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 "With the wife" Death of Recently, an article on doctoral students are gay husband Pianhun and jumped to his death news has become a hot social concern. Deceased named Luo Hongling, Sichuan University during his lifetime is a Korean teacher. June 15 morning, Luo Hongling from a rented apartment on the 13th floor balcony falling, died on the spot. July 18, took the lead in Chengdu, a media carried a report on the matter, triggering a heated debate online. Why issue, local media reported in more than a month after the incident? With questions, Shandong TV "investigation" of reporters rushed to Chengdu on the matter were investigated. Luo Hongling and her husband Cheng Jiansheng rental house is located in Chengdu North Branch Road within a residential area. Since the house lease coming to an end in August, her parents these days is finishing things. In the day of the incident two old arrived home from Chongqing to Chengdu, and now more than a month later,http://bbs.sdcainiao.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2422, things are still not settled, the daughter's body has been preserved in the funeral home. Speaking of her daughter's things, Luo Hongling mother agitated. She said that on June 14, that is,moncler outlet,http://www.luckbo.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=667376, the day before the incident, her daughter and son talking about divorce, about 3 o'clock in the afternoon, her daughter gave her a phone call. They are also more at 21:00 via a telephone. The next morning, my daughter jumped to his death a. In Luo parents, is Cheng Jiansheng deception, daughter cornered. It is understood, Chongqing Liangping and are people, they have the same level of different classes of high school students in school year two life no intersection,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3649, also went their separate ways after graduation. Until July 2011, both working in Chengdu, introduced by a friend started dating. has described the post in the forum, the two men first met: "Just met when really Trick fire, all kinds of fit." And their "matchmaker" Liu also said that when two people really love the feeling Okay. It was the home of the mother far away in Chongqing, but also from the phone feel when love sweet daughter. Do they really love the two friends saw and heard it as smooth as sweet? In Luo Hongling reserved SMS,http://www.goti-death.com/ayane/BBS/apeboard_plus.cgi/http://www.goti-death.com/ayane/BBS/apeboard_plus.cgi/, the reporter found such content. November 23, 2011 Cheng Jiansheng: I love you. Really. I will never mess of people and flirt Kazakhstan. Kazakhstan does not lie. Luo Hongling: ah, I believe you. I also think that to be my good you're back again. December 5, 2011 Luo Hongling: I think you are not always very insecure, everywhere your dish, skittish. This sense of security is not really uncomfortable. December 23, 2011 Cheng Jiansheng: my wife, do not cranky. I'll do all that mess to clean up. Wholeheartedly come to you. Luo Hongling: ah, I hold grudges, always afraid you're tired and embarrassed to say to me. From the message content, the in love had found and others having an affair, also see through the lies. But love couple, indeed inevitable bumps. Anyway, in love six months later, the two men in this year's January 23 received a marriage certificate. posted on Jinjiang forum a post, chronicles the lives of two married status, and seek someone who has ideas on how to create a so-called family atmosphere: I never thought that one day there will be so Jour. No active daytime telephone, text messaging, work directly go to the gym to stay two or three hours on weekends to go to class, the middle interval of the size of the cold war ...... after a few days of this month, already I feel like myself ...... I love He, he also said that love me, but is that two people stay together when no longer sweet love, I still want to try, marriage should not be this way it ...... seeking someone who has Weapon, say anything good. The so-called family atmosphere, how to create? Page is displayed, this post is Published March 6, 2012,louboutin homme, from the licensing of two married for less than two months. In reply netizens, there are a lot of people have suspected her husband of sexual orientation, but Luo Hongling reply is: "Orientation absolutely excluded." Because Cheng Jiansheng before marriage has confessed that he is bisexual, he did not Pianhun necessary. Until June 13, that is, two days before the incident, at the forum more than three months sudden silence posting said: Three months later, I came to announce the answer. Upstairs all wise wise-sided and sisters, you are right. The husband I legally, he is a homosexual. From start to finish, never changed, from beginning to end, are lying to me. In more than 20 posts in the subsequent issue, that occurred in the middle of various events to let her doubts, but each time have been interpreted overthrow, she worked on the forum for help, looking for girlfriends crying, complain with their parents, or even to Marriage counselors and psychologists, but still can not escape. Until lie was exposed again,http://www.lfxszs.