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 Newspaper reporter Dong Jing Wen / map Under different circumstances, different ages of the orphans who have a common dream, and that is to get the warmth of family, get a parent-like care. So then how can we make each orphan can be a dream come true it? In order to allow orphans "return home" to meet the emotional needs of growing children, Baoding Children's Welfare has tried for the public for loving foster homes. But for various reasons, eventually find foster families, not many children. Thus, after considering a variety of factors orphanage in the province was the first to try to form "class family" as orphans --- Orphans close look at "home" Bright and spacious Sishiliangting although simply decorated and furnished but the house is very warm. From the cartoon images of curtains to partition the restaurant placed various trinkets, to the living room sofa piled plush toys ...... not difficult to see that "home" is the result of the owner of well-furnished. March 29, the reporter went to "class family" House Baoding Children's Welfare within. To see the reporter pushed open the door, 4-year-old party and the party Yu Xiaodong head ran up, his mouth shouting "good uncle",piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, looking curiously at the camera in the hands of reporters, tiptoe touch this press press it. Look of love "love Mom" solution Toshihide come quickly greeted reporters to sit down, her arms holding the party less than a year old sun, bottle dangling from his mouth positive child. Pei Jiehuai in holding the side of her level of party building, has been learning the language will be fed from. "These kids would shout 'Mom' it! When I first heard them call my mother, tears streaming down. You know what? In the hearts of these children, never to memories of Mom and Dad. Called" Dad " "Mom," which is the children and into the beginning of family life. "orphanage had done Solutions Toshihide caregiver told reporters at the orphanage, caregiver tube with more than 90 children's daily life, can not satisfy every a child's request,moncler outlet milano, now moved into the "family class", and the kids always like to make the "mother" holding play. was the first to play the parents of "love Mom" one "class family", she reared on behalf of five orphans. When the reporter saw her, she and the kids, "mingle" Na Party holding her legs around her neck Renaissance Party, the party rolled and jade exhibition carpet in the living room, 6-year-old because it is a party carrian blind, sat Hehedexiao followed. "These kids do not want to leave me a moment, sometimes deliberately lie. I'm here there is a cerebral palsy called party Chaoyang, is Shijiazhuang surgery, because they can not get out, only to accompany the orphanage staff of bed." gas blow to say, as long as the children are happy, she will best meet their requirements, and sometimes she even wants to have "two places at once." "My daughter is in fourth grade elementary school, and home are trying to help me take care of these kids, she a very good relationship with these children." said here in her own children and foster children is no different children. is "class family" building of a "caring daddy" When reporters are catching up at home he fell off. I saw a 2-year-old party store, were his big hands fast approaching a prop roof, the little guy is happy to watering. Xue Lanfu become a "loving mother" 's main helper, "noon she was cooking, I see a child, so she was able to breath." say, anyway, he will always support the spouse to do so. Because in his eyes, this is a very meaningful work. In the "class family",http://www.hookele.org, in addition to furniture, everything. Reporters also saw, each household is equipped with ultraviolet light disinfection. The party name children and "parents" who have no blood relationship, but here it is enjoyable, "a person." "Class family" experience "running-in period" "'Class family' is by a pair of loving couple as 'father' and 'mother' in the welfare of the family to provide housing, with 4-6 children form a family, the mother is responsible for taking care of children at home daily diet, learning education, and father during the day to go to work, go home at night to assist helping children learn. This has introduced a new model to help orphans nearly a year of experience in the country without trying to carry the case to be found together. "Baoding child welfare office director Li Cuiping great sense of accomplishment in an interview said. Tried for the local public for loving foster homes. But for various reasons, eventually find foster families, not many children. May 18,http://www.enochnj.org/pagegen.cgi,doudoune moncler femme, 2010, Baoding Children's Welfare after considering a variety of factors, decided to take a public solicitation for orphans and disabled children to form "class families." "Formation" class families' original intention,http://www.infocrystal.com/alink/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=970/, is to maximize the orphans and disabled children to create a family-like environment for the growth and foster their sense of family and social communication skills for their future integration into the family, to the community to build an effective platform . "Li Cuiping told reporters, because more children in the orphanage,http://www.jisc.go.jp, the staff less, has been using the collective rearing patterns, lack of family atmosphere of the puzzle has been plagued by them. Not only in Baoding, across the country there is such confusion: the orphanage where the children have more or less disability, poor self-care ability. In a centralized raising process, it is hard to take care of everything. Lack of communication, lack of care, causing some three or four children still can not speak, can not walk six or seven. In order to "class family" to provide a good hardware environment, Baoding welfare in the hospital built a total of 12 three-storey of "class family" floor. Residential structures are Sishiliangting household, kitchen, wash room, electricity, heating, gas and other living facilities. Volunteers join "family class" love couples can live in such a house for free, he will be paid a monthly welfare "mother" nearly a thousand dollars salary, according to the number of orphans and disabled children in their care, giving in-kind or cash living allowance. Health care, water, electricity and other fees, also paid for by the orphanage. To "class family" do loving mother, initially faced the most difficult is that these children are "bad habit", and have more patience and love to treat them, and this is a big challenge. In fact, the sudden advent of respect and concern over the new rules of life even harder for these children to adapt, beginning even some rejection. And a lot of new things, "class family" must experience "running-in period." Because most of the orphanage children with disabilities, usually lack one of the teachings of these children will not own shoes, clothes. To develop their self-care ability, loving mother to teach hands, in their words, "teach them also tired than their personally for them to do." "As the saying goes 'rather plant three acres of land, without a baby' free living in a big house, but also to take home wages, sounds