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 Hefei Xinhua January 24 (Reporter Bao Xiaojing) "I and police rushed to the scene, saw the children lying on the door quietly horizon, small body has no signs of life." Huayang police station often star look sad to say. This is January 20 occurred in Anhui Wangjiang tragedy together. 9-year-old left-behind children Kobayashi (a pseudonym) and hanged himself in the same day winter break. On this day, he heard his mother not home New Year's message this year. On this day, from the 2014 Chinese New Year just as well as 11 days. Grandma said, "Oh, your poor, your mother did not come back last year, Chinese New Year,http://www.ciscoclub.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Chinese New Year this year, Oh, do not come back!" January 20,http://www.xiyatour.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, 2014, Kobayashi Huayang center where school transcript issued winter day. In the morning, most of the students accompanied by parents to the school receive transcripts, Kobayashi is only one person alone to school. The 9-year-old child, her parents divorced,http://conquer11.h1.10vps.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=293155, and are working in the field, so from an early age to live in grandparent and uncle's home. "The child is not very good grades this semester, the language had only a 40 multisection, so that day come back from school a bit of spirit." Huayang Kok Estate Division, a village cadre said. Family and children are not aware of what is abnormal. Around 15:00, Kobayashi also asked my grandmother whether to go Huayang shop, and asked to give him back two refills. Dinner everything seems very calm, Kobayashi ate two bowls of rice. But afterwards, when the family moves recalls desperately child, only to find that unusual sign: "He usually are on the table to eat,http://kan10086.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=16959, but that day only clip some food, standing in the dining room doorway holding a bowl to eat, eyes still staring toilet. "the family said. According to the villagers say, just before the day of the dinner,http://eethinker.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=1808, Kobayashi grandmother received a call from her daughter. Dinner, the grandmother told Kobayashi: "Oh, your poor, your mother did not come back last year,tiffany italia, Chinese New Year, Chinese New Year this year, not to come back, oh!" No one would have expected, probably since then, the children began to play quietly planned his own death. 18:00 After dinner, the grandmother washing bowl discovered missing Kobayashi, Kobayashi quickly shouted uncle went. They soon discovered shocking scene: Kobayashi hanging in the toilet beams on necks with a rope used to weave plastic net bag. 120 emergency arrived, the child has no signs of life. 21:00, and alarm the family. Huayang County Criminal Brigade police station and the police after the site survey that children Department of suffocation, neck wound characteristics consistent with hanging. The lifetime of a child learning to read articles, books, did not find him to leave this world the last few words. A 9-year-old child on the way, quietly passed away. He knew my parents divorced, and has a new home, no one to defend him Reporters learned that Kobayashi was born more than 20 days to become a "left-behind children": father has been working away from home,scarpe hogan, his mother took him back to the grandparents and uncle live. Two years ago, after Kobayashi parents divorced,indian remy hair, his mother went out to work, and parents have respectively a family, the father even had another child. "His parents' relationship has been bad, so many years, his father rarely ask his life." Kobayashi same village and village cadres introduction, when Kobayashi parents divorced, children sentenced to custody to the mother, the father to pay 2600 yuan per year for living expenses. But this year, my father did not give. Kobayashi had to look for his father to discuss his father said he would shirk his full-time for 18 years after. Kobayashi was so sad and disappointed should not just father. First grade next semester in Huayang Center School, the mother remarried, the stepfather to the Kobayashi home where a small village. After his mother and stepfather both work outside the home, Kobayashi's father looked after by his stepfather. After a completely strange environment live six months, Kobayashi has been grandfather grandmother "going back" to Huayang center primary schools. Principal said Kobayashi have read the third grade, but his parents never took him to accompany transcripts, usually schools open parents, grandparents and uncle are to attend. Father and mother appear only in the year in school once, usually have no contact with teachers,http://bbs.435000.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=66280, care about their children's learning. "The school where most students are left behind children, both parents working outside of nearly 200 people, nearly a quarter of the total number of school students." said, "but, like Kobayashi so poor, he is the only one." Professor Yang said Kobayashi in school is much more than most children to be obedient, "he also knows that his parents divorced,http://www.yjmygy.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=88054, and has a new home, nobody guarding him. Other parents of children left behind will often call Children will also contact with the teacher, so the children can feel affection, but Kobayashi did not. " Reporters learned that, even after the suicide in Kobayashi, village cadres notice father came home,virgin hair, his father at first reluctant. After the village cadres to persuade, and her father came back. But just before the child's body, the mother and father had an argument. "Mother of the child requires a child with her father to the children wake, but his father refused." Village cadres said, under the mediation, the father promised to come up with 2000 dollars repairing a coffin to the children, and then it never interfere. Let the child's sudden departure grandparents grief. Village cadres said Kobayashi with grandparents very close, nearly sixty years of my grandfather often went out doing odd jobs to support their family. Whenever my grandfather's village car battery appears, Kobayashi and uncle's children would go to grandfather cart. "Where are my parents?" Asked heartbreaking become left-behind children "Kobayashi, the mother is not home for the holiday great blow to him." Yang Linqing president said, would put the winter is happiest when left-behind children, because their parents will soon return home New Year. The parents had to reorganize Kobayashi family, usually turning a blind eye, not even the New Year back home, under this contrast, children have a better feel abandoned, helpless feeling. Anhui Normal University Professor Sang Chung that, for children, parents place is home. However, the left-behind children are unable to enjoy normal family care. Over time, the helplessness, the sense of loss and a sense of abandonment gradually formed, severely affect mental health. Abnormal psychology rural children left behind, there are two typical "symptoms": First, introverted character,Piumini moncler outlet, eccentric, low self-esteem, alienation,http://www.bbswb.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1437609, not good at communicating with people; the second is fragile, bad-tempered, impulsive irritability. Experts believe that, let the children left behind is no longer "Where parents" asked heartbreaking, first of all to continue to broaden the children stay with their parents or wife to work in the city's path, so that they enjoy basic rights enrollment, medical care and so on; secondly, schools and social institutions should strengthen psychological counseling of children left behind and interventions; and more importantly, by industry guide, allowing farmers to achieve the nearest working out less flow caused family problems. (Edit: SN095) 

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