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=47096, Luo Hongling finally decided to end the marriage: I later came to understand, in fact, not how clever hoax, but the marriage is that I use to thirty years of psychological hate married, even if some doubts, and he gave smooth; the marriage of it, is what I use, in particular, I fear my parents became divorced women, the issue of principle is not always feel exposed, you can have the run to run, we can not say from the off ah ...... Because some message of hope, be willing to deceive yourself. June 14, he began formal talks divorce matters. But in the evening around 8 o'clock, suddenly open to apology on their own microblogging, while acknowledging that he is gay. Matter between husband and wife, how he would choose in the microblogging apology it? Since the original Pianhun purpose is to conceal themselves, why should disclose their gay identity in the microblogging it? In the interview, the reporter Luo Hongling where students get some sound recordings. This is a few days after the incident, they talk of recording and . Luo Hongling husband did not think they cheated wife, and his wife's face in front of the front when it comes to the issue admit that he is gay microblogging. However, so-called "family shame should not be," With this microblogging disclosure, is not only a person's privacy Cheng Jiansheng, Luo Hongling was gay husband Pianhun things also will be made public. Now that we have seen can not know at that time Luo Hongling mood when this microblogging, but also can not judge whether it is this micro-Bo, completely destroyed her psychological defense, she was pushed no return. At 3:00 on June 15 and more, Luo Hongling wrote last microblogging: Too many lies and deceit, too much doubt and suspicion,http://repository.seikei.ac.jp, too much ridicule and subversion, the world really makes people tired, then, let's all over it ...... Two hours later, she was falling from the 13th floor balcony, he ended his young life. After the incident, Luo Cheng Jiansheng between parents kept asking exactly what happened the night before the two men,woolrich outlet, but so far did not give them an explanation. In the taped conversation with the student in Luo Hongling, Cheng Jiansheng said that his wife committed suicide the night before, they did not quarrel, very calm. Leaving only child of parents so that Luo lose, change attitude afterwards Cheng family, leaving them feel chilling. After the incident, Cheng Jiansheng said that the main responsibility has admitted he did not take good care of Luo Hongling, he has 70% of the responsibility, and promised to support Luo Hongling parents. But then, Cheng Jiansheng has never been seen. Liu is alive Luo Hongling colleagues as a middleman, after the incident she was involved in several two consultations mediation. Ms Lau said in who had been texting pledged to repay thousands of dollars, except hope then receive compensation of around 200,000, but the family said the process had only the 80,000. It is understood that the two last consultation was July 18, when Luo Cheng Jiansheng sister and reached 300,000 in private compensation agreement. But that night,http://joelabell.hillsong.com/content/leadership-morale-depends-care#comment-469603, Cheng family has said, or only pay 180,000. Just two day consultation,http://palevo.com/gallery/displayimage.php?pid=104479/index.php, Chengdu, a newspaper carried a report on the matter. And this became the reason Cheng family declined negotiated outcome. In Luo parents, which is totally away family looking for an excuse. Luo parents, said June 15 after the incident, there have been a number of media interviews to come, if not they repeatedly refused, how the media reports will be issued in more than a month after the incident? But now, in view of this attitude Cheng family, they decided to no longer refuse media. Today, both sides accused the other of bad faith, negotiated two people are at an impasse. Then, as her husband, Cheng Jiansheng's death in the end of the Luo Hongling should bear what responsibility? Two people have been deadlocked for the compensation issue in the law in the end there is no reference standard? Zhou Xiaomin lawyer is a well-known local lawyer, he believes the focus of this case is that the man is in the marriage inform each other their sexual orientation. If there is conclusive evidence that the man was informed or partially informed, so that he can legally less negative or irresponsible. If not informed, then this is a fraud, we need to bear legal responsibility. The specific amount of damages, Zhou lawyer said, according to the deceased's income needs, the revenue expected the situation and circumstances of her support of the population such as a comprehensive consideration. In the interview, Mr. Zhou also hope that through this case to remind and Luo Hongling women have similar experience of marriage, do not choose to commit suicide on the road: Knowing the situation of their own after her husband, first, if the advance has been informed that the consequences of homosexuality should have a good understanding of the problem; second, found that he did not tell you, you began to feel the dream, you should pick up the legal weapons give him sound treasure, goodbye, like a divorce, and then continue to walk the road of life,chaussures louboutin, worthy parents, teachers worthy, worthy of the love of your family and friends,chaussures louboutin, rather than take the path of suicide. In Luo Hongling books, the reporter accidentally pulls out a few stationery, the above is she did not know at what time transcribe some verse lyrics. There a is Faye Wong's "pawn." Her marriage, whether, as the song sung, is a long-laid trap? And she is really beginning to end, just a pawn in the hands of her husband? All this, only Cheng Jiansheng, can give her the real answer. According to estimates of the relevant public organizations, currently in China, about 20 million of gay tendencies, 80 percent of them chose the marriage under the pressure of public opinion, but most knew nothing about their spouse. In Luo Hongling event, if Cheng Jiansheng can in a responsible manner as soon as possible to Luo Hongling frankly, if the revelation when Luo Hongling can decided to break up, and pick up the legal weapons to protect their own interests, perhaps the tragedy would not have happened . The problem with the wife marital status groups triggered by this event, and with the death of his wife Definition of liability and compensation for loss of maintenance problems only the elderly, should arouse concern and Thinking Society. 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