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Some scholars have said that the new generation of migrant workers flash marriage, marriage is neither free city,louboutin outlet, but also non-traditional "parents to enrich people," the Yangcheng Evening News reporter Lin February 14, the Lantern Festival, Valentine's double, 90 migrant workers Chen Xiaolong also a romantic one. He took "wife" Xu Fang watched a movie, and then he took her stroll around city square, looked "waistline" Guangzhou Tower. Two from Yingtan, fellow different village. This year the sixth month, the matchmaker introduced to the first month tenth betrothal. Xu had been working in Suzhou, Chen is working in Guangzhou for years,http://www.sunrise-blvd.co.jp, after her betrothal with him to Canton. Two from acquaintance to betrothal, but separated by four days. Although there is no licensing, but after the betrothal has started living together after their predecessors,http://associationflainoise.fr/spip.php?article81, are also husband and wife cried, I do not see that zoning. In just the past Spring Festival, many with Chen Xiaolong, Xu Fang as the new generation of migrant workers, returned to his hometown in rural areas, in short holidays frequently blind, then hastily set for life, a veritable "flash marriage family." Yangcheng Evening News reporter Chen Qiang The inner ring of marriage Chen Xiaolong was born in 1990, 16 years after graduating from junior high school, has been working in Guangzhou, he is a skilled wood carvers. Two years ago, he and a factory in Xiangtan love girls talked for a while. After the woman's parents know, strongly opposed. "They do not want his daughter to marry too far." Chen Xiaolong finally choose to let go. "I love many workers around, most of the outcome is breaking up, the pressure mainly from her parents." Chen Xiaolong this point see more thoroughly, "Most parents do not want their children girls marry too far." In fact, Xu Fang was born in 1992, when working in Suzhou in love with a boy in Shandong, has also been strong opposition from parents. Her parents told reporters that only one daughter, naturally want to marry the woman near point. China Pudong Cadre College Associate Professor Dr Reid sociology, published a "new generation of migrant workers marital Report" monograph. His research found that, although the flow of migrant population increased, expanding the circle of marriage,doudoune moncler, but the moment more and more rural youth to marry in narrowing the distance, "the inner ring of the." Peking University sociology Boshiliding analysts believe that part of the new generation of migrant workers intermarriage circle "inner circle" and is under real pressure to select a variety of results, in which the will of the influence of parents is crucial. "For the purposes of family planning, rural households begin to reduce their children, the parents of the child dependency increases." Chen Xiaolong home by saying he was 25 years old this year. "The family said 25-year-old do not find the object, it is difficult to find." As a result, the Chinese New Year, he did only one thing: a blind date. And Xu Fang encounter almost every day matchmaker matchmaking home,http://www13.plala.or.jp/white_roots/gwbbs/gwbbs.cgi??, set aside several times a day. Xu Fang Chen Xiaolong and sometimes joking with each other, love each other often asked tentatively. As a result, both remember. Bride speaks Quotes "The village with my age, and are mostly concentrated in the New Year to each other and if unsuccessful, have to wait the coming year." Chen Xiaolong Xu Fang glad to know. He privately told reporters: "love last a little numb, kind of sense of relief success." They are Chen Xiaolong village a tempest narcissus matchmakers know. The sixth month, the two sides meet about Xu Fang family. Chen Xiaolong said: "before the meeting, a rough situation matchmakers, dating mainly to find sense to meet,woolrich parka,http://joomla.templaza.net/titania/index.php?option=com_community&view=profile&userid=31077, as long as it feels right on the line." After the two meet, I am feeling okay. Parents let them alone to talk for two hours, the matchmaker came over and asked both sides meant. The answer is become. So, the next program will start soon, and both parents sat together,http://www.51haoshui.com/news/html/?898942.html, under the coordination of the matchmaker, the bride began to discuss other things. After some bargaining, the two sides agreed bride price money of 160,008 yuan, the "Four Golden" (gold necklaces, gold bracelets, gold earrings, a gold ring) is excluded. "We do not much want to, now is this market." Said Xu Fang parents, "said the less, it is not Jingui our daughter." January tenth, Chen Xiaolong as a man, do a few tables, some relatives were invited to the woman's home for dinner guest at the home, considered betrothal. Wang