<br>■ Shenzhen Special Zone Daily reporter Xu Hua & nbsp; with university graduates graduation approaching footsteps, the employment problem has become today's community college students coming to the most urgent problems to be solved, writing a cover letter, run job fairs, employers find recommended themselves, they all want in this final sprint stage of the work carried out for two months. However,http://rush-group.com/information/apeboard_plus.cgi/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=9/, some female students at the school yet another aspect of the energy used in: Employment busy busy blind date, to become "anxious to marry a family." Or introduce a blind date by their friends and family to find an object, or posted on the Internet marriage, and some even went into the marriage agency to sell yourself.<br> <br>With the increase of "urgent married family" groups, people could not help but ask: four years of college studying, what is the reason to make these college girls do not marry urgent urgent employment?<br> <br>Marriage is exactly the same standard<br> <br>"A woman, 22 years old, 1.66 meters tall, beautiful Fubai seniors seek to find in reading ...... 32 years of age, height 1.70 meters, more than a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, successful man there is housing car ......" This is a marriage Online fairly representative of many female students at school post a marriage. Levy marry older men and women and society is different it is that these small age of marriage actress, mostly in the two twelve-year-old, but the man on the standard requirements are exactly the same: high income, a house and a car of successful men.<br> <br>It is understood that the Internet has become nowadays marriage in school female students "urgent married family" looking "successful,http://www.asophoto.com/gesutoita/fantasy.cgi," the main way, dating sites and university BBS and virtual space, they have become the main platform for the marriage of the post.<br> <br>Internet marriage in the same time, these emergency married female students but also to friends and relatives and other community resources widely available. "Six months ago I will tell my mate standard cousin, and I asked her to look for suitable candidates. A few days before my cousin called me on the phone and said to me to find a suitable candidate, and this week you can see." In Shenzhen read senior girls small Chang in Hebei, because their parents are ordinary staff member, not the money to get to know the right person there is room car,louboutin pas cher,http://www.hokushinkai.com, she put their hopes in the fortune of millions of years ago to marry "rich II "cousin body.<br> <br>In addition to network marriage and family friends of these two ways, the dating has become a platform for the marriage of girls at school. Reporters in Shenzhen, a number of dating agency found that the number of female students at school in Shenzhen marriage is also a marked increase in the scope of the potential spread of the country: Beijing, Hubei, Hunan,woolrich outlet italia, Shandong and other provinces and cities in the country more than a dozen university graduates in the school girls, successful men have to throw red hydrangea Shenzhen. A Hubei female students in the "marriage message" in this expression of reason to Shenzhen marriage: "Shenzhen is a beautiful city development prospects, but also the careers of successful people gathered in the city, and I am about to graduate and would like to go there working life, But, based on their ability to be difficult, so I hope to find the other half through a happy end in this beautiful and prosperous city. As long as he career, have the ability to give me a happy life, some of the older does not matter. "<br> <br>So anxious to marry sorts?<br> <br>According to the reporter investigating a number of dating, marriage to dating in college girls school, job problems commonly encountered. Or because they have attended university without Pop general employment difficult,doudoune moncler femme, or because of the ideal and the reality gap is too large and disheartened by married and would like to take the best years "change the destiny", a shortcut through marriage and walk of life. These conditions of these girls around almost all of these standards: "There is a good family background, work stability, high income, a house and a car." The age of the man who is not a small tolerance: big ten-year-old is not a problem, conditions are good, big on fourteen years old are also acceptable.<br> <br>A positive came to dating men with candidates to meet girls in school told reporters that the female students' employment difficulty already more than boys,http://www.plick.co.jp/bbs/aska.cgi?mode=admin, many employers prefer to poor boys, they were reluctant to conditions of good girls, girls too marriage did not work for two years will face birth,http://demo.yenun.com/283/news/html/?84057.html, nurturing children, and many other troubles. To avoid immediate employment problems and pressure to survive, she choose this life "shortcut."<br> <br>Registered in Shenzhen matchmaking is over half of 22-year-old girls in school Liu also told reporters candidly reveal this state of mind: "My academic performance in general, the parents of my problems simply can not help any busy work, looking for a comfortable and stable work hard, even if found,moncler outlet italia, only enough income to rent, food, the pressures of life can not get relief. I thought to want to, want to find a high starting point of marriage her husband, can avoid the trouble of employment, but also to avoid the years of struggle of hard work! "<br> <br>Many girls are anxious to marry the same as Liu failed to find a job after several had "married life go Links" idea. So, this will be a happy marriage and life as a gateway to "shortcut" the idea,http://bjxieheguahao.com/news/html/?45622.html, and how much can be ideal to become reality? & Nbsp;<br> <br>Experts offer advice: Happiness depends on the hands<br> <br>For "urgent married family" phenomenon,http://syrup.mints.ne.jp/diary/diary.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=195/, the reporter interviewed experts in psychology Liu Yingjiang. She advised those who want to get married and go through life Links of female college students, he said:. "To give up their subjective efforts and struggle, hope that through this utilitarian marriage to take shortcuts in life does not work because marriage is the basic idea must be feeling As a foundation,louboutin soldes femme, blindly take youth and a house, a car, money, standing, and so the material conditions in exchange for very unreliable. In this way the composition of the family, even if it is rich, it is difficult to have a long happy, Because it's the starting point hidden crisis. "<br> <br>Liu Yingjiang that "urgent married family" appearance, but also from one side reflects the thinking unearned hedonistic tendencies have spread in some college students. Produce many girls in school "learn better than a good marriage," after work "done better to marry well,http://news.5000z.com/?action-viewcomment-type-hlwl-itemid-803," the negative thoughts from school after that as long as respectable marry a rich husband, life is happy, do not struggle, you can enjoy the peace of mind. This idea of pleasure by hand and is a wrong value orientation, which should attract the attention of the school and parents and make proper education and guidance.<br> <br>Liu Yingjiang also noted that with increasing pressure on employment, employment of female graduates difficult indeed to some extent, affect their confidence in the play to their talents. Some female students on the eve of graduation to become "anxious to marry a family," and nowadays society is undoubtedly a degree of gender discrimination in employment. Indeed many units are rather badly with the condition and capabilities are the boys rather than with the conditions and capabilities are more strong girls. Therefore, the establishment of equal and reasonable employment norms should be aroused extensive attention of all parties.<br> Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging (edit: SN026)<br>
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