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 Introduction laid divorce hate Near Beijing Andingmen a built in cell seventies and eighties of the last century, the old-fashioned red brick building in six lush trees next to a building in a building. And those "on the age," the building, like the district where residents and out every day, but also more slowly leisurely elderly. Saying the district where a sixty-year-old man, always a man coming and going. Old residents know him, occasionally say hello to him. But the old man's face is always gloomy, almost without saying a word, traveled alone dragging a long lonely figure. Apartment old man living alone has Diaoqi large iron gate, compared with the robust new security door next door, it seemed so outdated and worn shabby. This fan shaky door is always closed, in addition to the owner, very few outsiders in, the house also difficult to have a little movement. The old man called Ho Tung put (a pseudonym), Beijing. Prime age to join the army into Kivu. After the war, he returned to Beijing twenties went into a state-owned factory. This experience in the year I do not know how many people envy - and his same age peers, most of them went to the countryside, to the remote mountainous areas. How old to work after a wife, also admitted to the building, life is good. However, life is always changing. Just how old 45 years old, factory closures, the old Ho became a laid-off workers. Subsequently, marital misfortune, letting the old lie when entering the elderly has become a loner. Not the hostess, the family getting dirty. He also changed the old, as the door closed doors. He always sullenly, in the heart cursing fate, a little outside stimulation made him feel angry unbearable. How old have been laid off by guaranteeing to survive, living in poverty. He was a person's life, and sometimes do not bother to buy food to cook, often casually eat something to deal with. A long time, the body there is a problem. One day, the old I felt dizzy, weakness, struggling to any Loumen head of the old folks a call. Leader sent his son and drove him to hospital handlebar. A check, severe anemia, hemoglobin and only 2 grams. Street to take care of the old Ho, arranged for him to work with a look at the car. What if the old man after watching the car, although revenue increased, but did not reduce heart resentment. Whenever a high-end car into parking spaces, see people relaxed demeanor as well as the owners and enjoyable family life, how old my heart will give birth irrepressible jealousy. Some owners of arrogance, when a dispute charges, the owner thrown over difficult listen, let him resentment injustice. He began brewing old revenge. Night to vent their anger bar car caught Since the old district where there is no specific parking lot, how old the wall downstairs car is always parked a slip. First accounted roadside, then gradually invade the garden floor between. District where more and more cramped space for residents without cars watched public space occupied and helpless. Late last year, Ho Tung began secretly put the district where the pick-up of discarded steel decoration. Back home, he put the bars sawn hacksaw blade tip shape, then use plastic foam as a base, but also to the hardware store to buy some long two centimeters of concrete nails. He decided to use these sharp nails pierced a vent pressure channel. On a cold winter night earlier this year, Ho Tung put in his pocket filled with a few homemade nail, quietly out the door. In the district, he found a few "dislike" of the car, put the nail in the tire below. The next morning, the old district where He chose to view, and she saw the owner of the car and around the deflated tire curse, then sighed spare change. How old like a child, mischievous pleasure arises spontaneously, or even have a sense of accomplishment. One after another, the district where cars were slashed frequent event. Because the old district even property companies are not, the owners are in addition to the report, there is no other way, and some had to be transferred to the car elsewhere. Listening to the owners of ridicule, Ho Tung put too worried about being caught, the convergence of the hands and feet slightly. But he always felt not fun, it gave sights outside an upscale restaurant district. The restaurant door often rows of parked cars dining guests. One night, the old Ho wearing military cotton coat, wearing a dark hat, carrying a bag of nails appear at a restaurant near the parking lot. Taking advantage of the parking lot when no one, he crouched shadows, put a nail in the tire underneath. When put nails, how old also spent a lot of thought. If the car park is a forward,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/brandcouture/ac-4946.html, you can forward the front drive away, he put a nail in front of the rear car tires. If the car needs to leave the parking backwards, he put the nail on the rear of the car in front of the tire, so the owners can not easily be found. For several days, the old bar where half a dozen cars parked in the parking lot of the restaurant car. "Prank" quickly alerted the restaurant operators. Maitre led security carefully reviewed surveillance video of the incident and found each to about 23:30 to 1:00, there is always a man appeared in the parking lot, next to the car repeatedly squat, up, acting very suspicious. That night, security surveillance video from the display, find this man appeared in the parking lot. Predictably, Chuaizhuo a pocket of old nails what was caught on the spot. Everyone saw how old age,louboutin pas