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Defendant on trial Daughter after being tripped vicious curse missed her mother to stop abusive mother tried to kill the woman yesterday When her daughter was on the junior high school, the mother of his daughter to do the bank card. To before the incident, only 16 years old Xiaowen will have four bank cards; if you do not give money, she hit parents,http://www.kuronowish.com/~yukari/cgi-bin/kontakuto/apeboard_plus.cgi?msgn/, threatening the couple; the mother will be the regular monthly 1,700 yuan to her daughter "tonic Video: daughter He brandished a knife and demanded compensation for the mother quarrel was accidentally suffocated Source: Southern Television "Today's line" money ",http://www.egk.org, but, after just more than 20 days per month, but also to the mother Xiaowen money; Xiaowen temper, had three points mattress fire home; a few days before the incident, Xiaowen also had a quarrel with his father,Tiffany Gioielli, his father a few ears fan hands; quarrel with his mother actually ask for "an apology fee" ...... There are so many misdeeds daughter, parents' education in the child's growth in the end play what role? Text, map / Reporters Linxia Hong Correspondent Lai Xuan law One of her husband's eyes, "to love their husbands, love their children more than you love yourself" mother, daughter for failing to meet unreasonable demands, was the daughter of physical or verbal abuse, she personally will fight 16-year-old only child Wu Si, causing family tragedy. Yesterday,http://www.radio-gresivaudan.org/spip.php?article1768, the mother in Guangzhou Liwan District Court arraigned for trial. Mother charged with intentional assault 10:00 yesterday, only 41-year-old defendant Xie Jun (a pseudonym), wearing hoods were brought to court in Liwan district court first. When the bailiff peeled off caps, Xie Jun exposing the gray hair. Seeing the situation, Xie Jun's husband and three male relatives could not help but silently hand wiping away his tears. The prosecutor read out the indictment in court. The indictment alleges that, August 18, 2011 20 am, Xie Jun, Chen Gang Road located in Liwan District home, because his daughter Xiaowen asked her to come up with 5,900 yuan for the purchase of Apple's problems, the occurrence of a dispute with her daughter, and then fighting each other. Xie Jun feet stumble Xiaowen, resulting Xiaowen fell to the ground and close to the ground face of a square pillow, Xie Xiaowen Jun ie sitting back, and his hands on the head Xiaowen makes it impossible to say anything, so that Xiaowen suffocation. Public Prosecution that Xie Jun behavior constituted the crime of intentional injury. Given that they have surrendered and other lighter and mitigating circumstances, the prosecutor recommended that the Court of Xie Jun between 3-10 year sentence. Absurd claim cited the war and her daughter The evening of August 17 this year, broke out a quarrel between mother and daughter. Xie Jun, said her daughter's school to do secure way, need to studio photography. But her daughter has asked Xie Jun to go home to master photography. "How could I go home to master it?" For failing to meet the requirements of her daughter, that night, the mother and daughter had a falling out three hours, her daughter also took out a kitchen knife to threaten the mother. August 18 evening, ready to go when Xie Jun, Xiaowen back. Xiaowen mother bought her Apple computer requirements, but also pay her 5,900 yuan. "She said, arguing the three hours the first night stands, wasted her time, a sum of 900 yuan. In addition, because I said she checked the accounts as well as 6,300 yuan, she felt I checked the account without her consent, to me compensation for 5000 yuan 'apologize fee'. " Xie Jun promised his daughter to buy Apple's request, but refused to give her 5,900 yuan in "damages." "You said today 5900, 19,000 again tomorrow, where I have so much money?" After being rejected, Xiaowen very dissatisfied, kicking his mother kicked, shot ready Youshen fan mother in the face. Xie Jun hand homeopathy a bar, but accidentally daughter's skirt Chelan. Xiaowen rage and put a kitchen knife on the coffee table to get turned around last night quarrel. Fight, Xie Jun feet daughter stumbled to the ground. When Xiaowen fell to the ground face just before she was buried on the floor of a square pillow, face down tummy. At this time, Xiaowen still viciously cursing obscenities Xie Jun. "She is holding a kitchen knife, also called me." Xie Jun said her daughter to stop swearing, he sat her daughter back, his hands on her head so it can not say anything. Press a few minutes later, Xiaowen voice getting smaller and smaller, finally did the sound. Xie Jun found immediately let go, call 110, and 120. "To see her daughter did not speak, I'm dying of heart has ......" Xie Jun break out crying: "I am not going to kill her, just to stop the abuse and beatings if his daughter knew it, I'd rather die .... ... " Court Focus: Intentional injury or wrongful death? Xie Jun's lawyer believes that this family tragedy,canada goose solde, Xiaowen long angered parents, humiliation parents, to stir up trouble. The same day, just after Xie Jun humiliated stop, rather than charged in the indictment "mutual combat" fight back behavior Xie Jun, is a normal defensive nature, her purpose is to put an end to physical or verbal abuse, rather than to intentionally hurt his daughter , set her daughter to death. Therefore, Xie Jun of behavior only constitute negligence causing death, rather than intentional assault. Moreover, counsel also believe that the present case there is a major fault Xiaowen of tragedy can not shirk its responsibility. The prosecutor claimed that, after Xie Jun in the Xiaowen stumble, sat her daughter, her daughter's head on a pillow in the press, as an adult, she should know what the consequences of doing so. Prosecutors believe that Xie Jun is unbearable because of her daughter's long-term physical or verbal abuse before doing so, have deliberately harm, intentional assault. Xie Jun said simply when the final statement of the sentence: "I really was not intentional, I am sorry for his family, his daughter has been my hope ......" When the