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"Tiger mother" of two daughters grasp very strict musical training. CFP for this is the "tiger mother," a four in an old photo. (Photo by respondents) "Tiger Mom" Amy Chua children that she wrote what is his 13-year-old daughter succumbed to the story, outside misread her; she thought the child's discipline and creativity can take care of, but the "Chinese-style education" should be more lenient January this year, Yale University Law School professor, 49-year-old native of Fujian, China, Cai children will experience two daughters education staging itself into an English essay collection "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" was published, quickly led to a focus on Europe and the West education merits debate. "Tiger Mom" Amy Chua children has been questioned by the Western media and public criticism. In mid-January, the Chinese version of the book publishing and selling, Chinese readers have joined the "Tiger Mom Education" polemics among - is to discipline? Or to creativity? "I think there is no discipline children will not creative." Recently, in the United States in New York in an interview with Amy Chua children's e-mail interview with this reporter said. The self-proclaimed "comparative excellence and too harsh on people," the mother is not as stubborn outsiders imagine,http://e-jomsa.jp, she pens a year after the book to reflect the junction, he said: "Children need to follow a different personality, to give more options , especially after they grow up. " Chua children particularly like to clarify to Chinese readers, she is not a "tyrant queen." "A lot of places in the book is fun to read, and my daughters were very close relationship - we are best friends." Text / reporter Wang Danyang 2006, suspense novel "The Interpretation of Murder" was published and then boarded the domestic bestseller list in China. Author of the book named Judd Rubenfeld (Jed & nbsp; Rubenfeld), their job is constitutional law expert, Professor of Law at Yale University, he is also a suspense novel writer. Judd unforeseen, his wife - born in the United States, the growth of second-generation Chinese immigrant children will be the same with professional Chua beyond a "parenting" boarded a best-selling book of the two countries in five years list, and in the East-West whipped up a "tiger mom hot." "Tiger Mom" controversy Unreasonable "ten law allowed" By the end of 2009 to early 2010, Yale Law School professor Amy Chua children use eight weeks of leisure time, he wrote a own educational experience essays, and published by the famous Penguin on January 9 this year. Editing took an interesting title: "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother." In the book, "Tiger Mom" describes how two daughters educate themselves severely, making all A's performance "musical genius" and how to make big success in 14-year-old daughter Sophia login Carnegie Hall recitals. & Nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; And in the past to promote "harmony" godson different book, this book apart from Amy Chua children and children "wits" experience, but also the "murderous." For example,http://spark.cjlu.edu.cn/newbbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=133751, to make Sophia completed at least 90 minutes a day practicing, "tiger mother" to her daughter will be thrown mantra: "If the next time you play the wrong note, I'll put all your furry critters thrown fire reduced to ashes. " This writing is lively, vivid case "godson by" one week after the publication of non-fiction books boarded the first American Amazon. In China, the title of this book is "My mother in the United States", published marketing editor Alex publishers Ma Ying introduction,http://demo.bunze.com/b2017/news/html/?10109.html, publishing date from mid-January, the amount of the book have been printed more than 50,000. In the book, while hot,http://egassembler.hgc.jp/cgi-bin/eassembler4.cgi, "tiger mother" of education has attracted a steady stream of questions and criticism. January 8, "Wall Street Journal" in the form of summaries of the introduction of this book, the title of the article is "Why Chinese mother superior? . " On the claim that strict discipline of Chinese families so that children in the United States outstanding performance, while Western parents were in "respect for children's personality," the excuse to give up their responsibilities. Article specifically mentioned the "tiger mother" in unreasonable book said "ten are not allowed to rule": No "out overnight, and made an appointment to play with other children, to participate in school drama, watching television or playing computer games, choose their own extracurricular activities, in subjects other than sports and drama is not the first, except piano or touch any instrument other than the violin ...... " After the article was published, on the "tiger mother" to denounce rapid warming: "She is suspected of child abuse." "She was crazy, would give her daughter to leave the psychological shadow" ...... Chua children revealed to the media that he even received. mail death threats. Severe education The sense of immigrant families In the month of "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" pre-publication "International students' ability assessment" of the US annual results announcement, American students score ranked No. 17 overall, and for the first time to participate in the test of Shanghai students ranked first. "Time" magazine commented bluntly, "Tiger Mom phenomenon" appeared, on the one hand is harsh east Westerners unacceptable way education; on the other hand, education Chua children mentioned, touched American nerves. Why Chua children to use harsh methods to educate themselves a daughter,scarpe hogan outlet? Why must force the daughter to practice piano and violin? The 49-year-old Cai child born in a Chinese family of intellectuals. Her father Sang is famous University of California at Berkeley professor of computer. As described in the book, Chua children from an early age to accept the harsh but there is no lack of warmth of China Family Education. For example, at home, say Chinese, otherwise it will be the parents thugs plate with chopsticks; because in the eighth grade history exam "only" finished second, she let my father shouted "shame." At the same time, Cai children's childhood is full of warmth, she still remembered her father recommended her to eat DQ ice cream and took her skiing, camping happy experience. Let's look at Chua children and sisters Education: Graduated from Harvard Law School Chua children, her two sisters were Yale and Harvard MA, PhD. Of particular note is that Chua child congenital disability sister Tang beautiful tone won two gold medals in the Paralympic Games. Cai children in opinion,http://demo.web300.cn/free8/Review.asp?NewsID=627, those childhood outsiders "terrorist incomparable" story, just let her and her sisters learned the strength and confidence to make progress. More importantly, Cai children harbor "warm boiled frog" sense of urgency. Her husband Judd is an American Jew; their children are truly third-generation immigrants. As a second-generation American immigrant, she