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Sun Shiying to demonstrate how to nurse a baby shower in Sun Shiying's help, Paul mbang Yan admitted to vocational training certificates Yuesao Sun Shiying Ministry of Woman and Child Health and former Central Park Director Huang Jingwen photo (2010 Mid-Autumn Festival) 1981 12 month, Sun Shiying Liu Pingjiang father should accompany Comrade Hu Yaobang invitation to Beijing Freezing feature articles Article 846 Silkworms grandmother and babysitter Our reporter Zhao Han desert Sun Shiying a spacious living room was almost packed with reporters. They carry the camera, holding a voice recorder to record the 92-year-old woman's every move. Reporters who are so attracted to a community news: From 1985 to date, Sun Shiying before and employs about 20 nanny, she helped one of several learning from anatomy and physiology,scarpe hogan online, endocrinology knowledge to English, sewing, accounting and other skills . From the countryside to cities to work, and out of these small nanny Sun, now someone has become a monthly salary of nearly million "gold Yuesao", it was when the junior high school English teachers, and others to become corporate accounting,woolrich outlet italia, embarked on his past unanticipated road. In the news, people called Sun Shiying as "Spring Silkworms Grandma", she boarded a TV's "good list." Silver-haired old man may feel that he was just doing some very ordinary things. "They came to my house when you were a teenager girl, if not his family was poor, would not be so long to leave their parents and schools. If they desire to change their own destiny, I am willing to help them." "The little girl just like my grandchild" "Spring Silkworms Grandma" now with her daughter, son living together outside the North Fourth Ring Road in Beijing Sanshiliangting house. Since her daughter insisted on doing "DINK" The average age of this family of three has more than 70 years. Press once to play here more than a year working nanny Xiao say, this is a "typical of older households." In the 1980s, Sun Shiying from Zhengzhou Railway Central Hospital retired. At that time she lived in Zhengzhou, perennial are heart disease, hypertension and other disease problems, so the family began a nanny. Since then, time has past 20 years, Sun Shiying home also has replaced nearly 20 nanny. But as long as they work a few months here, who had a stroke, suffered from breast cancer in the elderly can always remember their names everyone, even retained some of the girl's picture. "An aromatic, tansy, such as Phoenix, the state Yan, Xiao ......" She held out her finger and full of wrinkles, a number and said, "Not many people in my family, the son of an immigrant American, so these little girls like My grandchild. " Then 18-year-old girl Ann Henan Fang is this the first nanny. In the old lady it seems, though she has graduated from junior high, but then continue to learn cultural knowledge is not got the idea. However, also found Huan mend job, so simply on the basis of 60 yuan on wages, subsidies and her monthly 15 yuan to sew school. Tansy is a love of learning girl, and especially like to learn English. Once at the church school of help her buy a tape recorder, to teach her speaking, even often take the initiative to Tansy said: "! That we started conversation (dialogue) it." Later, tansy continue to read the secondary, tertiary, In Henan,http://squaring.jp, a high school English teacher when on. However, most elderly or regret as Phoenix. Phoenix as the mother is remarried, she has several half-siblings at home. 7 years old, his father died, the mother of a daughter becomes more than a. Just read the second grade she was forced to drop out of school, and soon migrant workers. In the days of old, perhaps the girl's life for some leisure time. Then children and his wife's life can take care of themselves,http://www.democratie-socialisme.org/spip.php?article3649, such as Phoenix only need to do some simple housework children, earn a monthly 80 yuan. Over time, Sun Shiying find even everyday characters such as Phoenix is also considered incomplete, taught her to read, write, and then taught her to write a letter format. Past "semi-literate," the girl, began happily write a letter back to the countryside, and asked his mother, "Now getting bad." But not for long, her sister-in-law gave birth to a child, my brother told her to go back to help take care of. Before leaving, the Sun grandmother gave her a woolen jacket, and holding her grandmother's shoulder crying. Waiting for her life is not hard to predict - returned home to the family caregiver, can not get a penny of wages, can only resolve the accommodation and meals. "That child too hard." Sat on a wooden chair at home,doudoune moncler femme, slouch back old memories of the track, and a long sigh. She had received a letter, such letter written by Phoenix, the literacy little girl wrote in the letter:. "I am in pain." to Phoenix as brother fought a long distance phone: "She's here in my wages, whatever the outcome, you have to go home to her little pocket money now." But she did not know whether their phone play a role. Elderly later moved to Beijing to live with her daughter, mailing address has changed, she no longer as in the past year will receive Phoenix sent greeting card. "She and I may have something to talk about, to