cher, his face could not help but be surprised. Foreman Fumou recalls:. "This man appears to have five or six years old, about 1.76 meters tall, good health, live in the district next to him told us that the bar car is in retaliation, 'You drove a good car I do not open on envy '. " Readme difficult to resolve depressed In front of the police, Ho Tung put quickly on account of the fact that the bar car: "basically every day to put nails, start chipping away, rolling a two cars a day,http://takao-sato.seesaa.net, after a few bar car, no one found me put a few nails on a daily basis. "Within a few days time, and Ho Tung in a nearby restaurant district put a total of nearly 50 nails, tie a dozen cars. Police: You and the owners no injustice Wu Chou, why should tie their car? How old: unbalanced mind. Because they have cars, I do not, to tie their tires. Obviously he took it all comes down to fate for their injustice. "I'm divorced, life is not very happy to see someone better than me, I feel particularly unfair and wanted to use the bar car vent their dissatisfaction." How old is not unique in this attitude. A few years ago, a 59-year-old retired old tires also because the bar was arrested Dongcheng police, while his car rolling over more than a hundred vehicles, committed crimes spanning four years. When people hear the same prison as the old man's face wrinkled because tire rolling into the detention center, were surprised, because never before. Reporters interviewed the old man Chengang Hua (a pseudonym), he also points to how similar the old voice: "From the factory back, made only 380 yuan a month wages, and later found a guard's job, every day to ride car rushing three hours a month to earn four or five hundred, two add up to more than 1000 yuan, felt very unbalanced. " "That summer there is a pouring rain, I rode my bicycle to work, just a car passed by me, splashed water all over me, also I pushed a flood roadside pit, feet are wet. That driver stopped the car not to apologize to me, but I said, pointing to my meal, and then sped away, "Lao Chen said angrily:." I did not hate the hands of bricks, we start from here I have had revenge family car idea. " Compared with the old Ho, Presbyterian seemed more cheerful, perhaps because his life as well as well as his wife gave birth to a baby daughter,http://www.gyonet.jp, accompanied, perhaps because he usually loved sports and singing. But he also talked about life after themselves into old age, failing to love a dead end, impenetrable psychological characteristics of depression. "I'm the person has two sides, especially gloomy sometimes, many times to commit suicide. Sometimes they especially sunlight, the day before I was arrested, we organize neighborhood chorus, I also took 50 people sang their series" Song harmonious community. "" Presbyterian Although lead us singing "Song of Harmony", but his heart was always filled with discord. Sang the chorus of the next 6:00 and more, Chen Ganghua as ever, but also secretly leaned in a parked car stickers wall, bending tools punctured the car's front and rear two tires, then calmly prepare go away. At this point, squatting police in front of him on the spot with the seizure of a bicycle strip bar car ground to a pointed tool from Presbyterian coat pocket. extend Why the elderly "violent" Presbyterian, how old story though is the case, but the difficulties they face, in fact,http://tabilog25n.com, is the life and psychological problems many elderly people will encounter. Every day, there are a lot like the same old lonely old Ho wandered the streets, they have no children, or a year or so children can see one side. There are some old people like Presbyterian, even though there are family, but low income, living in poverty. The judge told reporters, from the total, the elderly population is not a high crime incidence, but with the accelerated aging society, mental health problems of the elderly, as well as problems caused delinquency has become more prominent. Restore site Seven-year-old beat the driver October 21, 70-year-old Hunan Yemou the bus, on the train after the shake staggering around. He thinks the driver was deliberate, thus triggering a conflict. Car video recording of the whole process of conflict: bus driving, Yemou pointing angrily rushed to the cab the driver, grabbed her right hand grip the steering wheel. The driver instinctively thrown a little old man with his right hand, hit him in the head. Yemou driver when coming down on the steering wheel. The driver pushed him away, and quickly stop. But Yemou did stop, but once again rushed to the driver grabbed the hair, her tightly pressed in the body, but also grabbed the driver feet ...... conflict continued three or four minutes. Authority figure "Empty nesters" criminal yearly Chaoyang Procuratorate statistics released show, "empty nesters" criminal cases annually, in 2011 the hospital public prosecution department for more than 60 years of "empty nesters" criminal cases 17 17, 2012 21 21, on the rise situation. "Empty nesters" offenses mainly related to intentional injury, theft, obstruction of official business, credit card fraud, five counts of copyright infringement. Which occupy a large proportion of intentional injury cases, accounting for 47% of the total. In these older criminal suspects, men accounted for 89% of the total number of foreign migrant workers in Beijing accounted for 45% of the total, Beijing Ji unemployed or retired staff accounted for 26%. According to statistics, by the occasional conflicts caused a total of 19 criminal cases, accounting for 50% of the