78-year-old Zhao Aihua Zhu Songlin care of his wife of 20 years,http://marandy.foyer.be/spip.php?article2165<br>"I can think of the most romantic thing is getting old with you ......" This song has been highly sought after lover, I do not know who sing this song have thought, when the wife was ill in bed one day, not and you can talk it, can not accompany you stroll the tree-lined, year after year of care you need, whether you have the courage to hold up his (her) hands, making this the most romantic thing?<br> <br>Silver-haired 78-year-old lady Zhao Aihua, do in this life, "the most romantic thing" --- together, "vegetable" his wife Zhu Songlin 20 years. To help his wife recover, she turned chiropractor, nutritionist, hairdressers ...... even the doctors say "die" of his wife,http://marandy.foyer.be/spip.php?article2161, in her meticulous care, although not wake up, life was miraculously saved, do the shroud idle in the closet for 20 years.<br> <br>Several roles<br> <br>To help his wife a speedy recovery<br> <br>In the old residential buildings in Guangzhou Baiyun District, 157 families of district hospitals, 30 square meters of bedroom, two by the squeeze under wood, bamboo barricaded the bed, the room clean, no smell. Living room of the old bell "dripping" sounds, in 20 years time flies, the unhurried,moncler pas cher, mechanical repetition,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3472, as hostess.<br> <br>Zhao lady from rural Henan moment restless, like clockwork. 7:00 every day, she will get up and give his wife boiled egg flower soup. Aohao porridge,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3472, and quickly take the pillow to elevate the head of his wife, with a spoon to pry open his mouth, a mouth to feed, "he good appetite, eat two bowls." Porridge shed from time to time along the mouth of his wife, Zhao lady patiently wipe with a towel.<br> <br>Three meals a day, Zhao lady changing nothing nutritious meals to his wife configuration: two days large soup pot pot, calcium; three days to burn once the apple porridge, vitamin supplements; summer weekly to buy watermelon, refreshing ......<br> <br>Ruddy wife on the bed, slightly open mouth "Kengchi" panting, eyes spin around, exposed thick solid arm, looks very spiritual. "He knew that was not said." Zhao lady, for example, sometimes fed broke his wife's mouth, his wife will suddenly bite her fingers tightly, rebuke she said, "and then bite not feed you," he immediately release the mouth obediently. Do not feed, his mouth still kept creeping "protest." And his wife's "interactive" has become to support her all the way down force.<br> <br>A neighbor advised her, "Do not feed, and starve him forget." Zhao lady could not bear how to say to each other 50 years of his wife, ah,nike tn pas cher, "on when to exercise it!" Optimistic she can always console themselves.<br> <br>His wife and her parents Meishuozhiyan Bong married three forty two separated road. Her 20-year-old and 21-year-old arrangement under matchmaker, who started to go to meet marriage license. His wife gave her first impression was tall, plump, dull. His wife at home was too poor chink, only three thatched cottage and a widowed mother,http://bbs.chinsx.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=871&fromuid=587, did not spend a penny to her marrying.<br> <br>Wedding night<br> <br>In addition to the groom is borrowed from outside<br> <br>"Pillow is not high?" Zhao house lady just keep talking, get a response. She joked "the habit, saying he had nothing!"<br> <br>"Kuzhongzuole" Zhao lady found a new secret,tn reuqin pas cher, only to find his wife before fat, since his wife was ill, he found more and more Fuxiang, fat head and big ears. She simply call him straight "Maitreya", feeding on shouting, "Maitreya,scarpe hogan, eat it!" One mentioned the matter, she convulsed with laughter, tears quickly jumped out.<br> <br>The wedding night 58 years ago, Zhao lady remember. Originally three thatched cottage break his wife to let her "sank half," the bridegroom in the wedding day, personally for her to wear silver bracelets, bye new furniture, quilts, curtains, she somewhat some comfort.<br> <br>Surprisingly, one night, a group of people rushed into the new home away quilts, furniture, and even his wife's black jacket and his silver bracelet spared. His wife hesitated to say a word, so she was funny and good gas, in addition to his wife of this man, "Other things are all borrowed!" Deepest winter, wrapped in two blankets broken,moncler Outlet, trembling endured a night. Somewhere she felt, since then, regardless of wealth and poverty, and the man she should be tied together.