be together, then the more" Today, Sun Shiying home, 31-year-old Chong came just two months nanny. In fact, this is her first time after marriage to work out to the field, the first time into Beijing. In this huge city, short hair, extra baggage, do not love to talk with outsiders Chong is a very humble person. She is "for over." In the past, her husband opened in the southern city buses, income is not bad. But this year, her husband was diagnosed with cancer, he can only return to Zhumadian rural home care of two children, and let his wife work outside the home. Speaking of his situation at home, she with hands folded on his knees, looking calm as talking about other people's stories. But know, Chong hoping to earn more money, just once in this house is too small to be the same as Yan Bao mbang years - she is now a "gold Yuesao" the. Although the state has lost count of the elderly in their own homes swallow what worked for many years, but she still remembers the first time in 1992 saw this girl look. She looks handsome, but only 1.38 meters tall, when the door timidly. In a few hours prior to the Sun, this little girl is the door and recite domestic companies. At home, she often alcoholic father scolding. Was "young, too stubborn temper," the state Yan, simply follow the nurse's cousin worked in Beijing together away from home. But the domestic market is far better than today's open, the company has received a letter of introduction only person. "Only with an identity card," the girl dumbfounded. She met in front of the company's family, when I heard her education is junior high school, they will she back home. Here, even the rice is first steamed unfamiliar with the state Yan is starting from the cooking school. She had to strictly enforce the Sun Shiying hygiene standards. "Transparent and black hair are not the same." The old doctor said sternly, "If it is in the hospital, I have to take the white gloves nook and cranny of the room are touched again, the glove does not change color job." Memories here, state Yan "giggle" laugh, "In fact, she had never so checked." Her grandmother sometimes feel "very strict, is not an ordinary strict", but more often she admits that these experiences is helpful for their future. Moreover, in any case, "I may have something to talk to her, to be together, then you more." In the evening, they talk from 9:00 to 11:00. Sometimes, the state of Yan found bad mood, he will ask: "? Otherwise we the room to Nuenue" The so-called "Nuenue" is like many housewives as a way to convert mood, the room furniture to a "universe big diversion." Then, like Zusun Liang people will effortlessly all the furniture to the new location change. "Grandpa think we do a little ridiculous, can both of us still feel very enjoyably." States Yan laughed again. "She is the heart good to me." State the greatest impact on the transition, it occurred after she came to Beijing for two years. At that time, she has been very much at home on the general housework children. In Sun Shiying opinion, the state Yan every day a lot of free time, "you had better come to learn knowledge, anyway, do not delay things." Early in the 1930s, it passed the in Nanjing National Central senior midwifery school. There she met a Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao, Zhou Enlai affectionately called her "little fellow." Sometimes, she would be invited classmates went to Zhou, "a sumptuous meal." Mrs. Guo production in Liqun, Sun Shiying is the delivery room trainee, and later with the age difference thus far in Liqun became good friends. "Rightist", the Sun Shiying Liu Qi row together, accompanied by her husband was sent to work in Zhengzhou. Until before retiring, she practice in obstetrics and gynecology. So, the old doctor wanted to teach state Yan "anatomy and physiology." When the now recalled those stories, the elderly remember this is mainly due to the state of Yan had complained to her:. "In rural areas, sick do not know how to do" in the state Yan mind, he can not have a little bit of time you want Learning "anatomy and physiology" means, even the contrary, "At first I was too not interested, I do not become a doctor, to learn to do this?" Time, after all, can empty down, state Yan thought, "anyway, all right, learn knowledge Ye." There are always two afternoons each week, a little of this old lying on the living room table to learn. Learning content include: menstruation is how come, how the baby is emerging, knowledge of the endocrine system, and even disinfection procedures and dietetics. Despite being "amateur school" can be not relax the requirements of the classroom, students only had to make every lesson notes, before the start of the next class first pass a test, until "Well, the lesson to cross the border" considered the end. "At first bite the bullet,http://www.shogu.cn/news/html/?33812.html," the students from this course gradually found the fun. When a pregnant woman to a guest house, Sun Shiying help pregnant women to check out a stethoscope,http://sirenzainan.gotoip1.