After the tragedy, the subject of his mother Huang Han face the camera was a look of dazed and helpless. This is a lifetime Xiaoli went to school, starting from the first two days of her life gradually changed.<br>Thematic author information Times reporter Wei emblem Zhoushu Ting photo Information Times reporter YE<br> <br>April 25, 2010 16 am, in the village of Panyu District, Guangzhou City company called "Wing of accommodation," the 403 room hotel, 19-year-old boy from Zhongshan Huang Han-standard, 15-year-old girlfriend, grabbed with both hands Small Li's neck, causing the suffocation death. After that, he cut himself with a knife than 20, attempted suicide. November 18, 2010, the Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court of First Instance ruling, Huang Han-standard intentional homicide was sentenced to life imprisonment.<br> <br>On the eve of Valentine's Day, family parties reporter in-depth visits, restore it to 90 after the parents were young lovers from courtship opposition to both elope, because the ultimate trivia repeatedly quarrel, boy suspected of killing his girlfriend faithless and staged "die for love "The sad farce.<br> <br>Tragedy is this happening?<br> <br>According to Huang Han-standard confession: He and Xiaoli through QQ chat understanding about August 2009 after the two meet, develop into male and female friendships, but they were Xiaoli and from family opposition, so the two of them have several "run away" , but each time quickly found Xiaoli family and take her home.<br> <br>Later, Xiao Li family want her to Zhongshan City township school, he was afraid she left could not find, so they run away from home again together, decide together to go to Foshan working life. April 21, 2010, they were ready to go by car, Foshan, Panyu because the wrong bus to a nearby square, and then went to Shek Kong Street looking for an apartment to live.<br> <br>The evening of April 23, Xiaoli proposed to continue to Foshan there to find a job,http://wj.hrol.cn/2015dydh/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=151463&fromuid=29656, but he considered his money is not much,http://237.newfine.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, want to find a job in Panyu stabilized, the two got into a fight. April 25 at 2 pm, after the two got up, and again as things go Foshan noisy,scarpe hogan online, Xiaoli not listen to him after he scolded meal, simply watching TV. He went to the bathroom alone smash the mirror glass cut his right hand near the vein, the flow of blood. Before long, Xiao Li also went to call the landlord, also called 120 for an ambulance. Later, he said nothing to the landlord, so 120 ambulances leave.<br> <br>Then, he into the street to buy cigarettes, casually stroll for about an hour, back to the room,doudoune moncler pas cher, the two had a heated argument, Xiaoli said that if she let go Foshan to kill her, he was very angry. Xiao Li insisted on going to Foshan, have friends over there, and that first home to get something back to Zhongshan. And he found Xiaoli usually call and send information and play QQ is very mysterious,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, let him see and hear, it was suspected that she knew the other boys on the outside, afraid she would leave, so he killed her and then committed suicide produce the idea.<br> <br>Huang Han-standard claims, April 24 Xiaoli said that if she wanted to die on the use of three methods: 1 sleeping pills; 2 buy a knife to commit suicide; 3 hand strangled. So he chose his hand to strangle her, then committed suicide. Huang Han nominal, then Xiaoli did not resist.<br> <br>After that, he went downstairs to the supermarket to buy a fruit knife, back to the room to arm their hands cut more than 20 knife. He thought so you can commit suicide, but more than one hour after he was awake. Because it is afraid of body pains, and the parents wanted, so he phoned his uncle.<br> <br>Boys & nbsp; body with disabled poor peasant baby<br> <br>Huang Han-standard, born February 7, 1991, the people living in the town of Zhongshan City, a remote rural area. The family has a little sister, just on the first day of the instrument,http://bbs.weilanhaian.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, a four-bedroom of about 20 square meters crowded red brick cottage. Independent outside built a log house, which is only a bed, a corner is filled with debris.<br> <br>Parents no culture claiming "do not know to teach children"<br> <br>When reporters visited, Huang Han mother subject from the ground back to near her husband went to work in a plastics factory. The couple in the plastic processing plants casual work.<br> <br>Speaking of his son, Yang is not only guilty, but also helpless. Because his family was poor, Huang Han-standard two days drop out, then roll to a nearby factory workers. She and her husband have no culture, do not understand how to educate their children, "I never thought would happen, this time we feel very sad." For a reporter asked Huang Han-standard personal behavior and personality usual habit, Yang is avoided.