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 Recently, the net posts hot Nanjing parents issued a transfer sparked heated debate. According to reports,http://www.ad-visor.net,canada goose femme, the relatives of a third grade class leader in children, has begun to enjoy the convenience of power,moncler outlet online, openly sent students received "bribe." In response, some parents worry greatly, and some parents said a cause for concern, take it lightly on the line. Friends broke the news & gt; & gt; & gt; Third grade class leader began recipient of child According to reports, the teacher usually something out or we study hall, it will allow the temporary supervision of the class monitor,http://www.pixian.sc.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, some people do not listen to or breach of discipline, the squad leader right to put their names written on the blackboard, "exposure", was exposed person and ultimately, to accept the meal reprimanded or punished. Forced the squad of "despotic," some of her classmates will take the initiative to bring something to eat, such as oranges be friendly to him,http://www.just-service.co.jp, I hope he can show mercy, not exposure. Rebellion users commented, "listen to this child enraptured say it, I really stuck in my throat, I do not know what to say, it is called abuse of power what is the nature of this" "I really do not know the happy or the sad, and officialdom same. Even primary school could not find a pure place yet," the reporter saw the net posts the Internet one day, it has sparked discussion Dozens of parents, for this, parents' attitudes vary. Reporter investigation & gt; & gt; & gt; Pupils send something quite common climb relations Whether it is an isolated phenomenon, or the prevalence of reporters launched a survey, interviewed more than parents, many parents said indeed encountered this phenomenon. "My child is in third grade this year, their class monitor is a girl, usually also often holding a feather when the authority arrow, quick to snitch to the teacher, many children are afraid of her." Ms. Qiu child Shimonoseki area Riverside primary school, she yesterday told reporters that his children at home are more mischievous character, in order to prevent "calculating", and sometimes does to this monitor "bribe." Ms. Qiu said, because the school usually not to eat snacks, children with fruit only after lunch, so every time her children will bring home some apples, pears,http://head.as.wakwak.ne.jp, grapes, after lunch to the squad, and occasionally boast She is very beautiful, and really nice clothes, hoping to improve relations. "Not only is it a lot of time between bribery monitor the students have to give a small gift, such as the two sides quarrel, or friction and so forth." In Nanjing, a high school teacher to teach Wu,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3522, yesterday to reporters about the place in their own children who are interesting. Wu said that though students are young, but many people still very sensitive to psychological, usually for interpersonal relationships is also very concerned about, and students quarrel quarrel occurred if not timely reconciliation, will bear a grudge. In addition, the children also have their own circle of activities, once someone marginalized, we must find ways to repair the relationship. "There was a time my daughter marginalization among friends, classmates give their send-off ceremony, are music boxes, plush toys gadgets, then send over, the children's relationship is much better." Wu He says, a gift or take the kids to buy their own, and my heart felt strange. Parents Tucao & gt,tiffany outlet; & gt; & gt; Point one: sociopathic polluted child's eyes "Memories of childhood time,scarpe hogan outlet, are innocent, without any impurity contamination, and now booing,http://www.infocrystal.com/alink/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=970/, little boy, playing the adult stuff, and very much at home, which makes adults feel then," the reporter saw, For this phenomenon interests exchanges between children, parents are led to no small discussion. Many parents said that the emergence of such behavior is unacceptable, reflecting the failure of the current education: simply book knowledge taught to children, but ignored the Sound of Music to teach them how to distinguish. "Under such circumstances,http://kakitsubata.pro.tok2.com, our next generation who still retain much better quality," a parent laments, in addition to their own lack of education, parents should reflect on their own whether to allow children in the usual monasteries too many unhealthy things to educate their children do not lie if it is sincere and how much time Second point: non-secular vision to see the children of the world "How can you prove that the child's mental world is what you think of it maybe it was just an unconscious act now." Reporter noted that there are a lot of parents think this worry redundant. In their view, the children's mind is not perfect, there is no ability to distinguish right from wrong, but affected parents in the unconscious, this behavior will occur. These parents believe that class is a small society, children between the interests of normal dealings, in fact, normal, small children learn some interpersonal skills, the future did little to society rebuffed. "The children in this way to communicate, simply because they can not think of it another way, they may not feel this way there is anything wrong." "No matter what the reason, parents and schools for these children proper guidance, it is definitely a must, should teach children to distinguish between normal Gift and 'bribe' society, what is the difference." Related Experts told reporters. Children have a gift idea, stating that they have care of things, this is actually a good thing, whether it is to run for class leader, or a good relationship with the students, the parents should be supported. But parents must guide their children through efforts to pay to achieve the goal, can not use money to curry favor with the students to develop dependence. It is Stone Mountain & gt; & gt; & gt,woolrich outlet italia; West classroom without discipline only etiquette In Western countries, from primary to high school, kids have to accept self-education. For them, discipline is not because someone supervise, but a basic ritual of life, must be observed. Because the school has no teacher, no class cadre, school management personnel come only a day named, this way the instructor both management functions, but unlike Chinese teacher every day as research rankings child, so the child is truly treated equally . In addition, China's children are required to respect teachers, must maintain the dignity of teachers, while in Western countries, the relationship between teachers and students are friends, school teachers even encourage students to put forward different views. "More importantly, the Western school teacher never directly tell students what is right and wrong,http://www.pixian.sc.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, then let the students back to the answer." According to reports, the Western children are very good at the teacher's prompt, independent thinking. Over time, he developed a failing love to think of the character. Source: Xinhua Newspaper Editor: Wu Xinhao (Original title: third grade children send Oranges "bribe" or bad parents monitor kids want more?) 

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