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<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;From night to day,&quot; the photographer Ma Jing. Photo by himself&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;We slowly learn to distinguish a wide variety of information. And slowly come to realize, this group is still very sensitive, the situation is not so optimistic, different regions, different gender, the situation is very different.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;--- Ma Jing&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Yesterday, a group of Chinese outbound Photos gay community first occupied the majority of people circle of friends. This group is named &quot;From night to day&quot; works with camera and video camera recorded the Chinese 11 cities 48 homosexuals and their families.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;This 48 homosexuals and their families have a unique story. Lucky man, having gone through shock, puzzled to sad, tangled, select the acceptance, completion of self-awareness; there are some who have isolated themselves in dark corners, and carefully conceal themselves. A gay Yuan said: &quot;It's like you're a cat, a dog can not be a lifetime pretending to do.&quot; This group, being in their way of life,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shop-colour.net&quot;&gt;http://www.shop-colour.net&lt;/a&gt;, complete with self-awareness and not be accepted by the secular vision of resistance.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;On the work of this group of girls born in 1988 Ma Jing and her boyfriend. Ma Jing in 2014 resigned from the media,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zencart-pro.com&quot;&gt;http://www.zencart-pro.com&lt;/a&gt;, then began shooting independent gay group portrait of the road. Yesterday,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lacantinadei100gusti.it&quot;&gt;tiffany outlet online&lt;/a&gt;, Ma Jing to accept the Southern Reporter interview, to disclose their shooting &quot;from night to day&quot; mentality.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;The thing to do it is more important than the pursuit of perfection.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: own &quot;from night to day.&quot; This group of works satisfaction?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: You can also right. Made one thing, or publish a work, they are the result of the final compromise. We tried.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: compromise mean?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: is the distance between the ideal and the reality of the thing (laughs). Whether pre-or post, the actual operation will always encounter a variety of problems. The one thing to do it, or even more important than the pursuit of perfection.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: What is your ideal state? What is the pursuit of perfection?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: There are many humbling good story, but because the interviewed can not photographed, can not be delivered in the works. Of course, there are the late presentation,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.aptnsw.org.au/cgi-bin/show_blog.cgi&quot;&gt;http://www.aptnsw.org.au/cgi-bin/show_blog.cgi&lt;/a&gt;, the technology can not solve the problem but also regret.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: Since work named &quot;From night to day,&quot; you think to homosexuals during the day to it?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: far.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;I thought, it would be his own complete it.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: the initial focus from what homosexuality is the beginning?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: can not remember, but first there is the more recent contact is on the university later. Where there are alumni of the school is gay, boys and girls are. They are also very forthright, we get along very happy. But it was really special friend of mine, but often can be seen on social networks share their lives, is very happy life.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: from this group to really want to focus on such a thing, how long it took?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: later graduated to the media, there are always able to see some of the coverage of this group, and he will see, with around such a friend, so they feel that they are well aware of them, and we think they have lived Like life, not repressed. 2012 a chance interview, I came across lotus aunt, she was regarded as a central figure in the gay relatives and friends, and told me many stories of this group, regarded this topic bud.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: to hear a different story?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: do not, but also more positive story she told, so I felt like I wanted to be faster than progress.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: the real thing is to do this in 2014, there have been what happened to touch you?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: in fact, I resigned in 2014, after the freedom, they capricious. Think of 2012 when I had some idea, discovery or no one to do it, I thought, then complete it yourself. Beat &quot;normalization&quot; of them, not curiosity, not the kind of labeling.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;The situation is not so optimistic.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: when the story smoothly than expected to find or difficult?