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I read in high school, I love you to associate yet a big wave forced the parents are close to your childhood and say, Do not talk to strangers, ah In recent years,http://sportsfan.jpn.org/cgi-kban/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=132&page=1, he appeared in the city such a special group of people who work in a foreign land, during the Spring Festival, I hope to go home but afraid to go home. So that they do not panic just forced marriage, as well as send some money endless, not clear the debt of gratitude, explore endless ...... privacy on the Internet, these people are called "fear of return family." However, the fear of return family also has its own way to cope with the Spring Festival this year, against being forced, no money red envelopes, privacy was asked how to do, God appeared on the Internet a variety of responses, among adopted piecemeal, but also reflects the modern life and gap and conflict between native tradition. Class A panic fear of return family Over thirty years left men left women afraid of being forced "There is no target" has become a young New Year back home now afraid of being asked the question, the parents and relatives were most enthusiastic about the topic of the New Year reunion let them miserable. Ms. Chung is the first year of graduate school to work, just turned 25 years old, she always thought that would be the family is forced over thirty years "older unmarried male (female) youth", but this time to go home The next day, "have a boyfriend yet?", "in the end want to find what ah?", "not small, do not pick and choose!" ...... these problems have been his own large family Dozens of people took turns asking a dozen times, so Ms. Chung feel as if in the eyes of parents and relatives become "older woman left." Grandfather also specifically reminded her that if next year the Chinese New Year is still not back to see her boyfriend to the family, such "interrogation" will continue. "Home for the holiday is simply torture!" Ms. Chung said with emotion, and if next year likewise forced marriage,http://grand-lome.org/spip.php?article33, she would become a "fear of return family." Class A God replies: For Ms. Chung such "female school tyrants" in the "Spring Festival return of anti-forced Guide" is a variety of tricks corresponding ask, "when prospective high school yet I love that I was in college? I love when you associate it? graduate school time? "parents retreat answered" No "when as a woman you can learn Pa screaming," I'm a PhD you let me marry people? "If you are otaku, it's even easier, a" You grew up not let me talk to strangers ah ", while tears ran while parents can only reflect on himself. Class B panic fear of return family Chinese New Year red envelopes increasingly become spring robbery Today, 90 began to enter the workplace, after 80 collective "Pentium III", received a red envelope age too, it is difficult to escape the red envelopes. But with the price level increased every year, year after year is the thickness of the envelopes bullish. Wang was born in 1989, said with emotion,http://www.baideyi1.com/news/html/?11375.html, the New Year adult child can be happy for a long time to 10 dollars, but this year to just own a small kindergarten nephew of 500 yuan, the red envelope package failed to return his calls out sweetly " aunt. " "Grandparents, grandparents, parents, as well as nieces and nephews, nephew ......" Wang breaking a finger count from the object itself to send red envelopes, return home from New Year's Eve to New Year holidays, she sent out a total of 10 red mainly to the family elders and juniors, looking down already spent nearly 7,000 yuan, finally heading for the end of the year award depleted. In addition to red envelopes sent home, before going home purchasing "stocking" Wang is a lot of money, less than year three, Wang from Beijing back home more than a dozen boxes of snacks, roast duck, preserved fruit has been sent light , and "there are friends and relatives did not get it, but also off the blame, but also buy more next year!" So toss down the years has not been finished, Wang has to worry about money for their years of life. Class B God replies: home inevitably gifts, all to give a "tall",http://www.ciscoclub.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, a year of hard-earned money on a boondoggle, so learn a low-key (and cheaper), luxury (like goods), has the connotation (by Fudge). Give children lucky money can be replaced by "Panda coin",louboutin pas cher, flew on was a grade. Face of a child, you should focus on panda patterns,louboutin soldes, so they took the silver and the music and the music; facing parents can talk about big investment in recent years, Bika market hot, inadvertently disclose "This coin appreciation prospects are bright! "Of course, silver you back just Taobao bought. Class C panic fear of return family Home no privacy Income property, the present belongs to everyone's privacy, especially for young people who work outside of their monthly income geometry, how expenses, often want to friends and relatives and even family secret. In the IT industry in Beijing two years of Xiao Ning, is the case. Xiao Ning monthly income and performance-related, and therefore actual monthly income average, remained at between 7000-10000 yuan. College graduate, he has been enrolled in the Self, got bachelor degree, contributed to the training weekend. The registration Self things,Veste barbour, mostly friends and family know. "I do not want to tell my parents, but they wanted to know where I spend a." Xiao Ning said in Beijing two years basically no deposit, but they think the flower is spent where. Chinese New Year a home, parents and relatives and friends will be asked in detail about how he income, so he was very helpless. "There is also a reluctance to say the reason is fear of people looking for me to borrow money to get it out." Xiao Ning recalled, after a friend asked him to borrow money, hand nervous and embarrassed to refuse, the East moved west Minato was borrowed 5,000 yuan to friends. Class C God replies: Xiao Ning resolve concerns, users Weapon, "to take the initiative", ranging from friends and relatives asked to take the initiative and work exposure. "Monthly income of thirty thousand,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/topism/bag-2-topism.html, so easy!" Of course,scarpe louboutin, you can also review the past year's work. Sinopec, CNPC these central enterprises, are you often cooperative business partners, their high prices,Piumini moncle, poor quality is well known. But no way, this is work, "a B diva has only put up." This is not a lie, because you always have to refuel the car. God forced Reply Forced the female school Pa Edition Parents: how not to get married ah? Daughter: When I was in high school I love you to associate it? Parents: No ...... Daughter: That when I was in college I doubt you fall in love it? Parents: No ...... Daughter: I read that when you graduate you to associate me love it? Parents: do not ...... Daughter: I have a PhD you let me marry,http://online-tada.co.jp/y/epad/epad.cgi?job=form&no=8466654? Forced the otaku version Parent: Let your dear, why do you go ah? Son: I can not go. Much too dangerous outside the car, you are taught from an early age so ah. Parents: What do you call it? Son: no. Do not say you grew up speaking to a stranger ah. (Network screenshot) Expert opinion "Fear of return disorder" reflects the The traditional concept and reality of fragmentation Young man afraid to go home New Year, due to the personal psychological quality, but off,http://www.dazitou.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=223619, or parents too "high-handed"? Peking University sociology professor Xia Xueluan believes that the traditional concept of social and living situation of young people do not practice, it is causing some young men suffer from "home phobia" deep-seated reasons. He explained, in large cities are more open horizons of young people working hard, thinking and more open, and the parents treat the concept of lucky money, marriage, etc. There are some differences. "Many young people in fact, income is not high, the pressure is relatively large." Professor Xia Xueluan analysis, finite real income for many North drift of young people, and parents, relatives and friends may not match expectations. Their home in the small towns or rural areas, more traditional social values, neighbors mutual competition,http://newport.eecs.uci.edu, the "good face" nagging parents, forced marriage, New Year's and other natural troublesome young people. "To cure 'fear of return disorder', parents should learn Spring Festival Evening Pieces" people to the ceremony to "in the 'stopped unhealthy', rational, open-minded to accept new ideas of young people." The group of text / reporter Dong Xin Zhou Jingqi (Original title: Re God save the Spring Festival three measures fear of return family) (Edit: SN064) 

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