beautiful job, in fact, is not easy." Baoding foster child welfare office director Li Huiru Say. "Parents" to devote myself to the children "If you have a full of love, enough time and patience, and welcome you to the orphanage to become a 'class family' in one component coming here to give disabled children a 'home' ......" According to Reporters survey, Baoding Children's Welfare Institute in the exploration start "class family" to help orphans mode early stage in the local media to the public offer 12 pairs of loving parents. As a result, only a total of more than 20 pairs of couples register "response" by screening most do not meet the requirements. Baoding in accordance with the provisions of the Children's Welfare Institute, the couple have parenting experience, and long-term (over one year) check; the woman between the ages of thirty to fifty years old, with a secondary or higher education level; "class families "does not exist between parents and child-rearing adoptive relationship; check" to stay with a biological child follow class family "after floor. Day "Dad" to go out to work, "Mom" is at home taking care of children. "'Mom' in addition to taking care of babies, we must also be the same as other workers,http://www.npo-ama.or.jp, comply with the provisions of the orphanage, the orphanage accepted formal management and training." Foster Office Director Li Huiru told reporters on the enrolled in love Couple welfare but also through the district police station, the neighborhood and the neighbors and other channels, their morals, family situation and other all-round consideration, and merit-based election record. Have been staying "class family",http://www.postyournipples.com, but also through home inspections, PTA meetings, etc., to keep abreast of the child's living conditions; parents to children for living expenses listed a breakdown of the monthly report to the orphanage, orphanage for "class family" periodic evaluation, rewards and punishments accordingly. However, for children growing correct errors, the right to education welfare delegated to the "class family" parents. Of course the child was wrong to criticize, to enter the "class family" kids do not just let them feel affection,louboutin femme, but also to accept the right of home education. Loving, which is the first condition listed in the welfare recruit "loving parents" when. "Loving Mother" is the earliest when the "class family" of parents, a year down she deeply understands, "There is no love, there is no way to long-term coexistence and orphaned children. In addition to love, more patience. " Do a loving mother, the equivalent of 24 hours in the post, and no holidays. "9:00 every night the kids go to bed, I want to 23:00, 3:00 and 6:00 in the morning to let them up several times on the toilet, there is a bad break. Spring Festival this year, did not return home in Shandong, had her mother came to Baoding years. "Guo Qingling, the only quiet time is four hours per day children in kindergarten time, but" loving mother "who also restless, there are a lot of housework to be done on hand. In order to take care of these children, "loving mother" almost no time to go out. Previous love shopping, love to see neighbors, and now only a day at home to care for children. "A lot of loving mother, could not house all day, and even have time to buy new clothes. Wholeheartedly flutter in children, which can not go anywhere, do not want to go." Li Huiru said emotionally. Mode is good but faced a bottleneck promotion Into the "family class" at the beginning, the children are not used to communicate with people, selfish, closed, indifferent. Long focused parenting life, so full of these kids fighting consciousness, especially when I do not know hunger and eat a meal. Let Guo Qingling impressive thing is that one day 4-year-old party favorite Na actually a result of eating "braised ribs," make it hurt my stomach, but now it has to know to "mother" the seat. "After a year of 'class families' lives, orphans physiological indexes has greatly improved, social adaptability significantly enhanced." "Class family" of parents said that now "the children" were withdrawn from the previous change I was cheerful sensible. "Lack of parental love and family atmosphere, the emotional growth of children is difficult to get to meet demand, is not conducive to children's mental health. In the 'class family' so that the relatively stable 'Asian community' environment, feel the love and warmth of family, easy to train children family values and social communication skills, laying the foundation for their return to society. "Education of Hebei Normal University teacher Zhang Aihua that the" class family "life to break the collective welfare of parenting style, but also underscores the humane and scientific. In the family environment, children are more likely to parents and other family members generate affection, attachment to form a stable relationship,http://ysgccn.host023.idcer.cn/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=221632, which will help improve children's social skills and personality development. However, the "class family" intervention mechanism is transitional, not permanent. Under the current provisions of foster children over 14 years of age after leaving foster families, into social welfare, child eventually separated from their families also face problems. Many orphans live in a foster family for many years, the separation of children and parents will be very painful. Some industry insiders believe that the national security policy should be introduced to encourage the adoption of these children permanent foster family, to become legally recognized family. According to the reporter, "class family" since the start of the year, loving mother of salary rose from 750 yuan to 1,000 yuan. Two "class family" of parents due to various reasons midway backing out. There are four "class family" in normal operation, there are 8 to be carried out. "'Class family' mode is very effective, but the biggest problem now facing is funding." Baoding Children's Welfare Institute president Li Hongqi to reporters calculations: In a family a year for the unit, just loving mother salary is more than 10,000 yuan,scarpe hogan, four or five children and other living expenses for meals and milk ...... one year, raising four orphans "class family" than traditional centralized spent raising high a lot. Reporters learned that, due to limited financial welfare, "Class Family House" within the children's beds, wardrobe, color TV, refrigerators, washing machines and other large household items or donated by the community of caring people. "The community who love the attention and support of the public welfare, is promoting 'class family' mode continuous development and improvement of power." Li Hongqi called "class family" to continue to play a role, relying on the power of the orphanage is not enough . The first is financial security, we all need to reach out for the "class family" to provide material security,http://www.luckbo.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1275940, solve various difficulties in life; secondly need more love couple relay, to provide a stable emotional shelter for orphans and disabled children. (Edit: SN005) 

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