<br> <br>Yang said that before the 2010 Lunar New Year ten days, his son told her through the mobile Internet to know a girl named Xiao Li, and later took her home, looking very good relationship. Yang believes that the relationship between son and Xiaoli is good, she is not opposed to them as parents association, just Xiaoli parents do not agree.<br> <br>His young lame nickname "lame earners"<br> <br>Reporters visited the village also found that many people Huang Han-standard and no impression. But people who know him know that he strangled his girlfriend thing,doudoune moncler pas cher, and used to call him "lame earners", since when young Huang Han-standard will be a lame leg.<br> <br>As to why the lame, the village has a lot of stories. Age companion, Huang Han-standard often go out and fight, a fight when they were beaten lame. Villagers also said that due to his Tuiji is sick. Despite different opinions, but they have said Huang Han-standard family has always insisted to his leg treatment, spend a lot of money; Tuiji is cured a lot, but more and more poverty at home. Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court judge also confirmed that Huang Han-standard walk a little lame, but it is not obvious.<br> <br>"Sexual gratification has been pregnant abortion"<br> <br>Yang has said in a statement from the public security organs, both in the communication process, has caused pregnant Xiaoli, but dare not tell Xiaoli parents. She knew immediately met Xiaoli, Xiao Li also insisted to recognize pregnancy give birth to children. She had recommended Xiaoli first reading, because of age is too small to flow. Son should be born child. Later, because talk is wrong, a motorcycle with Xiaoli son stormed away.<br> <br>After a few days, Xiaoli parents of two children about to meet her to discuss things, and try to look for them. Soon, Xiaoli mother found her daughter, and let her do people not to have children, and Xiaoli away.<br> <br>The trial, Huang Han Xiaoli is nominally voluntary him away from home, the two sides have agreed to die together well, is suicide pacts. And he does not limit personal freedom Xiaoli, when killing Xiaoli, she even did not resist.<br> <br>Girls & nbsp; good sister two days are left-behind children<br> <br>Reporters learned that before the incident in a high school Xiaoli had Sina school. The school early two long told Xiaoli is left-behind children, and seven or eight years people lived in the town of grandparents, parents do business in the three townships, sister working outside. Due to the generation gap led to unintentional school, has proposed to drop out on the first two days, culminating in the school leaders help Xiaoli to three townships of fraternity secondary school.<br> <br>Mother first saw the boy objected exchanges<br> <br>The reporter contacted the mother Xiaoli Feng aunt, although the incident has been nearly eight months, but the mention of small daughter, Feng aunt immediately broke down in tears on the phone.<br> <br>Feng aunt worked in the public security organs statement said that in the first time I saw Huang Han-standard, you do not agree with them face to face contact a statement. Because underage daughter is reading age. Huang Han-standard texting and calls to my daughter said it was like she left she would commit suicide,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, threatening tone. He always said that to commit suicide, after her daughter will not go to study. Later, at home to her daughter go to school thing quarreled.<br> <br>When her daughter left a letter away, meaning "not up to expectations at home, very sorry parents, would not born when her daughter." Then call the family has been looking for her,http://www.thomassankara.net/spip.php?article1459, but she only received a cell phone text message reply, said that he is very good. Later, her daughter's friend Huangmou Wen recruited daughter said she wanted to go home, but Huang Han-standard grabbed her neck would not let her go, to control her.<br> <br>Sister, sister says, "When Hwang brothers"<br> <br>Subsequently, the reporter a telephone interview Xiaoli sister Hsiao, Hsiao also more than choking. For Huang Han Xiaoli nominal and sexual gratification, it was opposed to elope say,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, is rebuked Xiaoli Huang Han-standard lying. "My sister has always been good relations and male students can only say Yixing Yuan good, and are commensurate with brothers, she and Huang Han-standard does not recognize the month, when he only brother, 15-year-old child she had not thought so complicated . "<br> <br>Hearted was only "threat exploits"<br> <br>"She is good-natured, not because Huang Han marked lameness do with him, a result Huang Han-standard on the use of her kindness, threatened her if not met, he would commit suicide." Hsiao said crying, Huang Han-standard each time with the threat of death "15-year-old child is exposed to psychological pressure you can not imagine, she said, afraid of Huang Han-standard really commit suicide, just in case he is self-inflicted death!"