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After killing the child tragedy, there are good people brought bouquets placed in small Tianwei doorstep. March 11, 10-year-old emperor's father was killed in their own homes. Previously, Deng has repeatedly domestic violence. When Father Deng again behind closed doors beat a child, in this large community, there is not even one person can help him survive. This is a typical Chinese-style tragedy. Tragedy is the family, the review of the whole society. Southern Weekly reporter _ Shi Yan Yu Guangzhou reports & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; Photography _ Liu Yajing 10-year-old boy died in his father Deng Tianwei hand. His life clock stops at March 11, 2010, the day,tn reuqin pas cher, just another sunny day in Guangzhou female face, gray weather occasionally float some rain. From that day onwards, Deng Tianwei lying Panyu funeral parlor cold closet. Father Deng Fei personally end the life of the emperor, was lying Panyu People's Armed Police Hospital emergency room, there is a deep and long wounds on the neck, wrists several severed tendon, abdomen was cut many, all injuries They are his son's death due to self-mutilation. Hospital who heard rescued down Deng Fei mouth repeatedly ramble: "I lost the baby," "I deserve to die," According to reports," target="_blank" style="text-decoration: none;">http://cutyayu.sakura.ne.jp/cabbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=100&page=1, the police record, he has spoken truthfully how children and child beatings death after. The tall man of strong build, his face grew gray to accept the fact that continue to live. Tianwei's mother Wu Wenyu, after her son was not breathing crying, calmly tell others, she and her son's father "has no legal relationship." This is a family of three in the spring is coming apart. "Daddy Do not hit me,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/gion/gdr18v-li.html." Guangzhou Panyu, a district where the Deng family, attract a lot of people in Hong Kong and businessmen stay. Deng Fei two identities both in 1999, he has his own video game shops in Haiyin Electric City, this year still young petite girl Huizhou Wu Wenyu gave birth to son Deng Tianwei. Because the identity of the people of Hong Kong, Tang Fei has the advantage from Hong Kong with a cargo, Wu was originally hired another city with an electronics shop, that time has become the boss Deng Fei video store. A decade later, this day changed. March 11 morning, the Dongfeng Road Yucai School,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/waiwai/prg-110c-9.html, fifth grade teacher found a class of Sports Students did not come to class, then hit the parents call,http://best-viral.sakura.ne.jp, then finally get through to know, something went wrong. Day 0900, live in the same cell Miss Cui saw Deng front gathered a lot of police cars and ambulances 120, she could not help asking other neighbors nervous: "? What happened ' It is said that the police received an alarm call Deng Fei mother arrived, and at the same time notify Haiyin Electric City stalls Wu Wenyu hurried over to open the door. About 10 when the stall Haiyin Electric City Jane (a pseudonym) to see Wu Wenyu hastily folded up and left. Subsequently,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001010966.html, the nearby neighbors heard the knock on the door Ayu voice, her hand with a key not open the door, because Deng Fei and his son locked himself in the house. Finally, the police decided to break the door found lying on the ground motionless, sitting in the bathtub Deng Fei "who a lot of blood," he will be a knife in the neck Nobody was allowed near, Ayu was heard loudly called him "beast than" , cried to allow him to pay back his son's life, as well as into the site neighbors heard he kept to Wu Wenyu said, "I'm sorry for you, sorry baby." Around 12:00, constantly trying stabbed his DengFei, police forcibly snatched the knife was, and sent to hospital. The district forum owners, from 14:00, the owners have continued to update information on the matter of concern, after learning the truth, the forum users "less paper" could not resist "chills", such a thing actually happen in the side, in addition to "shock" or "shocked." Deng lived in the first floor downstairs neighbor Arbor, the day before 22:00 heard Deng came banging sound,louboutin femme, because sound large, specially Arbor upstairs view, Deng still faintly hear the child in the door cried out "Daddy Do not hit me," the sound of mercy. "Apathy among our neighbors enough" Although Deng family lived in the district for ten years, but in fact very few dealings with neighbors. Live at home upstairs Liu Deng aunt (not his real name) said that there are times she was hanging on the window sill mat Dengjia Yang fell to the stage, and knocked on the door a long time,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, Deng Fei only opened a small crack in the door, waiting for her to finish what he wanted, Tang will fly her out from under the door mat plug out, then it will slam the door shut. Same floor neighbor said that, while occasionally front door, Deng Fei will see him open the door into the room, and then open your door, if you are "afraid of peeping." Do not go do not travel to and from, but neighbors on both father and son still have the impression. Forest owners (a pseudonym) to remember, there are times rather see hiding under a tree did not want to go home Tianwei, behaved very obedient way in the rain, people looked worried. A A neighbor remembers, when the Spring Festival this year, they are father and son playing in the downstairs space fireworks, Dad bought a lot of small fireworks, umbrella let his son play, my son is very happy, and my father also invited onlookers with children fireworks. "23:30, fireworks done and not have fun, but also continue to buy the place." This obviously is a love child of the