judge asked Xie Jun's views on sentencing when Xie Jun whispered : "I have no comment, you sentenced me to death I have no opinion!" Mother in the eyes of her daughter: pampered childhood unreasonable Yesterday the trial, Xie Jun intermittent tears tells slowly opened the tragedy of reason: Xie Jun, 41 have college education, in a property company to work. Xiaowen is 16 years old this year she and her husband's daughter. But since a few years ago on the first day Xiaowen, daughter relationship with their parents would not very good. In fact, my daughter what they try to meet the requirements. When her daughter was on the junior high school, Xie Jun to do a bank card for her daughter. To before the incident, only 16 years old Xiaowen will have four bank cards. Xie Jun said that her daughter is not afraid of anyone at home. "Usually she unreasonable, if not money, she hit us, threaten us two couples." Xiaowen occur occasionally quarrel with their parents, parents scold, and sometimes even their parents fight, fan parents face. Before the incident, in addition to the monthly cost of living outside, Xie Jun will be the regular monthly 1,700 yuan to her daughter "tonic money." However, 1,700 yuan "tonic money" is simply impossible a month, after just over 20 days, you have to ask his mother for money Xiaowen. The prosecutor told the court produced a mattress photo, mattress pictures have been burned at the scene. Xie Jun said Xiaowen temper, had three times set fire to the mattress at home. A few days,http://121.41.32.154/read.php?tid=175867&ds=1, Xiaowen also had a quarrel with his father before the incident, his father a few ears fan. Husband in the eyes of his wife: "She loves children more than you love yourself." Xie Jun's husband Chung said: "This incident gives us peace of this family had catastrophic consequences, described as wives and children,http://www.legalforce.com, family members dead, great sorrow I feel helpless." Bitter experience, Chung believes that this tragedy can mainly be attributed to the 16-year-old daughter, violent character, ignoring the elders, to achieve the purpose of the initiative to provoke trouble. In Chung's eyes, his wife is a wife and mother, her daughter's dedication to growth,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/gion/dh-hd14er20bk.html, love children, love their husbands more than you love yourself. "We are the couple to take a moderate, unreasonable ways to educate and guide her, like a lot of ways, but did not work. Complex social environment and school environment, we can not control." Chung said his wife is caring for the child more thoughtful, meticulous. "We are also very good marital relations, when the accident happened, I deplore the daughter, but I will not sue his wife." After the incident, his wife lose, feeling rather die than live, once Xiangtiao Lou suicide. Education Experts: Parents wrong with "love" on behalf of religion National Family education expert speakers bureau, Guangdong Province Family Education Research Association, Guangzhou City, 109 secondary school principals Zhang Zhongqing that the present case, the parents have a wrong idea at the time to educate their children, that is, "love" on behalf of religion. "They thought that love is good, not knowing which of their 'love' is not real love." Zhang Zhongqing said, "As one great man said, give the child the most horrible gift - endless love, there is no principle of love. It is this 'love' for children are the real victims. " Zhang Zhongqing believes that parents really love their children need to have great love,http://www.zmtplus.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=142833, to cultivate children's tenacious ability to survive, to cultivate children's self-reliance, self-discipline, self-reliance,Piumini moncle, to cultivate children's healthy personality. Psychological experts: unconditional love become selfish children Guangzhou Brain Hospital, deputy director of clinical psychology,Piumini moncle, said Xu Wenjun analysis, Xiaowen parents when raising children, too spoiled, protection, physical exertion. Kids take for granted that all parents are supposed to gradually lose the spirit of Thanksgiving, the formation of selfish character, parents need to unconditionally fulfill their aspirations. Xu Wenjun said that once formed this character, one day asked the children presented excessive, are not met, his reaction will be very strong, he will put the parents as enemies. Xu Wenjun proposal, parents should make an effort to let the children receive a certain frustration, this will mature. Notes for Editors Children as young wheat in relation to grind sometimes grind Child seen a strange thing, the village farmers sometimes grind stone rolling green wheat seedling. Oddly enough, when the wheat harvest in the coming year, the yield does seem to be higher. Children or also so be it. In psychology, newborn child will think he is the center of the world. It would have been a human psychological development necessary step, however, people always want to grow, awakening from ignorant, they must first face their own parents, and then have to face the whole world. How to deal with, it is to learn. That how learning? The ancients had said, "sticks out under the dutiful son," from the specific method it should be wrong, but it can not be said from the idea totally unreasonable. In many cases, you can only use the pain caused by a sense of frustration,http://www.8264.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, frustration to bring about mental maturity. In contrast Xiaowen mother, the children love and care,canada goose homme, and even meet her numerous unreasonable and even absurd demands, leading to mind far Xiaowen and older did not reach the appropriate level. Her tragedy, the family's tragedy, but also a tragedy educational philosophy. I only hope that the love of parents, temper justice with mercy, become a child growing up in the "roller." (TAO kaihe) Related reports: Mother daughter to buy iPad disagree because its accidental smothering Share: welcome to comment I want to comment Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging (edit: SN017) 

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