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Addiction Takes A Toll On An Unlikely Friendship

It's hard to imagine a friendship with a less auspicious start than the one between Lance Rice and Nina Rossi. In 2013, Rice, now 25, was arrested for breaking into Rossi's home while strung out on heroin. He stole her iPod and some prescription pills.

After Rice was released from jail, Rossi, who runs an art and jewelry shop in Turners Falls, Mass., decided to reach out to him.

"I'm so grateful there's people like Nina out there," Rice told me in an interview last year, "because the normal person would, you know, automatically hate somebody who did that to their home."

"Well, I did hate you, Lance," Nina responded. What first appealed to her about Rice was that he owned up to his actions.

As he went in and out of rehab and jail, she became his character reference with the courts until Rice's public defender got him into a program that offered treatment instead of jail. The conditions were strict regular check ins with a probation officer and a judge, near daily Alcoholics Anonymous meetings, random drug screenings.

Rossi paid for Rice's taxis to the courthouse, cooked for him, offered him odd jobs all in the service of his sobriety. "I think about, my God, what would pandora rings valentines day happen if he started using again," she said in the interview last year. "That would be devastating."

"It would suck that I would probably lose her over something like that," Rice added. "That also probably does help me, you know, stay clean."

But it wasn't enough.

Last June, Pandora 2016 Charms a few months after that interview, Rice had a relapse. He had moved in with friends who were still using heroin. Every day, he watched them get high.

"It triggers something in you," he says. "Even just seeing people on TV doing it can trigger you and set you off. And for awhile, I was able to hold on, but it did suck me back in."

He takes an opioid blocker, so it wasn't heroin he turned to. Instead, he went on a cocaine binge, which was caught through a urine screening. He went back to jail for a month and while the judge decided to give him another chance in treatment, some relationships couldn't be fixed.

Rossi has not spoken to Rice in months. She says a rift started to grow around the time of his relapse which coincided with changes in her life. She had a surge of personal expenses, including car repairs and her wedding. She had to stop giving him money. "I felt bad that we were in a situation where he was dependent on that very little bit that I could do," she says.

Their weekly dinners ebbed and then she heard about his cocaine binge but not from him.

"I felt like he didn't turn to me when he needed somebody and felt things were going downhill," she says. "And maybe I'm not being very helpful at Pandora Valentine's Day 2016 all if he relapsed."

For his part, Rice felt harshly judged after his relapse.

"I thought that we had a different friendship than I guess we ended up having," he says. "And the friendship kind of fell apart, and I wish her the best, and that's about it."

He still appreciates how much Rossi helped Pandora Jewelry 70% Off Clearance him and that she forgave him for robbing her. That's something Rossi does not regret.

"It's a selfish thing, in a way, to forgive other people, because it's the best thing for yourself," she says. "And if that's the only thing that comes out of this whole thing, it's fine. And maybe it's made a difference for Lance, having been forgiven."

In April, after 18 months of supervision, Rice graduated from the drug court. On his last day, he faced spectators in a Greenfield, Mass., courtroom and delivered a speech.

"A few years ago, I Pandora Gift Idea was knocking on death's door and I didn't know how to get away from that," he said.

Nina Rossi didn't come to his graduation. He expected his grandparents, aunt and cousins to show up, but they didn't. The only witnesses were two of Rice's friends, their toddler son, two other drug court defendants and me.

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