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 She, 18 years old, no experience, no ready, it would be the young mothers; Her junior high school graduation, although the results were not too bad, but envious of the students returned migrant workers, wearing a very stylish and very beautiful, bent drop out of school to work; She, in April of this year, Sichuan alone came from Taiyuan to work, understanding boyfriend in the cafe now, after a few days, they live together, and soon became pregnant; She felt the unborn child run off, the children too poor, no abortion. But she and her boyfriend had neither thought of marriage, but also thought the see their parents, the children say only that Mr. lower; That she is a called quiet (a pseudonym) of the girl. After a fight with her boyfriend, runaways, continuous half the Internet at Internet cafes, October 30 morning, her unbearable pain, premature children, unfortunately born not breathing. In recent days, the reporter approached the girl, trying to understand the girl this time, to understand they are thinking, want to be doing. Internet cafes girls give birth a tense rescue Expand At 1:30 on October 30, a cafe inside Banpo Street, girl sitting in the corner on the sofa uttered anguished voice from time to time, everyone anxiously stepped forward to ask, I discovered that the girl was pregnant, and now stomach pain, There are signs of production. After the network about the incident, immediately call 110 and 120 alarms. Soon, emergency personnel arrived at the scene, they carried to an ambulance rushed the girl Taiyuan Central Hospital. On the way to the hospital, emergency personnel learned that the girl pregnant more than six months, according to the time stomach pain, emergency personnel learned that the girl frequency of contractions in 3 - 5 minutes, and this frequency is about to give birth performance. "We are on the side of giving her suck oxygen, telling her not to be afraid, take a deep breath, while the fastest speed rush to the hospital." Approaching the door of the emergency room, the girl said she felt like something out, emergency personnel to see, the child has born out, the girl sent to the delivery room quickly. When sent to the delivery room, the baby girl birth has ten minutes. Responsible for midwifery doctor said, under normal circumstances, after the child birth, the placenta will be automatically delivered within five minutes, or will cause postpartum hemorrhage, but the girl's placenta had not come out. "No way, we had to help her take out the placenta." Midwifery doctors said, she watched the child, is the name of the baby, back and legs have peeling phenomenon, indicating that the baby was not dead in the production process, and that had died in the womb, because the hospital did not come over, do not know the specific time of death. Midwifery doctors said she had asked the girl, since when no longer feel the unborn child moving through, the girl said she did not notice, just know that has recently been the child did not feel fetal movement, had previously felt. Girls want to work to make money is simple to buy what you want 20 afternoon, reporters at the Taiyuan Central Hospital gynecology inpatient see the girl,chaussures louboutin, her big eyes wide open, lying dazed on the bed,moncler outlet, was covered by a white sheet to reveal a black T-shirt, a black hair scattered on a white pillow, the people look especially haggard. Girl lying on the bed next to a boy, heard the door open, he opened his eyes, eyes full of red blood. At this time, doctors and nurses pushed open the door, asking about her condition, infusion, "the morning lose contractions, now lose anti-inflammatory liquid, at night there are a liquid." He told finished, the nurse left the room. Whether a nurse arrives, or ward other patients and their families out, girls are deadpan, a matter not related to attitude. Reporters saw the street stood a bucket of water and a cup bought unopened little rice on the bedside table. Reporters with the girls chatted up, slowly, the girl talking about opening their own thing. Girls born in a town in Sichuan, although parents are farmers, but not too bad conditions at home, parents are also particularly love her and her sister. In school, her grades, although not among the best, but not bad, after graduating from middle school, parents let her high school, but she dropped out of school early to go to work to see the students back, he wears makeup, wearing a particularly beautiful,moncler soldes, I felt to work to make money, you can buy anything you want, so bent out of school, work outside the home. Drop out of school to work,it is a prop., the girl said she was capable of working staff, worked in restaurants, worked in the store, in the KTV also whether the work done ...... well, there has not been making things difficult for the customer, the girl closed his eyes and said, hard to describe. Recognize cohabitation more than 10 days pregnant, she said, children are too poor abortion In April this year, the girl told her parents want to come out to relax, although parents oppose, but she was a person to buy a ticket, dragging suitcases, with their own money to work to find her classmates came to Taiyuan. Came to Taiyuan, the girls rented in villages where nothing else, go to Internet cafes, Internet cafes met a 26-year-old boy working. Ten days after exposure, the girl moved to the boy's rental, and soon discovered she was pregnant. Boys think it is an accident, let the girl knock down a child, but the girl said she felt the child destroyed, children are too poor. From beginning to end, the girl never thought, 18 years old, she became unmarried mothers if more pathetic. After the girl pregnant,but the premise is the speed , the boy said, he never thought to tell their parents, the girl said she did not intend to tell the parents, just think of first children born do intend to. As for the future supposed to, they never considered. For suddenly upon children, boys never call himself father, the girl never call themselves mother. They say they have not considered married, never thought to give children a full house. Girl ran half spent in Internet cafes The girl said when she first came to Taiyuan, also in Sichuan and students contact, found to be pregnant, worried students told their parents,yaRpCaq40a, they had made no contact. Listen girl, boy she is also very good, a lot of things down to her, and after she became pregnant,the mask is removed and therefore displayed when taking pictures., and has not been re-played work out, the boys work to earn more than 2,000 yuan per month, enough of their lives. She never considered whether the money to feed a child. Although the boy's own good, but the girl said his temper is getting big, early in October, because of what she can remember things, and a few hot words after the boy, left the