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  1. Xiaojuan never been able to bring out of the shadow of this event, he chose to drop out<br>Because some small festivals, Xiaojuan (a pseudonym) was hit by four students clawed quilt, she took indecent video, was also threatened to upload the network. November 29,tn requin pas cher, the incident took place in the Haicang a technical school dormitory inside.<br> <br>Later police and schools involved in the investigation, and the indecent video deleted. However, Xiaojuan has never been able to bring out of the shadow of this event, he chose to drop out.<br> <br>Roommate clawed quilt using a mobile phone camera<br> <br>Sixteen or seventeen Xiaojuan, Haicang this technical school freshman, and the other seven girls living in school dormitories.<br> <br>Xiaojuan memories: Around at 21:00 on November 29,http://www.syangel.cn/news/html/?318168.html, she was reading, dorm there are six girls, two in bed. 9:10, named after the long dormitory, she was ready to go to bed.<br> <br>Xiaojuan climb into bed, covered with blankets, took off his clothes, pajamas are, suddenly, a roommate ran over and started to lift Xiaojuan quilt, Xiaojuan let.<br> <br>Deadlocked process, with the other two girls coming quarters, together clawed Xiaojuan quilt, and one roommate out of cell phone, photographed Xiaojuan indecent video.<br> <br>"I have the ignition, and allow them to delete the video, but to shoot video of the girls said: 'delete delete what you Who I put the video to the web,http://www.elnaviero.com/spip/spip.php?article2257, you believe it or not!!'" Xiaojuan later told the Herald reporter, She and other disputes but to no avail,http://panda-school.com, they each slept.<br> <br>Why does this happen? Xiaojuan think, one of the girls has a roommate and another feast, which she helped to speak, "offended" the roommate.<br> <br>Police remove the two indecent video<br> <br>November 30 morning, Xiaojuan has found a school principal and teacher.<br> <br>In the afternoon, Mr. Huang Xiaojuan uncle rushed to the school, "she cried and called me in the morning, also said that in the end what happened is not clear, let me come to the school trip."<br> <br>Schools also notify other parents of four girls parties, came only one parent. Under the auspices of the school, unsuccessful negotiations between the two sides. So, Mr. Wong called the police.<br> <br>Police rushed to the school, the five girls and two teachers involved investigation into the office, eventually, with the help of the police, two of indecent mobile video has been deleted.<br> <br>"We watched two videos of female teachers,http://www.lqwhg.com/Review.asp?NewsID=31, not too involving privacy, it has been deleted." This is the technical school Suxiao Zhang told the Herald reporter.<br> <br>Suxiao Zhang said that the school immediately afterwards so that the relevant departments involved in the investigation,http://www.center.edu.city.hiroshima.jp, the understanding, and only four girls said Xiaojuan joke, shoot video process, indeed saying,piumini woolrich outlet, "put video on the internet go."<br> <br>Shadow, refused to return to school<br> <br>Thing has been done in the past week, it gave Xiaojuan is a big psychological shadow.<br> <br>"At that time they have been threatened me, saying that if I told the teacher, the parents or the police, put the video uploaded to the Internet; also said that if they were fired, I did not had a good day." Xiaojuan said that although the video was deleted away, but she still worried after experiencing a similar incident in the school, "I'm afraid the students but also engage in something, they will use other ways to deal with me."<br> <br>Xiaojuan's mother revealed that, after the school teacher asked his family to Xiaojuan home, rest for two days, after refusing to go back to school Xiaojuan, uncle stayed at home, a week did not go to class.<br> <br>She said: "The child is afraid, it has been a shadow in her mind, she did not approach the side reading, afraid of the environment, we can only fear roommates to help her to drop out for a new environment."<br> <br>4 girls were punished, Xiaojuan will drop out<br> <br>Currently, the school has been involved for four girls to make a disposition: shoot a video of the girls give probation sanction, the other three are demerits. In addition, the school recommends that students shoot video out 500 yuan, and the other three each took $ 300, as compensation Xiaojuan mother to Xiamen tolls.