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Yesterday afternoon, the two junctions in a hotel, the counselors enlighten, mother and son crying hold phase. Yesterday, Ran Jiexi walked to her mother, and handed water and paper towels. 3 years 10 Lai Yu Hebei mother advised child into state-owned track To persuade his son to return home employment of state-owned enterprises, 57-year-old mother of 3 to 10 times Hebei to Chongqing missing children, 27-year-old son, and therefore caught in pain. Yesterday, the newspaper reported in version 16 of the "mother cried to refuse to persuade children into state-owned enterprises, and finally no good", not only in the network raises questions over whether young people should choose lively discussion within the system of employment,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/index.php?/news/comments/20091204+AF8-google+AF8-public+AF8-dns+ACIAPg-http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/index.php?/news/comments/20091204+AF8-google+AF8-public+AF8-dns+ADw-/a+AD4, but also caused, including CCTV 1 set , attention CCTV 12 sets, Hunan Satellite TV and other media. Yesterday, CCTV 1 set, 12 sets of CCTV and Hunan Satellite TV, Liaoning TV, Southern TV and many other TV media have made this newspaper 966 966 hotline, and hope that the newspaper together, the matter of common concern. In addition, the newspaper of "Mother cried to refuse to persuade children into state-owned enterprises, and finally no good," the report, but was rushed reproduced Sina, Sohu, Netease and other large Internet sites. Reporters noted that, as of 17:00 yesterday, Sohu has 20,canada goose pas cher,296 users participated in this discussion, there are 45,552 people on Netease. Baidu and Sina, respectively, in the social news and social livelihood chart reproduced in this news forum. Yesterday morning, the two junctions pioneering hotels,doudoune moncler, rapid footsteps from time to time between the incoming corridor from 608 rooms, Liu Ximei get up early as usual, she copied more than 50 "missing person", intended to Chongqing, the most popular places to go to post,air max outlet, but I hesitated a long time, because she had to repeatedly think clearly a problem, "doing so, you will forced him (son) can not come to see me?" In the end, Liu Ximei abandoned. Morning brokered, the son promised to see his mother At noon yesterday, Ranjie Xi (a pseudonym), such as about two junctions appear in the Yuzhong District. A meeting, he smiled Chongqing Morning News reporter, said:. "Sorry to trouble you, I'm sorry." The 27-year-old youth, height 1.80 m, wearing glasses, speak leisurely, seemed calm and gentle. Look, family conflicts, it did not bring his obvious emotional impact. Chongqing Morning News Invite career guidance teacher, and later face recognition Ranjie Xi, he said he has over the age of maturity. 608 at the junction of two pioneering hotel room, mother and child reunion. This meeting, mother and son are trying to open the door to each other. However, this does not mean to solve the problem. Life goes on, the mother and son to untie the knot, nor a moment of power. Yesterday, the two junctions a mother and child reunion hotel, they talk carefully, trying to avoid the topic of dispute. Son agreed to meet Mother emotional control Throughout the morning, stayed in room No. 608, hands clinging to the phone, hoping heading for news of his son. 12:00, reporters, after repeated communication with , he finally agreed to come to the hotel to meet with the mother. But the premise is that the mother can hope to restrain emotions, do not fight, no trouble, calm communicate with each other. "He promised? Thankfully, he finally agreed to ......" after learning of the news, Liu Ximei cried, but I heard his son to meet the premise of her emotions once again out of control, "he listen to me into the state-owned work, I would trouble?" But after the calm, Liu Ximei no longer angry. At noon, the hotel's guests who have to go out to dinner, Liu Ximei refused to go out, "I'm afraid that I go, son how to do?" Meet with his son, Liu Ximei was very nervous, the whole afternoon,Piumini moncle, she did not eat, they afraid to miss the meeting with his son, even though time is agreed to meet at two in the afternoon. I heard my mother crying Son not close 13:40, Liu Ximei emotions out of control again, her hand closing the door, wrapped himself into the yard was crying, repeating the words, "I Pinlelaoming 10 times to Chongqing to take him back, I figure What?" In this case, the national senior career guidance teacher Lin Hao, Chongqing Fairchild educational psychology expert Li Jie service companies rushed to develop the hotel. Liu Ximei face is out of control state, the two experts said, we must first stabilize her emotions, otherwise the mother and son in this meeting, will inevitably broke up. More than 10 minutes later, according to the agreed time, Ran Jiexi arrived two junctions. He said the meeting with his mother, now need enough courage, "I have arrived,http://www.postyourasian.com, but did not dare to come. Really, endless trouble for three years, I'm afraid my mom." In the bus station Stay for a while, Ran Jiexi decided to face his mother. Hotel, 608 rooms that Hebei mother's son to come, several attendants has been watching the elevator, "Hello, I'm son ......" wearing rimless glasses, sweater with jeans, when the height 1.80 m handsome young man appeared at the door, many guests went to cast his eyes, Ran Jiexi instinctively avoid these vision and want to leave as soon as possible. But toward the 608 room did not come out a few steps, Ran Jiexi suddenly stopped. Inter corridor, came crying sound, which made him not close, "I'll wait a while to go." Any expression did little surprised, Ran Jiexi turned to leave, "In the past, too, this time I just go in, the next step is to play, that is the curse ...... endless bickering." Mother emotional stability Experts offer advice to children To see such a scenario, two experts to talk with the mother and son decided to split up, hoping the two sides can meet in a stable mood. No. 608-room, difficult to heal emotional mother, to accept the psychological grooming expert Li Jie; more than 10 meters, the son and Lin Hao had an up to 40 minutes of conversation. "Do