East today reported that the girl with the help of real examples around and Li Yi Shuai share: not well on the exam, there is no future, nor is it well on the exam, would not be able to repay the. Li Yi Shuai and his calligraphy<br>I drove 400 kilometers to help save the girl, then talk of Candidates<br> <br>[College entrance examination is the only way out? ] Pingdingshan Ye Li 20-year-old high candidates, because his father died young mother left his childhood, brought by the grandparents. Of gratitude, he dreams in the hands of the college entrance examination, but did not reach the two-line college entrance examination, he was hard to accept, even expect to go to ruin, for help after the girl out of the woods with the help of this report. College entrance examination, really is our only way out?<br> <br>□ East this report to help the girl Fu Yuhan / Ventura & nbsp;<br> <br>Chief reporter Liu Dongjie / map<br> <br>For 15 years, "life-long learning, pay a harvest," Li Yi Shuai has inspired life. Today, standing in the fork of the college entrance examination, but Li Yi Shuai confused. His dream was brutally shattered the college entrance examination scores. "I really do not know how to do? Home for years nearly 80-year-old grandparents, especially unworthy of their years of parenting." Li Yi desperate handsome Oriental Daily News called the hotline (0371) 65830000 for help, "I want to live, You are my last hope. "<br> <br>[Help] college exam guy want to commit suicide<br> <br>June 26 morning, the Oriental Daily News hotline received today Li Yi handsome phone. He said he was a high Pingdingshan Ye township candidates Xindian Village south of focus have been repeat for two years, had only 468 points this year, liberal arts two lines from poor 15 points, "I've never had such a low test Score, really want to live, you are my last hope. "<br> <br>Li Yi Shuai said he 20 years old, 5 months old when he was suffering from leukemia, his father died, his mother abandoned him cruel. Grandparents will he care for adults, for his school. He was very motivated and the elderly to his biggest hope is that "on a good university, promising future." "Managed to get so bad, hurt the old couple followed worried, what face to face them?" Li Yi Shuai said, he suddenly lost direction.<br> <br>[Visits] poor children Commendation paste Manqiang<br> <br>Although the brutal college entrance examination, you can not become a stumbling block in the way of young lives? June 26 at noon, the East this report to help the girl after receiving the call, immediately drove rushed nearly 200 kilometers away from Zhengzhou, Li Yi handsome home. Posted on the wall of his house, the house dozens of awards, is the witness Li Yi Shuai efforts to study the road, but also the pride of two elderly people. 79-year-old grandfather, to get up early to go to the market to sell the tomatoes have not yet returned, his elderly grandmother in bed rest due to leg pain.<br> <br>Lift the college entrance examination scores, Li Yi handsome red eyes. Grandmother to grandson extremely love, "usually learn these days also, he is too much pressure." Said the grandmother,hogan outlet online, she felt she and her husband caused psychological burden grandchildren, watching grandson desperately reading every day, and very mature sensible, both distressed and remorse.<br> <br>[Struggle] belief in life derailment<br> <br>In the eyes of grandparents, Li Yi handsome smart, sensible, hard, not fun; the teacher's eyes, he was mature, motivated, active positive; in the minds of the students, he great sense of responsibility, is a real good class cadre. Two college exam, let his heart weird smells.<br> <br>○ do not want to repeat worry about "child wants his parents wait"<br> <br>Shuai said Li Yi, grandfather struggling to make money selling vegetables daily figure, so he often wept when they remembered. "It's sad, they pay for many years in the hope that I can on a good university." Li Yi Shuai remorse, he let grandparents once again dashed hopes.<br> <br>"This dream existence for 15 years. I hope that through efforts to change the fate of early filial." Li Yi Shuai said. So, has twice participated in the entrance of the Li Yi handsome, does not intend to repeat this year, he was worried about wasting a year's time, "the child wants his parents wait for." "I feel on a college or three, especially the elderly sorry." Li Yi Shuai into a contradiction.<br> <br>Two boxes empty pen, one filled with the "struggle" of the paper, as well as his love of calligraphy, writing serious "life-long learning", "pay a harvest," the inspirational language, supporting him through two years of college entrance road .<br> <br>"Spare" is Xindian High School teacher Ma Xiaoping Li Yi commander of the deepest impression. Ma Xiaoping said his patrol sleep every night, always see Li Yi Shuai reading in the corridor, and in the students minds, get up early every day still is Li Yi handsome.