<br>Chongqing beat 10-year-old girl in the elevator cited concern about a half years old baby boy. Psychological experts say --- four kinds of reason easily lead to violent child Source: Culture News - New Culture Network<br> <br>News Alert<br> <br>December 5, "elevator girls in primary schools in Chongqing half years old boy beat, suspected to be dropped on the 25th floor," the news attracted attention. Currently, the boy has regained consciousness,barbour france, the elective surgery. Lee infant girl fell due to a minor will not be a criminal investigation, the injured baby family has filed a civil action filed. Meanwhile, Chongqing Changshou District Board of Education issued a circular, said that after the incident, the District Board of Education now requires all types of schools at all levels of the district Mopai situation,peuterey sito ufficiale, strengthen students' moral and legal education, good student psychological counseling.<br> <br>Faced with such a tragedy,S7xj4QNemA, everyone is asking, in the end is what caused the 10-year-old girl have such a performance violence? Yesterday, the official microblogging forward Culture News throw infant event, more than 500 users commented.<br> <br>Case 8-year-old girl playing brother steal<br> <br>Read online news,p3FAKK5f1z, Liu Changchun,sT36R6QPdb, the public was shocked. She also remembered a thing happen in their own homes, "had only told a friend as a joke,chaussures louboutin, it seems that now this is something I have to pay attention."<br> <br>She has an 8-year-old daughter, two-child policy in line with last year, she gave birth to a son. Adults are very happy, only daughter dejected. Friends still tease her, "This time there is little brother, father, mother does not like you."<br> <br>Liu went to the kitchen to cook once, turned back to find her daughter was out of plush toys to play just one month younger brother. "What?" She cried out. "I play with him." Daughter ran he said.<br> <br>After that, she found her daughter several times to steal his brother play, but not because of the heavy start, only when it is a child's jealousy, so I can not care. "It seems much more concerned about my daughter." She said.<br> <br>Kindergarten are young "Sunshine Baby"<br> <br>Has 30 years of teaching experience, Chaoyang District, Changchun City, Zhang Liying kindergarten teachers are also concerned about this incident. She said that kids love to be education. Her teaching goal is to cultivate "Sunshine Baby", let the children know how to love your family, love partners, love the people around him. She often engage in some activities in teaching, so that each child claimed as a plant, and pay attention to it, take care of it, love it. Also we design a lot of activities for kids to learn how to express love.<br> <br>She said that now, a child,wqV059JUhv, a child can easily result in over-indulgent self-centered. Teach children to care for others, focusing on the feelings of others,yaDWSkk0xm, to be taught from an early age.<br> <br>Primary school principals to give the child a grateful heart<br> <br>Chittagong Elementary School principal Liu Hao Tian said the child soul of education can not be ignored, let the child have a grateful heart, family violence can not be committed against a child,piumini moncler, leading to the implementation of education, family education and school education combined. The school promotes no criticism, no penalty family education, abandon the "didactic", "irrigated", "squeeze" type of education. So that students in practice, the moral conscious awareness into ethical behavior.<br> <br>For example: In the "Mother's Day" is approaching, the students launched a "thanksgiving education." Students make a birthday card for their parents, and some students to wash clothes for parents, and some students for parents to cook delicious meals, parents expressed upbringing of gratitude. The students in practical activities to improve the understanding, purify their minds.<br> <br>Junior high school teacher should teach children sunshine state of mind<br> <br> Chaoyang District, Changchun City Experimental Middle School teacher for eight years. "This little girl growing environmental problems, there is lack of character." He said that the incident is really thought-provoking, whether it is family or school, teaching long way to go. As a teacher, to teach students knowledge, but also should teach children a sunny mood.<br> <br>"Teach children to equal justice, the students need to understand, communicate,q0E9FdlE2k, observe fluctuations in his psychological parents and children together to create a harmonious, relaxed, positive, upward growth environment." he said.<br> <br>Psychological experts<br> <br>Prevent violent tendencies seed germination<br> <br>Secretary-General of the Association of Psychological Education Dr. Wan En Jilin Province is also very concerned about the matter. She concluded there are four kinds of violent child reasons.<br> <br>Growing up in violent homes<br> <br>Children grow up in violent families, as parents often fight, or children who are subjected to violent tendencies, often suffer parents or elders play. Thus, in the child's mind, there is "violence to solve problems," the program. An encounter things,o3kEUN418c, wanted to use violence to resolve.<br> <br>Recommendation: society should pay more attention to minor children of violent parents should try to let the children escape. As Dad drinking beating, the mother can leave children at the time of my father drinking.<br> <br>Long-repressed inner child<br> <br>"This child more than the outstanding achievement, better family environment, but parents have high expectations for him." Vann said.<br> <br>Every pre-college entrance examination when, or exams, such children will be high attendance rate. They usually threw things around, hurt themselves, and so on. Such children usually taut nerves, blind study, no time to relax, no time for recreation, when you think you can not reach a parent or teacher's request, it will collapse.<br> <br>Recommendation: Avoid baby burn the midnight oil, suitable for children relaxing time and opportunities.<br> <br>Children experiencing unfair treatment<br> <br>"It's basically a second child appeared in the family." Vann said, before there is a saying,moncler pas cher, called "stupid boss, the second tip, and everyone has a bad youngest." Once you have a small, parents eyes are transferred to a small body, big kids will feel left out, marginalized, and my heart there is a sense of loss. So prone to violent tendencies.<br> <br>Recommendation: child psychology is extremely fragile and sensitive, not to "ignore" the child's psychological changes,w6DI629sq5, let love balance.<br> <br>Imitate TV violence action<br> <br>Now TV, computer universal, and many cartoon violence in both language and violent action, which became the children's role models.<br> <br>"My 8-year-old son, said students often play the 'war' game. The teacher suggested that they play kick pocket anything, they say naive." Vann said.<br> <br>Recommendation: She put all the family violent action, language discs are sealed. Son asked her, and said the students are looking at these, and the students did not see a common language. She describes "Cars," "Food Story," "The Croods" and other manifestations of love, positive film to see his son, and his son introduced to the students to see.<br> <br>Our reporter YANG Yi<br> <br>(Original title: four kinds of reason easily lead to violent child)<br> (Edit: SN098)<br>
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