<br> <br>Herald reporters after coordination, the school made it clear that: will follow the relevant documents,scarpe hogan outlet, according to the procedure for Xiaojuan handle withdrawal procedures; Xiaojuan view of the special circumstances, as appropriate, the school had a 50% drop-out amount will be increased to 70% -80%, depending the proportion will further communicate with Xiaojuan parents.<br> <br>Mr. Shi also said the school vice principal, will further strengthen the students' moral management.<br> <br>Expert analysis<br> <br>Campus violence is no accident<br> <br>Steel sub teacher studio director, counselor Zhang Jin Gang said: campus events reflected in this case, not isolated and accidental,air max 90, it reflects the school violence has become one of the more prominent campus phenomenon; adolescent mental health development and self-regulation ability, should become an important part of a growing education, but education is the bearer of absence.<br> <br>From the psychological point of counseling, the school and the family should do the following:<br> <br>First, we must recognize that school violence in the & nbsp; "perpetrators" and wounded are victims of psychological problems, not simply from the perspective of morality and social norms to look at and criticize, "perpetrators" manufactured violence itself outward manifestation of inner pressure and also psychological conflict;<br> <br>Secondly, psychological counseling, to all parties at the same time mental health counseling and advice, to let the "perpetrators" get the right guidance, a deeper understanding of the errors and problems;<br> <br>Again, the victims, in addition to schools and families to express concern and support, should also help them carry out professional psychological counseling and crisis intervention,roshe run pas cher, and ultimately to the individual to return to society, the normal learning or work.<br> <br>In addition,http://net.gzcgkj.com/84186/news/html/?155005.html, schools should pay attention to the quality of children's education, family should actively help children develop good psychological adjustment.<br> <br>Lawyers say<br> <br>Violation of privacy<br> <br>Fujian Golden Bay law firm of Huang Xiaoqin lawyers believe: Teen still in the shape of the mind to develop, flamboyant demands often lead to their inappropriate behavior, weak legal consciousness is an important factor leading to the event generated.<br> <br>Huang lawyer said, everyone's privacy is not unlawful harassment, knows the collection, use and disclosure, and the quarters of the students violated the privacy of the victim girls; if uploaded to a network or to promote another's privacy in written, oral, resulting some influence, should be recognized as the right of reputation infringement, if the circumstances are serious, should bear the corresponding responsibility.<br> <br>Notes<br> <br>Not only with the "color" relevant<br> <br>Last month, near Zhongshan Road, Xiamen is a school girl torn clothes female classmate and friend, using a mobile phone nude photos. This time, Haicang a school dormitory, Xiaojuan also roommate indecent video taken by camera phone.<br> <br>Female nudity, indecent video event, why frequent occurrence? Moreover, the "abuser" is also the same school girls.<br> <br>This is not just about school violence. This time, the overwhelming "colored" information and images, so that boys and girls dazzled, once the contradiction between them is difficult to self-control, it could evolve into a "learning" --- & nbsp; Copy "colored" screen. They use the "color" to hurt others,http://juan.linkko.com/node/add/article, are also victims, "color".<br> <br>It is not just the & nbsp; "color" relevant. Under the impact of some of the media information deformity, these immature boys and girls are more in need of psychological, physiological counseling and adjustment. However, parents, schools in addition to meeting their material needs and concerns of learning, but also concerned about what?<br> <br>Runaway "color" is dangerous,http://115.28.54.169/read.php?tid=380385&ds=1, especially for boys and girls. How to guide and prevention, parents, schools and society should think, rather than waiting until after the damage left behind, only shouted "color is steel." (hat)<br> <br>Herald reporter intern pool Lili Yu Meng Zhu Tingting / text Chenqiao Si / map<br><br>

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