Men talk about their experience a new culture reporter Jiang Shengsong photo<br>New Culture News (Reporter Jervois Yang Chunhui) "The wife and friends ran away, I want to find her to kill her." Yesterday, a man called the hotline to the new culture. Regardless of whether the real motive of men, a new culture reporter decided this man face to face and talk. A talk<br> <br>"Almost 50 years old and people still run away, where to put my face. I hate her, I must find her, kill her."<br> <br>15 am yesterday, Zhang Yong to the newspaper,http://www13.plala.or.jp/white_roots/gwbbs/gwbbs.cgi, a cotton jacket covered with dust, his face ashen, his eyes hysteresis. Zhang Yong, 49, agricultural Anren, was a porter in Changchun City Guangfu Road Market. Drink a glass of water,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/2pcs/pe1860.html, he began to talk about the reasons they want to murdering.<br> <br>Good day, however, and others ran<br> <br>A year younger than his wife Li Li I, we got married 26 years, have two daughters, have graduated from college.<br> <br>From 1988 I came to Changchun to work, his wife at home to care for their children, then the conditions are good, we bought a house in Ann agricultural loans. The thought of this, I hate her, but a good day, but others ran.<br> <br>In 2010,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/shasinyasan/4960759026675.html, Li Li Changchun telling me to work, I know after a month. After that,nike air max pas cher, Li Li and I rarely speak,http://www.ghuilxs.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2254, often use the mobile Internet chat. Once, when I look at her cell phone he found out the reason, both in the QQ chat, like the couple. After this we often quarrel.<br> <br>The summer of 2011, the youngest daughter in Jilin accompany university wife called me in the past, have divorced. I do not agree to return to agricultural safety after she and I slept separately.<br> <br>August 2014, I returned home from Changchun Nong'an, there are several cigarette butts found in the ashtray, I asked her who passed. She would not admit that I beat her. Relatives to persuade, she knelt in front of me no longer online chat.<br> <br>December 28, 2014, is engaged in the day my little daughter, the family is very happy, it seems to rediscover the past happiness. In early January 2015, his wife called me several days to have no answer,scarpe hogan outlet, felt something was amiss, I went back to Nong'an home after seeing his wife left a letter, the letter said, so I do not look She, so after two years, the court will sentence us to divorce. Home remaining 15,000 yuan of money and a pair of earrings were her away.<br> <br>I was searching through relatives and friends, she is not his wife's message. She must and friends ran away. Almost 50 years old and people still run away, where to put my face. I could not lift their heads in front of friends and relatives. I hate her, I must find her and kill her.<br> <br>Relatives: The two sides have a responsibility<br> <br>New Culture reporter saw Zhang Yong Li Li left a letter: "...... Since the little girl was born, you begin to hit me, you know, every time you turn on me, not my body hurt, but my heart. I'm always looking forward you can change, but I look forward to again become a time of disappointment ...... you my heart has been broken up ...... so I'm gone, do not look for me ...... "<br> <br>Yong admitted that he really played his wife, but his wife said absolutely not often played. "She and the others ran and brought the blame on me." Yong said bitterly.<br> <br>A relative Zhang Yong said in an interview, said Zhang Yong and some narrow-minded, machismo, and they often quarreled. "Li away things, we all know relatives, for reasons we can not say,http://nariyama.sppd.ne.jp, but they certainly have a responsibility."<br> <br>B persuasion<br> <br>Marriage has long been signs of contradiction, Internet is just a prelude; do not put yourself in the position of victims<br> <br>After listening to the newspaper psychological presenter Anxin Zhang Yong talk, their family problems are analyzed.<br> <br>Zhang Yong, the logic of the blame when his wife learned to work to chat with friends, marital relations before a problem occurs. In fact, back in 2010, Zhang Yong communicate with his wife already have a big problem,http://www.legalforce.com, because his wife suddenly came to Changchun to work, while Zhang Yong, a month after that. "Any intimate relationship of husband and wife, are not possible to hide such an important change not say, indicating that the two of you were already a problem. But you did not care, you miss the opportunity to discover the problem, but also shows you your wife feelings insufficient attention. "Anxin analysis of Yong said.<br> <br>Abandon the victim mentality alleviate anger<br> <br>Speaking of the reasons unpopular wife, Zhang Yong most repeated words:. "This is 20 years ah, I did not willing to eat, not willing to wear, not wishing she do this to me."<br> <br>For him this idea, Anxin said: "The reason why you are so angry, because you put yourself in the position of the victim,piumini woolrich, that everything is wrong but in fact the wife of your marriage go today,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/spark-inc/bike-65w-h4-45.html, you too. responsible. If you can see you have not done enough there is also a place, you also have to admit to ignore her place in marriage, maybe you can stand in your wife's point of view to think this thing, your anger It will be much smaller. "<br> <br>Calm emotions from start to restore his health<br> <br>Faced with the sudden blow, Zhang Yong said he is very angry, 20 days in a row can not sleep, no appetite to eat. Anxin advised him to temporarily leave his home, away from the pressure of the crowd let him live with her daughter for some time,woolrich outlet online, feeling her daughter's care for him would be helpful.<br> <br>If you feel difficulty falling asleep, it must help the doctor as soon as possible,scarpe hogan outlet, because the rest is not good for a long time, poor physical condition, emotional irritability on. This time accompanied by her daughter's care and is very important for him, not only to help him slowly adjust the body can also make him feel, living on their own, the most important in the end is what.<br> <br>(Zhang Yong, Li Li pseudonym)<br> <br>After three hours of persuasion, Anxin face analysis, the Yong emotions calm down slowly. "If the wife can come back, I'll divorce her, which is a relief for us." Yong said, think carefully,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/waiwai/snd255p1.html, working outside their usual busy making money, certainly not enough to be concerned about his wife, and indeed played hands wife. "And after you finish, more heart feel better, do not fudge. Thank you." Yong said that although he still can not forgive his wife, but will not hurt her.<br><br>
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