfactory, but the reality is more cruel life. Issued to the present, Huang Fei happy marriage is still pending from the letter. Currently,&lt;a href=&quot;http://10645124.blog.hexun.com&quot;&gt;http://10645124.blog.hexun.com&lt;/a&gt;, only one of the candidates, after listening to Huang Fei's family, eventually moving backwards.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;This name candidates are introduced to her friend, is a businessman in Chongqing. They met during the Spring Festival dinner, the dinner table Huang Fei speak their conditions: You must take care of sick husband together, and so on after her husband's death, in order to talk of marriage.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;He can not agree to my request, I say do not delay him.&quot; Huang Fei said, after which things come to an end marriage letter, and no one phone call to her marriage.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;I am a normal healthy person,&lt;a href=&quot;http://tukipie.net/comono/index.cgi&quot;&gt;http://tukipie.net/comono/index.cgi&lt;/a&gt;, I also need love, need care,&lt;a href=&quot;http://androg.seesaa.net&quot;&gt;http://androg.seesaa.net&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hu17.net/wp-temp.php&quot;&gt;louboutin femme&lt;/a&gt;, but I also have to accompany her husband to finish this final journey.&quot; Huang Fei said, she wanted to take up the responsibility of a wife and mother, can not exceed the moral bottom line She hoped that the new marriage, &quot;her son healthy growth, I want to save a whole family.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;[To each other]&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;He, every year to buy her a birthday present to her, as he became a full-time nurse&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;They talked about the emotional experience, Huang Fei rare smile.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;He told me was love at first sight.&quot; Huang Fei said, she is 47 years old,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.appaltipubblici.it/link.php&quot;&gt;piumini woolrich&lt;/a&gt;, her husband Xu Ke, 44, originally was introduced. After a year of love, they entered the marriage hall, together with the ups and downs through 17 years.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Huang Fei said, when her husband Xuke Ping reticent at first she did not like him. &quot;I live in single quarters, he often came to see me, to help me to do something, very careful.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;He looked me dry clothes, we should stand on the balcony of the fence, that is very dangerous, and later on made a clothespole gives me.&quot; Said Huang Fei, Xu Ke's move touched her, this root clothespole It has been used now.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;He gave me every year to buy a birthday gift, but also made a bonus to buy me a gift.&quot; Huang Fei from a box and pulled out a bracelet, &quot;which he still goes to work, got 300 yuan bonus, came home from work He took me to buy, very popular at that time. &quot;Later, her husband suffering from cancer, to late. 5 years for medicinal purposes, the family spent more than 20 million savings, debt everywhere.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Despite this, Huang Fei still staying with their own action interpretation of the persistence and responsibility.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;WCC reporter Tian Xue Jiao photo coverage&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Huang Fei of marriage letter (excerpt)&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Marriage with her husband&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Perhaps ironically,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.boccondivino.com/link.php&quot;&gt;woolrich outlet italia&lt;/a&gt;, maybe this is deviant, but I had to new channels, fight it - is my last resort.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;...... After several years of wind and rain, and I did not love his life, some stood and sharing weal and woe of the family.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;People of non-vegetation,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hpmuseum.org&quot;&gt;http://www.hpmuseum.org&lt;/a&gt;, ruthless Practice makes perfect? I encounter ups and downs in life, do not sympathize with the need to respect,&lt;a href=&quot;http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=8501&quot;&gt;http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=8501&lt;/a&gt;, because love does not need sympathy. ...... How I want to have a helper, you need a shoulder, a hug a friend,&lt;a href=&quot;http://jssts.jp&quot;&gt;http://jssts.jp&lt;/a&gt;, an economic comfort.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;If there is such an understanding, empathy men, please contact me. - Huang Fei&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;
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