Hidetoshi sister left for the pool, the pool right is sister ol The reporter Feng Yuxing photo<br>Two years to take care of paralyzed children in kang, physical exertion and mental pain weight Difeng Zhi almost breathless, but she still bite to swallow tears insisted, "can not let the kids wronged." & Nbsp;<br> <br>30 years ago, two daughters has paralyzed the kang, a complete loss of language and behavior, eating and drinking Lazard sleep must rely on the mother; 30 years, two daughters have not been out of the house, but not seen the sun; 5 years ago husband and wash away ......<br> <br>Really have the courage to live, she thought of a suicide, you can two daughters to whom dropped ah! Kang two pairs looked wistful eyes, the mother bite the bullet tears swallowed.<br> <br>Yesterday reporter walked home, 67-year-old looks better than many peers old,nike air max pas cher, dimly lit hut, choking smell, moldy roof in some places, off white, placed on the ground and three vintage wardrobe a shabby sofa. Two people lying on the kang, covered with dirty blankets, kang shoot pile with a few quilts and old clothes. Television is the family's only home appliances. Begonia pots, see dates, to bring some life in this house.<br> <br>Had two daughters with a strange disease has paralyzed<br> <br>Difeng Zhi live in Lianshan Caroline Street Ertaizi communities. & Nbsp; 20 years old, Difeng Zhi and cousin marriage, in 1968, the eldest daughter pool Hidetoshi birth. 1 year old child learning to walk, the foot is always pulled away on the ground, new shoes a few days to reveal the toes. Parents send their children to the hospital quickly, the diagnosis is a calcium deficiency. After calcium, the child's body more rigid, more and more difficult to walk, his hands tight deformed, but speak also normal.<br> <br>14 years old, the pool Hidetoshi sicker, can not come down to earth, can only sit on the kang, even after a year sitting strength nor had lying on the kang, I did not expect a lie is 30 years. After the bed, pool Hidetoshi soon lost language function, life thanks to his mother to care.<br> <br>Pool Hidetoshi have a younger brother, good health, and now a company working in Huludao city. In 1977, the second daughter born ol The pool. And sister, from before birth to 3 years old, children are particularly talking and walking normally. 34 years old, when the pool ol The walk also pull your feet on the ground. Cane leaning on the wall, barely a few meters from the house to the entrance outside. Two years later, the pool ol The more serious illness, what on earth trembling legs,doudoune moncler pas cher, sit on the kang a very eight minutes would have to lie down, and later never get up. And sister is different, and sometimes urine pool ol The gestures with his hands a round, meant to potty. Since then, the two daughters of eating and drinking Lazard sleep and other daily food Zhaifeng Zhi falls on the shoulders of the whole.<br> <br>Unfortunately, even worse day. & Nbsp; 2005, the husband suffering from esophageal cancer, unfortunately leave. Before dying, the husband took his wife's hand and cried:! "I was gone, you have to simply tough to live ah, do not have any idea, or else the two children can be supposed ah or I die not close your eyes ah ! "It was Difeng Zhi go to the toilet, relatives have followed, for fear she sometimes commit suicide.<br> <br>Later Difeng Zhi want to open, they can not be so selfish, the case must continue to be strong to keep going, not for anything else, for his wife dying unfulfilled aspirations, the more the "mother" word, "since his daughter to The world can not be cruel to leave them as long as there is breath in, I'm going to two disabled daughters alive & nbsp;!. "<br> <br>Stewed cabbage spend the winter a small pad supplement the family income<br> <br>No source of income, at first only two daughters month guaranteeing payment of nearly 300 yuan, 70 yuan monthly fee only after a few months down the survivors, Difeng Zhi both live frugally with her two daughters to survive the hardships of every day.<br> <br>On the ground, the reporter saw a cabbage head, Difeng Zhi said last fall to buy 500 pounds of cabbage, a winter dundun soybean oil stewed cabbage, sometimes recapture a piece of tofu, and now the only one. Fifteenth, she bought two tofu, would like to use the last one cabbage stew tofu, and later his son sent two chicken, chicken stewed sauerkraut with your mother Sa over the festival.<br> <br>To fill the home before,http://www.china-goose.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=6457946&fromuid=99428, had time to do a small pad, to get the market to sell, "I can do one day a young man, now older, do four or five a genius, a sale five dollars on the market, despite much money, but how much can lavish at & nbsp;. "<br> <br>30-year record<br> <br>To hold urine turns a meal to feed five or six times to bed afraid to undress<br> <br>Around 6 am every day, the young man from the fire put up Zhaifeng Zhi kang pan,piumini moncler outlet, then has picked up two daughters urinate. Because incontinence, every night, the sisters regarded clothes quilt of urine through and through. Two daughters are particularly stiff body, also makes the anti effort, Difeng Zhi resorted to after all the effort picked up her daughter with one arm to hold, freeing the other hand to put the bedpan under the daughter body stuffed, then add a large plastic bag for her convenience. Down two daughters, but also replaced the wet clothes and mattresses, a change is a big tub, then called hot water, to scrub them clean.