Two days ago, Chen Yun accompanied her husband at home. Recently, Cao Yubin paralyzed husband of 25 years filed for divorce,spaccio peuterey, he felt indebted to his wife should let her free. Our reporter Wang Jianing photo<br>■ Event Background<br> <br>Married for 28 years, paralyzed for 25 years, he could not bear to drag his wife, Cao Yubin Mentougou dining hall town court to divorce his wife to also free.<br> <br>23, Mentougou court dining hall court hearing of this divorce case.<br> <br>Court, 57-year-old villager Cao Yubin Chen Yun full of praise for his wife.<br> <br>In 1985, at coal mines coal mining, tunnel collapse accident, he was buried at the mine,woolrich outlet online, despite the rescue but a paraplegic, life can not take care of themselves. That time, Chen Yun was pregnant, and the following year gave birth to two daughters in May.<br> <br>Faced with the weight of life, Chen Yun did not choose to escape, but in taking care of her husband for 25 years. Today two daughters have started to work.<br> <br>Cao Yubin feel unworthy of his wife, "I can not fulfill the obligations of a husband, do not want to drag her, asked for a divorce."<br> <br>Chen Yun said, his wife's mind their own understanding. Even divorce, will continue to take care of their own husbands. The day before yesterday, Mentougou court issued a civil mediation permit divorce. But the couple divorced not home, but also live together.<br> <br>"Boil for 25 years, do you think the value of it?"<br> <br>"Worth."<br> <br>"Why not leave his wife?"<br> <br>"I never thought about."<br> <br>"That's how they got divorced?"<br> <br>"Divorced, I do not leave him."<br> <br>Chen Yun talking, I would wonder why it agreed to a divorce.<br> <br>Cao Yubin and Chen Yun to divorce. 25 years ago, when work in the coal mine, tunnel collapse to his waist and legs smashed the whole, paraplegia. That time, Chen Yun was expecting her second child, she chose to share weal and woe with him, over the 25 years.<br> <br>Cao Yubin ask the judge, he felt a drag on his wife can no longer drag, to leave, even if only to give his wife a formal freedom.<br> <br>Chen Yun said he never thought of leaving his wife, and they will not.<br> <br>Divorce<br> <br>Although the couple are over fifty years, he would divorce his wife if only to give "formal freedom."<br> <br>"Our divorce." In early November, said to his wife, Chen Yun.<br> <br>Cao Yubin said unworthy of her. He had been a soldier, strong as hell, now lying for 25 years, and consequently can not do. He said, watching his wife and daughter suffer themselves worse than dying.<br> <br>Mentougou dining hall in their home town Baihutou. The village is less than 100, most of them built a new house, Chen Yun and his wife still live in the old ancestors left the room, a room as both the bedroom and the kitchen, windows paste is hemp paper. Relatives send home television, Chen Yun never bought a piece of clothing.<br> <br>"I can not fulfill the obligations of a husband,scrape hogan, do not want to drag her." prosecution said the court, both now adult daughter, even though the couple are over fifty years, he would divorce his wife if only to give "formal freedom. "<br> <br>Two daughters are opposed, but Chen Yun agreed, she said she understood his wife's mind.<br> <br>Husband can not move, Chen Yun to go to court pleadings delivery, turn the door three times, the judge know that she is not firm, said that special circumstances must the household survey. "Talk about easy, really go away, my legs are soft."<br> <br>23 am,http://vistamenu.com/menu-dynamique-xp.html, Cao Yubin Mentougou District Judge came home, to persuade leave, but the two mind has already decided, the Court had to give a civil mediation, permit divorce.<br> <br>From formal marriage, but the couple did not tell her, for fear the child unhappy and affect.<br> <br>Accident<br> <br>"Cao Yubin smashed, broken leg," answered the other side even three times, Chen Yun did not hear, but also to ask. The other side stormed away.<br> <br>Chen Yun feel from not divorce are the same, so many years, also came.<br> <br>Moreover, he had survived the most difficult period of circumstances.<br> <br>Perhaps due to the long-term busy, Chen Yun speaking speed to play like a machine gun, sometimes suddenly forget just talked about where we are,http://www.catorce6.com, she says, she is 51 years old, his mind a little confused.<br> <br>But October 24, 1985 this day, Chen Yun always remember that he was expecting two daughters, and preparation of Cao Yubin under the mine, took her to hospital for tests.<br> <br>9:00 more, 's sister-in-law suddenly rushed home shouting "Go, mine accident!"<br> <br>Small grew up playing in the plains, the mountains have never been to mine Chen Yun Mongolia. He ran out casually pull individual ask, "Zazhuo anyone?"<br> <br>"Cao Yubin smashed, broken leg," answered the other side even three times, Chen Yun did not hear, but also to ask. The other side stormed away.<br> <br>Baihutou village director Song Fuqiang recalls, Cao Yubin mine carts in the village at that time, workers loading too slow hands and feet, have ran buckle down, when the roadway collapsed, the whole buried, the monastery hospital can not cure, and was rushed to Jishuitan Hospital.<br> <br>Chen Yun rushed to the hospital, her husband's waist and legs broken. Relatives accompany the bed quietly advised her to do the abortion,http://accesio.com, "Cao Yubin one o'clock no better, your stomach is bigger, and no one to wait on you." But her mother said, students. Cao birth to a male baby to leave after the birth of a baby girl can and daughter for company.<br> <br>After the party secretary was heard, and family planning said that the second child not fined.