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2967966&extra=, but also to the side of the state Yan also practice a handful. It was her first time to hear the fetal heart, "I feel too much fun." Bang Yan did not know, then it seems that knowledge does not seem to need them, and in her future life, played a key role. At that time, the state Yan still a confused their future path. She was only in his twenties, educational level is not high, neglect of contact with their parents, their homes, and my heart felt "nothing." Sun grandmother in view, she is a "has low self-esteem and ego." Girl. The old lady wanted to give her presentation objects. Bang Yan height become a problem, has three men do not agree. Sun relatives of a driver, though tall is not high, said: "I am so short, may have to find a high." The first four men eventually became the state of Yan's husband. It was 1.8 meters tall man, his cousin and daughter the students, he also came to work in cities teens, family conditions are not good. In 1999, they married. Only banquet table, is Sun Shiying and his family helped repairing. Bang Yan relatives in the city, only a cousin, Sun grandmother considered "her family." When the old man will touch their tickets in a 25-inch color television as a dowry. "I'm here inseparable from the people you are married, nor can you tie in here." Sun Shiying thought, finally and accompany his several years 'granddaughter' depart. Yan gave birth to a daughter after state, in Beijing to start a Yuesao. Currently, her monthly salary has risen to 9,000 yuan. Whenever mentioned state Yan, proud look like old said his children: "! She is now a high monthly salary" However, she added, painfully, "I heard that often can not sleep at night , it is too hard. " As for the state Yan, she is already 40 years old, still often called to the elderly, to ask her mother encountered problems, but also help relieve feelings of depressed grandmother. She said: "Grandma told me to change, too." Someone asked Sun Shiying, Why should such a small nanny to help at home. Lift is an old story 20 years ago. Yan arrived in her home state of the first day, Sun Shiying due to heart disease was admitted to the General Hospital of the Armed Police. Although there is an empty bed ward, but the state did not sleep all night, but Yan, sitting cross-legged on the bed, staring at the old man. She did not know what a heart attack, do not know how to care of this disease, but she "just feel afraid, afraid to sleep as people can not hear you." "She is my good intentions." Said the old man patted his chest. "Short remote should equal" About the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" and nannies story, in fact, be found in a book called "history" book. This is Sun Shiying old 90 years old autobiography, tells the story of her and her husband's life. In this book, the nanny-related content only one of half a page. Old man wrote:. "I think the girls youth, junior middle school education, family services work is not easy ...... ...... I can do to help them cultivate it should be,http://business.mobilepreneur.com," she guess, perhaps because the book gave the branch where their , branch members found this particular period and inform the reporter, only to her attention by the media. Despite the help nanny story which only a very small part, can Sun Shiying felt, it is described in the book of life and experience, so they have become nannies now the face of such a person. She was born in 1921 in Xuzhou, Jiangsu, grandmother operating silver floor, it is the second largest city of Xuzhou wealthy. Father had participated in the Northern Expedition, the head office, and later worked as Salt Bureau in Xuzhou pickets long and Commissioner of Inland Revenue, "all fat officer." Therefore, Sun Shiying small kindergarten, church schools, senior midwifery school, received a good education. Liu Qi row with her husband childhood. Liu Fu is Huangyanpei students, former KMT Ombudsman Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Anhui, Nanjing Bureau of Education. Liu Mu joined the League in 1909, after the "Revolution veteran" status elected to the National Assembly on behalf of the KMT. Such two, perhaps difficult to imagine that their children actually joined the underground Communist Party. When they Nanjing wedding, and later in Taiwan as the "Presidential Palace Secretary-General," the KMT elder went to congratulate Qun, Li Tsung-jen, Kai-shek also sent representatives to a special trip. Just as the KMT's big man walked into the wedding hall on the first floor, but is on the second floor underground bridal dressing room, a secret meeting was held. Later, Liu Qi row with his father contrary, he joined the Communist Party of the message, even had also boarded the several newspapers. Chiang's government in order to avoid persecution, the young couple had to hide to Hong Kong. April 1949, on the eve of regime change,moncler pas cher, they sailed north, back to Beijing. Today, people take on the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" into the curious story of the family, learned that the more legendary past. Mr. Liu Qi line died several years ago. Prettily eldest daughter of anti-Japanese propaganda walk 60 miles a day so that the holding pin crying days are over half a century. Now he needs a wheelchair has been out of the old lady, or the topic will always say back to those old times. She says, his life and his influence by two people. One was her grandmother,http://www.3he123.