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○ day little girl is kneeling row all the way from here to the community door,http://www.qualitea2005.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=3559. When the young eagles grow to large enough,peuterey spaccio outlet, the mother eagle will be cruel to the young eagle off the cliff, the young eagle falling to the bottom when, desperately flapping wings to take this master basic skills - flying. & Nbsp; & nbsp; "There is a nearby district dragon looks about twelve-year-old little girl kneeling on the floor with the knees go, and her mother in front of riding electric car. The little girl so poor, while walking, while wiping tears, which is too hurt the child self-esteem. "Yesterday, the member of the public to call the newspaper said she had got such a" mother eagle-style "education, so she could not accept. The little girl kneeling to walk 200 meters "At 13:00 on February 22nd and more, I through here, to see a little girl carrying a bag from the corner of an alley kneeling row all the way around the people saw him, they go to pull her up, pull a few times in a row, Girl seeking only to wipe tears, but also to stand up. And the girls mother riding an electric car parked in the alley, the girl kneeling on the line all the way to that result, cycling has been her mother went to the north in the direction Ring. "recall was to see the scene, she had got to the mother's actions still feel very angry. This morning, the reporter went to Ms. Zhou said Luyang District Yang Zhen Takahashi community, into the door, I saw a commercial street, both sides of the shops. In a dry cleaning shop, an aunt talking about his own witness scenes. "The little girl is from a small building next to the alley in front of a yellow kneeling all the way out, even went back a lot of people are chasing out from the alley to see her mother riding a electric car, wearing a dark blue dress . "Aunt said, while pointing to the intersection to reporters," We started not know what happened, and guess child made a mistake, or exam did not test well, just be punished. In any case, the days of cold, do not let children kneeling walked. " Female owner of a supermarket across the dry cleaners also witnessed this scene, she told reporters: "There are some residential water gate, come here, her mother did not let her up, dripping with water in the past,tn requin pas cher,http://www.cyclingtime.com, I have to pull the results Her mother did not the speaker, the little girl did not dare it. " Or because of tear textbook corporal punishment It is understood that the little girl kneeling row to the community door when wearing pants has been masticate. Finally, near the North Second Ring Road, where the girl's mother saw too many people watching, let her up, and this time, the girl's legs have been stand upright, knees are shaking so bent. One resident said, "The little girl is a rental households, are not familiar, usually only see her mother riding an electric car to pick her up from school, the girl about ten years old." Why talk about the little girl let her mother kneeling row,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/byfifty/by-zero.html, a Residents said: "I heard the school day children's book to tear, and her mother very angry, scolding her tear still attend school books do, then you punish her go down on their knees." Under the guidance of a neighbor, the reporter to find the little girl's house, knocked on the door after no one responded. For such punishment,http://www.8264.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, residents of the community have said can not agree, "child mistakes are inevitable, she must pay attention to methods of punishment. Besides, teens have been sensible, so too hurt self-esteem of the child." Reporters along the scene walking in a circle, this section almost two hundred meters away,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/waiwai/gcu33l2.html, it is hard to imagine a teenage girl in full view, kneeling so long distance lines. Most people do not agree with this Girl kneeling to walk, a lot of people's first reaction is to feel bad,http://hrr.ul.hirosaki-u.ac.jp, the public is mixed for this bias in demanding education. "Children make mistakes to education, but this punishment too much, too hard for the children. I do not like this way of education, may be counterproductive." Citizen Yang Li said, "I am also a mother of 5-year-old child very naughty, but I take the attitude of tolerance. " "Cold weather, knee nipped, how to do, to do when the mother will regret a lifetime." Distressed citizens Shuhua said, "so rudely education for children physical and mental development is not healthy, injury to a child's self-esteem for the future development of the child no good. " "Now there is no lack of children's education 'Wolf Dad', '& nbsp; wolf mother', our traditional culture, corporal punishment has been there, saying 'sticks out under the dutiful son',http://www.nylt.cn/thread-252276-1-1.html, managing the children there is nothing wrong, but the way to education improvement, to see more children's strengths. "engaged in educational work Taogen Lin believes that the ten-year-old child,hogan rebel, she does not commit any error of principle, is nothing more than a whim did something wrong, as long as Parents patience with the children make it clear that the child still can understand their own errors. & Nbsp; The purpose of punishment is not to punish but to punish, but to achieve the incentive effect, the punishment just reached your child is afraid of purpose, not necessarily what education can play a role. ■ Expert opinion "Succeed" is every parent's wish, the children growing up, family education occupies an important component of how to educate children, parents should play what role? To this end, the reporter on the education of children, interviews with psychologists and experts in education. Educate their children use the "heart" "Education is necessary to take some setbacks in family education, but education is not equivalent to the violent setback education." Director of the Mental Health Center in Anhui Sunshine Heart, Anhui Counseling Association vice president Jiang Jun said. He said the girl's mother has taken some punitive measures from the perspective of educating the children, so the starting point is not to say no. But we need to be reminded that, not corporal punishment, corporal punishment can only represent the inability of parents in the family education, and when you lift slap, please remind myself: I lack the ability to educate their children before taking such violent methods. Such tips will make your mood stabilized. Corporal punishment can cause children psychological trauma,louboutin uomo, this trauma is caused by low self-esteem, to abandon myself emotional experience, which may be periodically affect the growth of children's mental health in the course of the child's life. Jiang Jun, suggests that parents in public places, inappropriate language and behavior to take drastic educate their children, because children have self-esteem, the need is the "heart" of education. Teach children kindness with kindness Hefei six of teachers believe that education for all concerned,barbour Soldes, to treat the child's proper attitude is first error tolerance, tolerance is only on the basis of education in order to get the real effect of education. Tolerance does not mean condoning of course, necessary for the child's error penalty is necessary, punish the method may be for parents to make their children not to honor a commitment, or to temporarily prohibit children to participate in an activity he liked to participate in his less willing to work in a particular family, etc. The purpose of punishment is to let children experience the error cost him correct the error as soon as possible, the bottom line is not to punish the child's physical and psychological harm. He said that on education, often say that we should teach children kindness with kindness, and the mother might use their intolerance to teach children in the future life on the road of intolerance, such as she treated her own children's future attitude towards all life the attitude of other things will likely produce an immeasurable effect. The mother's behavior is in violation of "Juvenile Protection Law", in a foreign country is certainly to be judicial intervention. ■ Further Reading "Tiger Mother", "wolf dad" Education through "Tiger Mom" Amy Chua children develop two daughters Ten Commandments, claiming to be "the use of swearing, threats, bribes, inducements and various high-handedness, asked the children for their parents along on the road to choose." 7-year-old girl, as a piano piece was forced to play the bad from the night after dinner has been trained, in the middle are not allowed to drink water or toilet. This way of educating their children in the majority of Chinese parents who can see. However, this harsh approach to education, is a Yale University Chinese professor Amy Chua children to write in their own parenting book, this book called "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" (Battle & nbsp; Hymn & nbsp; of & nbsp; theTiger & nbsp; Mother) of book was published, the world blew up the great debate on the Eastern and Western educational methods. "Wolf Dad" Xiaobai the Chinese traditional way of education combined with his understanding,http://www.vaswim.org/cgi-bin/rcalc.cgi, and create a set of unique "Shaw educational theory." He advocated "Happy Education" today, standing cane and feather duster, with the most traditional way to educate children. He always believed, grew up in China, in China's development of child education must use the traditional way of education. Share: welcome to comment I want to comment Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging 

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