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 "My child, you damned hard!" Looking at the nursery box twins, Xu Xiaoming (a pseudonym), tears suddenly spill out. Birth of twins, this is a happy event, but the child was too early, only 27 weeks, earlier than normal delivery a full two months. They just came to the world, not enough time to enjoy the wonderful, we would face early test of life and death, considering the therapeutic potential unpredictable, Xu Xiaoming struggling for a long time, or choose to give up. 15:00 yesterday, holding his child leaves the hospital. □ trainee reporter Wang Jing Express reporter Liu Jun Child's arm still without a doctor's fingers thick Mom has not seen the twins "You see, this is the eldest daughter, only six pound or two, this is a small daughter, a couple of pounds couple of ......" yesterday, 11:00, in the hospital's neonatal intensive care room, Xu Xiaoming holding a pair of twins born daughters proof murmured. "You see, this is my daughter's footprints, how small ah!" Xu Xiaoming lovingly touched on proof of birth of two light blue small footprint, "I can not see anything about my daughter, to see uncomfortable ...... "Xu Xiaoming carefully put her daughter's birth material into the bag, tightly in her arms. At the moment, two babies are in intensive care unit of the incubator, intensive care unit is a sterile environment, let the parents visit, so from the morning of June 21 after her daughter was born, there is no longer seen Xu Xiaoming daughter. "My wife preterm, before 27 weeks of pregnancy, so the two children deficiencies, organs are not fully developed." Comes two daughters, the 31-year-old father eyes would brim with tears. He told reporters that at 1:00 on the 21st, his wife Li Yan (a pseudonym) up to the toilet, suddenly found water broke. Li Yan family busy divvying up the Liuhe District of bamboo into town clinic, the doctor look at the situation, so quickly send a large urban hospital. At 9:00 on the 21st, Li Yan gave birth to twin girls. "I looked at her,http://www.menqiu.com/bbs/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, faintly hear the nurses talking about, which is great, which is small." Li Yan said,air max pas cher, her daughter was born, doctors told her that her daughter serious deficiencies, and quickly transferred to the treatment . Two babies ambulance was immediately sent away, since then I have not seen Li Yan daughter. 22, Li Yan went straight to the ward after discharge, he asked to see her daughter. "Now it is not enough, which is a sterile environment, once the bacteria into the herd in trouble." Heard the doctor's advice, Li Yan is still a little worried about the baby. Xu Xiaoming wife looked anxious look, could not bear to tell her daughter the truth completely, but said:. "Rest assured, my baby will be very good, and I will give you two healthy baby" After listening to the words of her husband, Li Yan only reluctantly Kuni back home. Lively girl fall in love with the poor guy Xu Xiaoming from Hefei rural area, is the fourth of the family, there are even three brothers. In 2003, after he graduated from Anhui University of refrigeration, she came to Nanjing, a construction company work, just go soon, he will be assigned to field a company work site, where he met on the site of the only girl Li Yan . Li Yan's home in Liuhe, she is also this year, just graduated from a technical school in Hunan, Xu Xiaoming came to the company where the work. Xu Xiaoming character is very introverted, and Li Yan is a lively and outgoing girl, like to talk, his face is always filled with a smile, they are a little bit struck a chord with Xu Xiaoming, so he seduces the dark. Saw Xu Xiaoming Li Yan sensitive mind, but quietly, "I do not want and he is good, the family has no money, looks not handsome." Li Yan in thought to myself. There was a time, Li Yan hooked on the Internet, every day after work secretly slipped cafes, one or two in the morning came back, every time Xu Xiaoming take her back to the site. By the end of 2004, the project is about to end, Xu Xiaoming was transferred to Jiangsu Jiangyin, after he was gone, Li Yan feel a little empty, miss him. In early 2005, Li Yan Kuni home New Year's gathering of students in the last encounter Xu Xiaoming, after the end of the party, everyone went for a walk in pairs, "Our hand is very natural to pull together, and then I felt very at ease and think that this man and his worth over a lifetime. "January 2007, the two happily onto the red carpet. When the two married, Xu Xiaoming home because for three children to study, already heavily in debt. Xu Xiaoming parents Li Yan said: "We can not give you anything." Li Yan replied:. "I saw that his people, the money will work hard to earn our own." Married for three years before they looked forward to the baby After marriage, the couple switched to another construction company, continued to run around in various sites, inseparable. "I was not his feelings at first sight,barbour paris, but a steady pattern, and we married three years, and feeling better every year." Li Yan said. But she has a heart, and that is nearly three years of marriage, I have not been pregnant with the baby. "If you can not give a baby, then how to do ah?" Li Yan had asked her husband worriedly. "Can not born can not be born, then we had two people!" Xu Xiaoming replied without hesitation. But in January this year, that the wife is pregnant, Xu Xiaoming immediately jumped up happy. "I know he always wanted the baby." Said Li Yan, Zhejiang, a construction site when they're working, even at work, her husband would not let himself out of his sight. "He just next door in my office, gains and empty it came Chou Chou me." However, the first three months of pregnancy after Li Yan, has been bleeding lower body, Xu Xiaoming very worried, afraid of a miscarriage. Li Yan to Zhoushan him several times with a local hospital for examination, the doctor listen to fetal tone, do B, after blood pressure and found no abnormalities. Pregnant three months after the day, Li Yan bleeding is particularly serious, pants are stained, Xu Xiaoming rushed her to the hospital, doctors still did not find the problem after checking, and told the couple, twins. Xu Xiaoming one, crowed, after a few days, he did not even let his wife go out,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/red-one/mc-0026.html, afraid to fall outside Li Yan, encountered bad. "I have such a great person, and to have met a bad man