<br>Nobody knows, this unique experience will leave a mark on how the 10-year-old girl Fifi in life. Nearly three years, in the vast area of Kunming, the only school after Fifi can go places, only Yunnan Red Cross Hospital. She was in the hospital corridor on a bench or bed doing homework, Chen Mei crowded at night with my mother to accompany the patient in bed together simple, slowly fall asleep.<br> <br>Fifi not alone. In the same hospital in the same floor, there is the same situation with her four children alone, the biggest 12-year-old, the youngest less than 3 years old. Although the distance between the hospital and the family is very far away, but these children are often able to meet their parents, uncle, aunt, aunt, uncle in the hospital ......<br> <br>These people are doing the same kind of career: carer.<br> <br>"Like a son of the pro-care workers"<br> <br>Chen Mei Zhang and her husband are the only hospital worker, two are long accompany the patient's daily life everything pipe, but ignored his own family.<br> <br>Chen first met when the United States, Fifi has no school. Chen Mei just pushing a woman from the hospital's little garden back to enjoy the cool air. She was very stiff, busy moving chair seat. Ward cramped space, to find a place to sit is not easy.<br> <br>The old lady said to the toilet, Chen Mei deftly mention to a bucket of hot water, placed on the toilet table, ready for a small teapot, wash basin connected in cold water, then weighing more than 80 kg heavier lady slowly help from the wheelchair down, holding her on the toilet moved. Chen Mei kept pouring warm water with a little teapot, along the old lady's tailbone down pouring, finally wearing rubber gloves as she cleaned. She explained that the old lady suffering from hemorrhoids, constipation, "We must so that it can." The same thing, she several times a day to do.<br> <br>Chen Mei looks thin, only half of the old lady's body weight. Initially, the old lady at home and requested the two care workers at the hospital to accompany her daughter often come and help. But each care workers are doing is not long, the shortest one, just stay on the old lady had a bathroom to walk away and quit, leaving put down one sentence:. "Patient too,http://cgi.kwkwkw.com, hold not move, for fear of flash to the waist." In the end, only the United States Chen has persevered, one to do that for five years. The past two years, the old lady's daughter busy child care home, to the hospital to accompany the time less.<br> <br>80-year-old lady, stroke, half of the body with limited mobility. Hospital whole floor is home to the elderly are similar illness. Chen Mei Zhang's husband was also a hospital worker,http://www.i-orff.com/news/html/?1022.html, a 80-year-old man escort. Zhang was followed by the elderly, from the Provincial Hospital of the Red Cross Hospital, has been for seven years. Chen Mei ward and ward work his work, only separated by three rooms.<br> <br>The couple a day every day of the work is repeated. Accompany the patient to do the treatment, to help patients face, feet, body scrub twice,woolrich parka, handling urine, serving patient meals, injections, medication,http://llo3ll.s35.xrea.com/yza-dou/88club/apeboard_plus.cgi/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=790/, pushing the patient to the outdoor walk ...... and monthly holding patient information, go to the hospital to do hospitalized turnover.<br> <br>Zhang before the photos were posted on the door of the ward elevator Hall of Fame, next it is written, "like a son of the pro-care workers." His old man accompanying the children busy with work, not much time to the hospital, all transactions by the Institutions to take care of the elderly.<br> <br>However, it is difficult to take care of themselves Zhang mother. The couple took their daughter to Kunming, the 70-year-old mother left alone in Xundian home. Zhang mother suffering from myocardial infarction, poor health. Sometimes relatives, neighbors and passes him the words of the old mother was seriously ill, and Zhang was on a day off to go home to visit, "morning to night, you have to come back at night had to accompany the patient in the hospital." Chen Mei escort lady has 5 years Only last year, the Spring Festival three days off over a trip back home. Her mother, everyone that said "My daughter went out a few years gone shadow, life and death do not know."<br> <br>Long stay in the ward<br> <br>To facilitate the escort, the couple returned the rental housing, living in the hospital. "Working day and night, regardless of the couple can not be together, not to mention raw baby,moncler sito ufficiale, feeling is gone."<br> <br>Ward to the people, the old lady love merry, motioning Chen Mei wheelchair pushed to next speaker. Chen Mei while talking to her, she tugged the old lady's hand massage.<br> <br>5 pm, Felice came back from school,http://dayan.chu.jp/DA/apeboard.cgi/, only to find Zhang two dollars, ran out and bought two popsicles, walked in front of the old lady, handed one. Chen Mei seeing, expertly fitted dentures to the old lady. Popsicle lady happy place to eat, suddenly blurting:. "Sleep at night, looking down, Chen in bed with two heads" with several ward care workers laugh: "That's not Chen and Fifi Well, they are female woman in a sleep. "<br> <br>Lady hands on the head gestures a bit, saying that "short hair", she shriveled up her lips, only a thin spit "Men" word.