Every day, every week or even every year, Xia Binbin with her toolkit time to spend time with her husband than to be longer. Chief reporter Li Jing photo<br>DragonSoft at 19:45 on August 12 (Reporter Kangyan Fang Liu Yan) husband and wife in a city living under one roof, still in the same unit, the feelings have no problem, but a few days once the microscopic surface. Xia Binbin and her husband, is the case, the original two hours is a long-term day shift, night shift on the cross, rarely time to spend together.<br> <br>Tomorrow is the "Tanabata" Cowherd and Weaver Girl Magpie Bridge legend meet the day. In reality, due to various reasons such as "weekend husband and wife", "monthly wife" is not uncommon, in this case, "modern Magpie Bridge" how should I take?<br> <br>[User talk]<br> <br>Living under the eaves of a loving couple days but once the microscopic surface<br> <br>Tomorrow is "Tanabata", a lot of couples, couples preparing for how the holidays, however, Chongqing light rail on the 3rd line of communication repairman was thinking energy and her husband had a section on the good, "and her husband meet too little time . "<br> <br>It turned out that her husband is and light rail on the 3rd line, a pair of "husband and wife," the husband is the production dispatcher. Both are day shift,http://www.tukipie.net/camera/index.cgi, night shift on the cross, the encounter of class, when she was in the morning 7:30 to go to work, her husband did not return home until 18:30 when she came home from work the night shift and her husband had to go out.<br> <br>"Although the two-day class can rest for two days,http://www.thomassankara.net/spip.php?article1459, but the two of us because of the different positions can come once or twice a month while the rest of the time very little." he said,moncler sito ufficiale, the last two have been five days almost did not meet, Even in the middle occasionally touch a surface, I can only say a few words hastily.<br> <br>In fact, in the city,http://www.kinzoku.co.jp, like and her husband like a modern version of "Legend of Love" a few, though under the same roof or in the same city, but it is difficult to get to see the side. These people are over what kind of life? How they communicate and exchange?<br> <br>[Reporter interview]<br> <br>Reporters learned that, like and her husband like a modern version of "Legend of Love" in the city a little general, everyone's situation is different because the form is different. This was very helpless, it was also quite accept this lifestyle.<br> <br>Type A: work weekend to gather in two places<br> <br>Who lives in northern New Raycom brighter 14 Wang Bin (a pseudonym) and his wife married more than two years, since his wife taught in Fuling, in Fuling, Monday to Friday, only the weekend to go home, they become a veritable "weekend couples . "<br> <br>See around friends and loved ones back home every day, Wang admits sour envy. He said: "Usually when a person, to see people are home together in pairs, and my heart will not taste, especially in the time outside by the aggrieved."<br> <br>Meet less time, they became the two contact telephone link. Every night, Wang will call to his wife, talking on the phone, "Sometimes a fight is one hour."<br> <br>Type B: husband and wife long long night shift,http://www.infocrystal.com/alink/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=970/, "not meet"<br> <br>Chen,http://www.aaeafrica.org/cgi-bin/home/index.cgi, who lives three boulevard Nan'an District area, there is a similar situation. Mr. Chen is a newspaper editor, long night, two or three in the afternoon to go to work every day, in the morning a couple of points to get back home. When he got home, his wife usually already asleep, 7 am, he was still sleeping,http://takao-sato.seesaa.net, his wife had to go to work. "Although we live together, but we score no better ranked two places where to go,http://repo.kyoto-wu.ac.jp, usually to the weekend in order to really see the face."<br> <br>Mr. Chen said, he and his wife usual means of communication is to write a note,air max femme, such as his wife will write a message posted on the refrigerator at home to tell him what to eat, what things need to go through him, with urgent'll call.<br> <br>Mr. Chen said he colleagues, there are many similar cases.<br> <br>Type C: Separated different cities to meet two to three months<br> <br>Ms. Chang Ran, who lives in Yubei District Fairview City district, is surrounded by friends call "strongman", she and her husband married more than three years, the two have been long separated: her husband work in Tibet, she in Chongqing, and they often take two three months to see a face. But the distance did not affect the feelings of the two,louboutin uomo, has been married for three years as a state when love.