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 Experts say parents mutilation is substantially equivalent to the use of violence against children Female Father: Please teach me how to educate their children? Today's children,moncler outlet online, parents disciplining it really hard! I can not wait to dig her heart,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3525, but she would not appreciate it! Psychological experts: from a psychological perspective, the parents of the child self-mutilation with substance use of violence is the same, is a kind of punishment for children ...... pass out,canada goose femme, "You do not listen to me, I would die for you," the information. Read the first two days of her daughter all day indulging network after the summer holidays, a mother repeatedly discouraged education Guangzhou invalid, angrily actually eat rats drug suicide. Reporter yesterday from the Guangdong Provincial People's Hospital was informed that the timely rescue, the mother has been out of danger. "Please teach me how to educate children?" Last night, the reporter called the accident the woman's husband Xu's phone. He said how to bridge the scars of this event in the hearts of mother and daughter caused,http://bbs.ynxych.com:5001/home.php?mod=space&uid=114996, how to educate rebellious daughter, he is the most troublesome problem. Mother and daughter talking and laughing now, but her daughter never apologized or expressed throughout to change. Text / correspondent Ren Shanshan correspondent Deng Lei Yi Mao SONG Goddaughter Mo mother was in tears Internet Xu, who lives in Haizhu District of Guangzhou Taiwan Chung who do construction materials business. Wife Miss Wan is in Chongqing, a full-time housewife. The couple have two children, the eldest daughter Hsiao-chen (a pseudonym), 14 years old, read the first two days in the Haizhu District. Xu said Hsiao usually like to play games online, under the supervision of their parents fairly modest, at most no more than a bell. But this summer the weather is particularly hot, Hsiao not seem to leave, bored at home every day to chat online with the students, and the Internet more and more time, at least a day more than five minutes, even to the extent of sleepless nights. "My wife did not want her to waste such a long time on the Internet, eating every day, her mother said she was a few words should be." Xu said, beginning fairly obedient daughter, but then impatient and began to talk back. "Mom say, she went back to three, we did not get her way." At 19:30 on July 16th or so, Xu go out for a walk after dinner. "A door, 12-year-old son in a panic to speak with me, 'Mom and sister quarrel, and later her mother cried out'." He said the family articles messy, daughter to stay in the room, asked her What happened, she did not say anything. Tunyao thirty grams effort to send life When I walked into the kitchen, in front of the scene that he suddenly shocked. "Some powder scattered on the ground, I saw a 'smell dead' rat poison, according to his wife's character, I know what happened." Xu says with exasperation, really far away on the door to find his wife has been lying on the ground, and the symptoms began twitching. Xu rushed quickly be sent to the Guangdong Provincial People's Hospital for treatment. Medical personnel immediately on her vomiting, gastric lavage. "Miss Wan has been sent to the hospital delirious, and the emergence of vomiting, shortness of breath, intermittent convulsions and other symptoms." Guangdong Provincial People's Hospital emergency department Dr Tsang said Miss Wan at least served nearly 30 grams of rat poison, is very serious degree of poisoning, occur once every two minutes convulsions, was once a heartbeat weakened during the crisis. Doctors worried, she swallowed rat poison amount is too frequently lead to convulsions, in the implementation of gastric lavage, at any time due to vomiting and choking, life-threatening, then immediately transferred to the intensive care unit rescue her. After several days of rescue, treatment, the current Miss Wan has passed the critical stage, but rat poison to her liver function caused some damage, it remains to be seen. Why suicide? Wife staunch character "It was his wife dead or alive in the emergency room, I saw her, really do not fight a gas, the very sad!" Xu recalled that the original case, voice choked. Anger, hurt his daughter,woolrich sito ufficiale, he has been severely scolded his daughter Hsiao meal, "she so big, I did not get her words so heavy." At the time, her daughter kept his head down, but also have failed to repent of expression. But a few days hospitalized mother, Xu saw mother and daughter and talked and laughed, but he did not confirm anything about whether it is in the past, there is no shading in the mother and daughter heart. Why Miss Wan will take extreme behavior? "She woke up I asked her, but she could not remember it,http://www.777a.cc/plus/feedback.php?aid=1672, do not know how to think, angrily eat (medicine) a." Xu said his wife's staunch introverted, do not wake up on the matter willing any more. To avoid stimulation to her, he did not dare ask. Xu Analysis Why treason? Daughter make "bad friends" In his father's eyes, Hsiao be an obedient child, a little introverted personality, but in front of his more casual, often face discipline her mother is more cautious. Like many families, the couple teaching at midnight there is division of labor, "Relatively speaking, I respect her a little, her mother is more severe." However, this year, Hsiao suddenly become rebellious up, "she likes to wear more trendy spot, her mother did not like her dress so exposed that she tone is sometimes a bit heavy." He said,http://www.cometshine.