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  1. <br>Internet church husband, but he did not want the Internet to find the web lover, but also respect "the spirit of derailment", will not cause harm to the marriage! May 1, Q friends "grass flowers" to the newspaper business QQ for help, asking that her husband should not tolerate the spirit of the derailment? May 3, "grass flower" was invited to meet with reporters, a detailed account of what happened.<br> <br>Church Internet husband secretly engage in online dating<br> <br>"Grass flower" real name Mao Lijun, a Chaotianmen commerce company to do the accounting. She and her husband Zhao were born in 1968,http://www.xiyatour.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, working with at a unit. said Zhao former will not be online, where the department last year, a very frustrated with the computer, a home to complain that they do not understand the old computer and want to retire early.<br> <br>To this end, Mao Lijun August last year to buy a computer, I came home from work to spend a few hours every day to teach Zhao online. After more than a month, Zhao will use the computer, it is also handy work, very happy. Since then, Zhao work every day on the Internet bubble, most of the time to work the Internet bubble. A long time to some exceptions, Zhao came home the first thing Gordon QQ, and talk for most of the day. And Zhao's explanation is: are some Xiongdihuo chatted about playing.<br> <br>April 20 this year,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/summar, Zhao suddenly urgent within the toilet, QQ information voice came again, opening a hair look, friends, "savory Princess" sent to: her husband,louboutin pas cher, what are you doing ...... Mao immediately speechless with rage speak. She looked chats, as early as last November, Zhao on and the other to "husband and wife" proportionality, and chat, there are many disgusting words. In Zhao's friends, there are more than 80 women, there are 18 chat with Zhao's quite ambiguous.<br> <br>The couple is not divorced from the Cold War is entangled<br> <br>"See things brought to light,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3525, the husband acknowledged and 'doomed to' fall in love, so the Internet commensurate with spouses, but can only be considered 'spirit of the derailment', the two sides have never met." Mao Lijun angrily told reporters, also denounced her husband less is more strange, small mind, for the past two weeks has been in the two Cold War. Married for 20 years, Zhao has behaved,http://www.ygwssm.com/news/html/?8065.html, they had a very calm, did not think now actually have a "courtship" and that the spirit of betrayal only "game", which made her really unbearable. She did not know whether to tolerate her husband's "spiritual derailment", or choose divorce.<br> <br>Connection her husband: only web chat not be taken seriously<br> <br>In Mao Lijun's help, reporters and Zhao made contact. Zhao admitted the affair with "savory Princess", on February 14 this year, he was sent by courier to her bouquet of flowers, the two sides have never met. When talking about the reasons for online dating, Zhao said insipid daily life, since the start of online dating, he felt the spirit is very happy, but also very enjoy this long-lost passion. Zhao also constantly stressed: mental derailment, in law, there is no clearly defined offenses belong, indicating that the problem is not a big deal.<br> <br>He would also like to tell reporter Mao Lijun, he never wanted to betray wool or divorce on the body plan, the wife of radical reaction, and this is a break up the monotony of the game, do not take it seriously, he can terminate this courtship.<br> <br>After May 4, the reporter added, "savory Princess" as a friend and chat with, that the purpose of reporters,http://web.jinbo-web.com/4219/news/html/?3314.html, she refused to answer and relationships Zhao will pull reporters into the "blacklist."<br> <br>Investigation<br> <br>Q Friends of four percent against the "spirit of the derailment."<br> <br>May 5, the reporter in the newspaper business QQ conducted a survey entitled as follows: A: Do you have the spirit derailed it? B: a spirit of tolerance derailment, do not divorce; C: intolerance spirit of the derailment, divorce.<br> <br>As correspondent of press time, a total of 138 users for a reply: Yes 41 users chose the "A": admit that they have had or are mental derailment; there are 42 users chose the "B": the other side can accept the spirit of the derailment, not a divorce; There are 55 users chose the "C": intolerance, divorce.