<br> <br>Friends do not understand the situation, but Ms. Ran and her husband are still relatively acceptable. "From the United States, not together, we are busy with their own work, together, to do together usually they want to do, usually each have their own space, but also particularly cherish time together, fine. "Ms. Ran said.<br> <br>Type D: unable to buy their own living unit hostel<br> <br>25-year-old Zhou Dong, in Shapingba Three Gorges Square a cultural transmission company to work May this year with more than three years to talk about his girlfriend pulled a marriage certificate, but after marriage, they also like, like marriage, lived in their units The dorm.<br> <br>"In fact, it really was not rush anything fashionable, nor is it you want to separate the space, we are now really can not afford to buy a house, dormitory units can save some money." Zhou Dong said. It turned out that he and his wife are from rural Hunan, limited financial resources, they intend to live in the dorm were, you could save some money, and so save enough money to buy a house down payment, real life had played a couple reunion.<br> <br>Emotional Expert: Even without meeting should strengthen communication using modern social media<br> <br>For the modern version of "Legend of Love" phenomenon, emotion experts, vice president good margin century site that not only in Chongqing, which is very common in Beijing, Shanghai and other cities.<br> <br>Zhouzhong Xiao said that although a lot out of frustration, but this phenomenon will generally lead to marital relations more and more indifferent, one prone to extramarital affairs,scarpe hogan outlet, and second, can cause one or both of relatively weak family values, lack of sense of responsibility, if you have a child the child's upbringing will be more prominent issue.<br> <br>In this regard, Zhou Zhongxiao suggestion is that on the one hand, to try to take time, Monday to Friday, if you really do not have time, at least on weekends together again; on the other hand, social media is now so advanced, microblogging, letter,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001084960.html, phone can AC, if not met, can also use these technological means to enhance communication; In addition, Zhou Zhongxiao opinion, if not met, may also be designed to give each other some small surprises, such as flowers, gifts, in order to let the feelings remain fresh "If feelings are not fresh, and the trouble will continue."<br> <br>[Users] say<br> <br>Netizen "Instinct": modern is not easy, life is too much pressure, and if conditions permit, it is estimated are not normally choose such a "do not meet" ways.<br> <br>Netizen "happy": from the United States, opened a little living space between husband and wife, both so that both sides cherish the happiness together, will make the point to his rare "autonomous" space, make life more bright colors.<br> <br>Netizen "Matcha": Although from the United States, but "weekend husband and wife" to pay attention to the emotional maintenance.<br> <br>Netizen "belated": work pressure,woolrich parka, resulting in the same time in a city, but it is not easy to meet the phenomenon, but he is still difficult to accept such a case, the couple are courageous people in different places.<br> <br>[Topic] extending<br> <br>Couples can not always meet, and how to give emotional preservation? In this regard, users have listed a long list of "tricks" Behold trick works best for you.<br> <br>1. By phone, microblogging, micro-channel more exchanges, promptly let the other know their whereabouts and thoughts.<br> <br>2. The less time together living trivial quarrel.<br> <br>3. Plan a time when both sides have to travel, the most common travel can deepen each other's feelings.<br> <br>4. Love to speak out. No matter how long the marriage, love remember often he said. Passion is such a culture to an old married couple, regardless of gender, regardless of how many times listening to hear three words I love you, always very happy.<br> <br>5. maintain a certain frequency of meeting, once the best visibility for months. Acacia is also a need to release, and a few days of sweet, put the last few months to make it up the Acacia.<br> <br>6. love him, we should trust him. After all, in different places, it is impossible to see him every day, words and deeds, that somehow the suspicion will ruin two people sweet.<br> (Edit: SN053) [see Sina news Win iPad mini]<br>
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