<br> <br>Daughter pool Hidetoshi hands completely lost function, only fed by her; second daughter ol The pool hands although less so, but lying on the kang can fool the outer half of the rice and half way to your mouth, or or less let Difeng Zhi save some energy.<br> <br>Sa is the mother of a wood dining table, Difeng Zhi put food mingled together in front of two daughters, he started feeding daughter rice. Pool Hidetoshi swallowing function well, a meal to feed into the mouth just spit it out on the sparse, followed by starting a spoon to feed, feed five or six times and only then fed into a meal, can be fed up to the time of the last eight ten times a. Under normal circumstances, the sisters can eat a bowl of rice, so a meal down, have to spend more than one hour. When fed eldest daughter, also eat a few mouthfuls hastily evacuated.<br> <br>Two daughters eat, Zhaifeng Zhi holding a large pan and quickly wash her wet clothes, wash a large pan, not a long time, her hands and began to wash out tenosynovitis. After drying out the clothes, carrying a bag full of Qujian Zhaifeng Zhi bark branches, sometimes to the earth in picking corn stalks, even tattered scraps cash. Picking firewood back, generally have been about 14 o'clock, and put down the bag would have picked up two daughters urinate.<br> <br>Busy these, he went to the cooking time. Fortunately, Mother Sa eat two meals a day, vegetable cooking fire, after dinner already dark.<br> <br>Let departed father of two daughters lit sicker pool ol The medication can swallow together with rice, can be very difficult pool Hidetoshi medication. Difeng Zhi get the pills stuffed into her throat, then her daughter's teeth tightly bunched, the mother's finger bitten often bleed blood out of the pit.<br> <br>The most sad is that evening, and Jieliang a position lying tired, they begin to hum. Difeng Zhi up a moment later, hum becomes a cry. When turning to his daughter, the pages that sweat, his hands moving her upper body and legs, their feet when the pivot strut waist to turn over. Not just lie down and warm up, another began to hum. So many years, Zhaifeng Zhi develop a habit of sleeping fully clothed, "That's good, save and then dressing delays, while others prevent the cold I'm sick, both daughter suffers more & nbsp;.."<br> <br>Whether spring autumn and winter,http://facebook-docs.oklahome.net, Difeng Zhi see themselves wrapped very strict, so as not to catch a cold, "If the disease was mild, I endure the children to do the food, really very not, you have to let the son of the daughter to take care of it,http://grand-lome.org/spip.php?article61, and now daughter . blind, I'm more afraid of sick of & nbsp; "<br> <br>30 years tacit<br> <br>Weep with laughter between sisters can "listen" to understand<br> <br>Although the loss of two daughters, behavior and language features, but also some thinking brain can understand that some meaning. After his father left, two daughters, wow all day crying in uproar,scarpe hogan outlet, the disease is also more severe incontinence.<br> <br>Reporters saw yesterday in Zhaifeng Zhi home, kang, sister pool Hidetoshi lying to the right, to see his sister, his head thrown back, body arched, hands and fingers tightly to come together. Ol The pool sister lying on the kang, chest then placed a towel, clothes sleeves were too shiny mouth flooding.<br> <br>On the kang edge between the sisters, stood a bottle of mineral water and a remote control, the mineral water bottles tie a eye, the sisters thirsty, the pool can be used not only do not listen to handle ol The hand drink water, you can also Hello to my sister to drink.<br> <br>Sisters all day watching TV, pool ol The hand press can slowly transfer station, a transfer station each time after time, she also looked at the reporters laugh.<br> <br>Watching TV too happy, sisters laugh together; see sad, I cried a lot will follow. At kang lying for 30 years, has formed a silent understanding and language between the sisters, the other immediately respond to a cry, a laugh followed another grin.<br> <br>When my sister would like to express some kind of meaning, only by peering eyes and hum, but Sister basic can "listen" to understand, after then gestures to his mother.<br> <br>Caring mother with the eyes and gestures<br> <br>Although her daughter will not speak, you can also caring people. Listening to her mother every day murmuring something in his mouth,http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=7132, whenever my mother out forget something, shouting out loud hum pool ol The hard, but also what hand gestures. "Older, always forgetful, whenever the kids yelling, I know my child is a reminder of what might be forgotten ......" he said.