Cai Zhengxiang mother face, hair. Cai Zhengxiang watering to his mother, the mother's hair is all white, the son of the leather jacket is ragged.<br>Text / reporter Fang Map / reporter Li Shaowen<br> <br>6:00 is bedridden mother grooming, feeding, and then work in the fields; for the mother and brother back at noon to cook, help the mother to the toilet; night is the mother body scrub, worried elderly bed-wetting, get up several times a night ...... This is Jiangxia Si Zhen new Tun Tun Bay villagers Cai Zhengxiang long day living arrangements, and this repetitive work, he made a full 11 years. "If my lifetime ...... can see the second child to marry a wife, I go too eyes closed." 81-year-old mother yesterday took the reporter's hand,http://www.nhsbgg99.com/news/html/?1789.html, off to say his wish.<br> <br>Mother in the eyes of big dutiful son<br> <br>In the long pier Bay, one asked the old man is still single, no wonder people in the village. With the villagers as saying that the village has not had a second such person.<br> <br>Reporters yesterday came home, in front of white hair half, wearing a broken could not break the old leather clothes, with belt tied around the waist is restructuring with lace by hand, very shabby.<br> <br>After seeing reporters, Cai Zhengxiang with a reporter entered the room, saw a gray-haired, bedridden elderly people, this is mother, 81 years old this year. Elderly ruddy, house linen pack neatly, without any unpleasant odor, although bedridden for many years, who did not a little bedsores.<br> <br>It is understood that the elderly have four sons, Cai Zhengxiang middle child, the other three brothers have been married, brother relationship is very harmonious. The boss and the fourth of those years working in the city of Wuhan, plus each has a large family to take care of holidays to come back to visit the elderly, to the elderly to buy delicious, asked his brother to take care of his mother.<br> <br>"Only the second child, still the name of bachelor, all I drag him." Tearful eyes old, vague and told reporters that the second child of the marriage became her heart, if you do not see the rest of her life married to her second child She "go" will not close their eyes.<br> <br>Next Cai Zhengxiang silence does not speak,peuterey sito ufficiale, go out and play a pot of water, propped mother, careful to help the elderly tears from his face clean, comfort: "You yourself keep the body trying to be difficult, I had an idea."<br> <br>Cai Zhengxiang: Did I do not want to get married<br> <br>"As a normal person, why I do not want to get married yet?" Cai Zhengxiang said that originally he have a chance to get married. 28 years old, he and his girlfriend dated for three years has come to the point where gonna get married. Just a few days before going to receive a marriage certificate, he got into an accident,hogan outlet online, the 3 foot rule, the doctors said would leave uncertain whether disability. The girls are married early age, because they do not have the heart to drag each other, he broke it, marriage blew up. It was at that time, refused to leave his mother waited at his bedside,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/30/1/aska.cgi%3Fpage=10+inurl:aska.cgi+nervous&ct=clnk, feeding, laundry,http://recit.cadre.qc.ca/~vision/spip.php?article9, side feces end urine, like to take care of a child attentive care of him. Every time I see thin mother dragged left disabled, like a top as he constantly busy, he was in my heart secretly vowed: and so the mother is old, he must return the kindness.<br> <br>"The Analects" There is such a story, there is a student asked Confucius: What is piety? Confucius answered very simple word: "color is difficult." Means that this thing to honor thousands of hard to extremely difficult, difficult, but the attitude is better, is that you never give father and mother a good face. This sentence in Cai Zhengxiang who get the best interpretation. 11 years, no matter how much trouble to take care of the elderly, however inconvenient, Cai Zhengxiang always been dedicated, the most rare is not a complaint,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, but did not make over his face.<br> <br>Mother down the toilet, washing, face, hair, wash the quilt has become the daily work Cai Zhengxiang. Every street, he also specifically for the mother to buy snacks, reluctant to eat their own, are left to the mother. Every time out, he should not forget to eat the food prepared in the mother bedside table, so that the mother will be able to reach. Now, the elderly mouthful of teeth fall out, and sometimes even mouth to eat no effort, Cai Zhengxiang mother's mouth will break apart, changing the pattern to feed all kinds of liquid food.<br> <br>After the mother was ill, and sometimes a bad mood will bother him, calling him a disappointing not filial piety, still do not marry a wife, or even not to eat to "threaten" He must companionship child as soon as possible. Because "several brothers are married, a person you after I'm gone,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/waiwai/aw-591sc-7.html, do not have a happy home with you a lonely, old how to do?" Whenever mother talking, it tears, Cai Zhengxiang also cry.<br> <br>Good fathers eyes of their loved ones<br> <br>When Cai Zhengxiang 31 years old, recovered almost foot, behind two brothers are also married to the age.<br> <br>There is a custom in rural areas, should be the order of brothers married long after the first child. Because Tsai brothers more often someone to give them home presentation objects. Taking into account the conditions of distress at home, he put the opportunity to leave his brother. Every time someone comes to reports, brother do not go blind, but the opportunity to give a little more than their youngest, and finally became the youngest. It was time to get married,http://www.yumip.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=12177, also borrow money to help his brother. Some people say stupid Cai Zhengxiang, there might be more "silly" things. Fourth of the time to be married in order to allow him to marry well, to his room to get it out to them to do the marriage room, and he moved to the village with holding the quilt to staying with relatives. "My brother is not only a brother, like the father, he propped up our home." Chaikin is the youngest.<br> <br>For two brothers, Cai Zhengxiang himself time and again he gave up the chance to get married. Two brothers married, let Tsai owed a debt, it took several years, the brothers work together only to pay off debt. Just thought I could catch my breath, for their own peace of mind to consider marriage, the 70-year-old mother fell ill. Mother fell ill after being bedridden, life can not take care of themselves, everything had to rely on the living not the only married care.<br> <br>Misfortunes never come singly. Seven years ago, the third brother Chaikin overseas workers to have suffered a serious illness, and finally dragged into the stomach erosion, what to eat vomit, around a doctor, no effect. Doctors really difficult to see his family, but also to feel sick then rule Chaikin also hope to go better, to persuade them to give up forget. During that time, Cai Zhengxiang anxious a lot a lot of hair loss. In 2003, he took seriously ill brother dragged home, but also take up the task of caring for his brother.<br> <br>Bad situation brother's good times, and sometimes I could not sleep at night the pain, screaming pan bar in heart like a knife,woolrich outlet online, he had to get up on her own brother to run the township hospital to allow doctors to RBI pain needle. As the three sister died many years ago, the youngest seriously ill can not work,hogan rebel, and return naturally son Yao Cai Zhengxiang care. Thus,woolrich outlet, Cai Zhengxiang shoulder the burden has increased the floor.<br> <br>Small 6-year-old Yao mother gone, only his father seriously ill, looked at his nephew innocent face, Cai Zhengxiang heart and clench.<br> <br>"Elementary school, small Yao broke his arm twice; boarding high school,http://www.51yam.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, come back every week to bring back a big bag of dirty clothes, suffering this child." said many times, sensible child to see him too hard, they said they do not read, and go out to work at home sharing difficult. After the village secretary Li Guian heard several times come to do work, but also to raise children running around tuition, and now have to read the post in the small Yao, which makes feel very pleased.<br> <br>There mother,http://www.m-pep.org/spip.php?article4038, younger brother of the sick, the young nephew under this triple pressure, let Cai Zhengxiang personal matter postponed again and again. Reporters asked him whether things did not get married to have regrets, he said, is now "want no time to think, the first disc along a person to say."<br> (Edit: SN009)<br>
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