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 Morning News reporters Zhu Xiaofang and Shi Xisheng Lu Qianhui Recently, a mother to the Morning News for help: her daughter Min Min (a pseudonym) 9 years old, read the third grade, people lean. Most recently she was always thinking about his job, a day before sleep to worry about whether the job will do leak, repeated viewing bags; for performance very seriously,http://219.151.8.79:99/home.php?mod=space&uid=1034540, swear on a semester exams not bad pocket money ...... These performance so as a mother very fact deeply concerned: 9-year-olds so anxious normal? How should we change this behavior,air max pas cher? Minmin total score high requirements for the job but also because of a fight with mom Ms. Zhang told reporters, on the pre-primary Minmin very cute, plump, good temper. But after school, more and more character if not the same as before, people have become lean. Although my mother never gave Zhang Minmin daughter too much pressure, but if that is Minmin "a muscle." Minmin city now a private primary school in third grade. Minmin basic homework every night till 10:30, finally finished, parents are signing the word, and are fast asleep in bed, suddenly worried Minmin always do the job for leaks. To this end, the very fact of Minmin said: "This job is not on the record are checked, but also the signed it?" "That will put some work I missed,http://www.xiyatour.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, was not found written in the book then?" Minmin replied. "Missing once nothing ah!" The very fact that consoled Road. "I will not,http://www.flightsim.com, I am responsible for operating income, must not happen!" Minmin Why so nervous on the job? Ms. Zhang said he was not clear the specific reasons, "I just heard her say, states that if the teacher forgot job, to fine copy, many students have been fined class,nike air max 90, many students are busy Chaozuo Ye next class." Ms. Zhang said she did not have the results of Minmin requirements, but Minmin Quedui own demanding. "She vowed test scores is not good, do not pocket a semester." "I never proposed to her, such a request, however, she was asked, do not know how it is, is it small partners to play together the results are relatively good?" The very fact that speculation Road. Minmin only anxiety, but temper has become impatient. Often telephoned home before Ms. Zhang Minmin hurry to finish your homework, the results, and so she got home,http://kit888.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=136164,louboutin pas cher, Minmin immediately locked the door and ignore the very fact. Homework at night because the speed problem, two people will often "to roar." After this semester, Minmin anxiety seems to be increasingly serious: the night before the Chinese did not back back end, Ms. Zhang let Minmin sleep. The next day, 5:50 Minmin mother to wake up, because did not sleep enough, Minmin reluctantly back a point text. When we go out, Minmin has asked her mother to put its own quilt folded and then go out, also cried ...... Ms. Zhang had quickly folded quilt, Minmin was bitterly out of the house. The two environments can lead to anxiety and then find the source of pressure to ease Counseling Center of East China Normal University ChenMo think Minmin really belongs anxiety reaction, but have been severe anxiety, we also need experts. Child anxiety was mainly affected by two kinds of environmental impacts,hogan outlet milano, a family environment,http://sportsfan.jpn.org/cgi-kban/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=86&page=, and the other is the school environment. It should be first to find the correct pressure source, and then analyzed by an expert counseling, can fundamentally solve the child's problems. The above example, the very fact that their achievements have not demanding Minmin is Minmin own anxiety. But from the perspective of experts, that was to analyze specific issues. If other students also exist Minmin squad this anxiety situation that gave her pressure learning environment, teaching methods, the teacher needs to be improved, "fine copy" can not change the nature of the problem of students, but some of the children may be more intensification of weary,malaysian Hair, more harm than good. If only Minmin happen, then the very fact that there can not afford to shirk responsibility. For example, according to the very fact that the details of the talk, Ms. Zhang will be urged to call before going home Minmin hurry to finish the job, in fact, the very fact that should be done is to teach children carefully and slowly finish the job,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3204, you do not need to be on time told. Mother and daughter have been in communication problems,http://www.bbswb.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1463621, which will lead to Minmin love to lock the door, disgusted contact with the mother. Tianxin UN children's psychological consultant residency think: Minmin probably want to leave a good boy in the minds of teachers impression, so she must not allow ourselves to make mistakes. Prolonged stress can cause psychological problems, but she did not quilt folded morning because crying is caused her anxiety. We recommend that parents and teachers to pay attention to the psychological Minmin, do not concern would be a serious psychological problems. [Analysis] Student achievement and value come from foreign recognition "This phenomenon is widespread. But now anxious early age, before going to high school only, and now there is low grade." Residency said. Not long ago, a child to right of abode there Consulting: a particularly well-behaved Geek homework excellent grade school bully children, because the last exam can not accept their own mistakes and failures as well as their own examination of the facts is not perfect, resulting in psychological abnormal because of all of his accomplishments and value comes from being outside recognition. After several contacts with the child, right of abode very sad to tell parents: "Do you concerned about the child was too late, he has psychological abnormalities, need medication, the results of the child was taken to the psychiatric ward." Chen Mo said: "Today's students compare the prevalence of learning anxiety started school, then eight or nine if one day telephone consultation, at least three or four plays are about the student anxiety." Annually problems are most concentrated period of time is two weeks in a semester. Because the child is about to be school tests. Summer vacation a little lax child will feel fear conflict, in serious cases will start looking for excuses not to go to school, for example, physical discomfort, and my heart is not happy, and so on. In fact, they are afraid of the results is not good enough, was scolding parents and teachers, or subject to certain penalties. Reporters in the survey also found that many students do have anxiety phenomenon. One in Minhang a bilingual primary school children before the exam they have to repeatedly review, afraid to sleep, only her mother advised her:. "You're so nervous you, you get well, my mother instead reward you." But children unmoved, as usual review. Another child in a public primary school, do homework every day very conscious, would not rest until the weekend,http://galleri.kjerringoy.no/displayimage.php?album=155&pos=46, the parents let her go out on weekends to relax and play, but she refused to say: "I will review, no time to go, you go ahead. "She repeatedly shook his head at her grandfather only. Anxiety reflects the child values a problem Pupils from the school anxiety is indeed the main reason for a teacher or family, because of the high requirements for teachers and parents so that children absorb knowledge from learning objectives on the recognition and praise to get teachers and parents, especially low-grade primary school children to teachers Praise is valued, their value comes from parents and teachers for his approval. Anxiety reflects the values of the children there is a problem, and now worthlessness children everywhere. "Today's children to learn too much emphasis on education and job completion quality scores. I sincerely appeal to parents and teachers to allow children to have the experience of failure. Now a lot of parents and teachers say love children, but your children are a little feel for them Love. "residency said. 

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