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=9209, usually the mother and daughter When there is tension relationship. Why to become rebellious daughter, Xu insisted that after her into the middle school made a "bad friends" relevant. "She usually play with classmates, dye your hair, pierced earrings, dress varied. They are the parents of children less discipline, has given up." No apology or promise her afterwards to make changes Mr. Xu said, before the holidays, when her grades because of significant progress in parent teacher conference is focused on recognition, the family is very happy. "My wife and daughter had planned to go to the beach with summer vacation, helping them to resolve conflicts, the accident did not expect so soon." Xu said, the parents teach the class teacher meeting some tips for communicating with adolescent children, but they have not had time to use . After the event, her daughter did not take the initiative to apologize to the parents, there is no commitment will not change, Mr. Xu is not willing to take the initiative to touch this scar. Father acknowledged that in fact up to now, he did not know exactly what her daughter needs. "Children at this age want, not that buy her something?" He asked, puzzled. psychological expert Focus Discrimination To teach female mutilation May play a counter-effect Instead,http://www.menqiu.com/bbs/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, teach your child may be treated indifferently all "With self-mutilation way to teach women, not only wrong, but also ineffective!" Child psychologist, Dr. Institute of Mental Health, Guangdong Qiyuan Li said yesterday, it is understood the mother to her daughter, "tough love, hate the cut," the mood, However, this method hurt every even be counterproductive. She said that from a psychological perspective, the parents of the child self-mutilation with substance use of violence is the same, all of a child's punishment, but the former do not want to hurt the child directly, but through self-mutilation to put pressure on the child, pass out "You do not listen to me, I would die for you" message. For the first time, the child may fear, guilt and in accordance with the meaning of the parents to change behavior, but in fact the heart is not convinced, over a period of time,http://hihuang.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=3020772, or will the old state Reappearance. "Wait until next time, this trick does not work anymore." Qiyuan Li said, even heavier rebellious children, that parents voluntarily give up life, with the indifferent attitude towards it all. "70" Parents VS "90" after the daughter "These days I have been thinking, grew more and more upset. Child wants to buy something, we try to meet her, so that she had been wronged did not, but why she did not listen to the views of adults?" Xu said, he and his wife count "70", but in terms of communication with her daughter there, "speak the same language," the troubles. These days, he has been reflecting on the year in adolescent parents how they respond, but found his daughter experience that is not useful, "Do not say we did want to rebel against their parents, that is, even unthinkable. The little daughter old think they know everything, absolutely not listen to the views of adults. " The essential A word Red and white face education division The two sides should support each other not to go it alone "Children have a rebellious adolescent performance is normal. The more often a strong desire to control the parents, their children more prone to extremes, fierce resistance performance." Dr. Qiyuan Li expressed. Traditional family education method is "red and white face" division of labor system. Mr. Xu, a too,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, "Actually, my father did not really understand the child's life, feelings, criticism of the child when the mother, he could not support the child really want to put pressure on the mother can only blame bad mother tube baby. Instead, prompting the mother to strengthen control. "Qiyuan Li said this in the" full-time housewife + common busy father "family. In this case the father should be given support, do not let the mother alone. Real science "Red Face" division of labor system is that both sides around a common set of principles, a performance was slightly tough, soft and some one way, rather than an "ordered a halt", a "release." The essential Words two Phenomenon troubled parents two days Avoid everything controlled breathing space to children Speech contradict rebellious actions, which are likely to occur in the first two days. Since being in the "physical and mental changes,http://bbs.uoosong.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4070238," the danger stage, psychology during this period it will be known as the "heart of the weaning period"; the most difficult to manage because of the second year students, the teachers used to call "the second day phenomenon." "Recently, complaints from parents, junior high school children to take advantage of the summer toenails, long hair as long as she can before school by school requirements washed off color nail, cut hair, and why not? Always give the child to stay a release of pressure the pursuit of happiness space, right? "Qi Boshi said, there complained to her mother," the child does not learn, face a set back in school ponytail play nice girl, home to disheveled. " Qiyuan Li believes that this is precisely the "90" children's normal socialization performance,scarpe hogan outlet, "the family is supposed to be relaxing environment to let them." "70" Parents should not have too much control, then take their experience to face the child. Qiyuan Li said do not put the child's rebellious attributed to make "bad friends." As long as the child can guarantee academic achievement, to develop their own health interests,louboutin soldes, we must let go when parents let go. & Nbsp; 

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