matchmaker Narcissus is a senior local matchmaker. She told reporters that the woman is now proposed bride, year after year. "Bride price line price is now 160,000 yuan from, so to marry a daughter is not simple, not tens of million of get down, because you want to build a house." Acquaintance seven days of cohabitation Sixth month, Chen Xiaolong and Xu Fang phase that day, Chen Xiaolong parents proposed that Xu Fang went to Guangzhou to work with Chen Xiaolong. Xu Fang parents agreed, since the two sides set up, you have to work in one place. "But if you want our daughter out to work with dragons, that have to pay a 100,000 yuan. Money, his daughter told him to go out." Xu Fang parents said, "a little girl after all suffer in this matter, there is no guarantee that money nothing." The two sides had no objections. Therefore, in the tenth day of the first month betrothal ceremony that day, the man on the spot to pay 100,000 yuan, Xu Fang Chen Xiaolong stay in the home. The next day after the betrothal, month 12, Xu Fang Chen Xiaolong together along south to Guangzhou. Chen Xiaolong heart has figured, no accident, then, this can be a father. Although they did not receive a card, but do not mind living together before marriage. Chen Xiaolong not worry license, they felt they had to live to see. "In fact, this is a bit of trial marriage meant." He said, "After all, the two men from dating to betrothal, a total not seen a few faces are no longer in contact with each other and sometimes nature is not apparent. Therefore, if it is substandard, then, did not receive a license to break up is not so troublesome. " A survey of the China Youth Research Center, Beijing, Shandong and other provinces and cities in four young migrant workers,scrape hogan, the new generation of migrant workers for premarital cohabitation, endorse,Veste barbour, support, and hold the indifferent attitude of the ratio was higher than the previous generation of migrant workers, and resolutely opposed to premarital cohabitation The ratio is lower than the previous generation of migrant workers. Chen Xiaolong, Xu Fang not even intend to contraception. "Breakfast is not right to have children, have children, the situation will be more stable, more solid relations between the two." Chen Xiaolong said. "Now we are doing that. I know my brother's sister-in-law is also blind, children 3 years old two people to receive a marriage certificate. "" At that time fine money, give children the last account, not a difficult thing. " Substance emotional game "Urban youth flash marriage,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/mamapan/21110208.html, largely based on the personality to attract. And the new generation of migrant workers shanhun is different, neither city free marriage, but also non-traditional 'parents to enrich people'." Nanjing University community Doctor Wu Xinhui pointed out that they are more heed to arrange family, choose an object in several meet marriage. "Men and women from both sides met and quickly crossed love period, direct a family. Shanhun in both men and women communicate very short time, not to mention to cultivate their feelings, and even have time to know each other." Wu Xinhui said, "and the modern Marriage is the most basic foundation of mutual understanding, shanhun then go straight away to get married, the foundation is not strong, how to stabilize? " Shuai from Yingtan Ho (pseudonym), the Chinese New Year in his hometown, he is busy on a blind date, it is busy mopping up last year a pro. It turned out that during the Spring Festival last year, he and a neighboring village girl betrothal. He paid 60,000 yuan cash gifts, the "Four Golden" spent more than 20,000 yuan, in addition to the betrothal hop over 30,000 yuan, spent a total of nearly 12 million, the result did not become. He Shuai said the girl has been working in Shanghai, when the betrothal gifts after agreed to pay 60,000 yuan, the girl told him to work in Guangzhou. "As a result, the girl has refused to Guangzhou. I wanted to leave on,http://jijinews777.seesaa.net, so she refused to return gifts." Late last year, how handsome girl angrily to court to ask for gifts. Chinese New Year before the trial, the court mediation, the woman only willing to refund 20,000 yuan. A judge told reporters the grassroots work of the Court, the bride price in rural areas in recent years has been an upward state disputes. A girl reporter home village, a neighboring village with a blind boy combining historical awareness, years after the break up. The girl told reporters: "After only two weeks, it betrays, frequently domestic violence, had to break the man refused,http://reverse-seo.net, we would have to pay 5,000 yuan.." (Original title: migrant workers shanhun reserve 160,000 yuan experts: such marriages hard solid) (Edit: SN054) 

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