<br> <br>When reporters found ol The pool holding a plastic thing, she is ready to help mom needle, "30 years, the children are well aware of every move I almost, like they pit mouth,http://cutyayu.sakura.ne.jp/cabbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=113&page=who%20was%20jailed, I know the child is thirsty, mouth moaned also pointed mouth, I knew it was hungry & nbsp;. "<br> <br>Difeng Zhi suffering from hypertension and diabetes, perennial medication, but sometimes busy and forget to take medicine, this time for the mother of two daughters are thinking. A medication over a period of time, the second daughter of the medication will gestures place, after then pointed mouth. Ol The pool sometimes forgot, then pool Hidetoshi eyes looked pretty good place to put medicine, my sister read the meaning of her sister, and then pointed out to his mother. See mother finally took the pills, Jieliang laughed.<br> <br>The last three months, the pool right ol The bust appeared swollen, and the pain Aoao cry when urine hold up, had the day lying on the kang. When urinating, only the potty tucked under the body; when the stool, take it with a plastic bag. "If you can insist on not down, I'll take care of two children, if I first fell, after the thing I do not dare to think ah & nbsp;!" Difeng Zhi choked back tears fall, but it can understand the words of the sisters still cried a lot.<br> <br>Thanksgiving neighbor mother often came to help well-meaning people send rice to send firewood<br> <br>Recently, Zhaifeng Zhi did not go out picking firewood, because a well-intentioned people often feed some wood blocks, gave split readily available. There is a well-intentioned people often feed rice oil.<br> <br>"The good-hearted people send rice oil, now I do not know Xingsha Jiaosha feeding when Mid-Autumn Festival moon cake, sent to the Lantern Festival Lantern Festival, or the good-hearted people, ah & nbsp;?!" said.<br> <br>Zhaifeng Zhi Qin Zhang neighbors stopping by, that reporter to interview, facing Zhaifeng Zhi Qin Zhang thumbs-up "when the mother can be really not easy, to say China can move no problem. You see her in order How many children eat bitter, he never said that all the pharynx to the stomach, when the mother is really hard to find the world & nbsp;! "<br> <br>Qin Zhang told reporters, looking Zhaifeng Zhi too poor to take care of two daughters, and sometimes over extended handle favor. He met holidays, but also to help the old lady dumplings.<br> <br>"Father has gone away, this one can be really old lady closure! Kang lying on the two children, and sometimes the toilets are one day long while, the old lady every age, and his body is not good,http://sjh.bbs.windplay.cn/forum-53-1.html?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, often Toutengnaore, you say again to take care of two children, how hard it is & nbsp;. "<br> <br>Mother of two daughters in the end Shabing wish? Afraid of their own to go first ,http://www.huatai123.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=......<br> <br>Difeng Zhi told reporters, shortly before the government and give the sisters a new set of low-rent housing, not too far from the son's home, now is looking for someone to play kang, wait until after the clean up, they would move into a new home.<br> <br>When, in addition to take care of two daughters, but also to take care of last November, suffering from diabetes blind daughter, "soon moved,woolrich donna, despite looking for a moving company, but the two children can Zezheng it? Moving company feared that if unexpected encounter where children, afraid to move, I can not worry about the & nbsp;. "<br> <br>Day morning, Zhaifeng Zhi told the sisters to go to clean up the house, the door just went outbuildings, eldest daughter began to hum, asked her how she came back, the boss looks at the ground floor of the cupboard, the second a square gestures, my mother understand remind her to bring survivors card.<br> <br>He said the old man had to clean up the house when taken together with the survivors fee back, forget to take the time to go. Since the death of her husband, Difeng Zhi often confused, often go out and not come back, sometimes turning. One evening numb hands and feet, eyes to see what is also blurred.<br> <br>Two daughters 30 years of always lying on the kang, despite stiff, but fortunately did not grow too bedsores, which makes Difeng Zhi very pleased. "I have this disease very special girl, and two children sitting simply will not work, there is not wheelchair sat coupled with my day busy feet hit back of the head, but did not have time effort to hold them to the outside in the sun,http://www.hljcs.com.cn/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=316, so 30 years never been out of the house & nbsp;. "<br> <br>"Before dying, I want to know maybe the girl in the end was Shabing? Sometimes even want her to go first, or I go along and also the line, afraid that if I go first, and that these two children can Zezheng ...... "Difeng Zhi Kuchu sound. Sad to see his mother shed tears, kang also followed the sisters began to cry.<br> <br>In Huludao reporter Feng Yuxing<br><br>
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