From the 2013 college entrance examination only less than a month's time,Wv8ql6V2WW, the exam is approaching, anxiety,woolrich outlet milano, tension, I believe there will be many candidates, and parents are no exception. College Entrance footsteps getting closer, candidates, parents how to solve the psychological problems encountered? Who should seek help? Recently, this reporter visited high schools, students and parents understand the confusion.
Candidates close their
Do not want to communicate with people
Wu Meng (a pseudonym) lively,, is a cheerful child. After entering high school,VHMxzVpNgd, learning pressure, she was more taciturn, rarely go home after the exchange of learning and parents. At night a week ago, when parents ask her the next day when the course schedule, Wu Meng has become very irritable, she shut herself into the room, on white paper write "Do Not Disturb" four characters posted on the door .
Psychological expert analysis: student achievement dissatisfaction, real results and expectations of a gap,doudoune moncler femme, more traditional family education, parents often use identity pressing child, causing the child nowhere to vent depressed, very depressed, would rather not speak.
The solution: Parents should consider the issue from the child's point of view,X52h2Jt101, sincere talk with children recently encountered unpleasant; let the children go out activities, music decompression.
Parents leave Paternity test
Children are very disgusted
Near the entrance,doudoune moncler soldes, student Chen Qingqing (a pseudonym) father suddenly raised, ready to leave the unit a month, accompanied by her daughter until the end of the entrance. Chen Qingqing this very offensive, "I go to school during the day, you do it at home?" But father insisted "all-weather accompany" daughter can take care of all aspects of the child so that the entrance examination for the good.
Psychological expert analysis: Parents over-emphasis on achievement, that "achievement above all else", ignoring the psychological needs of other children.
The solution: Parents should calmly exam,TdEPxV2d3i, give yourself decompression, if they feel pressure, parents can discuss with other candidates,SNIyCoqxV0, but not in front of children manifested, while respecting the views of children.
Children learn top-notch
Parents also feel upset
Xu Wei (pseudonym) is a third year student of liberal arts classes, experienced a two-mode mold, his academic performance has always ranked within the top ten in the class, the class teacher for his achievements with great confidence. But his mother was very upset, irritability, commissioned by friends and colleagues to help her contact the university teacher, college entrance experts,hk1kMU5cLD, research candidates which school children in the end the better.
Psychological expert analysis: Parents too nervous anxiety, by & nbsp; "creating hypothesis" to ease, but also let the children know.
The solution: "to create hypothesis" is not a scientific method of decompression, especially not in front of the children do,scarpe hogan online,X49t1r112g, parents should divert attention, not really focusing on the college entrance examination, reducing the child's stress.
Liao Shen Evening News, Bei Guo Net reporter Gao Shu Park
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