Son is gone, Tian Pei learn 23-year dream dashed photographer Cheng Qiling<br>In order to "city" dream, Tian Pei school more than once tried to take the initiative "like the city, like life":<br> <br>He was enrolled in music courses too, I want to be like everyone else in town literate;<br> <br>He spent more than a month's wages, to live in a five-star hotel, the city people want to know is how to live ......<br> <br>Town? Dream<br> <br>"I hope to be a respected man in town."<br> <br>"Like me out of rural areas, the dream is a home in the big city of Chengdu, even if only a small house, a small bed, I have satisfied."<br> <br>23 years ago, Tian Pei Jianyang came home from school in Chengdu. He went to town The reason is simple: the city eat the meat.<br> <br>1989, 18-year-old Tian Pei follow fellow school together, embark from Jianyang city car home town of Shi countryside. The previous year's Spring Festival, a restaurant in Chengdu, a journeyman of the village people come back to the field training to learn the benefits described in this bustling metropolis: "The city people can eat meat every day, eat drained vegetables, than sumptuous meal we eat well. "<br> <br>Tian Pei scientists five brothers and sisters, family difficulties, "noodles are very rare, not to mention meat, once a month can taste pretty good." Restaurant helpers then on the field training school for very attractive after the Spring Festival, He and several fellow migrant workers to set foot on the road.<br> <br>Under the help of the villagers, field training school in a plastics factory to find a first job. He soon discovered the charm of the city: skyscrapers, automobiles between Mercedes-Benz, will be able to earn more than a month in rural areas earn dry months,http://bbs16.zgyanshi.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=22870, although did not like the people in the village said that "Dun Dun meat "but better than in rural areas to eat more than a few times ...... field training school determined, we continue to live in the city. "Like me out of rural areas, the dream is a home in the big city of Chengdu, even if only a small house, a small bed, I have satisfied."<br> <br>In order to achieve the dream city, field training school start working. He often working into the wee hours in a plastic factory. Once, tired he forgot to shut down,woolrich outlet, high temperature plastic bulking agent is sprayed in the face, his right cheek almost half disfigured.<br> <br>Plastic Factory did about a year, he switched to the food industry, to help a relative boss to do sugar cakes, and cookies. 7 years, he worked hard,moncler Outlet, and hope that their ability to win with diligence and respect, to be respected and respectable body of city people. Therefore,woolrich outlet milano, even if the machine right index finger was cut off a length, middle finger and ring finger also been Jiaoduan too, even three years ago did not receive a penny wages, he felt it was necessary to pay.<br> <br>Town? Hard<br> <br>"Five-star hotel stay only for the experience of urban life."<br> <br>Tian Pei school more than once tried to "urban life", he enrolled in music courses too,http://www.ma-runet.jp/job_db/profile.cgi, even with a special person stayed one night five-star hotel<br> <br>Son Tiankang Wei's sudden suicide, let Tian Pei learn "city people" dream completely shattered. Yesterday, eight days after his son's death, Tian Pei school rejected his relatives to his son buried the ashes back to recommend Jianyang countryside, he rented housing in the area looking for the cemetery cemetery, hoping his son buried here. "My son, like me, want to stay in this city."<br> <br>In the food factory for seven years, from humble workshop to manufacturers tens of millions of assets, though he was entrusted with the technical director,http://tiger-bunny.koware.net, but he's the highest paid only 695 yuan, while the factory into a new college students, starting salary It is 1500 yuan. On one occasion, he presented his own confusion to the food factory owner, got the answer left him even more angry: "The boss said to me, you are a head of cattle would pull heavy objects, but also to take the whip to catch people in the back. "<br> <br>"The boss look down on us that we did not redneck culture." In the food factory experience discrimination deeply affect the field training school. As a people who only read the junior high school, he was caught in a contradiction of psychology: he worships formal educated people, but stubbornly believe that educated people despise him "coolies" of.<br> <br>Communication barriers caused by cultural gap, let Tian Pei learn to feel difficult to integrate into the city, he was eager to get everyone's approval, but the lack of channels of communication. In fact, field training school more than once tried to take the initiative "like the city, like life." He had enrolled in a music course, learning to blow Xiao, I hope to master a look "elegant" skills, in order to narrow the "city" of distance. But this training did not allow him to find a sense of accomplishment, and soon, he visited it since this training, courses to charge 50 yuan a lesson, "I think too expensive, can not afford."