worried about their children's lives in the affluent degradation, thus fall into the immigrant families, "the rich, but three generations" of fate. So, she decided two daughters stringent requirements, she said:. "Play the piano, the violin does not make people in the spoil to fall, lazy and rude" Thinking tiger mother She also had a rebellious youth Reporters noted that in around the "tiger mother" of a flood of debate,peuterey prezzi, many of them just read the "excerpts" and "Book Review" on the published opinions of the readers vivid. Chua children also noticed this, one of her interviewer's request, is "Please complete reading this book." In the book, although the "tiger mother" of the child is subjected to high standards and strict requirements of the tutor, but she finally was "defeat" in revolt daughter Lulu - Lulu resigned teenagers Symphony Orchestra concertmaster, turn And into her own favorite tennis training. From this perspective, this book is not so much "dictatorship Queen" parenting experience to talk about, as it is an "American mother" after the hit written memoirs - "Tiger Mother" began to reflect on how the Chinese and Western cultures Blending taken in mixed mode of education to cultivate children. Tiger mother in the book and asked: Why fully accept Western-educated husband Judd and under strict tutor children grow Chua hard to compete with professional achievement,http://www.88822.com/#87788/read.php?tid=980? Chua children even earlier than her husband to become a tenured professor at Yale Law School. Why home bird IQ (intelligence quotient) high dog actually can not understand even the dog can understand the low IQ password? Why youth "rebellion" of Cai refused to parents about the child in college, career and even after the Chinese plan to be married, he has made today's results? Cai children, said she longed to Chinese readers can not "misreading" of her. She revealed:. "This book was written some scenarios for fun, in fact the relationship between my daughter and I are very close, we're best friends." Many people may ignore, Cai children in the English version of the preface of the book, wrote: "In fact, this writing is about the somewhat bitter cultural conflict, a fleeting sense of pride,louboutin homme, and how I succumbed to a 13-year-old little girl. " "I'm not parenting experts." Cai children, she said she wrote only their own experience. How to get kids out of one of their own way? Chua children are thinking. Dialogue Cai children: "Tiger Mom" does not mean that severe, but because I am a tiger Guangzhou Daily: Many Chinese readers to know you, probably because the foreign media call you a "tiger mother." "Tiger Mom" this funny name come from? Do you like this word it? Cai children: I do not like is called "tiger mother." In Chinese, "tiger mother" sounds something worse. Then use the "tiger mother" as a title, is because I was born in Year of the Tiger, tiger represents the positive, courage,peuterey outlet online, self-confidence and stringent. And I am, I am a very demanding, assertive person. My father always said: talk to the owner explained that the tiger mom is not representative of harsh, but the Chinese zodiac. Guangzhou Daily: life how you are a mother, is a strong, manipulative people? How do your students see you, is a strict teacher or mentor? & Nbsp; Cai children: I may be a relatively pursuit of excellence in people, two daughters requirements are more stringent. In this book, I am a role shortcomings, and my daughters are heroes. In this book, I want to clarify is that the girls and my relationship is very close - we are best friends. They would tell me their secrets, will make fun of me, we've always joke with, has been laughing ah laugh. I guess my students may be more to me as a friend. I have a good relationship with the students, I used to get through Yale University's "Best Teaching Award." Guangzhou Daily: the Western reader, the Chinese readers of the book controversial education is not new. But "too far", how to discipline your child grasp the "degree"? Cai children: I think Chinese education should loose some. My students have come from China and Korea, they are the class of the most diligent. I often say to them: relax, do not think twice before, to try to express themselves more. I want to say is that we need to follow children of different personalities, to give more choices. When children are very small, Chinese education is very important, because they did not know how to do is correct. If you give an 8-year-old children to choose: keep friends playing or practicing the violin? He certainly choose the former. But when the children to the thirteen-year-old, if they do find something they like, then we can properly give them more choices. For example, my eldest daughter is very cute,http://bbs.pushdo.net/home.php?mod=space&uid=122069, I can use a very harsh way to treat her. But my little daughter is very rebellious,http://www.pizza-lafo.de, when she was 13 years old, I find that our relationship crisis. I respect her choice: give up the violin, she turned to practice their favorite tennis. Guangzhou Daily: In the Chinese education environment, a lot of kids are prone to lack of autonomy and innovation, and even after they grow up accustomed to obedience and still be arranged. In your experience, how Chinese parents should do? Cai children: This is the people's misunderstanding. We always thought, "discipline" and "creativity" the two can not have both. Westerners will say: "Leaving aside the rules, you have to create it!" The result children at the computer all day doing nothing. I think there is no discipline children, there will be no creativity. My father was a very clever inventor,louboutin femme, some people even thought he could get the Nobel Prize. On the one hand he is a very disciplined person, often work until 3:00; on the other hand, he loves to travel, like to see the book biology, like music, art, have helped him to better innovation in the field of mathematics. & Nbsp; & nbsp; In the past, Chinese children's learning in the field is limited, I think now is the time to encourage them to learn more, such as poetry, jazz, such as Western and African books. Guangzhou Daily: With the economic conditions turn for the better, more Chinese parents began to yearn for Western liberal pursuit of individual education. Environment for the growth of each person different, what makes you have the confidence to implement Chinese education to her daughter's body? & Nbsp; Cai children: I firmly believe that the "Chinese-style" approach to education had a lot of merit. My parents (who in the 1960s to attend graduate schools in the United States) with a very harsh, traditional way to raise me and my three sisters, instilled in us a lot of values: hard self-discipline, respect for the elderly, responsible, do not complain about others. Recalling the past, my parents I placed great expectations, as well as unconditional love - is the world's most precious gift. Until today, I still heart Huaiqin Pei parents and gratitude. They have always been my greatest source of strength. These parents have given me, I hope to give my daughter. 

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