<br>12 am yesterday, a 13-year-old boy who police called the mother and the illegal cohabitation. "110" that after police arrived, the boy's mother, Ms. Yang last year with his father Mr. Gao divorce, and is currently talking with friends, the little boy because they do not understand,http://www.88822.com/#87788/read.php?tid=980, the heart can not accept their parents divorced and re-live the fact that so alarm. Experts say parents divorced children feel should be considered, and actively guide to educate their children grow up healthy.<br> <br> event<br> <br>Talk to friends boy divorced mother alarm<br> <br>According to Xinhua, "110" police reports, 12 am yesterday, police officers and other police rushed to the Wang family wings of a cell, according to the unit and the floor, the boy provided alarm did not find the boy. It turned out that the boy's mother, Ms. Yang lived here,http://atlantic.gssc.nihon-u.ac.jp/~committee/member/comchat1/comchat.cgi, while the house there is a man. They move very helpless child.<br> <br>Parents divorced last year<br> <br>According to the boy's mother, Ms. Yang described, for some reason, she had divorced last year with the boy's father, his son awarded custody of their father. Because of the boy's father working in the field of long-term, now 13-year-old boy went with my aunt to live with, he read the first two days this year in a middle school.<br> <br>Ms. Yang said, the parents' divorce, children from the outset very opposition, she could feel the inner child, it is not desirable that they separate. But sometimes they can not marry an individual's will. For this reason, after breaking up, Ms. Yang is particularly good for children,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, for children of any request, she try to meet, and sometimes even spoiled. Before the Spring Festival this year, she bought a few hundred dollars of meat and so on, do a lot of work, I hope the New Year together with her child,woolrich outlet, but the child stubbornly followed his father to the field after the Spring Festival.<br> <br> reason<br> <br>Unable to accept the parents talk about friends again<br> <br>According to Ms. Yang described, the boy's father had to start living now, and he talked about a boyfriend,hogan outlet, the two sides are in the understanding stage. The same day, kids from school and later to his mother's residence,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, opened the door (boys mother door key),http://www.toutenphoto.net, found that there is a strange man at home, at home with the children sometimes can not accept the presence of another man, would not recognize the man to catch out of the house, his mother came to persuade the boy did not listen, even willful quarreled with his mother, and finally stormed away angrily.<br> <br>Son said, "let the police catch you!"<br> <br>"Wait, my alarm, let the police catch you!" Before leaving,piumini woolrich, the little boy said to his mother fiercely. Ms. Yang said that the child is still small,http://www.m-pep.org/spip.php?article4012, the parents can not understand such things as divorce, sensitive and rebellious heart, so that parents approach produced reverse psychology.<br> <br>"Originally, I want kids to learn to get along with, but he did not accept me!" Ms. Yang met the new boyfriend of the boy's behavior was very helpless. Faced with the excesses of his son, Yang did not know how to handle.<br> <br>Police appealed to parents to actively educate<br> <br>Police communicate with the boy's father, Mr. Gao, Mr. Gao Yang also expressed their understanding of the behavior to find another boyfriend. Police must take to persuade parents to educate their children, especially children in adolescence, should grow up healthy, do not let the child's psychology shadows and distortions.<br> <br> View<br> <br>Child psychology experts: marital breakup should take full account of the feelings kids<br> <br>In this regard, Hebei Province, Deputy Secretary for Education legal research,http://wap.66rt.com/viewthread.php?tid=57041&extra=, child education psychologist Liu Xianghong believe that the boy's behavior speaks sensitive prepubertal child psychology, which should lead to a high degree of importance to both parents. In particular affection intend divorced couple, we must first consider the psychological feeling of minor children, do not give the child's growth left unbridgeable psychological trauma.<br> <br>He suggested that when the children in this age group 13 years to 16 years, is intended to divorced parents should try to delay for some time, and other children through pre-adolescence and then divorce. In the present case, that the boy did not produce excesses, but his cognitive and emotional self-control is also relatively weak.<br> <br>Already divorced couples should be careful not to attack each other in front of children abuse,http://youknow.room.ne.jp/~youknow/limelight/kobato/217/custombbs.cgi/,moncler pas cher, so as not to leave the shadow of the child, the child's psychological development influence cognitive and emotional control capabilities.<br> <br>Marriage Expert: divorced parents guide their children a correct understanding<br> <br>For the affection no longer exists in the couple, the marriage expert, Wu is director of Hebei Province Population and Social Development Research Center, said the couple should avoid sensitive period in children youth slapstick separation. If there is no way to divorce,doudoune moncler, let the child know that parents because of emotional discord and divorce is normal, to help children correct understanding of this phenomenon, let the children try to understand and accept the fact that their parents divorced.<br> <br>However, the Director Wu said: spouses for their children grow up healthy, to make some personal sacrifices emotional aspects, but also it should be, not only consider personal feelings and ignore the child's mental endurance.<br> <br>Director Wu said: "After the couple divorced minor children should put education first, more communication, responsible party shall maintain custody of the other party's image in the minds of children, because, regardless of the child's father or mother is a child growing indispensable spiritual pillar! "<br> <br>Newspaper reporter intern Liu Huan Wang Xiaofang Li Jiefu<br><br>
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