rental . Called the boy, she did not take, until he broke the phone, leave a phone card, the boy could not contact her. Leaving the boys and girls have nothing thing dry, go to Internet cafes. Sometimes from morning until eight or nine o'clock on the evening six or seven or even later,Female employees are former c, sometimes overnight online. When not online,who lives nearby,peuterey outlet, the girl lived with friends. In which a friend who lives in that? When reporters asked this question, the girl began to dodge the eyes, said to be in the cafe know a friend's house to make do with sleep. Home half, the boy said he was particularly worried, although the girl said in a friend's house to sleep, but he felt that the girl has been spent in the cafe. For two of them do not have much future planning For already lost child, the boy said, he saw the child, a boy, "Oh! Now what do not want, the child has gone." For the next two, the boy said, let's wait for the girl to say keep good health. The girl said that she would like to keep a good body, home to the New Year, after a year and then consider whether to come back. They did not bring home to meet the parents of the other plans. 5th, the reporter again contacted the boy, he said, the girl has been discharged and returned to the rental, he wants to work, can not be 24 hours watching the girls, girls sit at home, often after Wang Chu ran back. ○ extension doubt Internet cafes in the boys and girls What are you doing? In recent days, the reporter points in the morning, noon, afternoon and evening into the different sections of the Internet and found that the later days, the more Internet cafes in the boys and girls, and the proportion of boys than girls in the proportion is much higher. Which whether to enter the cafe, always see boys or girls smoking a cigarette, cigarette smoke, especially in the evening, Internet cafes in the air will be even worse. At 22:00 on November 3, in an Internet cafe nearby Shiqianfeng Road, on Internet cafes are full of people sitting on the seat, their age, do not seem large, around 20 years old, boys were sitting in front of computer the name of the network game, or three thousand three hundred twenty-two them discussing how to cooperate with each other to play the game, the girls are sitting in front of computer wearing headphones, some browsing the web, watching some movies or TV shows. When the reporters that, in the cafe Internet, is charged by the hour during the day, more than 3 yuan per hour fee, and at night is charged according to time, 22:00 to 7:00 pm the next day, charges in 10-15 yuan range. Reporters interviewed a number of people, they have not in school, and some work on the outside, is the rest of the time to play, there's no work, nothing to soak in Internet cafes. For a stay in the cafe for a whole day or a night of boys and girls, they put it up word is "boring", because the life of boredom, they choose to pass the time over the network to fill the life of boredom. Junior high school drop out children this age can be doing? July 9, 2014, this newspaper has reported that a five-year apart looking, 14-year-old runaway child is 12 years old work outside the home, because there is no social experience, worked at home, nor how to live, to work in the hotel She often scolded by the boss did not wink, work is not hardship. 19-year-old child left home five years, suffered the well-being of the world, wanted to return to her mother's arms, reporters help several twists and turns, she finally returned to the mother. Junior high school, it fifteen or sixteen, children this age can do work outside the home? Reporters interviewed the staff of enterprises, hotels, security and other recruitment industry, listen to the fifteen-year-old boy, many people have shook his head, said he does not need such a small child there, only the individual businesses recruit staff said, You can try, you can not use if you do not wink. Fifteen-year-old child is in adolescence," said the top no "Bull hybri, what they want? Junior high school, it fifteen or sixteen, so much the children in mind, the reporter interviewed several junior high school students, some of them say they want to have their own home, some people say they want to leave their parents. Fifteen-year-old children in adolescence, from the psychology, also known as the "second period of resistance", in this period, there will be some adult children think of as "rebellious" behavior, of course, irritable mood. Psychologically, they are the child's behavior is called "frustrating", as parents, need to understand why children "frustrating", he actually in the "toss" Who. Because children this age in terms of physical or mental state are in a semi-mature, speaking from the physical structure, their body has started to grow, all the appearance of the signal will let the children feel grown up, so start looking for them to play the adult world a variety of roles. They want to become an adult, the adult simulation work, want to have an adult family love. In the fight for the process, often encounter some awkward state, he is found he grew up,"After taking the arrival, but also with his expectations for this fall have great social recognition of his status and his ability, which would form A tangle of his heart condition,hogan outlet donna, and then began to "torment." Therefore, the child of the "toss", the first of their own, "toss", followed by the others, "toss", and the "toss" is often starting from the closest person. In fact, the beginning of this period the child will enter a misunderstanding, called "self-omnipotent state" will think as long as people do, he can do it. Then, when frustrated, to enter something called "self incompetent state," he would think the reality is so cruel, there is no space for their own development, it will extremely low self-esteem. In this process, the child is very tangled. ○ Special Recommendations Listen to this girl how to do Suggestions Several contacts, girls, although reluctant to say too much, but the reporter feels she is a special kind, innocent girl, but she is a young and ignorant of anything silly girl. Such a girl, how she should do next, the reporter interviewed the national secondary counselors, hypnotist, trainer Rui Han. He put forward four-point proposal to the girl: 1, and put the past in the face. First of all to face the past, because history does not if it has happened, so the last thing you want to learn overall acceptance; Second, we must learn to put down, do not always carrying the last of the "burden" of life. 2, thanks to their past, because past experience has taught himself mature. 3, live well now, for their own future development of a positive goal, to lay the foundation for the future. 4, and their past to make a friendly "goodbye" and live in the present, the future. 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