<br> <br>"12:00 every night before sleep over, get up before dawn." Li Yi Shuai said, "I feel particularly unfair fate, their own life experience ups and downs do not say, years of hard work pay no return, faith suddenly collapsed." Li Yi Shuai suffering with , find the exit.<br> <br>[Help] communication Sa hours he laughed<br> <br>Half an hour before the arrival home of Li Yi Shuai, Li Yi Shuai has bow silent, listening to his grandmother distressed remorse.<br> <br>Interests is a breakthrough, Li Yi Shuai took three written word, to reporters,moncler outlet milano, opened the Round Table. He was like a rush to defend themselves wronged who are forever telling the heart depressed, anxious, anxiety,http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, self-blame.<br> <br>East today reported that the girl with the help of real examples around and Li Yi Shuai share: not well on the exam, there is no future, nor is it well on the exam, would not be able to repay the.<br> <br>Communication for an hour, Li Yi handsome and fell silent, but his face looks eased a lot.<br> <br>2013 college entrance examination, because no test to the two lines, Li Yi Shuai hastily give up work outside the home. This year, he decided not so timid, to bravely face the reality.<br> <br>Three hours of conversation, Li Yi Shuai relaxed a lot, no longer bear the psychological pressure so that he could not breathe. 15:30, the reporter left, Li Yi Shuai sent to the door, with a smile on his face. "Because of the pain, so called youth. I can not decadent, thank you, your arrival, save me, but the moment I obsessed." Li Yi Shuai message to help the girl.<br> <br>19:00 the same day, the East this report help to Li Yi handsome girl again on the phone, grandfather vegetables has not returned two days is not out of the house of Li Yi Shuai has been in the field of sheep. Reporters found that Li Yi handsome QQ signature, from the "Shuai, I'm sorry,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/index.php?/news/comments/20091204+AF8-google+AF8-public+AF8-dns+ACIAPg-http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/index.php?/news/comments/20091204+AF8-google+AF8-public+AF8-dns+ADw-/a+AD4, this world, goodbye" had been replaced by his favorite "the brightest star in the night sky." Shuai said Li Yi, today reported that this "star" to guide him direction ...... DF<br> <br>College entrance losers we see your efforts<br> <br>[College exam does not mean loss of life! ] Entrance examination this year just passed, Hefei and Dalian in two places, there are two successive college exam boy jumped to his death, a 18-year-old a 19-year-old. Annual college entrance examination,hogan outlet, there is always such a tragedy, college exam I really do not equal life lost, life is a marathon, cheer up!<br> <br>□ East this report to help the girl Fu Yuhan / text<br> <br>Chief reporter Liu Dongjie / map<br> <br>Li Yi Shuai was lucky, in his most helpless, lonely,http://repository.aichi-edu.ac.jp, East this report with the help of the girl drove 400 kilometers back and forth, let him regain confidence,doudoune moncler femme, but also to dispel his extreme never read. Over the years the college entrance examination, people are concerned about the college entrance examination candidates at the same time super, find different versions of college exam suicides also occurred in these students' college entrance examination obsession, the college exam equals failure, "in their most vulnerable period, most in need of recognition and care. "<br> <br> 【event】<br> <br> <br> <br>College exam flowery life fall<br> <br>June 24 this year,http://www.kct.or.jp, the college entrance examination results announced Anhui, Hefei, Bengbu Road iron Nunnery new district, a 18-year-old boy, jumped from the 27th floor. Informed sources, the deceased was a high candidate this year,http://brc.riken.jp, choose to commit suicide due to exam failure.<br> <br>The next day, Dalian Jinzhou New Area, a district of advanced street, 19-year-old high candidates ocean, jumped from the 15th floor of its own,http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=200, ending his young life. Insiders said that this year is the third time to take the exam ocean, with the University missed the previous two losses, this year saw him score ranging unclear if he could go to college, he chose an extreme way, left this world.<br> <br>College entrance examination and a half years, a series of tragedies occur, while in previous years similar events continue to occur. Our grief, he reflected: Why would frequently spawned suicide tragedy, parents, community, school, how to guide students? College entrance losers, how to correctly view college entrance examination?<br> <br>[Reflections]<br> <br> <br> <br>"We saw your efforts."