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 12-year-old girl to see her mother left behind, arson burned neighbor house to make a big thing of the mother would come back Children left behind loneliness and longing In recent years, not a single word, can be like "left-behind children", as repeatedly stinging public soft heart. Along with the process of urbanization, the problem of children left behind a long time. 60 million left-behind children and families behind them, we can not ignore. Assuming 12-year-old girl to see her mother in Guang'an,BU7lOR1aY8, even the neighbor's house burn down, because she felt "something big out, my mother came back." Such extreme cases, the parents of children left behind enough to sound the alarm. If you work in the city, if your child stay home, you have to look at this edition. Then pick up the phone, give your child call you, talk about the heart, ask warm. Tangjian Kui Chengdu Chinese Commercial News intern reporter Wang Chao photo coverage A sad and lonely children left behind Her loneliness For 12-year-old Hsiao, the fear of the Chinese New Year, when the parents of other children in the village have come back, but her mother has not come back. 10 years, she had seen her mother only once last summer. & Nbsp; & nbsp; Her thoughts Her mother's photo posted on the bed, watching a few times every day. Xiaolin am looking forward to be able to receive her mother's birthday, phone, or mother suddenly appeared at the door, but this desire has not been achieved. & Nbsp; & nbsp; Her tangled "Come not close,louboutin pas cher, waiting for her mother gone, she cried, saying that her mother wanted." Chen Xiulan side to side Calei granddaughter said. & Nbsp; & nbsp; Her reckless She cried to police investigators, said: "I just want my mother to go home, did not mean to burn them to think that as long as the house burned their houses, to compensate, my mother will certainly be back." Today, the 12-year-old Xiaolin (a pseudonym) became the village's "enemies." March 6, after she came home from school, arson burned his neighbor six houses. Let the villagers doubt that this "how childhood Bitter, very smart girl would do such a stupid it?" A police investigators told Chengdu Business Daily reporter, when they find Xiaolin, she said, "I just want my mother to go home, think that if their houses burned, they will compensate for the losses, this time my mother certainly will be back." March 20, when the Chengdu Business Daily reporter saw Xiaolin, she repeated the phrase poignant words --- in her memory,nike tn pas cher, her mother came home only seen her once. Yesterday afternoon, the Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Lian Ji and Shang Yuanzai Hunan Arjun, she said, and her daughter has been assuming good communication,RD95zEIw9O, will that day come back to accompany her daughter a birthday (lunar August 25). Arson Neighbor's house burned home from school Eight ears Guang'an Linshui town located south east direction, more than 40 kilometers from the county. If you want to Xiaolin village is located, to go fifty-six kilometers. Here is a typical village left behind, more than 200 villagers on the residence, but the perennial stay in the village only thirty or forty people, mostly elderly. In addition, there are more than 10 children left behind, assuming that one of the March 6, Thursday. After assuming the town elementary school came home from school, he took a lighter to the kitchen stove, and went straight into a pile of firewood neighbor's house, then leave. More than 40 minutes later, villagers found nearby houses on fire. "Fire time in about 7:00 in the evening, a great fire." Village team leader told Chengdu Business Daily reporter. Villagers who heard about the fire, but to no avail, until the fire engines rushed to the scene, the fire at about 23:00 burn out. According to statistics, fire caused a total of six villagers damaged three houses in varying degrees, the loss of more than 50,000 yuan. Afterwards, assuming one has witnessed villagers room after the fire alarm. Eight ears in town police station, assuming admit arson incident. Xiaolin cried to police investigators, said: "I just want my mother to go home, did not mean to burn them to think that as long as the house burned their houses, they will compensate for the losses, this time my mother certainly will come back.." 20, talking about arson, Xiaolin told Chengdu Business Daily reporter:. "At that time thought that things become big, my mother would come back." Assuming police on patient education and psychological counseling were after, it was handed over to the grandparents, school strict discipline. 