<br> <br>Hot<br> <br>Spouse "underground feeling" that should not forgive<br> <br>"Unbearable Review": derailment was the derailment, betrayal is a betrayal, but also quibble what mental,air max femme, physical, almost ridiculous, made a mistake but also so emphatic, such people do not deserve forgiveness.<br> <br>"Shuiyun": Spirit is an ideological thing that is not clear, it should be a lot of people have, Zhao can admit, I think it is very straightforward, you can consider giving it a chance to repentance.<br> <br>"Laughing": the body is derailed by the spirit of the derailment began. Between husband and wife is the most important spiritual cuddling, that is, the other party is not in your heart here, and also take a body to interesting it?<br> <br>"Wind dance": I have experienced the spirit of the derailment, both stimulating and very tangled, after the things brought to light, the family great harm, although the past two years, the couple did not fix the feelings come.<br> <br>Lawyers say<br> <br>Spirit of the derailment whether divorce judgment<br> <br>Chongqing Gee Tung lawyer early cloud Hubei, said the spirit of the derailment was not determining whether to grant a ground for divorce. "Marriage Law" clearly stipulates whether to grant a divorce, the only criterion is to see whether a complete breakdown of marital relations. According to the "Marriage Law" provisions of Article 32, paragraph 3: The People's Court divorce cases, one of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, it should be granted a divorce. (A) bigamy or has a spouse living with others; (2) domestic violence or abuse, abandonment of family members; and (c) gambling, drug abuse and other vices incorrigible; and (iv) because of emotional discord and separation of at least two years ; (5) other circumstances leading to the breakdown of marital relations.<br> <br>If the spirit of the derailment did not induce substantial issue, it should not be regarded as a serious hazard behavior of parties to a marriage relationship. If this does not reach his wife on her husband's understanding, the two sides thus creating feelings of a complete breakdown,doudoune canada goose,http://6kwn.biz/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2280049, then it constitutes grounds for divorce court.<br> <br>Expert opinion<br> <br>Psychological experts: Give him a chance to turn over<br> <br>Professor of psychology at Chongqing Normal University, Chongqing, Zhou Xiaoyan Psychology experts recommend screening Mao Lijun serious look, Zhao the spirit of the derailment is really just a game,louboutin homme, if it is,http://xiqu.com.au/forum.php/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=71901,doudoune moncler pas cher, you can give him some time to adjust, communication, education, and to watch for. If over a period of time, Zhao is still "spirit of the derailment,http://clg-julesmichelet.fr/spip.php?article39," it is no longer necessary to maintain completely betrayed sooner or later.<br> <br>Professor Zhou also advised "the spirit derailed" and being derailed by: Do not "eating a bowl, watching the pot", although, the spirit of the derailment look vain, however, the couple was able to get out of the experience, from the moral is reprehensible, do not go beyond the bottom line. In marriage, couples to be faithful to their feelings, to throw away the hypocrites on the network, it might be real feelings with his family because love must be rewarded.<br> <br>Sociologist: stable your marriage in good faith<br> <br>Municipal Academy of Social Sciences Associate Professor Li Guangrong said Zhao this age this phenomenon, known as a midlife crisis. Although the "spirit of the derailment," without breaking the law, but the phenomenon harm more harm than good, it disturbs the harmony and stability of the family, after all, marriage is built on stability, sincerity and harmony on the basis, in the absence of these three factor, that such a marriage will not last long.<br> <br>Middle-aged man like Zhao, of dull marriage lost passion, emotionally very easy to lose immunity, there is no resistance, the Internet is very easy to be tempted, very unstable emotionally, to the traditional cultural families easily take to a strong impact, giving families an cracks, bring a lot of harm to his family.<br> <br>If both husband and wife have a party this phenomenon should be promptly corrected, both sides frank, the cross-border marriage back on track road, facing different problems, different solutions to take early repair cracks marriage, after all, Internet is just a game, a dream.<br> <br>Excerpts of articles by reporter Liu Zhen Zhang Jing Lu Chang intern written<br> Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging (edit: SN014)<br>

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