father, how to kill the child became spree? In fact, small Tianwei from when he started kindergarten beaten, "A week at least two or three times, hit the child screaming wah-wah." Lives downstairs neighbors complained several times, then finally sold the house moved. In the eyes of neighbors, handsome Deng Tianwei "obedient, introverted," never take the initiative and talk to the children, often silently with his father behind more than 10 meters, walk down. Yucai school students in the eyes of the emperor character is very cheerful, when everyone together, he always a lot to say. In the interest groups the students impression, Deng Tianwei relatively good strong, and sometimes a dispute, "but never seen him hit." Insiders say, not only beaten Deng Tianwei, Tianwei mother is played, Tianwei before the accident, Wu Wenyu has two or three months does not appear in the cell before, the market rumors the couple going through a divorce. The district forum owners denounce Deng Fei in his father's violent, it was understood to say that there are people began to rational analysis. "This is obviously under pathological behavior.": "Little has been a bad father Tianwei outlet for emotions, perhaps ambivalence and harm no one to talk to this father, twisted his personality, he also needs psychological counseling. " Others reflect on their responsibilities: "! Apathy among our neighbors enough" Romance and even remorse, she felt the need to do something. Romance is one of the forum's moderator, she is also enthusiastic people organize community activities. The next event to kill the child, she tried to communicate with the relevant aspects, see if there is any way to solve similar problems, she realized the difficulties, "no one wanted to take responsibility, who do not want to trouble the upper body. I have always believed that there is a responsibility we are duty-bound. If everyone to protect themselves, to avoid the result that, one day, everyone is not guaranteed. " Children can warm blessing to heaven Deng Fei gaming stalls, located near the stairs Electric Chengerlou position. Some time before the accident, was renovated stalls, hung in the lantern, Deng Fei Xu Jiumei to stall, often appear here. Three days before the incident, Tang Fei also came with Tianwei stalls, under the watchful eyes of the angry father Tianwei beat cry. That was the last time he cried in public. The impression we live in well-behaved awfully handsome, in the end missed many times life? When his father repeatedly beat him behind closed doors, and when the security community has been isolated from the time, when my dear mother decided to leave the house, and when neighbors heard his cries for help when, in this large community, there is not even one person can help him survive. Guangdong Provincial Women's Federation Children's said that the task of the masses against Domestic Violence is the "discovery" and "Report", but without a work handling mechanism, even if found and reported, the tragedy still can not be avoided. "Small individual power." This also allows Romance is very frustrating, but in her get together, the evening of March 13, Shen Hu psychological experts in the area of organized lectures to more than 60 neighborhood. Have a mother and child is Tianwei grew up with playmates, she was very confused, "the boy asked me why Tianwei will be killed Dad, how do I answer?" "Do not hurry the children pointers, as long as enough to listen to his feelings." A careful, Hu. Accept any own emotions generated by the incident, all your reactions are normal, careful, Hu told an adult who arrived at the scene. A 16-year-old girl does not understand your remorse and guilt, she said: "? What is the relationship with us." Romance feel a relationship. "If the neighbors can do more attention to the people around, care about things around, this tragedy would not have happened." She also launched the Family Community Mental Health Hotline volunteer activities, we have many responses. The children play with fireworks of children gone. Romance heart has been heavy fall fall to the ground. She wanted to pay homage to this life, she believes man has a soul, bless her child to go to a warm paradise. "My dear child, bless you back to a happy home." Lighted candles, flowers on the doorstep Tianwei, on the cell lawn temporary memorial area. That has been 1.63 meters tall, like martial arts and badminton 10 year-old boy left the earth, which is a typical Chinese-style tragedy. Tragedy is the family, the review of the whole society. Forum, someone mentioned Tianwei mother, asked the neighbors, we can do anything for her? Responsive person says,http://ro.diy-jp.info/sky/est1117/cgi-bin/est-frm03/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=viewres&target=152313/, do not blame her, not going to bother her, for her and her son in heaven pray it! Yucai school, belonging to pupils Deng Tianwei still empty seats there. (Intern Liu Yajing contributed to this report) Family violence is the second largest army in addition to outside groups There is a sociological theory is important: family violence is the second largest group in addition to the army. In China, due to the lack of legal, emotional indifference neighborhood,http://www.touse-web.com, parents formed a habit of beating their children from an early age,louboutin soldes femme, even children will be killed by extreme events, domestic violence prevention, community involvement needs more national legislation is needed intervention. Southern Weekly reporter _ Qi Lun mediator in Beijing & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; Photography _ Shao Yan Xia Xueluan Peking University sociology professor, over the years to study the problem of juvenile growth. US domestic violence severely discipline Southern Weekly: Guangzhou this case to kill the child, for example, of such domestic violence, your basic view is what? Xia Xueluan: I read this news, not the