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: There is a process of change. First, last June,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.genovataize.it/&quot;&gt;hogan uomo&lt;/a&gt;, to attend the Shanghai Pride and relatives of the General Assembly, then do not understand anything,&lt;a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://mizu-masa.sakura.ne.jp/yokkaichi/movie/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=1965&amp;#38;page=2&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://mizu-masa.sakura.ne.jp/yokkaichi/movie/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=1965&amp;#38;page=2&lt;/a&gt;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;, absolutely can not imagine what this group is the face, very nervous, afraid of a photographed person willing to be found. Later, contact with more slowly,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.altruism-forum.fr/&quot;&gt;canada goose homme&lt;/a&gt;, first by them have been relatively active, positive, willing to stand by the people, gained some reputation, and they help me to introduce,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.kyoto-oasc.jp&quot;&gt;http://www.kyoto-oasc.jp&lt;/a&gt;, and later will be able to come into contact with more people willing to appearance. Single in Shanghai to shoot a lot of people, we are very happy, I feel very optimistic about the situation, so he went to Hangzhou to take advantage of the momentum,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.maritimeoiljobs.com/cgi-maritimeoiljobs/news-clip.pl?n=30&quot;&gt;http://www.maritimeoiljobs.com/cgi-maritimeoiljobs/news-clip.pl?n=30&lt;/a&gt;, that few find this project very complete, and the results in Hangzhou, we went to the two hard-hit ...... times, only to take a person.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: how to do is denied? We will persist for some time, or start looking for the next subject?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: This is the game up. For example, different people reject your way is not the same, some people are really busy, but in fact he did not really resist the interview, just to see that you are not really serious persistent in doing this topic; and some people behave a very warm, very positive response, but every date has not met emergency situations, in fact, he was not photographed. We slowly learn to distinguish a wide variety of information. And slowly come to realize, this group is still very sensitive, the situation is not so optimistic,&lt;a href=&quot;http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=651&quot;&gt;http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=651&lt;/a&gt;, different regions, different gender, the situation is very different.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: What is the difference between regions and between men and women?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: Overall, this group, men are more active than women. On cities, the most open city of immigrants, coastal open than the mainland. We visited 11 cities, in general, to find men with relatively easy to find a lesbian. Only one place surprised us is that Xi'an, Xi'an is more active Lara. Where the male family line too much pressure, causing them to not even complete the most basic of their own self-identity. Many people even think they just &quot;had a homosexual habit&quot; is not gay.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: Do you have a very deep impression, but regret because the parties could not refuse to record it?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: Yes, a lot. A wife suspected her husband was having an affair, to the track, and later discovered that he was gay. He is a policeman,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.progettomdv.it/&quot;&gt;tiffany milano&lt;/a&gt;, depressed for a long time. She was suffering, he is also very painful. Finally she understood him, because she found her daughter is gay. There are many, not necessarily sad. A pair of gay, super cute couple, together for nine years, and when they interact particularly interesting, is when two people separate ordinary one, but two of them sitting together one, suddenly sparkling, the two eyes are each other, interact very loving. But also because of a very simple reason refused to shoot,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.plick.co.jp/bbs/aska.cgi?mode=admin&quot;&gt;http://www.plick.co.jp/bbs/aska.cgi?mode=admin&lt;/a&gt;, because one of them had just changed jobs, still in the probationary period,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.twentyfourcatsanddogs.it&quot;&gt;hogan rebel&lt;/a&gt;, public fear will lose their jobs.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;They do not want to emphasize our differences.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: You mentioned objective reports on the gay community is very small, in your mind, what is the standard of objective reporting?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: not to say that they do not &quot;objective.&quot; Just I think previous reports are all preset mood, the most common is the &quot;compassion&quot; and &quot;novelty.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: What is the objective?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: just want to hear them tell their own story about their feelings at that time. Our attitude is open, and we do not want to emphasize that they are &quot;different&quot;, we want to talk about is human nature, common to all of the feelings of the story.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: objective reporting their survival status will be changed?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: I think human nature tell the story helps to understand the homosexual heterosexual.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;South are: in heterosexual view on homosexuality, have any suggestions?&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Ma Jing: as a person, to another person, the first is to respect. And I would like to mention that sexual orientation is a lot of people attribute one of the attributes.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Southern Reporter Dan Kwong Wei&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;(Original title: &quot;The day is far from gay arrival&quot;)&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;
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