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After killing the child tragedy, there are good people brought bouquets placed in small Tianwei doorstep. March 11, 10-year-old emperor's father was killed in his own house. Previously, the Deng family has repeatedly domestic violence. When Deng father again closed doors beat a child, in this large community, there is not even one person can help him survive. This is a typical Chinese-style tragedy. Tragedy is the family, the review of the whole society. Southern Weekly reporter _ Shi Yan Yu Guangzhou reports & nbsp,http://www.yohshomei.com/cgi-bin/Mini/ibbsm.cgi?res=2; & nbsp; & nbsp; Photography _ Liu Yajing Deng Tianwei 10-year-old boy died in his father's hands. His life clock stopped at March 11, 2010, the day, just to clear up a two-day Guangzhou and overcast face, gray sky occasionally float some rain. From that day onwards, Deng Tianwei lying Panyu funeral parlor cold closet. Father Deng Fei personally end the life of the emperor, the Panyu People's Armed Police hospital lying in the emergency room, there is a deep and long wounds on the neck, wrists several tendons were severed, the abdomen was cut multiple, all injuries They are his son's death due to self-mutilation. The hospital people, hear rescued Deng Fei mouth down repeatedly ramble: "My child did not", "I deserve to die," According to reports, the police record, he has spoken truthfully how to beat the child and the child Death after. The tall, muscular man, his face grew gray to accept the fact continue to live. Tianwei's mother Wu Wenyu, after her son was not breathing crying, calmly told the others, she and her son's father, "has nothing to do with the law." This is a family of three in the spring is coming apart. "Daddy Do not hit me." Guangzhou Panyu, a district where the Deng family, attract a lot of Hong Kong people and businessmen to stay. Deng Fei two identities of both, in 1999 he has his own video game shops in Haiyin Electric City, this year also with the younger Wu Wenyu petite girl gave birth to son Deng Tianwei Huizhou. Because the identity of Hong Kong people has the advantage of Tang Fei from Hong Kong with a cargo of Wu was originally hired another city with an electronics shop, that time Deng Fei became the boss of the video store. A decade later, this day changed. March 11 morning, the Dongfeng Road Yucai School, fifth grade teacher found a class of Sports Students did not come to class, then hit the parents call, then finally get through to know, something went wrong. Day 0900, live in the same district saw Miss Cui front of Deng gathered a lot of police cars and 120 ambulances, she could not help asking other neighbors nervously: "? What happened" It is said that the police received an alarm call Deng Fei mother arrived, and at the same time notify Haiyin Electric City stalls Wu Wenyu hurried over to open the door. About 10, the stall owners Haiyin Electric City Jane (a pseudonym) met Wu Wenyu hurry to close the file away. Subsequently, the nearby neighbors heard the knock on the door Ayu's voice, she simply hands with a key to open the door, because Deng Fei and his son locked himself in the house. Finally, the police decided to break into the house, found lying on the ground motionless sitting fly bathtub Deng "who a lot of blood," he will be a knife in the neck allow anyone near, Ayu was heard loudly calling him "beast than" , cried to allow him to pay back his son's life, as well as into the scene of a neighbor heard him kept to Wu Wenyu said, "I'm sorry for you, I'm sorry baby." Around 12:00, constantly trying stabbed his DengFei, by police forcibly grabbed the knife, and sent to the hospital. Owners of the district forum, from 14:00, the owners have continued to update information on the matter of concern, when learned the truth, the forum users "less paper" could not resist "chills", such a thing actually happen in the side, in addition to "shocking" or "shocked." Deng family lived in the first floor of the downstairs neighbor Arbor day before 22:00 heard Deng came banging sound, because sound large, specially Arbor upstairs view, Deng still faintly hear the child in the house cried and shouted "Daddy Do not hit me," the mercy sound. "Apathy among our neighbors enough" Although Deng family lived in the district for ten years, but in fact very few dealings with neighbors. Live at home upstairs Liu Deng aunt (a pseudonym) said,http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=7230, there are times she was hanging in the window of the mat fell Dengjia Yang on stage, and knocked on the door a long time, Deng Fei just opened a small crack in the door, waiting for her to finish what he wanted, Deng will fly her out from under the door mat plug out, then it will slam the door shut. Same floor neighbor said that, occasionally at the same time the front door,http://www.winedin.com/pork/pair_food_wine.php?food=register.cgi, Deng Fei will see him open the door into the house, and then opened his door,http://www.tan-sei.com, like "afraid of peeping." No return dealings do not travel, but neighbors on both father and son still have the impression. Forest owners (a pseudonym) to remember, there are times seen hiding under a tree did not want to go home rather Tianwei, behaved very obedient way in the rain, people looked worried. A A neighbor remembers, when the Spring Festival this year, they are father and son playing in the downstairs space fireworks, Dad bought a lot of small fireworks, umbrella let his son play, my son is very happy, and my father also invited onlookers with children fireworks. "23:30,http://www.luckbo.