first time a similar incident occurred, it must not be the last. There is a sociological theory is important: family violence is the second largest group in addition to the army. Domestic violence manifested in two aspects, one is between spouses, for example, the husband beats his wife, which is a higher incidence,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/asobi/wiina-medium.html, and the other is between parents and children. It now appears that violence between spouses have an overall downward trend, while violence between parents and children, there are indications of an increase. Treat the elderly and treat a child's attitude reflects the level of civilization of a society as a whole. In other words, we can not look at this issue in isolation, it is a microcosm of today's social landscape. The children maimed or killed, the number has been quite a lot, and society as a whole is worth reflection. Southern Weekly: create a good family atmosphere, do you think should start from what level? Xia Xueluan: We have been advocating is to create a favorable growth of young green environment, and so-called green, including at least three aspects: first is family education, family education, green, first against domestic violence, as diet, etc., relatively speaking, back in the second; the second aspect of the green environment of the community, the community to participate in family education, to be involved in development of children, once you know which family neighborhood between the existence of domestic violence and to actively intervene to educate the parents; the third is the social aspect, my advice is to be introduced into the legislative process. At this point, we have to want to learn the advanced experience of western countries. Southern Weekly: international experience can learn what? Xia Xueluan: I spent two years in the United States, the United States may wish to Case. In the United States, that if there exists the phenomenon of domestic violence, the first time to report a neighbor, police immediately rushed to the scene after the report, the children were taken away. Needless to say the entire process, children get protected. After taking the child, help him find a free home. For example, a family may temporarily adopt the child, until his parents truly understand and correct the error, write checks to ensure not repeat similar mistakes, he allowed the child brought home. US police intervention is very positive, very strict discipline. Relatively speaking, we are doing extremely insufficient. As a law is not perfect, and second, most people believe, it is the parents fight the child within the family thing, it is his own business, others have no control. If the child is the parents' private property. Community to intervene, the state to intervene Southern Weekly: that is to say, not only to change the concept of the parents, but also to be legislation? Xia Xueluan: Yes. The first step is the concept of change, which in turn the overall situation of the National Child Benefit closely co-ordinated. In Canada, the child's birth and conservation, parents basically do not need to spend money, the state provides a number of benefits, the Chinese government needs to further advance in this regard. In addition, the family environment must be improved. Concept of change is not enough to construct the relevant laws to the concomitant to social legislation. Legislation is an important step towards the family deterrent, especially for those who particularly irresponsible parents. Central has a document on child development issues, the article is very long, very detailed content, reflecting the nation's attention, marriage also has content for women, protection of children's rights. But honestly, this central file,nike tn pas cher, just an administrative document, in fact, are not legally binding. Southern Weekly: Now look, domestic violence in almost no legal definition of virtue? Xia Xueluan: because of the lack of such a legislative document, the definition of the problem is indeed ambiguous. The so-called social legislation, to the extent of harm to children's parents, and sentenced him to a certain degree of punishment, rather than in tragedy after reflection. Southern Weekly: Relative legal environment in Europe and America, at this level, which still exist in China blind? Xia Xueluan: In accordance with the current legislation in China, even the police know it, he has no legal basis for intervention. The United States is different, he has to follow the law. In China, I hit the child at home, you are the police into my room, I would say you Sichuangminzhai it, I said you infringement, but also to tell How about you. China is what? Only about persuasion neighborhood, access to justice is also generally attributed to civil mediation. More serious domestic violence reported to Pianjing that, Pianjing look up to the house and asked the case, or mediation. And even if the case involved Pianjing, they are in fact very small. Southern Weekly: NGO involvement in this area, any progress? Xia Xueluan: Now, many universities set up the anti-domestic violence center, in fact, NGO. They passed a special investigation, the class is also working to improve the situation, to do a lot of work. Panyu this matter, the correspondent reported that the parents do business at a loss, and he frustrated, take things too hard, and you want to commit suicide. In any case, the child is innocent, and you fail to do this business, there are opportunities to be successful ah. Due to lack of legal, emotional indifference neighborhood, parents formed a habit of beating their children from an early age until the child died at the age of 10 this, but none dissuade people grief. In talking about this, I would like to say is that schools offer parent training is too necessary. Such training may Federation and community-led organizations.

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