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 Henan Chinese Commercial News reporters Duan Yanchao and Shi Xisheng Fan Jiafu Friends call her shopping,doudoune moncler pas cher, she did not dare to go, never again to travel through. Sometimes, she felt with the community, "somewhat disjointed": One time, a friend told her about the fund, she replied, "I used to Mrs. Le Chicken." More "maddening" is that as children grow, rising prices, she found herself eager but unable to go full-time wife of the "vicious circle." Her past I love to travel, fancy clothes directly buying This year 38 years old, she already had white hair. "I did not think he would become now." Sat on the living cell corridor, Lee seems to have lost. Lost, from 2005 full-time wife began. In early 2004,http://czsn365.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=5533991708, Ms. Lee and her husband married, "we were introduced to the others, before marriage, he did sell a food company in Zhengzhou, more than 4,000 yuan a month during the peak season, during the low season less than a month to 3,000 yuan." At that time, Ms. Lee in Guangdong to do accounting, work is not tired, the monthly income of nearly 2,000 yuan. Loves to travel, fashion, slim her, "Wuhan, Suzhou have been to a lot of places, seen like clothes directly to buy." Married that year, Ms. Lee returned to Zhengzhou after pregnancy. "My mother died early, her mother and father was 60 years old, her mother to take care of paralyzed woman in bed milk, but also farming, it is to get away." She said. 2005,http://thomassankara.net/spip.php?article1353, three months before labor, the resignation of Ms. Lee's husband home to take care of her. When she was 31 years old, belong to older mothers, before entering the operating room one day, her mother arrived at Zhengzhou. She gave birth to her daughter three months later,http://www.gpwos.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=167595&fromuid=13183, her mother back home. "It was too costly, her husband re-find a job, her daughter is too small, must bring their own." Since then, Ms. Lee to start full-time wife. Ms. Lee is a friend to children babysitter "20 ceiling of 1,800 yuan," Ms. Lee felt out on my own work in addition nanny, "tantamount to nanny work." "This is the one to do full-time wife for seven years before never thought I would do full-time wife." Lee looked helpless. And Lee is different from a lot of women want to do full-time wife. According to media reports,woolrich outlet italia, more than twenty thousand women in the workplace to investigate Forty per cent have children after marriage hope to do full-time wife. Survey results showed that 35.58% of respondents believe that full-time wife's biggest advantage is the "free, can arrange their own time." She now Afraid to go shopping, feeling and social dislocation A year before marriage, Ms. Lee and her husband in Zhengzhou City, a district bought a 120 square meters of the house, spent nearly 300,000 yuan. "Pay a 70,louboutin soldes femme,000 down payment, mortgage nearly 2,000 yuan a month." After her daughter was born, Lee found less of a person's salary, more than a mouth, "My husband's salary was calculating the flowers." Over the years, she was shopping with a friend called Lee "do not dare", add two to silver-based Amoy clothes are also taking advantage of off-season discounts when buying. Shanghai World Expo, the friend call Lee to play last year,tn reuqin pas cher, "I heard that only 80 yuan to buy a ticket, I think kids can play, think about or forget." Lee was born in rural areas, before marriage would do housework. "I do not hate housework, pretty diligent." Ms. Lee said, her daughter 3 years old were sent to the district has more than 10 minutes away from the nursery, 1000 yuan per month. Now, her daily life: in the morning to get up 7:10, 7:20 wake up call daughter, daughter to kindergarten later went home to pack houses, then just eat the night before the rest of the stuff, then general 8:00 30 minutes or so, until 16:30 to pick up the child, one day very relaxed. Occasionally, she was meeting the Internet, doing most of the work with the district to other full-time wife shopping,http://snowstorm.sourceforge.net/cgi-bin/site.cgi, chat. "Sometimes,http://www.tenipa.net/16/cgi-bin/memo/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=10/, I felt somewhat out of touch with the community." Ms. Lee said, for example, before the marriage she bought the fund, in 2007 the hottest time of the Fund, a friend called to tell her funds, she replied, "I used to Mrs. Le Chicken" . Lee graduated from college, she said the district there are many full-time wife, some are highly educated, "he said fast idle crazy." And "Lee" were different, Ms. Lai work in the media, after the resignation of children home to do full-time wife, but "tolerance" less than three months in turn back the unit. "After doing a full-time wife, spend her husband's money, I did not dare to buy new clothes too. The key is I can not stand the feeling of doing nothing. Later I asked nanny, back to work." Ms. Lai said. Her future Inability to escape full-time wife of the "vicious circle" Ms. Lee's husband has now been raised to the manager, the monthly salary of 5,000 yuan. Lee consideration is the daughter of next year to elementary school, on public elementary schools, to care relationship acquaintances, have to pay school fee, "I thought this annoying, want to go out to work." Lee also tried, but found not afford to escape full-time wife of the "vicious circle" because "vicious circle" of the knot - the children. One of my friends had recommended to her telephone customer service jobs, 1,500 yuan monthly salary. "There is not, how do children, 17:00 nursery school, can not find where to go to work 5:00 to work." She said. Last year, Ms. Lee's district, there are full-time wife then handiwork, saying that earn more than 3000 yuan per month, no commitment think, paid the deposit material, after the good things people collect things has "disappeared." She also thought about opening a clothing store business, but one afterwards to invest hundreds of thousands, to give up. Sometimes, she will feel wronged, will be angry, but very considerate of her good-natured husband. Late last year, Ms. Lee decided to start her husband, set up their own milk beverage companies,http://www.51yam.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=,moncler Outlet, two of their relatives to borrow 400,000 yuan. "We did not save money to live, all borrowed, and I support him to try again, but did not imagine smoothly. If lost ......" Lee is very low, "I really can not." Henan Business Daily reporter through QQ retrieve "housewife",http://framasoft.net/spip.php?article1077, "full-time wife", "full-time mom" and other words, the emergence of more than 670 related QQ group. "Had to take care of children and their families, I volunteered to give up his job, and now feel big pressure, Zuosa not free, what things have to be restricted." Netizen "orange," said her full-time wife all day to get rid of things downtown heart, but it has remained "helpless." Interactive So what helped you to recruit full-time wife out of the "vicious circle" Yesterday, the Henan Business Daily Sina Weibo published on "full-time wife," the topic, causing many users attention. "If want to go out to work, then weigh the work income and expenditure nanny please, if it is profitable, individuals are willing, then went to work right." Netizens "utopian" said. Mr. friends said: "Be a full-time wife will live, fish and bear's paw can not have both,http://www.tdxledu.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=3854662&fromuid=405126, not to mention the children, family and work." Netizen "Dutch dated Fantasy" that "full-time wife's life is not terrible, not shackles, the key is a woman not for children, families lost their self-consciousness and self-improvement culture. Woman's greatest cause is to become her own." 

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