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=285448, fireworks done and not have fun, but also continue to buy the place." This obviously is a love child of my father, how to kill the child became spree? In fact, small Tianwei from kindergarten when he started beating up, "A week at least two or three times, playing children screaming wah-wah." Lived in the downstairs neighbors complained several times,piumini moncler, then finally sold the house moved. In the eyes of neighbors, handsome Deng Tianwei "obedient,http://www.q8788.com/read.php?tid=102, introverted," never take the initiative and talk to the children, often silently with his father behind more than 10 meters down to walk. In the eyes of Yucai School students, Tianwei character is very cheerful, when everyone together, he always a lot to say. In the interest groups the students impression, Deng Tianwei relatively good and strong, and people sometimes dispute, "but never seen him hit." Insiders say, only beaten Deng Tianwei, Tianwei mother is played, Tianwei before the accident, Wu Wenyu has not appeared in the area two or three months before, the market rumors the couple going through a divorce. The district forum owners denounce Deng Fei in his father's violent, it was understood to say that there are people began to rational analysis. "This is obviously under pathological behavior.": "Small Tianwei has been a bad father outlet for emotions, Perhaps ambivalence and harm no one to talk to this father, twisted his personality, he also needs psychological counseling. " Others reflect on their responsibilities: "! Apathy among our neighbors enough" Romance and even guilt feelings, she felt the need to do something. Romance is one of the moderators of the Forum, she is also enthusiastic people organize community activities. The next event to kill the child, she tried to communicate with the relevant aspects, see if there is any way to solve similar problems, she realized the difficulties, "no one wanted to take responsibility, who do not want to trouble the upper body. I have always believed that there is a responsibility is our duty-bound. If everyone to protect themselves, to avoid, with the result that, one day, everyone is not guaranteed. " Bless the child to go to a warm paradise Deng Fei's video game stalls, located near the stairs Electric Chengerlou position. Some time before the accident, it was renovated stalls, hung in the lantern, Tang Fei Xu Jiumei to stall, and often appear here. Three days before the incident, Tang Fei also came with Tianwei stalls, under the watchful eyes of the emperor to play angry father cry. That was the last time he cried in public. That live in the minds of everyone behaved awfully handsome, in the end how many times life miss? A time when his father beat him behind closed doors, and when the security community has been isolated from the time, when my dear mother decided to leave the house, and when neighbors heard his cries for help when, in this large community, that no one can help him survive. Guangdong Provincial Women's Federation Children's said that the task of the masses against domestic violence is the "discovery" and "Report", but without a job handling mechanism, even if found and reported, the tragedy still can not be avoided. "Small individual power." This also allows Romance was very frustrating, but at her raise, March 13 evening, psychologists careful, Hu held talks in the area to more than 60 neighborhood. There is a mother and child is Tianwei grew up with playmates, she was very confused, "the boy asked me why the emperor would be killed Dad,louboutin femme, how do I answer?" "Do not hurry pointing children, as long as enough to listen to his feelings." Hu's cautious answer. Accept any emotion myself because this event generated, all your reactions are normal, careful, Hu told an adult who arrived at the scene. A 16-year-old girls do not understand your remorse and guilt, she said: "? What is the relationship with us." Romance feel a relationship. "If the neighbors can do more attention to the people around, care about things around, this tragedy would not have happened." She also sponsored family residential mental health hotline volunteer activities, has many responses. The children play with fireworks of the child was gone. Romance heart has been heavy fall fall to the ground. She wanted to pay homage to this life, she believes people have souls, bless her child to go to a warm paradise. "My dear child, bless you return to a happy home." Lighted candles, flowers, placed Tianwei doorstep, on the cell lawn temporary memorial area. That has been 1.63 meters tall, like martial arts and badminton 10 year-old boy left the earth, this is a typical Chinese-style tragedy. Tragedy is the family, the review of the whole society. Forum, someone mentioned Tianwei mother, ask neighbors, we can do something for her? The man responded that not to blame her, not going to bother her, for her and her son in heaven pray it! Yucai school, belonging to pupils Deng Tianwei seat was empty in there. (Intern Liu Yajing contributed to this report) Family violence is the second largest army in addition to outside groups There is a sociological theory is important: family violence is the second largest group in addition to the army. In China, due to the lack of legal, emotional indifference neighborhood, parents formed a habit of beating their children from an early age, or even extreme events will children killed to prevent domestic violence,http://amanatu.com/amanatulet/?asin=B0005EZWUO, need community involvement, need to intervene in national legislation. Southern Weekly reporter _ Qi Lun mediator in Beijing & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; Photography _ Shao Yan Xia Xueluan Peking University sociology professor, over the years to study the problem of youth development. US severe discipline of domestic violence Southern Weekly: Guangzhou this case to kill the child, for example, to such domestic violence, your basic view is that like? Xia Xueluan: I read this news, not the first time a similar incident occurred, it certainly will not be the last. There is a sociological theory is important: family violence is