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<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;Legal Weekly&quot; Interns &amp;amp; nbsp; Huangqiu Xia text /&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;If tomorrow morning I can not find my girlfriend, I was in her place possible suicide.&quot; May 6 in the afternoon, a desperate man called the &quot;legal weekly&quot; psychological crisis intervention hotline to express his inner anxiety . The name comes from Zhejiang Zhoushan He Zhongxiang man, because his girlfriend walked out on several occasions attempted suicide. Not long ago, he heard that his girlfriend could come to work in Changsha, Hunan, and he arrived at the Star City. Unexpectedly, the girlfriend is still hard to find.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In order to stop the tragedy, &quot;Legal Weekly&quot; correspondent by telephone, text messaging to keep in touch with each other, and to appease his emotions. With the help of Mawangdui police station under preparation jumping  was successfully rescued. May 9 afternoon, He Zhongxiang to &quot;legal weekly&quot; sent a silk banner to thank.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Winter work met the beloved girl&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;My name is  to Changsha to find my girlfriend, if not tomorrow morning to find her, I'll commit suicide in her place that may arise.&quot; May 6 at 2 pm, &quot;Legal Weekly&quot; psychological crisis intervention hotline haste He sounded tearful phone man. It turned out that after missing eight months waitress girlfriend in Changsha, Hunan Changsha He Zhongxiang made a special trip to rush, but his girlfriend's phone is always off. So he took the only photograph of his girlfriend, to find someone to ask each hotel, &quot;I'm too tired, if we can not find her, I have no hope of living.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;18:00, reporters saw near the Changsha Railway Station . 1.8 meters tall, thin figure, his face does not comply with the vicissitudes of age. To see a reporter, he began to search for his own memories, and about the emotional entanglements between his girlfriend.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;He is Zhoushan, and her father is a public company in charge, excellent family conditions. 2005 winter,  to Ningbo aunt holiday, nothing to see him, uncle to introduce him to work in a clothing company, in charge of flat iron work clothes.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;During this period, He Zhongxiang done in his work, like to stroll about other departments. (Weekly News Legal Hotline :) was in the garment quality inspection departments a man named Wang Na girl, shy, she has a sweet smile, and soon attracted He Zhongxiang. At that time, Wang Na with fellow dorm like to find  play, several people often go out to eat, sing, generous  always rushing to pay. &quot;Whenever this time, Wang Na always stared at me.&quot; He Zhongxiang guess it makes Wang Na may like him, but the result was unexpected, &quot;I could not understand you ostentatious, what you always treat? &quot;the answer to increasingly feel he Zhongxiang Wang Na cute, so he began to take the initiative to close Estela.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;October 2006, Wang Na  and made an appointment to meet near Ningbo Harbour. Afternoon, He Zhongxiang sent Wang Na bus ride home, said Wang Na always pushing wait for the next trip. And so on through the seven or eight buses, which makes He Zhongxiang saw Wang Na dismay.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;October 24, 2006,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.piaveinfissi.it&quot;&gt;scarpe mbt outlet&lt;/a&gt;, the two formally established a relationship. The process along,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xl1200x.net&quot;&gt;http://www.xl1200x.net&lt;/a&gt;, so that He Zhongxiang Wang Na careful that she is the other half of his life. However, they did not receive the love of parents certainly  parents believed Wang Na from Shaanxi unworthy son, and introduce a good match to force the girl to his son.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;To find his girlfriend to spend more than ten million&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In order to maintain this relationship, so that does not hurt a loved one,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.csaj-khmer.org/newsite/index.php?option=com_content&amp;#38;view=article&amp;#38;id=336:committee-year-2013&amp;#38;catid=34:our-committee&amp;#38;Itemid=179&amp;#38;lang=ja&quot;&gt;http://www.csaj-khmer.org/newsite/index.php?option=com_content&amp;#38;view=article&amp;#38;id=336:committee-year-2013&amp;#38;catid=34:our-committee&amp;#38;Itemid=179&amp;#38;lang=ja&lt;/a&gt;, in April 2008, He Zhongxiang decided to leave their parents, relying on borrowed 5,000 yuan own business, and always accompanied by about Wang Na.