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=6718859&fromuid=50556, it was a good woman Qing, if there are beggars begging to come home, the hostess will personally be brought before a good meal dishes beggar. While another, it is her "fellow" Zhou Enlai, "He is a no children but no selfish person." "Short remote should be equal." he said it was after she participated in the revolution has been insisting to today's conviction. This year marks the "anti-rightist" movement of the 55th anniversary, she had received the Central Organization Department Li Rui, former vice minister of the phone, I hope she write about the case were sent to Liu Qi at the line "anti-rightist" in. When talking about this topic, has been very quiet lady admitted that only in 1957, when she was "some regret." "We are not conquered only to anti-Japanese, for democracy and freedom, only against the Kuomintang, joined the Communist Party." The old party member said slowly. When talking about why dedicated power train home nanny, Sun Shiying always replied without hesitation: "Seventeen-year-old girl who came out to work, and if my child 17 years of age, I can treasure her." Until a few chat, she told reporters at the time that their children age, a time when the "Cultural Revolution." At that time she was isolated, locked in a learning class by six young guard. Every night lit 200-watt bulb hanging over his head, so that she could not sleep. Old underground party members Liu Qi rows meal, will wrap a small piece of transparent boxes into the group into every corner of the paper sometimes says "we must insist that the truth, do not be afraid to criticize Wei," sometimes written "To be honest eating a good meal. " "Those in charge of my youth,http://r1ce.kuronowish.com/bbs/apeboard_plus.cgi/, how can they do this kind of experience working underground." The old man wrote in his autobiography. Just because of this family misfortune, her child was seriously ill. "I sometimes sad, want to go home, but not willing to go back." Not every nurse willing to learn something. nanny to come home and work summarized in three kinds: some young people learning ability, "I am willing to train her, do not delay anything"; some middle-aged people, can learn nutrition knowledge and dietary with; some people not interested in learning, there is "never forced." She often said that he is "not very good temper, require relatively high" people. In her home, the door handle must be disinfected every day, can not answer the question ambiguous "could, almost," can only say "yes" or "no." Because when doctors for decades, are particularly sensitive to her nose. Once, after a nanny from the side, she smelled a little odor, we send each other immediately to the hospital for treatment of gynecological diseases. Study also did not allow everyone to live a fulfilling life. In 2005, only 20-year-old Xiao graduated from secondary school in Gansu home computer and later to Beijing. She could not find work with his profession, I had to think of "first personal home about the transition." In this way, she made a home in Sun Shiying nanny more than two years. Until today, she was reluctant to mention this experience their own, little mention in the conversation, "nanny" word, sometimes simply be replaced by "line." Xiao admitted that he "from school when this line is inconsistent." Only primary education are doing nanny cousin, perhaps one of her reasons for conflict. One day, she was walking in the street, was stuffed a cram flyer. Look inside the subject, she felt "accounting class" looked pretty good. Home, Sun grandmother encouraged her choice, but also personally sent her to sign. Her grandmother while at work,piumini woolrich, while in school, adhere to more than a year, and test the professional certificate. Then she completely leave "line", in Beijing, a company became an accountant. In Lotus opinion, "Grandma is a typical good man." Until now, she still went to see my grandmother every week, to help her family pay the telephone charges, the opening of the network, but also to talk to her anguish in my mind. Sometimes she would go back together with her boyfriend, said he did not nanny in this house, but the old man's daughter called the "godmother." She did not live the life you want. She later discovered that he actually did not like accounting job, a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, in big cities like Beijing where life is hard. Xiao refused to meet with reporters, on the phone, her voice still sounded full of confusion: "?.. This is secure, I do not know I do sometimes sad, want to go home, but not willing to go back." Yuesao state Yan is considered a firm foothold in the city. Her substantial income, the husband is also a residential property company found a relatively stable security work. The laughter of a woman on the name on the ID card now "to help Yan" is not how like, when you introduce yourself, she would solemnly said:. "My name is Bang Bang given country, Swallow Yan" It looks better life is moving in the direction of development, as a result they can not care for their children, daughter in third grade when it was returned to the State of Yan's hometown, Sichuan Qingchuan. As Sun Shiying the elderly know, in this city, the contradiction between the time nannies and employers exist. Yan also failed to state an exception. Last year, she was hired into a family triplets. That three babies "very small", only 3 pounds at birth, respectively, 3 pounds and 3 half kilogram. "Only so little big." States Yan