<br> <br>"Huang Han-standard parents are deliberately cover up, again and again to unite, do not want us to find her. I find them well-intentioned parents to discuss, they simply ignore, we directly come to find the man, his mother has said that she wants to Here let her in here! In fact, simply by their stress. " Hsiao believes that "if we had them (Huang Han subject of family members) are willing to sit down and talk, it will not happen." Hsiao almost cried, Huang Han-standard families has not talked about the last part I am sorry to say. As for the mother, said Huang Han-standard Xiaoli pregnant and had an abortion, "It's not true, do not believe you can go to check, they do not have evidence."<br> <br>Prosecutor: Parents indulgence is the root of the tragedy<br> <br>Many psychologists refer courtship blinded truth minors need parental interference<br> <br>In Huang Han-standard opinion, Xiaoli is his only life, since faithless, as crash and burn. Because psychologically lame leg missing, and did not get proper guidance, so that Huang Han-standard step by step toward extremes.<br> <br>The case prosecutor believes that the lack of communication between parents and children, and even laissez-faire behavior, is the root of the tragedy. Psychological experts believe that both parents have inappropriate places, and the root cause is not know how to teach children to reject courtship. Experts call the parents "must give the child's circle of friends, the Internet can talk a lot, they can not talk about feelings."<br> <br>Court judgment<br> <br>Not suicide pacts & nbsp; pregnant nor facts<br> <br>Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court found, did indeed tell the landlord Zhao Xiaoli Huang Han labeled suicide, told him to go up, it still opened 120 emergency messages. According to the testimony Xiaoli friends and Huang Han marked his confession, the court held that Huang Han-standard and its counsel made two suicide pacts, inconsistent with the facts established.<br> <br>Although Huang Han-standard call to the families of suicide attempts, but the court found that he did not voluntarily surrender, nor the initiative to truthfully account for their own staff to the scene the crime, they did not voluntarily surrendered themselves. Because they did not call the police for help to the families when Huang Han-standard call.<br> <br>Zhang reported to police officers confirmed that the administrator take them directly to the room, knocked on the door half a minute, but no one responded, after Huang Han-standard in knowing that he is still not open the door after the police. Lin also confirmed the presence of a doctor, he was at the police at the request of Xiaoli check, he asked how the dead Xiaoli, Huang Han-standard did not inform the real cause of death.<br> <br>Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court Research Office spokesman pointed out that if the parties have made the victim of pregnancy abortion and other circumstances, the public security organs will be investigating. But in this case the autopsy reports, and does not show pregnant or had an abortion test results, showing that the statement does not have the truth.<br> <br>As for the court's final verdict on the basis of life imprisonment, the spokesman said, the judge first consider the case was accidental, Huang Han marked with a certain show repentance, but did not really guilty. Huang Han-standard families of the victims and their families to make a hundred thousand dollars in compensation for such families is already a great number. Comprehensive variety of reasons, did not sentenced to death.<br> <br>Dialogue prosecutor<br> <br>Even suicide pacts still bear responsibility<br> <br>October 26, 2010, the Guangzhou Municipal People's Procuratorate appointed procurator Jiang dimensional court to support the prosecution, accused Huang Han-standard guilty of intentional homicide. Huang Han a more objective understanding of the subject of character, the reporter interviewed the JAC. JAC believes that its lack of communication between parents and son, even letting his son's behavior, is the root of the tragedy.<br> <br>Information Times: whether both parents are opposed to the two exchanges?<br> <br>Jiang dimension: some families of the victims against the more intense.<br> <br>Information Times: How do you think his character? Make such behavior and family environment there?<br> <br>Jiang Victoria: I feel he is a little introverted person, educational level is not high. Through the testimony of his parents did of view, he was not very concerned about. The relationship between him and the victim, and I feel his parents is also a vague and did not really go to stop, more laissez-faire his behavior. His parents are peasant origin, education level is very low.