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;Entrepreneurship is really hard, she followed me through a lot of tough times.&quot; He Zhongxiang said. The most impoverished days, he relies on one yuan to buy four bread, they eat one, and the remaining three left Estela. Even so, He Zhongxiang still think that life is sweet, because Estela fought alongside him.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Both efforts were not in vain, the end of 2008, He Zhongxiang registered letter Putuo exhibition site Computer Technology Co., Ltd. finally on the right track. In this case,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&amp;#38;ac=blog&amp;#38;blogid=&quot;&gt;http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&amp;#38;ac=blog&amp;#38;blogid=&lt;/a&gt;, their daughter was born,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lunkersauce.com&quot;&gt;karen millen sale&lt;/a&gt;, Wang Na and serve to start a &quot;wife and mother.&quot; He Zhongxiang this time to the company's development, day to indulge in work, they have no time to take care of her daughter.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;September 2009 day in the office to discuss the tender  projects with customers and Wang Na claim  with her shopping, &quot;Before, I did promise to accompany her, but later given to the customer is very important, it had done it.&quot; He Zhongxiang He had recruited deaf cousin to accompany his girlfriend shopping. Early next morning,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.candidat-et-citoyens.fr&quot;&gt;babyliss curl pas cher&lt;/a&gt;, He Zhongxiang was just getting his girlfriend a slap in the face fan, he thought his girlfriend the day before in order to vent discontent will not say anything. A few days later, when her mother found her daughter He Zhongxiang, he did not know his girlfriend has left home. &quot;Originally we intend to register the marriage in September, did not think, but she walked out of ......&quot; He Zhongxiang sobbed.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;At 2:00 on September 13 2009, anxious  Ningbo Yuemu Jia arrived by car door, waited a day and a night, and mother always said do not know the whereabouts of her daughter. (Weekly News Legal Hotline :) helpless He Zhongxiang had to the police. Since then, he embarked on the road to find his girlfriend.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In Hangzhou, he learned that his girlfriend had been on a trip to 3 p.m. long-distance car, put the Hangzhou station 3 start all the trips were all sitting over and over. Eat drink because of excessive anxiety, he fainted several times in Hangzhou East Bus Station.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;It is possible to guess his girlfriend back home in Hanzhong, Shaanxi,&lt;a href=&quot;http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/brandcouture/ac-4946.html&quot;&gt;http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/brandcouture/ac-4946.html&lt;/a&gt;, He Zhongxiang repeatedly rush to inquire about the news. Once at night under heavy rain, unfamiliar terrain He Zhongxiang fell into the river, the whole body wet. Stay up late many days plus the drowning, He Zhongxiang ill. His parents to safety of life, his mandatory treatment at home recuperating. Trapped rest that three days, He Zhongxiang hair white half.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Once again in Hanzhong, a few months so that He Zhongxiang looking desperate. &quot;If my departure is the best result I will leave.&quot;  to his girlfriend on the Internet message said, and climbed on the roof of a cell, ready to jump off the end of his life, thanks to the people around the timely warning, that he was a local police Quanzhu.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;And this despair suicide, He Zhongxiang find his girlfriend in the implementation of the road four times.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In order to find his girlfriend, He Zhongxiang from 12 September 2009 to travel to the moon it spent 17.4 million yuan.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Reporters with his suicide message Quanzhu&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;I was too tired and wanted to rest, but the thought of her suffering outside,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.emmebiecologia.it&quot;&gt;mbt outlet&lt;/a&gt;, no mother to take care of her at home, I can not stop.&quot; He Zhongxiang said bitterly.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;At 13:43 on May 7, the reporter received the He Zhongxiang sent a text message: Huang reporter, I want you to help me in trouble to transmit a letter addressed to me personally is my girlfriend, you published. SMS let reporters premonition  the wrong, reporters immediately called him: &quot;Where are you?