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 Home for two years, why so difficult Children away from home, parents looking forward to the reunion. The Spring Festival approaching, the home of Ms. Wang Weifang Shouguang, felt doubly distressed: they wanted a child together with her husband, the New Year back home, but because a local old customs were blocked at the door. Ms. Wang said, when I heard a married daughter to return home New Year, the 60-year-old father was in tears on the phone reject her, because the local old customs that if married daughter back home New Year, will be his brother "bad", the elderly do not want to make this taboo. Newspaper reporter intern Han Xiao Zhou Xin Father tears She refused his daughter home for the holiday "This year my brother got married, and if I have with my husband and children home for the holiday,Te2G7Wf3g0, the family will certainly be very busy." 5, Jinan Wang to call the newspaper to reflect, she and her husband settled in relief has been 5 years the eye to see the end of the year, has been in-laws over a five Spring Festival, she can not help thinking about things from back home. When the idea has made the support of her husband and her mother after he excitedly to parents in Weifang Shouguang a telephone call, did not think that this idea,scarpe hogan online, in their own parents there hit a wall. "The old father at first sound very happy, but embarrassed them immediately after the refusal to reconsider my ideas." Ms. Wang said, "my dad said he also wanted us to go home, but at home there, according to our habits, married daughter is not back home New Year. " According to Ms. Wang's statement, its local customs are: New Year between the twelfth lunar month to the first day Niansanli home if there are brothers or brother married daughter could not go home for the holiday. Otherwise, it might be my brother or brother "bad." If the house had no brothers, not to be bound. This old customs let Ms. Wang feel weird, but several times to persuade her father or rejected the idea. Ms. Wang said, when his father said, when the other end of the phone, it has been 60-year-old father was also in tears. Family and old customs Generational clash Wang said that his daughter has repeatedly murmured ask yourself why not return home with the grandmother, is not because grandma house blocked the road go back ah. Temporarily unable to explain to her daughter, her tears streaming down brush. "If you follow this custom, no way I would not go home after the New Year?" Because to understand her point of conflict with his father, relatives at home are also advised her to comply with the rural folk do not go home. She gave more than sad father sent such a message: "Today social development today, the family actually lost customs." The survey found a similar situation in the local and rare. The provincial capital,moncler outlet milano,ptTcwv7U2A, Ms. Wang Meng's sister-in-law and is a fellow,wBtOgsuiw5, since married ten years there is such experience. According to Ms. Meng introduction, there are four brothers whose sister-in-law brother, rural folk in the "constraints" may not return home for the holiday. And sister-in-law's birthday is the twelfth lunar month Nianliu father, whose sister-in-law are in the twelfth year Nianer home to his father's birthday. Twenty-sixth day of the twelfth lunar month birthday, she had never been allowed to participate. It is understood that this custom throughout Shandong, Henan, Shaanxi, Tianjin, Fujian and many other places there are relatively large impact surface. Although with the changes in society, it has been quite fade, but some cases are still uncommon. "Back to someone" make five into couples "civil war" There are two weeks away from the Spring Festival, we figured home for the holiday. So the question comes back to the man's family or the woman's home? Accordance with the "old rules", the man returned home New Year is right and proper. However, with the first batch of one-child groups begin married and have children, the New Year back to her in-laws rules have gradually been broken. "Back Whose New Year", be placed in front of the "only begotten wife" of a problem. INVENTORY AND trainee newspaper reporter newspaper reporter intern Guo Jiaqi mountain SONG Which side to return to the New Year Almost divorced couple "I was an only child, the parents, the New Year I was alone at home can be comfortable?" Zibo Jing Shi married for three years, marriage has been living with her husband in Nanchang,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, Jiangxi Province. Spring Festival approaching, Jing Shi on account of "Back Whose New Year" with her husband quarreled. "Year two years before the marriage is over in Nanchang,X9rfsJKDQs, not used, whether it is custom or New Year's diet, are related to Shandong are very different. Everywhere New Year entertainment, relatives said words could not understand Nanchang." Jing Shi grumbled, "We both have only one child, when you call New Year, although the parents did not say, but it can feel that they are alone." Originally planned to return this year from Nanchang Zibo Jing Shi home New Year's husband was opposed. "My husband is full of 'Phoenix man', he thought that if he did not come home with the New Year, let his parents and elders is no face." Jing Shi and her husband do this "cold war" for a week. They agreed last year, the New Year back home, played two rounds of next year before. In fact,R80h7hllPS, like Jing Shi as a result of "Back Whose New Year" while a dispute and a few couples. To do this newspaper survey sample 70 pairs of couples in the province, showed that 39 couples had because of "back to someone" civil war. There are seven pairs of couples that "divorce is possible." "Because of disagreement on this issue to someone's New Year, was referred to the point of divorce is not no, I had a Few mediation." Lixia District of Jinan City, the marriage registration office mediator Wang Yumei said that before the Spring Festival last year, one pair of couple New Year back home are repairing Well, the last to go, but because of the Chinese New Year which side was referred to the divorce registration office. Fortunately, through mediation, they did not divorce. Customs vary "Both together an" easy "In my personally,HQeW9b30F1, still think the New Year back home, after all, usually most of the time in her husband's family to accompany their parents too little time." Wang Qian (a pseudonym) is a primary school language teachers in Linyi City, 28-year-old, her parents In Weifang, "after the 2009 marriage, Spring Festival is in Linyi here before, just married here, he often homesick, then slowly adapt." Wang Qian said that since the two are not the same customs,nike tn pas cher, especially diet relatively large difference, if the two old people received the New Year together, will feel awkward, or two New Year turns into more work. Because this thing fight, not just young couples, there are some old remarried couples. But, let them give birth rift, not both of them to which the New Year, but their children back Which New Year. Wang Yumei said that a few days ago, she had had one pair of mediation over Pentecost remarried couples. They were previously divorced, with more than ten years, but until last month registered their marriage. Unexpectedly, it has not had a first-year, because the children home for the holiday thing quarreling. Originally,moncler outlet italia, the two have a son, the son of the woman's home,o6G65dz3sH, two elderly people think this year the Chinese New Year, people get together in a busy busy, but the man does not agree how. "My son stay with me the New Year together, you Why the hell do not you?" The woman retorted, according to Li. "There is no reason, I just do not agree." The man did not say the reason. "After I talked to did not know, probably not a good man and son relationship,TUxtI3YGGw, there are few contacts, so I do not agree with the woman's son to. Their children do not come, other people's children came, my heart is not the taste, not say exports. "said Wang Yumei, though this is one example, but now remarried couples is a large group, many people have this kind of confusion. Even if both spouses and their children have a good relationship, really happy to conspire together the New Year is not so easy. 

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