stretched out his hands than the ratio. She takes care of the triplets grow up a little bit, because there are few three small boy while asleep, she woke up just a little nap would be crying. During that time, the state Yan really tired. The full moon day three children slept two hours at the same time. Is that short two hours, so that the state Yan feels "it is too happy." Young parents are very satisfied with her, even hoping to hire her a whole year. But the grandmother of triplets extremely dislike this Yuesao. Bang Yan always wanted to know why this is, But, guess, probably due to their feeding practices and the elderly are often different. She was first lady ousting, and then was that the young couple take home inside. Once, the employer gave her leave to go home, she and her daughter did not dare to spend more days, rushed back to Beijing. I did not expect her to come back just a grandmother who was completely thrust out. Young father to send text messages in state Yan says, he let the child grow up to remember the kindness of Yuesao, but he "really powerless to prevent parents madness." The family may not know, after that state Yan and his daughter were just the fifth grade girl cried for a long time. She wrote the message sent to her mother: "Mommy, I will not let you worry. I'll learn, so in the future and you can be admitted to Peking University together. Mom, I do not always bother you, but also often linked oh! My mother what you have make me think you do but cry? Mom can not help you if I want to call you bother you, please do not idle (too) I'm tired, okay? Okay mother, bye. " Yan's wallet in the state, in addition to a family of three in the home of the photo, has also been placed triplets photos. She always felt, even for their own children, she did not "such care, so pay." Chinese New Year this year, while she was not at home when the elderly, specifically to see the tall long time already strong triplets. You can still spread the triplets grandmother ears. She phoned Yan State in the statement mixed with swearing in only one expression meaning: "We do not baby you see." Bang Yan quietly hung up the phone. "I have a lot more granddaughter, this is a blessing ah" In fact, at home the elderly, are not without contradictions between the employer and the nanny. Here there have been a "stream devastated" nanny "very grumpy," Hema old man from the United States back grandson. "I am old, and do not want to hear her speak loudly." Sun Shiying said. Another nurse,http://usr.cc/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, the husband to gamble, there has been an affair, she, like every day, "a maniac." Sometimes, elderly care nurse to buy a box of China tablets, that people will secretly take a plate from the box to hide drugs. Such a small problem much plot, the elderly and finally had to dismiss them. But in any case, if the other party to return home, she always bought a return train ticket for them. Sometimes, the old lady would think Madeleine. For 900 yuan bride price money, the girl was 9 years old his father ordered people. "So what small children booked marriage!" Sun Shiying heard very angry about the incident. She told Madeleine, do not make money squandering, must rush to save out also on the bride price money. Madeleine is not how a primary school girl on work outside the home. In Sun grandmother around, she learned how to use a calculator, but also learn to read. Later, she wrote every day on six or seven hundred words diary to record their "want to do something about something every day." But one day, Madeleine go out shopping for clothes, suddenly Huanglihuangzhang ran home. "Grandma, I took people a dress." She whispered to tell the elderly. Sun Shiying could not believe Madeleine would do such a thing, she let the girl immediately put clothes also back, but the girl cried and refused:. "I can not have, but also they will call the police catch me." Before long, Madeleine left the house. Prior to departure, she will write their own diary gave a grandmother. All of these things are not satisfactory and did not let the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" doubt their own original idea, she still believes that "the girls would have to change the fate of opportunity, they tied me to the side, that is, harmful family thing." Chong just now in her work, her husband fell seriously ill, the old lady understood that she hopes to do the same as the state Yan Yuesao, earn some money. Not long ago day, Chong pushed her wheelchair into the market, she bought a "long legs of the frog man doll." Home, Sun Shiying the doll used as a "teaching instrument." "You see, to gently press the baby's ear bath." She began to nurse meticulously demonstrates how "palm tiger's mouth ring in back of the head, the thumb and middle finger and hold the child's ear." Perhaps before long, Chong will aid her training force, to further afield. "Sometimes, hiring a nanny hired was very sad, I have become the training of family." This looks somewhat feeble old man sighed, but then cheer up, "They went out from me, mostly regarded here as home, I often ran back to see me a lot more 'granddaughter', which is a blessing ah "& nbsp;.. & nbsp; & nbsp; (Text Lotus is a pseudonym) Welcome to comment to share: microblogging Recommended (edit: SN014) 

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