<br> <br>He even spent more than a month's wages, to live in a five-star hotel, only to want to know "city people's life is like." Around 2002, field training school with his wife and year-old son, in a five-star hotel in Chengdu area stayed one night. "Taxi to taxi back, eating a meal, just like everyone else in town." Tian Pei theory, this five-star hotel stay plus dinner, taxi costs, field training school spent nearly 2,000 dollars,http://pyb.taogg.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=309477, which he was More than a month's wages.<br> <br>Tian Pei's wife learned of her husband trying to get your act into the city had lost confidence. "We are a native of rural people, in this city for so many years, we can only hope lifestyle and city people, but in essence never be like them. They literate, playing weekend, there are holidays, they sit in their offices , bubble tea, a leisurely life, these are what we think the unthinkable. "<br> <br>Tian Pei learn stubbornly believe that they can not become the city people, the son will be able to.<br> <br>Town? Unfortunately,<br> <br>"My son jumped him 23 years of shattered dreams."<br> <br>In order to achieve the commitment to buy a car for his son, the last three years, Tian Pei and his wife learn to work overtime to earn money desperately. For something other than performance, Tian Pei learn little concern<br> <br>Field training school in opinion, let his son become the city people,http://www.nj-bridge.com/ad/Review.asp?NewsID=486, the first university, educated people will not dare to look down, and there should be some material basis.<br> <br>Desperate to earn money became his new goal. Since being humiliated food factory owner, Tian Pei learn leave the plant. He went into a furniture factory, starting from scratch and began to work in exchange for a daily overload of considerable income. A few years, he has bought a set of more than 30 million homes and a shop in the suburbs. House son's name is written. He said to his son, "and so three or four years, I'll give you buy an Audi."<br> <br>In order to realize his son buy a car, the commitment of the house, the last three years, Tian Pei and his wife learned hard work overtime to earn money, work nearly 20 hours a day. But the good news is, the son of the whole primary school results are very good.<br> <br>For something other than performance, Tian Pei learn very little care. In March, the Picasso exhibition to Chengdu. Son like painting, want to see. But Tian Pei learn that the look is not important exhibition. Similarly, this year's Convention Center Auto Show, the son wanted to go, field training school did not agree. He said to his son, the show you watched, the car is not yours.<br> <br>Field training school in opinion,http://utomir.lib.u-toyama.ac.jp, son of the city became a decent man, that is a distance between Audi and a college diploma. Buy Audi four years, he was confident; and son into the junior high school to learn, then let him not the end: his son did not want to read the key classes, deliberately test last first; recently fell in love online. Tian Pei school began to worry about their own vision for the future son go awry. When he found his son all night surfing the web,piumini woolrich, he took extraordinary measures to make his son "back on track" with thin wire up --- he severely beat him.<br> <br>"As long as there is a three or four years, I have realized a dream." Tian Pei doctrine. Unfortunately, one day after being beaten, his son jumped from the 18th floor, killed on the spot. And his son's life disappearing along the 23 years he has been working, but not dream.<br> <br>Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Hu Ting and Ma Tianshuai<br> <br>Sign sigh<br> <br>Parents want to achieve the dream<br> <br>He can not shirk<br> <br>October 18, the Chengdu Business Daily Scoop Tian Kangwei a suicide afterwards, aroused widespread concern and discussion. Netizens have to express their views on the field training school of education, which has to reflect, there are lessons.<br> <br>@ View Lin Ting Feng: Sometimes love is the actual surface of the violence, who are independent of the individual, we must learn to respect each other, love of parents should be in moderation, do not become an obsessive invisible pressure.<br> <br>@ Owen Long 2012: poor child, a very young age to shoulder too many parents are unable to realize their own dreams,http://seikyo.ehime-med.or.jp/cgi-bin/kanso/sbbs.cgi,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, and when to end the violence in this wonderful ......<br> <br>@ Jiaoziyoufang - Special Issue: Parents and children appeared out of touch feelings in the world, there is no intersection between each other. The father made a serious mistake: that the money to have it all, but I do not know what children really need. Lack of communication and emotional soul of the collision between father and son. For example, to accompany the child to kick a football, watching a movie, or even play games with him ...... let the children feel their parents respect him,http://www.haircare-style.jp, love him and let him feel the presence of love.<br> (Edit: SN056)<br>
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