<br> <br>Hand in half a century<br> <br>The couple never red face<br> <br>Lift arm to his wife every day "blood" twice, 50 times each. Every three hours with the help of his wife to turn a body, and beat, the body 20 under the massage, which is a required course daily Zhao lady, "or bedsores on his body easily long."<br> <br>No teacher, depends Zhao lady self-taught. She proudly said, beginning the entire palm pressed down pat, and later found that this pain, put the palm of your hand slightly bent, leaving a gap in the middle. Zhao lady with two hours of sleep at night is a period, the brain often taut strings, no alarm clock woke up one night with the help of his wife stand up three times.<br> <br>After marriage, his wife 157 troops to help cook, take care of the children in rural areas, Zhao lady, his wife to visit relatives once a year. 22 years ago, his wife received the Guangzhou Zhao lady, an accident, if not two years later, the two men now living a happy life Hanyinongsun.<br> <br>His wife has always been a healthy way to work, suddenly fell, hospital diagnosis of cerebral thrombosis, and thereafter until unconscious body hemiplegia,http://www.m-pep.org/spip.php?article4018, mouth ulcers, even the doctors say "die."<br> <br>Zhao lady ready for the night to his wife shroud and shoes, he will go to the Department of Traditional Chinese Medicine treatment, the soup poured down from the nose of his wife, finally saved a life. Since then, Zhao lady to his wife received home care.<br> <br>Please nanny month to 2,000 yuan, five children, economic conditions are not good, Zhao lady exclaimed, "can not afford." Her main source of income is his wife of more than 2,000 yuan per month pension.<br> <br>I have is old age, but also to take care of a bedridden patient, for as others not to be "scared off", but also sad. Zhao lady was always smiling, she said with a smile, before back in his hometown, 100 kilos of sorghum tens of miles away mountain to town to sell, much easier to take care of his wife to do farm work than home!<br> <br>His wife came to Guangzhou for years, do not smoke do not drink do not gamble, diligent life, hand in hand for half a century, the couple "never had a red face." Even back home to visit relatives, he wore were made of coarse Zhao lady with old clothes, long reluctant to spend a dollar hides, wants to leave her and their children use. His wife in her heart "to give up everything for the home." She admission now eat more bitter for him, that is worth more tired.<br> <br>"A person row, I do not trust other people to take care of."<br> <br>Zhao years in Guangzhou lady can not read, do not play cards, have not been to the Milky Way, not climb Baiyun Mountain, I went to the farthest place or 20 years ago, his wife took her to the zoo. She usually goes back home to take care of his wife, to go out once a day to go shopping, wearing a watch Qiazhao time, "not more than one hour."<br> <br>Nothing else, Zhao lady pulls out his wife's vintage old photos recall. A certificate of honor in 1989 by the China Cuisine Association awarded in recognition of his wife "in the culinary work for more than 30 years." Zhao lady can not read, just know that the "red books" recorded honor his wife, and she loved treasures, carefully concealed in the closet, there are guests on the show to others.<br> <br>"Maitreya, this is your life,http://szhuiyaw.com/news/html/?19660.html, now life is better, there are rice flour it!" Organize photos tearful Zhao lady, could not punch his wife turned nagging, "you live for several years, I still care you! "his wife lying on the side of the Zhu Songlin eyes flashing.<br> <br>"We can not do." Daughter Zhao Cuilan ashamed to say, the children usually go to work, the burden falls on the mother who, even though he was hospitalized, her mother insisted that "a pedestrian." By laws emotional impact,http://bbs.tt919.com/read.php?tid-262522-fpage-80.html/read.php?tid-262522-fpage-80.html/post.php?fid=70?fid=70, juniors marriages are maintained very well. Home, hire a nanny to take care of a say, stubborn mother always said, "I do not trust other people to take care of."<br> <br>Zhao lady 20 years as one day to take care of his wife's story, in the neighborhood passed from mouth to mouth. "Take care of a few decades, the yard who does not know?" In one hundred fifty-seven family area, mentioned Zhao Aihua, we are full of praise. "Feeding, stand up, take a shower ...... her meticulous," 74-year-old Zou Bobo Zhao lady particularly admire his wife stroke six years, frail elderly nanny to take care of him only that he often met Zhao lady buy pig , Xiaohe He said that to his wife soup, saw her husband wash dirty linen every day. He lamented that, "The last thing his wife can really rely on."<br> <br>Written: Southern Reporter Yang Ting<br> <br>Photo: Southern Reporter Zou Wei<br> <br>Southern Mapping: Zhang Xu Jun<br><br>
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