you smoke?" Liu Ximei cries constant reports, Lin Hao took out cigarettes, intended for Ran Jiexi relieve mood. "No, thank you, I do not smoke." Ran Jiexi waved, looked very calm. "Young man, hate your mother?" "Do not hate, I knew she was good for me, but this year I can not say enough ...... did not complain." Lin Hao-led efforts to guide the conversation, punctuated Ran Jiexi speak. However, Ran Jiexi politely, but it looks very assertive, "You're quite right, I was thinking, but ......" Then, in front of reporters about the past, he seemed orderly, polite and decent. Three years of "Mother and Child of War" tells Ran Jiexi surprisingly calm, because the mother's reasons for including his enemies with his family, was forced to resign,http://www.masologne.org/spip.php?article176, to move, which makes Lin Hao sigh, "Young man, you are 85 years, but the heart is very strong These experiences not everyone can accept their peers. " "I'm used to it, get used to it." Glazed eyes staring at the ground, Ran Jiexi helpless smile. "Since you are so brave, why have not the courage to face this thing? To persuade mothers, accept your choice?" In the face of repeated questioning Lin Hao, Ran Jiexi silent "communication many times, but did not use, to Finally, always noisy, always busy ...... a long time I did not want to communicate. " Choose to escape, this is the only way to face the mother now. "You think? Put another way, perhaps you can communicate with the mother." For the next meeting, to make recommendations to Lin Hao, "whether or not agree with the mother's point of view, first stabilize the mother's emotional apology, admit. " Son handed him a tissue Break stalemate Lin Hao Ran Jiexi accepted the proposal, silent waiting outside, he wants to calm the mother can meet with their emotions. 15:20, room No. 608 is no longer heard crying sound, Liu Ximei calmly sitting on the bed, his eyes staring at the floor confused, more than 20 meters long corridor quieted down. "Let's go!" Ran Jiexi up, took a deep breath after the decision No. 608 into the room. Door open, footsteps,http://www.xinhelan.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Liu Ximei know son, she straight Zhi Yao, but did not look up, sat down beside his mother, the Ran Jiexi also want to go back up gently. 7 square meters cubicle where no one take the initiative to speak, do not look at the other one. Mother and son in this meeting, although unlike in the past bickering,http://www.itanon.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=792402, blame, but had opted for silence. "Mom, I was wrong, do not be angry into it ......" A minute later, Ran Jiexi courage to break the silence, let Liu Ximei this sentence again and sobbed. In the past two years,http://www.shusheng.me/p-79304-1-1.html, because of the endless bickering, Ran Jiexi did not take the initiative to call too soon "mother", which made Liu Ximei has been difficult to accept. Hands tightly grabbed blankets, also efforts to control the emotions, when turned to look at his son, has his face and tears. "Why you do that? Why you do that?" Liu Ximei raised his hands, unable to put down soon. "Young man, give your mother a glass of water to go." With the mood to see his mother again, Lin Hao Ran Jiexi quickly to wink. After a few seconds, holding a glass of water, Ran Jiexi handed before , "Mom, you drink water,http://framasoft.net/spip.php?article2018, drink water to say." This time,woolrich outlet, no more reminders, Ran Jiexi smoothly Cheguo tissue together to Liu Ximei hands. Mother and son of stalemate, this break. Topics to avoid disputes Mother and child care to get along The next over one hour, the "state-owned enterprises into" words, mother and son carefully taboo with, no one no longer mentioned. Under the guidance of psychological expert Li Jie, Ran Jiexi childhood memories about being constantly raised, and the mother's face, began to have a smile, a little bit tense atmosphere was broken. "Do you remember as a child, my mother is how you embrace it?" See Ranjie Xi nodded, Li Jie Liu Ximei tried approached the mother, "to give his son a hug, hug him, to see that his son still had it?" Liu Ximei did not speak , silent raised his right hand, and instinctively shrink back. But soon, she again tried to slowly hand on his son on his shoulders, hugged his son moment, mother and son burst into tears. Recalled the days before his son graduated from college,http://mirabeau.mints.ne.jp/armgun/arm_cgi/armgun.cgi, not because of the employment dispute regarding the initiation, said, the family harmony, it was her happiest moments, "but for three years, because of this thing, the whole family is struggling . " "Liu aunt, another angle to think about, your son more independent, which is good luck, ah, what also noisy it?" See psychologists boast son, wiped the tears laughing. Watching his son, Liu Ximei said: "I grew up Loved him (Ran Jiexi), three children in his most intimate, but now ......" words to the mouth, she quickly put up back unpleasant things, mother and son carefully the taboo. The whole afternoon talking to Liu Ximei has pulled his son's hand, reluctant to let go. Expert Weapon & gt; 1. The mother tried to let go, I believe his son has the ability to be independent to face life. 2. Try to change the concept of the mother. Love children, we must start from the understanding of children, to really stand the child's position to consider the issue, learn to respect the child. 3. The son also should recognize that open up, the importance of communication with the mother, the mother's understanding goodwill mind. 4. The two sides dispute reduction, learn to understand each other before each argument, try to convince myself to calm down. 5. In the contradiction between the two sides, the attitude of other family members often determine developments. 6. When the irreconcilable contradictions, ask a third party intervention, psychological counseling if necessary, to avoid a relapse into extremes. Edition text / Chongqing Morning News chief reporter intern Liubing Xin Wang Shan Excerpts Figure / Chongqing Morning News reporter Li Bin Share: welcome to comment I want to comment microblogging Recommended | hot microblogging today (edit: SN055) 

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