total. Prosecutors found that in these cases, the suspect lack of care within the family, tensions with neighbors, friends, lack of communication and exchange, the suspect character of people more sensitive, anxious, often because of some minor problems can lead to major conflict. J178 Illustrations Ping Chenqing H126 (Original title: violent temper rolling tires to vent their anger for the elderly) Poverty is the main feature of "violent" elderly. Some laid off because there is no early retirement pension, or a lower pension, living in poverty. While their bodies gradually aging, long-term insomnia or depression, and some elderly people with chronic diseases. Long solitude, the lack of unaccompanied, family care and social care. Some elderly people are under enormous psychological loneliness and loss, attitude gradually becomes less normal. reality How can the elderly violent temper Dongcheng Procuratorate prosecutor Shiwen Rong believes that the current China has entered the aging society, the number of elderly people due to the divorce, low income, children are not around and other reasons, a lack of care and others care for life, they produce abnormal psychology, followed by a criminal problem . Most of these people are male, a common feature of the cultural level is not high, poor living conditions. The elderly woman was busy with housework, while you can find peers and not too stuffy in life. However, some men have nothing to do after retirement, coupled with bad with people, failing to love into a dead end, it is easy to make extreme things. Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, Professor of Law Zengqing Min, an expert study criminology, though already over 80 years old, but hale and hearty, speak clear, and every day surf news. Old had told reporters that the issue of the elderly is a worldwide problem,moncler outlet milano,http://msmc.dip.jp, it is worth the whole community to pay attention. "China has its own characteristics, the current generation of 60-year-old people, many of them are old youth went to the countryside. Although these people have outstanding talent, achievements through exercise and hard work at the grassroots level, but that is a minority Most people still lack of education, lack of labor skills throughout decades, most people do is the underlying work. " Because of these characteristics, some people on social discontent, ideological imbalance, there has been the phenomenon of hatred. "Older later, is not the same physiological and psychological state are not the same." Professor Zeng Qingmin said, "especially the elderly decreased mental brain, there has been brain degeneration, prone to Alzheimer's, stubborn temper, temper. And manual workers psychological state will change, often because of a trivial matter, but turn on the twisting, with lower income, more and more tired, irritable, so incomprehensible behavior occurs, it is the social problem. " Professor Zeng Qingmin example, such as the elderly bus, the government has a preferential treatment for the elderly policy, Beijing has done well, on the bus conductor will mobilize passenger seat to the elderly,http://hsbc-manual.com, to prevent elderly falls, but also to avoid unnecessary trouble. "The old man and the child's temperament is similar to a child's heart damage is relatively large, old people too. If you are dissatisfied with something, it will have destroyed the heart." Zeng old said, "If these older people should enjoy welfare policy, he did not enjoy would be misleading, such as government departments say these things not under my control, the elderly will be angry. "Staff of the implementation of policies in place, explain the problem, the elderly will be calm, even if things do not and will not be angry . "Our work is done to protect the rights of the elderly, can quell a lot of unnecessary events." Professor Zeng Qingmin said, "is very important to protect the interests of the elderly, such as the pension problem, with children can rely on family support, no children how do? Some old people lack the care and warmth, especially the family lost only the elderly, unaccompanied, a long time, mental status will change. " Peking University Law School Professor Kang Shuhua specifically studied elderly crime problem, in his view, changes in the social status and role of the elderly, it can cause significant psychological impact. Way out To provide spiritual support to the elderly Language on Social, everyone will encounter a variety of physical and psychological suited to the problem. How can we resolve the "violent" of the gas old people's minds? This reporter also interviewed a number of empty nesters family, who found good community relations for the elderly, to live relatively well. 83-year-old Ms. Meng lived in the courtyard building Ditan community, only an only child, but also has more than 50 years old,nike tn pas cher,http://www.neurodermitis.ch/cgi-bin/neurodermitis/search/search.cgi, his son and his wife usually live in the suburbs, if no big deal, basically once a week to come back to visit the elderly. But health Oldest accident prone. Not long ago, this reporter to interview Meng old lady home, met the old man alone at home,louboutin soldes pas cher, but her attitude is very calm and serene: "There are difficulties, neighbors will help me." The old man told reporters, "The last hospitalized for surgery, we often not at home, stroll the neighborhood to help us half dog. Usually there's anything such as door is broken, someone will come and help fix my wife's legs and not very good, there is an old folks to help us three or