<br> <br>In the "can not lose at the starting line," "score above all else" under the concept, there is nothing better than saying "We saw your efforts." "You did a great job," make people feel warm it?<br> <br>○ extreme belief intolerable<br> <br>"On a good university is not equal to anything." Henan Institute of Mental Health Zhaoyue Ling, deputy director of analysis, the choice is diverse, "black and white" extreme belief tolerated.<br> <br>"In addition to the pressure of school, community, high candidates from family pressure is relatively large." she said, many parents expect their merger to put the kids, for the family to study, get well sorry parents hard. "This is a misunderstanding, let the children carrying too much emotional debt."<br> <br>Education Science College, Henan University Professor Wang Yao believes that the college entrance examination is indeed brutal, full of resentment does not exclude candidates, "from society as a whole is concerned, the college entrance exam selection formula will still exist for a long time,http://www.mgjshop.co.jp/P0555.html, still it is the most fair way, especially for poor students in rural areas. "Wang Yao said," if the loser does not lay down extreme idea, under extreme psychological, really easy to have an accident. "<br> <br>○ growth is more important than performance<br> <br>After the annual college entrance examination, the overwhelming entrance examination candidates super strong incoming reports. Social atmosphere formed, so that defeat candidates also have "abandoned by society" feeling.<br> <br>"Over the last two years, media attention on the college entrance super candidates, not only in points, but in the comprehensive physical and moral development, which is a welcome change." said, but reflected to the parents there, should not only see the college entrance examination scores, while ignoring other aspects of outstanding students, "the right to treat the university entrance exam, the child's ability to correctly deal with. is that most parents and children need to learn together." said the child's growth is more important than performance, the meaning of life and not only that the college entrance examination.<br> <br> 【statement】<br> <br> <br> <br>Losers and most in need of care recognized<br> <br>If you defeat the college entrance examination, how to resolve and correct treatment? Zhaoyue Ling believes that at this time they, psychological most vulnerable, most in need of acceptance and care from family and society.<br> <br>Zhaoyue Ling said, as parents, teachers, expect nothing, we must first calm, to be sure the child's efforts to pay, no matter what kind of results to be accepted. "Adolescent kids are prone to extremes, parents in particular, to pay attention to a child's psychological changes, let the children feel honest to recognize and care, it is very crucial and important."<br> <br>For college exam who Zhaoyue Ling believes that she did not encouraged to repeat, life is very long, there are many opportunities comeback. "First Reflections, is not too paranoid or himself too seriously the college entrance examination, it is recommended to look at the positive energy of the books and videos and get rid of negative energy transfer." he said that in the case of unhappy, how to turn negative energy to positive energy, human life is worth a big learning ability. "Wish Qianzhuan attention into social work-study, or to do some public service,http://www.masologne.org/spip.php?article176, social perception,nike tn pas cher, furthermore to stay away field trips, can resolve the inner depressed, increase the strength."<br> <br> sound<br> <br> <br> <br>Like college exam can be taught<br> <br>More than high candidates, exam failure due to murder triggered, so users and through the entrance of people to marvel at.<br> <br>"Entrance, who is also my sad, but I did not mind too much, life long way to go, we have to find their own life at home, the end of a stage, no matter how the results like we have all fought , do not regret, however, the life is free to end at this point, it would be too let down the people around. "Netizen" If the heart does not fear sunny sadness "bare their own voice.<br> <br>Also I have friends that family education throughout the child's education accounted for the proportion of 48%! And the teacher is just 10%. "Correct, positive family education is the most critical factor in the child's character formation, indispensable."<br> <br>Netizen "Blue Moon lan" encouraged by experienced defeat, he said he was a student get the job seven years ago, gave up university south to work, and now have their own service company, and he himself was the university "charge." "University, but come early to late. Experienced hardship, more aware of what they want." Internet users believe that college exam is really not a big thing, as long as serious efforts to live the same talent.<br> (Edit: SN010)<br>
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