&quot; He said with a tearful voice shouted, &quot;Now I am not at liberty to say, Huang reporter, you first pick up the letter, okay?&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;In  have messages sent to the guidelines, reporters rushed to where he Dolton Hotel Changsha, said he got the letter. It was a letter addressed to his girlfriend's suicide note: The &quot;Dear wife, I want you to see this letter, I have been in another world really belongs to me, and I was very tired tired, maybe I self-deception ...... I just want to say, every year when my death, you go to my grave to put a bunch of my favorite lilies,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.c021.cn/service/feedback_look.php?id=59743&quot;&gt;http://www.c021.cn/service/feedback_look.php?id=59743&lt;/a&gt;, please also look at the way we love the crystallization -? Han filial daughter, count me in I beg you.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;He Zhongxiang made in order to prevent any irrational moves, reporters continued to keep in touch with him, side to appease him, let him tell his side of the specific location. &quot;You think about your own daughter, she was two years old, if, after the mother go, but also lost her father,&lt;a href=&quot;http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=2007&amp;#38;page=:http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=2007&amp;#38;page=&quot;&gt;http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=2007&amp;#38;page=:http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&amp;#38;no=2007&amp;#38;page=&lt;/a&gt;, she will be more poor.&quot; &quot;Yes ah, my daughter is a treasure in my heart, I am not willing to let her suffer any harm . &quot;at this time,  was standing on a top floor of a cell ready to commit suicide, and Mawangdui police station has been around behind him.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&quot;Huang reporter,&lt;a href=&quot;http://yasubeisushi.com&quot;&gt;http://yasubeisushi.com&lt;/a&gt;, you first get the letter it.&quot; Finish the sentence, He Zhongxiang immediately hang up the phone, the reporter back several times, have been dropped. (Weekly News Legal Hotline :) In desperation, the reporter can only persuade him by text message, &quot;Since you have to help the media, on behalf of your heart, there is hope, and so why not it?&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;At 8 pm, reporters suddenly received a He Zhongxiang telephone, said he is now in Mawangdui police station,&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.aglieonline.it&quot;&gt;mbt outlet&lt;/a&gt;, also said he would calm down. May 9 at 3 pm, He Zhongxiang telephone contact with reporters once again said he was leaving that afternoon in Changsha, he said he would have been waiting for his girlfriend to come back before the daughter, of adults, he will not fall in love with any woman ,marry. &quot;Wang Na, you can always go home, the house has been open for you. To her, I will never do such a stupid thing a suicide. Thank you help the reporter.&quot;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;[Expert opinion]&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Do not take his own life a joke&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;National secondary counselors &amp;amp; nbsp; Amu&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;Suicidal behavior under a variety of extreme emotions: or despair, or religious fervor, or passion surging under,&lt;a href=&quot;http://bbs.anjian.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&amp;#38;ac=blog&amp;#38;blogid=&quot;&gt;http://bbs.anjian.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&amp;#38;ac=blog&amp;#38;blogid=&lt;/a&gt;, or spectators clamor, or the public uproar trick or helpless chips. In a move seemingly hopeless behind it seems to hide a great expectation and desire.&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;He Zhongxiang guy like this story, it seems that suicide has become a banner for him, but also a statement: a declaration of love and hope, there is a gesture. It takes courage to commit suicide, because life instinct at that moment will inspire a lot of fear, fear is actually life on this self-protection. It is because of this fear, He Zhongxiang decided to carry out before jumping to the media for help. Then, finally let his instincts he did not give up their lives. I hope he can learn a lesson from this incident, do not make fun of their own lives, the courage to take on the responsibility of men play! (Newspaper blog address:&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;
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