<br> <br>After six months, Cao Yubin was discharged home, paraplegia, incontinence of urine are.<br> <br>Pressure<br> <br>It would just hurt, it does not go home, and Cao Yubin heart trouble, a trouble scolded her, "Get out of here."<br> <br>The village paid the medical bills, and he discuss remedies. Finally settled, the insurance company and the village a total pay 8500 yuan. This is a huge sum at the time, but Chen Yun feel worth. We can only accept their fate, 8,500 yuan in bank deposits and the interest to eat regularly.<br> <br>"Cao Yubin running out of patience, for three years he will be able to suffocate." Relatives and friends are saying, also thought to help find help pick (referring to Chen remarried), but Chen Yun refused, "we have remarried with Cao Yubin . "<br> <br>Year-old daughter, the youngest daughter just gave birth, her husband paraplegic, but Chen Yun said he will never ask for competent job. Busy not miss, she was a person down to earth, at noon home to cook her husband children, hides block bread return to the ground.<br> <br>Chen Yun want to fight on, but Cao Yubin not bear to let her stay.<br> <br>"It would just hurt, it does not go home, and I was tired, to find reason to call her 'Get out of here'." Cao Yubin said later relatives know, teach him a lesson, and was never said such a thing .<br> <br>A few years ago, civil administrators household survey, see Chen Yun, a very difficult, give four people have to do the minimal needs, and gave some other benefits, the town government official asked her, "Do not say to others that we work not carried out. "<br> <br> hold fast<br> <br>Prior to sterilize the blade with alcohol, and then cut off the rotten meat sandwiched tweezers, alcohol to disinfect the wound after dressing wrapped in gauze, nurses changing second drug half an hour, she was changed every two hours.<br> <br>Ground live tired, tired husband can not keep up to serve as Chen Yun understand care.<br> <br>Cao Yubin just hospitalized, have to stand for half an hour, Chen Yun could not move,http://www.sugowaza.jp, he could not sleep a wink all night. Later, Chen Yun in her husband to help him sit behind the pad chopping board, two weeks after a long bedsores, and into the hospital.<br> <br>1999 Spring Festival, the femur fixed needle wear when Cao Yubin turning out meat,http://www.tukipie.net/comono/index.cgi, Chen Yun and her daughter said, "Take the pliers, I pulled it."<br> <br>"Mom, you do not know, my dad pulled bad how to do?"<br> <br>"Can we not have to pull the hospital."<br> <br>Finally went to the hospital, because of money, the civil affairs department of a holiday not to work, Cao Yubin surgery dragged. It can not afford homes, for the first 40 days have a relative guarantee,http://isp-list.biz/cgi-bin/pseek/search2.cgi, he just let the hospital for surgery, "the thigh has been bleeding after surgery, the two volumes are not cover toilet paper, but fortunately he was lucky." Chen Yun said.<br> <br>Discharged after surgery had dressing change once every other day, every light drug money have nearly hundred dollars. A long time, pharmacy doctor said, you people came after noon, I concessions to you. Chen Yun noon to every major, profuse sweating, doctors letting her come in the evening, she was afraid influence people to work, they refused.<br> <br>Hospital nurse changing second drug 200 yuan, village doctors play second bottle also have five yuan. Chen Yun anxious,http://www.ishi-pax.com, and had to "steal division," pay attention to the doctors and nurses of the action. Prior to sterilize the blade with alcohol, and then cut off the rotten meat sandwiched tweezers, alcohol to disinfect the wound after dressing wrapped in gauze, nurses changing second drug half an hour, she was changed every two hours.<br> <br>"He did not lower body perception, I'm rolling." Chen Yun said, wiping away tears.<br> <br>Struggle<br> <br>Cao Yubin think, now children have a stable job, Chen Yun was tied up for too many years in this family, the freedom and choice.<br> <br>15, Cao Yubin sitting in their own kang, his perennial quilt, legs stiffly outstretched,peuterey spaccio, already unable to bend.<br> <br>Chen Yun sitting on the kang, do not speak, so accompanied.<br> <br>"If my wife remarried, or have a new life, it is with her." Cao Yubin said, thought himself alive after the accident but three years, he was to take care of so many years, satisfied. Cao Yubin think, had a small child, a divorce would bring harm to them, and now the children have a stable job, Chen Yun was tied up for too many years in this family, the freedom and choice.<br> <br>"To the family, do not say a worthwhile." Chen Yun said,http://demo.2e.my/016/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=349531&fromuid=67462, raising cats and dogs a long time there are feelings, not to mention, and they've had 28 years of her husband, and his soft-hearted, see a small TV where my missing father mother children cry themselves. So many years, I never thought of leaving him, and will not.<br> <br>Edition written / reporter Chen Po<br> <br>She is a quick temper,moncler pas cher, I can not see past experience was about to say, and very stubborn, he can carry things from it-yourself. But her heart is soft, one of my injury, the second is that children suffer, met these two think she started to cry.<br> <br>- Cao Yubin in the eyes of his wife<br> <br>His simple and honest, honest people, for so many years and I did not red face. I had complained about him selfish, but both say girl, my dad and my heart hurts you, but his mouth will not say. Over so many years, and I felt unlucky, but Tsao also did not enjoy the blessing.<br> <br>- Chen Yun in the eyes of her husband<br><br>
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