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<div id="contentmiddle"><h3>March 18, 2012</h3><h1></h1><p>molly published this at 3:00 am</p><fb:like href="http%3A%2F%2Fwww.successful-blog.com%2F1%2Fhow-do-you-handle-rejection%2F" send="false" layout="button_count" width="180" show_faces="false" font="" colorscheme="light"></fb:like><p>Earlier on in this series, I wrote a blog post about??Central to the point of that post was the need for us to become surgically clear about how we allocate our energies, to whom and toward what purpose. Dilution of our energies produces a diffusion of our effectiveness.</p>

<p>???I take rejection as someone blowing a bugle in my ear to wake me up and get going, rather than retreat.??? ~ Sylvester Stallone</p>

<p>That said, sometimes, it???s equally difficult to hear the word “no” when directed your way. We all wish to be accepted, respected and thought of as ???worthy,??? and so when we hear “no,” the fear of rejection rears its ugly head. However,Moncler Outlet Online, if we are to become independent; if we are to forge new paths and achieve new goals, we???d better develop a tougher skin, because we???ll hear ???no??? a lot more than we???ll hear ???yes??? as we make our way toward our goals.</p>

<p>???I think that you have to believe in your destiny; that you will succeed, you will meet a lot of rejection and it is not always a straight path, there will be detours – so enjoy the view.??? ~ Michael York</p>

<p>Try to shift your way of thinking by seeing ???no??? as a gift and an invitation to test your theories. ???No??? can sometimes mean, ???I don???t understand,??? from the perspective of the person you???re trying to persuade. Nobody sees things the way you do. What is obvious to you is seldom apparent to someone else in exactly the same way. Therefore, by choosing to hear “no” as ???show me more,??? it gives you a chance to expand upon your vision, clarify your intent and distill your goal/message.</p>

<p>???It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself.??? ~ Eleanor Roosevelt</p>

<p>This one comes up frequently when we are just starting our journey to an ultimate goal. We???re all guilty of it. We ask for help when what we mean is, ???I???ll tell you what I need and you (Benelovent Patron/Understander of Genius) will bankroll or otherwise support my request.”</p><p>The ???no??? you hear at this stage is the ???strengthen your muscles??? answer. Whether that muscle is a skill, an actual feat of strength or other challenge, hearing this ???no??? is the Tough Love answer. Good. That means you are close to a breakthrough.</p>

<p>???Through my illness I learned rejection. I was written off. That was the moment I thought, ???Okay, game on. No prisoners. Everybody’s going down.?????? ~ Lance Armstrong</p>

<p>This “no” rocks. This is the “no” we hear when our Souls get involved. We???ve peeled away most, if not all, of society???s expectations at this point and the “no” that activates this stage is like rocket fuel. It???s us against us. Self against Self. This is exhilarating, because at this point, we can see the light at the end of the tunnel. We have Decided (p.s. all apple polishing aside, this is one of the best lessons I learned from Liz – .</p>

<p>???Dear to us are those who love us… but dearer are those who reject us as unworthy, for they add another life; they build a heaven before us whereof we had not dreamed, and thereby supply to us new powers out of the recesses of the spirit, and urge us to new and unattempted performances.???-Ralph Waldo Emerson</p>

<p>From this day hence,Moncler Jackets 2013, when you hear “no,” think of this list:</p>

<p>???Every rejection is incremental payment on your dues that in some way will be translated back into your work.??? ~ James Lee Burke</p>

<p>This is the kicker. Stop for a moment and think of your last ???Mountain Top??? experience. It was really just a moment to recharge for The Valley, wasn???t it? The ???aha moments??? come to us during the Process. The Journey. Our focus is refined and firing on all cylinders during The Process (when we hear all these “no???s”). We are fully alive when we are learning, facing rejection, applying our lessons as we go. The iteration is where we live. ???No??? is the spark that fuels our forward momentum. I’d like to know: what are moments in your life when hearing ???no??? helped you to achieve new heights?</p><p>??��??��-</p><p>Molly Cantrell-Kraig is a woman with drive. Possessing an innate sense of purpose and a pragmatic,Moncler Coats Sale, solution-based approach to empowering people, she fused these two traits in order to establish??. Based upon its founder???s personal history, Women With Drive Foundation is a means through which Cantrell-Kraig may effect change on both a micro and macro level. By providing women with something as essential as personal transportation in order to transition them from poverty to prosperity, she, through Women With Drive Foundation, seeks to empower women to help them help themselves. Through this action, the individual applicant benefits, as does society as a whole. Follow Molly on twitter as?? or??(Women With Drive Foundation).</p><p class="suffix">Filed under , </p>
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