Xiaoqian (middle) day in addition to crying, said nothing. Long Han photo<br>Flower 170,000, "redemption" Adopted daughter 13 years ago. Yesterday, the face of such a "deal", someone's mind the taste of different parties. Ready to "redeem" the daughter of Lee felt that since her daughter wanted to return to biological parents, that he was willing to raise money to bring her back; and adoptive couples Roche was unwilling,scarpe hogan outlet, raising a full 13-year daughter, how like the sale of goods, like talking to want to go back?<br> <br>Send baby bounce fellow agreement "relatives" contacts<br> <br>Ten years ago, Mr. Li from Sichuan Province came to Guangdong to work, and later in Guangzhou, runs a dessert shop. 13 years ago, Lee gave birth to a daughter, but because it has been fathered two daughters, in violation of family planning policy, talk of the town and his wife discuss the final three daughters Xiaoqian gave someone else.<br> <br>After being introduced,moncler outlet online, they contacted a family surnamed Luo, the same hometown in Sichuan. Two families on contact, but also more compatibility, "the couple do not have children, I think it should also raise as his own daughter, it is more at ease." Lee recalls.<br> <br>When the two sides of each other's situation are still relatively satisfied,0WTwrw09Tp, signed a verbal agreement, the two sides agreed to the same contacts like relatives, until Xiaoqian grow up and then told her the truth. At that time, he sent people Xiaoqian only three months old.<br> <br>This is 13 years, two families to fulfill an agreement year, and indeed, like relatives, like mutual exchanges. However, a good relationship to this summer but out of the question.<br> <br>Yesterday reporter saw police station in Tong King two people, as adoptive parents and birth parents Lee Roche couple couple is negotiating Xiaoqian "things" what is the solution. Previous verbal agreement seems to have become a dead letter, two people began to compete for children and "desperate."<br> <br>But most important it is Xiaoqian injured, in addition to her cry or cry, 13-year-old little girl dazed.<br> <br>Daughter, parents no longer willing to stay around?<br> <br>According to Lee's statement, Xiaoqian "is a chance a chance to know his personal life,woolrich outlet,vRhRVgdJdT," and all this Xiaoqian did not let parents know.<br> <br>August 19, with Roche couple Xiaoqian Fujian came from Guangzhou, in Lee's house to play a few days later, Xiao Qian suddenly said, "do not want to return to Fujian." "Xiao Qian said she has missed us, this time to Guangzhou, is wanted with us." Mr. Lee told reporters.<br> <br>Roche couple can not imagine how, for 13 years raising the couple's daughter even abandoned, which makes them difficult to accept emotionally. "Before coming to Guangzhou is well good, why all of a sudden things changed." Mr Lo said. In desperation, the couple found the Tong King Roche police station, the police station would like to help mediate, to give a statement.<br> <br>Encountered such a thing, police also feel embarrassed: Xiao Qian's account explicitly couple settled in the Roche side, Roche couple Xiaoqian guardian is; now Lee has to "Xiaoqian left" to the ground and want to return her daughter, This is how to mediate?<br> <br>Both families had also maintain a friendly relationship, but now stalled because of her daughter's problems. The two sides deadlocked for three days, the results of final consultations are: the Lee couple pay 170,000 as back to Xiaoqian "compensation."<br> <br>Things are now, the couple had no choice but to accept Roche. "I just want to have children, we couple 40s on such a daughter, 13-year relationship how can you say to give up give up then?" Said Lo cry, it is felt by the daughter's biological father, "bewitched", was caught in a dilemma The situation, which is very different to the previous two conventions.<br> <br>[Close] child crying light reluctant to speak<br> <br>Yesterday afternoon, reporters at the police station asking Tong King mediation room to see Xiaoqian, 13-year-old she was tall and slim, but the situation apparently made the moment a bit overwhelmed.<br> <br>She sat on the corner of a chair, when Rowe client to lunch, just with a spoon Xiaoqian looking, long before brought a spoonful into his mouth. And sitting next to Mr. Rowe is very distressed this daughter in one hand and holding a soup for her daughter and told her daughter eat while. Mr. Rowe face meticulous, Xiao Qian always just head down, to keep his father brought to the soup is also shaking his head denied.<br> <br>Lo told reporters that now the mood is very unstable Xiaoqian, "I asked her what now, she just cried."<br> <br>When a reporter tried to talk with Xiaoqian, she was silent except silence. But the mention of parents who choose to question, her eyes began to fill with, and slowly began to cry again.<br> <br>[Experts]<br> <br>Both sides are at fault should bear the cost<br> <br>Nakazawa Law Firm lawyer Zhou Yuzhong, said: verbal agreement had both families Adopted and adoption,vPbzvHetxh, in fact, reached in order to avoid legal proceedings in private, not legal dependency relationship. According to relevant regulations, "Adoption," we must meet certain conditions, to the civil affairs departments for the relevant procedures, follow the relevant adoption procedures, the establishment of the adoptive relationship is protected by law. Even though they have off the door, we can not establish guardianship of adults and children through non-formal channels for the kids. Minors have the right to return to his parents around the requirements, her voice should be respected.<br> <br>You should see, whether it is placing out or adoption who had all at fault, so, it must bear the corresponding costs. For placing out, now to return the child,QNyz4HFe5t, it is necessary to pay 13 years of raising children for adoption party costs, which is the economic cost; for adoptive parents, the child's departure, separates the 13-year intimate relationship with the child, to be Payment is spiritual cost.<br> <br> 【dialogue】<br> <br>Want a son, then bid farewell to his daughter<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: Why did you want to raise Xiaoqian to others?<br> <br>Lee (Xiaoqian biological father): At that time already had two daughters, but would like to have a son, but also worried about the financial burden of the family has decided to raise the Xiaoqian to others.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: What made the agreement the two sides?<br> <br>Lee: We were only verbal agreements, we agree to not tell the truth Xiaoqian, until her children let her own choice in the end is which side to follow the family.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: 13 years,, both families exchanges like?<br> <br>Lee: a good relationship between the two families, also get along very well. Over the years, we met four or five times Xiaoqian. Every few years, we will go and see the Luo family, or by her adoptive parents come to play with.<br> <br>"I hope Xiaoqian tell us to go home,1P72Wzh2Kh."<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: Why would the adoption Xiaoqian?<br> <br>Mr. Rowe (Ghost Story adoptive): someone was introduced, we were husband and wife and no children, had a daughter,air max 90 pas cher,sOk932gfp2, of course happy.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: life after the adoption Xiaoqian how?<br> <br>Mr. Rowe: the first few years, when Xiaoqian in his hometown in Sichuan, I work in the field. Later we received the Xiaoqian Fujian living together, going to school is also here. What she wants to buy what we give, we never ill-treated her.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: Xiaoqian want to go home is the case for you,1bvtmN3URl?<br> <br>Mr. Rowe: never before been such a situation. But this time came,moncler sito ufficiale, she refused to go home, any how we persuade useless, may be her biological parents told her the facts, do not let her go.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily: Li consultation and how?<br> <br>Mr. Rowe: We raised Xiaoqian so many years, money can not pay for everything in exchange. Although Lee agreements to 170,000 as compensation, the feelings of so many years can also be difficult once the off. We most want is to Xiaoqian home.<br> <br>Nanfang Daily reporter HONG Yi Yi Long Han<br> <br>Welcome to comment I want to comment<br> Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging (edit: SN026)<br>
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