four years of utility bills to pay. " Meng old woman's leg had surgery, only pushed his trolley out. To see her out of inconvenience, the neighbors often help Miss Meng shopping. One day Miss Meng go out to buy biscuits, a 70-year old neighbor enthusiastic to stop her: "You go back, I'm going to help you buy." Live in a big yard, relations between neighbors for many years is very harmonious, after Ms. Meng's wife sick, courtyard almost half of them go to the hospital to see him. A former surgeon Meng old lady used to see illness and death,doudoune moncler soldes, the difficulties have not shed their own tears, but genuine help for neighbors, the elderly are hand wiped tears: "These neighbors are too touched me." society Crisis relief "Rebuilding the spiritual world" The reporter heard such a thing, 10 years ago, an old man to the altar communities suffering from depression, New Year's Eve to choose to commit suicide. Informed that the matter of community committees primary immediately is at home for the New Year's committees convene all members of the team to come back, while enlighten, while contact relatives of the elderly. The old man is because children are not around, long live alone, resulting in symptoms of mental depression. Shen Qing, director of the leadership team members to start active committees, long-term assistance, chemists, invited her to participate in community sports activities, 10 years have passed, and now the old man has been restored to normal life. When it comes to this matter, Shen, director sigh, then if there is no immediate crisis relief, did not insist on 10 years of "reconstruction of the spiritual world," the effort, the elderly would be difficult to return to life again. "Then we will pay particular attention to the neighborhood community mental condition of the elderly, the spiritual care, infusion of positive energy as the focus of an aging work," Shen Qing Director said, then she smiled, "then do not interest the positive energy that word too! " Caring for elderly people living alone, "a help one" Accompanied by a reporter to interview family empty-nesters are Dongcheng District Ditan neighborhood service station Zhang Lu. Not long ago, Ditan neighborhood of Beijing as one of the pilot, the introduction of a number of aging game project, including music treatment, psychological sandbox game, vent simulation persons. Zhang Lu also take advantage of job opportunities listened to a professor of psychology at Beijing Normal University, speaking class. He told reporters that some old man appeared psychological problems, in fact, a kind of mental ability to adapt to environmental change. "After entering the elderly environment has changed, physiological degeneration, degenerative, life closed. Some people will not ring true push to the environment, some people will be particularly optimistic. Own actions and strong people will gradually adapt and change themselves, However, weak capacity to act, his relatively strong inertia and inertia, after being oppressed environment, you can not change themselves to adapt to the environment, resulting in contradictions piled up, and finally to a general outbreak. "Zhang Lu believes that people will inert and inertia, some people do not alleviate the pressure, but to increase the pressure on himself, until his own pull-down situation. But adaptable people, and the environment will have a positive interaction with the surrounding environment harmony. Community is also active in helping the elderly adapt to the environment, in harmony with the environment benign interaction. Ditan primary Renchen Qing told reporters neighborhood, community,http://www.dimelenterprises.com/node/628467/edit/components, more than 1,600 people over the age 60, 80-year-old more than 300 people, 90 people over the age of 20. Because of the characteristics of geographical communities, the elderly have more ordinary families, retired veterans also much more than two phenomena. After investigation, the community of "empty nesters" There are nearly 400 people, accounting for 1/4 of the total number of the elderly, in addition to elderly people living alone, about 100 people. More features for elderly residents, community mental health counseling work carried out for the elderly, such as to make old people receiving music therapy, psychological sandbox games, but also organized a group of medical volunteers to carry out health services for the elderly. For more than 80 years living in difficult problems of the elderly living alone, community committees, party members and volunteers also organized "one help one" activity, often called greetings to assign volunteers to visit the elderly and home help for the elderly to pay utility bills, the hospital, etc. " All in all not a problem nobody appears the phenomenon of elderly people at home. " This reporter saw the elderly community opened a special events room, which has a music therapy chair, "Sandplay" psychological sandbox game, there is a vent their anger for the elderly "rubber man." Because these items just introduced community, a lot of old folks still relatively unfamiliar to them. Responsible for the aging work Xiaofeng Jie, deputy director, he told reporters, some of the psychological problems for elderly people living alone, the neighborhood also organized these old people often participate in community activities, such as going out group play, etc., to improve their mental state, increasing communication with the outside world. J178 (Original title: Let's return to the warmth of old time) 

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