the second largest group in addition to the army. Domestic violence manifested in two aspects, one is between spouses, for example, the husband beat his wife, which is a higher incidence of, and the other is between parents and children. It now appears that violence between spouses have an overall downward trend, while violence between parents and children, there are indications of an increase. Treat the elderly and treat a child's attitude reflects a society's level of civilization as a whole. In other words, we can not look at this issue in isolation, it is a microcosm of today's social landscape. The children maimed or even killed, the number has been quite a lot, and very worthy of reflection of the whole society. Southern Weekly: create a good family atmosphere, you think we should start from what level? Xia Xueluan: We have been advocating is to create a favorable growth of young green environment, and so-called green,hogan outlet online, including at least three aspects: the first is family education, family education,louboutin soldes femme, green, first against domestic violence, as diet, etc., relatively speaking, down in the second; the second aspect of the green environment of the community, the community to participate in family education, to be involved in the growth of children, once you know which family neighborhood the existence of domestic violence and to actively intervene To educate parents; and the third is the social aspect, my advice is to be introduced in the legislative process. At this point, we have to want to learn the advanced experience of western countries. Southern Weekly: the international community can learn from the experience of what? Xia Xueluan: I spent two years in the United States, it may be in the United States as an example. In the United States, that if there exists the phenomenon of domestic violence, a neighbor reported the first time, a report from the police immediately rushed to the scene, the child was taken away. Needless to say the entire process, the children received protection. After taking the child, help him find a free home. For example, a family may temporarily adopt the child, until his parents truly understand and correct the error, write checks to ensure no repeat similar mistakes before allowing him to send their children brought home. US police intervention is very positive, very strict discipline. Relatively speaking, we are doing extremely insufficient. As a law is not perfect, and second, most people believe, it is the parents hit the child within the family thing, it is people's private affairs, others have no control. Children if the parents of private property. Community to intervene, the state to intervene Southern Weekly: that is to say, not only to change the concept of the parents, but also to be legislation? Xia Xueluan: Yes. The first step is the concept of change, which in turn with the overall situation of the National Child Benefit closely co-ordinated. In Canada, the child's birth and conservation, basically do not need parents to spend money, the state provides a number of benefits, the Chinese government needs to further advance in this regard. In addition, the family environment must be improved. Concept of change is not enough, the construction of relevant laws to accompany it, the need for social legislation. Legislation is an important step towards the family deterrent, especially for those who especially irresponsible parents. Central has a file on child development issues, the article is very long, very detailed content, reflecting the importance the country, marriage also has content for women, protection of children's rights. But honestly, this central file, just an administrative document, in fact, are not legally binding. Southern Weekly: Now look at the definition of domestic violence, with almost no law? Xia Xueluan: because of the lack of such a legislative document, so the definition of the problem is indeed ambiguous. The so-called social legislation, are the parents of the child to the extent of harm, and sentenced him to a certain degree of punishment, rather than in tragedy after reflection. Southern Weekly: Relative legal environment in Europe and America, at this level, China still exist which blind? Xia Xueluan: In accordance with the current legislation in China, even the police know this, he has no legal basis to intervene. The United States is different,louboutin soldes femme, he is to follow the law. In China, I hit the child at home, you police into my room, I would say you Sichuangminzhai it, I said you of infringement, but also to tell How about you. China is what? It can only be persuaded about the neighborhood, access to justice is also generally attributed to civil mediation. More serious domestic violence reported to Pianjing that, Pianjing up to the house to look at, and asked the case, or mediation. And even if the case involved Pianjing, they are in fact very small. Southern Weekly: NGO involvement in this area, any progress? Xia Xueluan: Now, many universities set up the anti-domestic violence center, in fact, NGO. They passed the special investigation, the class is also working to improve the situation, to do a lot of work. Panyu this matter, the reporter reported that the parents do business at a loss, and he frustrated, take things too hard, and you want to commit suicide. In any case, the child is innocent, and you fail to do this business,http://xn--13wu07e.xn--fiqs8s/read.php?tid=36985, there are opportunities to succeed ah. Due to lack of legal, emotional indifference neighborhood, parents formed a habit since childhood playing child until the child died at the age of 10 this, but none of dissuasion, people grief. In talking about this, I would like to say is that parents start training school is so necessary. Such training may Federation and community-led organizations. 

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