<br> <br>After a while, the old lady mumbled, she is very clear in the evening, at night to look knew Chen Zhang, dare take the main entrance to Pachuang past. "Chen legs, cross to the next step on it!" Chen United States have no choice but to laugh. He stuck his head through the window, counting the last three windowsill, only to see the walls bare. Here is the 10th floor,air max femme, more than 30 meters high from the ground, down a cool breeze. One of the older carer quipped:. "Fifi are 10 years old, Chen old age is not small milk, Do not you call people a night stand, Cayao, Chen put a night off, let her small Zhang had time together, the birth of a baby. "After listening,http://www.92yyz.com/thread-56932-1-1.html, the old lady Bu Zhisheng.<br> <br>Zhang and Chen Mei was the couple really want to have another child, but it has been so wasted down, has no clear timetable.<br> <br>Opposite the male ward care workers over Li Yanliang guesthouse. He said very directly:. "This work, regardless of the day and night, the couple can not be together, let alone born baby, feeling is gone."<br> <br>Many couples double carer families will rent an apartment near the hospital, but because of night to accompany the patient, the child left alone in the rented room do not worry,http://witches.kabotya.com/apeboardplus/apeboard_plus.cgi/,, only the child to the hospital. The only role of rental housing is at noon and in the evening to cook a meal each.<br> <br>Chen Mei North River Ridge had also rented a house in the village, but the couple accompany patients they are old and sick, there is no time to eat their families to replace even have time to go back to cooking. To save money, Chen Mei just put the house back up.<br> <br>Perennial stay in the hospital, Fifi accustomed, often crying. She wanted to go home, ask their parents over and over again, "Why should I go to Kunming to attend school." During the summer vacation, Fifi was sent back home, every time closing off going back to Kunming,barbour soldes, she hiding, unwilling to get on the train.<br> <br>Chen said the United States, her mother in poor health, child and nobody in the home; can even Fifi in Kunming, the couple can not help their children learn. "I read only the second grade, he (the Institutions) is a primary school." She smiled bitterly.<br> <br> & Nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp,http://peizzcbbs.com.106.mountor.com/showtopic-45367.aspx; "Everything is for the money."<br> <br>When care workers is higher than the income of farming. As long as there are relatives and friends in Kunming hospital care workers, will introduce each other. A long time, "family care workers" in the hospital take shape.<br> <br>Accompany the patient in the hospital, there are a lot of fragmented time. During leisure, Chen Mei took out shoes to sew. Uppers are pale green fabric embroidered one pair of red duck. Zhang was the embroidery stitch, it is huge for "extra cash."<br> <br>"Hands do not do something tough time ah!" Zhang was less than 40 years old,scarpe hogan, his face has been covered with the vicissitudes of life.<br> <br>Li Yanliang you do not want to do it manually, he likes to jump left foot Yi dance. Weekend, as long as there is idle, Li Yanliang took banjo to play the harp Lake, dancing, patient care will be given to his wife. But the patient's family is very happy to know the future, and he disputed several times, he had to try to converge, "every thirty-four weeks will go once."<br> <br>Li Yanliang accompanying a 70-year-old man has been almost three years. Hot weather, he carefully took out a tissue to wipe wheelchair for the elderly. But he was outspoken, blunt people say: "A few years down the rule are so good it is impossible." After listening to the old man, face expressionless. Holidays, the elderly will still be carrying a family, to plug a Li Yanliang a hundred.<br> <br>"Conscience is out to dry, Qindie real mother can not take care of to such a degree. I do not hide, I do all this for the money." Li Yanliang had to make a living by driving, but a few years ago out a car accident, no one ear, and also injured a leg, a hundred thousand dollars spent on medical treatment. Plus before he moved with his family, a new house owe a lot of money, and made the family debt.<br> <br>Money is not easy in rural areas, help people live dry day, but income hundred dollars. But in Kunming care workers, basic daily wage in more than 100 yuan,http://www.hkheaven.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4013, 200 yuan higher to go to.<br> <br>Because income is relatively high, as long as the village or relatives and friends in Kunming hospital care workers, we will introduce each other to come and. Over time, a large family to Kunming care workers are common. Li Yanliang home, in addition to his wife, there Dayi Zi, sister, brother in law, cousins, and a dozen people in the same department care workers. While Zhang was at home, in addition to his wife, he still has the same department cousin, cousin at the same hospital when care workers.<br> <br>According to public data, Kunming accompanying carer about 5000 on the market.<br> <br><br><br>Previous 12 Next<br><br>
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