<br> <br>Information Times: He's such killings whether harmful to society?<br> <br>Jiang dimension: the verdict from the point of view, should be taken into account, after all, they're related, in a closed environment inside, harm is relatively small, they belong to the dispute between the two. Moreover, there is no direct evidence that the killing was how he was the victim only by the case of other evidence to prove that he has to escape, not recognized intentional killings. In addition, he defended himself and make suicide pacts counsel's argument in court, but I think he still belongs to the intentional killings, even if there is evidence that both of them are suicide pacts still have to bear criminal responsibility intentional homicide.<br> <br>Information Times: his parents, why not court it?<br> <br>Jiang Victoria: I also feel a bit strange, the parties are in a town inside the residence, which people in rural areas are more likely to be familiar with, his parents may also be embarrassed to come, or a little ashamed of it! Another point is that his son like this, for he was a little disappointed.<br> <br>Information Times: court he pleaded guilty for his actions how attitude?<br> <br>Jiang dimension: with his court testimony in a later statement before the public security organs are basically the same, or honestly admit how he killed the victim, and the victim and conflict, and thus the process of killing.<br> <br>Information Times: At that time he did not say regret, in the end what is the mentality?<br> <br>Jiang Victoria: I felt he was a little introverted,http://www.postyourblack.com, in the final stage of the interrogation, I say you're on your own behavior to see now how? At that time he has been silent, was also crying, but never answered questions. There should be some regret, because he was crying is very powerful, the victim's mother, also in court under questioning. In answer to my question of how he killed the victim after the issue, including the later presentation of evidence, and after I finished indictment published opinion, he is very excited mood. And he was just a 19-year-old child, and now finds that he is intentional homicide, may be considered to be sentenced to death or very serious offense.<br> <br>Psychological experts<br> <br>The Internet is not about feelings<br> <br>"The boy way parents handle the event there are problems, I still agree with the practice of parents girl, but the girl's letter opinion, the lack of emotional exchange is also an important reason for the tragedy." Guangdong Institute of Mental Health Children's Mental behavioral research director Qiyuan Li believes that Huang Han-standard parents evasive, even lie principle out of the question. First Xiaoli minors, whether puppy or stay home, adults have an obligation to protect, guide his son, "until a certain age and then select 'when Xiaoli stay, even if her parents do not find the door, and should immediately notify other side.<br> <br>Find puppy love, she received Xiaoli parents beside her daughter away from home to get back all to protect her right move. The problem lies in a lack of emotional exchange with her daughter. "My daughter is wrong to pipe, required by law to listen to me, is more blunt, and not from actual daughter to manage," Qiyuan Li believes that the correct approach on the one hand to manage the daughter, on the other hand to take the initiative to understand the boy,http://www.tengxinhulian.com/help/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=71711, in order to break her, "You do not know him, I know more about than you," the idea, but also let her know that sympathy and affection are two different things. And since you want to control, they really do not let her go out again, rather than letting her once again have the opportunity to run away from home.<br> <br>Qiyuan Li against online dating, pointed out that "across a network, by QQ texting, do not see the real person, online and deceived a lot of the real situation, omitted the true understanding, is the biggest insecurity." She believes that in the virtual exchanges, with mutual investment increase, it will form a psychological suggestion, originally unbelievers will gradually convinced. Internet can make friends, is already the largest scale, and even face to face interaction with friends are likely to deceive, the network leaked the information is very scary.<br> <br>As parents how to guide their children, Qiyuan Li noted that the most important reason is made clear to him, after the relative has the ability to judge the age of 18,http://www.hmsyyey.com/Review.asp?NewsID=57, minors should as soon as possible interference method has no effect if not more, to find a professional . Usually let the child develop healthy patterns of life, and now a lot of people "home" in front of the computer, which is unhealthy, there must be a real circle of friends, the Internet can talk a lot, I can not talk about feelings.<br><br>
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