ah! Really!" Li Yan lips to say, and he was enjoying himself in favor of her husband. After the inspection, the phenomenon of lower body bleeding disappeared, but Li Yan's body started swelling. "It was covered in swollen from head to toe, his face was horribly swollen, his eyes have only a crack, to see things are not clear, hands and feet are hemp. Until the baby was born, have not disappeared swollen. "said Li Yan, Xu Xiaoming has been very worried about their own situation, several times to the hospital consultation, the doctor's answer is pregnant swelling is normal, no problem. Husband kindly weaving "lies" "I do not blame protect two daughters." After the baby early next generation, Li Yan cried to her husband. "Do not blame you, is your baby to come out." Xu Xiaoming has said to his wife, the baby has been good. But waiting in the hospital for two days of Xu Xiaoming heart has gradually been swallowed despair. "The baby's organs, particularly the lungs not fully developed,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/uchiyama-sports/tyr-latbpg2v-a.html, born not breathing on his own, and now every day rely on a respirator to help breathing." Xu Xiaoming told reporters. 11:30, Xu Xiaoming saw the twins attending physician. "Two babies situation is not good, there is bleeding inside the cranial cavity, especially in the light weight, the bleeding is heavy." Doctor, pointing to two babies B-map, with a heavy heart Xu Xiaoming said, "Even to save the , the aftermath will be more and more, such as cerebral palsy, mental retardation, are likely ...... heavier weight of the situation is slightly better, and now only try to save more weight. "After listening to the doctors, Xu Xiaoming mood fell to the bottom his red eyes and had to leave the hospital. 15:00, reporters and Xu Xiaoming contact, he told reporters that the hospital had informed him two babies dying, he was rushed to the hospital on the way. 15:30, reporters rushed to the hospital, the doctor told reporters, Xu Xiaoming has run half an hour before discharge procedures, two babies were taken away by him. "The hospital did not inform him that the baby was dying, after he went back to consult with his family, told us that he decided to give up treatment. We respect his choice." Said the doctor. And at the moment is Liuhe District bamboo recuperating mother's home town of Li Yan on the baby's situation was a bit unaware. "Now how about a baby? I'm worried." Li Yan said she would call every hour to ask the baby's situation Xu Xiaoming, Xu Xiaoming told her,http://www.ciscoclub.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, "baby temporarily okay." "I know he was afraid of me sad , in some cases did not tell me. "Li Yan said. From the hospital after the child slash "The child's father, is mainly worried about the aftermath, from the time situation, lighter weight for a female baby, intracranial hemorrhage has been very serious, from the medicine,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000000592453.html, it is very dangerous, even if the rescue is successful, the probability of future events really sequelae Great, while the other weighing over one thousand grams of a female baby, the situation can only say that a little better, there is a hope that the efforts, and strive to save back. "Medical experts told reporters in Nanjing, for such premature children, and indeed there are some Examples of successful rescue, and some are even super preterm children, one only 25 weeks, one is 28 weeks. Some super preterm children in kindergarten now in good health. However, since the situation is indeed serious the twins, their families under repeated consideration, gave up treatment. Because preterm children, and respiratory systems are not fully developed, in the hospital room,nike air max pas cher, but also has relied on ventilators to breathe, "because the child can not be spontaneous breathing, so hold out did not take long, it may be ominous, and then come back Xiangbao rescue, basic unlikely, "one expert told reporters. Related Links Neonatal rescue difficult Nanjing, a pediatrician, told reporters that rescue super early newborn, in medicine is a problem as well as a systems engineering, in the past, almost all of these children to give up treatment, and with the improvement of medical standards, only a part of the Super preterm children With the birth of hope. Experts told the reporter, since the development of the child is not fully needed drugs, equipment to help children return to normal, first breathing off, and the second is off the infection, and the third is renal clearance,http://www.ciscoclub.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, almost every road is a stumbling block, death a very high rate, after the successful rescue,http://lager.co.jp/blog/sb.cgi, but also worry about whether visually impaired children grow up, but also worried about the impact the development of intelligence, for doctors, in perpetuity,barbour soldes, for the parents, nervous. "Once they rescued, for this family, almost no escape route, because of their age, the more can not give up this love." Experts say, so in the end, if unforeseen circumstances, it is conceivable blow to the family. Reporter's notes Feel your pain Without a father willing to watch their children a step toward death, but Xu Xiaoming a person had to deal with that. Afraid beloved wife sad, he hesitates to tell her the truth. Xu Xiaoming face,spaccio woolrich, we can clearly perceive his pain. One pair just born three days premature twins, congenital serious shortage, even if the full rescue survival, waiting for them is also very likely to be incomplete life, they will continue to endure a lifetime of suffering, it would be decades long years. Father chose to give up, which is still regarded as a cowardly kind of courage? Choose to give the permanent loss of her daughter, and the choice could win aid to life, puts life is incomplete. With respect to the former, the latter the father may be more courage to face it, after the baby was born only three days there is no awareness, and gradually grow up children have to face their own life. As their father, this may be considered for the child's future, or is himself now has been unable to accept this harsh reality. Life has always been the most respectable,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, but the choice of life but not destined to have a lot of frustration ...... 

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