10 years She only saw her mother again Xiaolin grandmother Chen Xiulan (a pseudonym), said his son Awa (a pseudonym) after graduating from middle school migrant workers, met his junior-year-old girl in Hunan Arjun. (Lunar), assuming granddaughter was born August 25, 2002. Xiaolin 9 months old, Arjun again go out to work, when assuming two years once back home. After Arjun and Awa marriage come to an end. Until summer 2013, Arjun came back once seen Xiaolin, Awa is two or three years to go home again. For Hsiao, the fear of the Chinese New Year, when the parents of other children in the village have come back, but her mother has not come back. Chen Xiulan, said his son and later married a girl of Guangdong, but the "stepmother" for assuming the attitude is not very good. "Mom just came back again last summer, but stayed only three days left." Quiet tears in the side of assuming that the mother is very beautiful, and very cheerful. Surprisingly, last summer, the day after night and think of my mother finally came back, assuming insisted and grandmother slept. Nearly 10 years did not meet with one indelible strangeness between them. Now, assuming the Arjun left her home last year, a photo posted on the bed carefully, read it several times every day. Photo, Xiaolin looked like her mother. "Come not close, waiting for her mother gone, she cried, saying that her mother wanted." Chen Xiulan granddaughter Calei side of his mouth. Feel sad "Every time I said that, has not come back!" August 25 each year (lunar calendar), assuming birthday, Chen Xiulan will give granddaughter boiled eggs, occasionally buy her a small cake. But am looking forward to assuming her mother's birthday can receive calls, or the mother suddenly appeared at the door,louboutin pas cher, but this desire has not been achieved. In this regard, Arjun explained that he did not forget his daughter's birthday on the phone to the Chengdu Business Daily reporters, "but each call is accidentally, not playing in the past nobody answered the phone, was able to get through." "Every time I called to ask her Shashi Hou come back, she said to come back, but has not come back." Hsiao said. Many villagers said that before the Spring Festival, there was a fire in the village, after the Spring Festival, the village has happened five times the fire, the losses are the largest, each time getting dark when the fire. Villagers began this "small very clever boy," he was afraid that after a few fires are assuming that is. "The last time it was me, but I'm really not a few times before." Speak, assuming kept his head down. Gan Guoliang village team leader, said the village burned houses loss has been reported to the government, "their home conditions are not good, find their pay unrealistic." Xiaolin reporter tried to contact the father Awa, but failed. Chen Xiulan said: "My son already knows assuming fire thing,Uf4V7ojlNf, but can not come back, did not have the money." Mom responses Less than temporarily back, her birthday come back Yesterday, the Chengdu Business Daily correspondent telephone contact Arjun away in Hunan, 27 years old,uaGf227RoA, she had a new family, and have had no children. "Happen, when the parents are our fault, we owe her too much." Arjun said that the current work while in treatment, it can not come back in time to see her daughter, her daughter rarely call, But this year will come back to accompany her birthday. Speaking of himself and Awa marriage, Arjun "error" to describe, "parents were originally not agree, then blame yourself too naive, it led to today's situation." View Who knows lonely children left behind Director of the Sichuan Police College Counseling Center, associate professor of psychology Chen: assuming that because usually too lack of maternal love, only through this extreme way to get parental attention, to prove their presence. Call for maternal child is an instinct,AG2NU4wgvm, which is more fatherly love can not be replaced. Chen suggested that both the perennial work outside, or the like due to various objective reasons can not divorce often with children, and children should usually keep the normal contact, often called child care, understand their psychological needs, giving them more much love. Abnormal behavior, to timely communicate with their children, to avoid the child took the extreme path. Dialogue Xiaolin "Mom looked beautiful, just do not come back to see me." Reporter: listen to the people around them say your good grades, is a very smart girl, why go to fire it? Hsiao: Results in the class, the top dozen, March 6 in the afternoon after school to go home, went to the kitchen to get a lighter to set fire, that so long as their houses burned, they will compensate for the losses, and this time my mother necessarily We will be back. Reporter: Mom does not know this thing? She will not come back,TySwQerF6P? Xiaolin: She has to know,moncler outlet milano, and also did not say to come back. (Head down crying) Reporter: In your impression, my mother is what kind of person? Assuming: She is a good person, pretty, cheerful, just do not come back to see me. Reporter: Mom came back last time, why do not you sleep with her together? Xiaolin: strange (and head down crying, into silence). Reporter: now you regret it? Xiaolin: ...... (kept his head down crying) Dialogue mom "Over the years, really owe her too much." Reporter: I heard your neighbor's house burn arson daughter? Arjun: police called to say over there, and this thing happened, we are two adults in the wrong all these years,88awhhnuox, really owe her too much, she lost a lot of care. Reporter: first contact your Xiaolin is when? Arjun: End the bumper a few days, but at that time she had not see anything unusual, then, I called her and found home phone can not get through. This time may be too little contact with her, so she competence so stupid thing, we are adults wrong. Reporter: What time to go home to see her daughter? Arjun: I am in poor health, also a doctor, I have called to communicate well with them, ready to go back in time her birthday. After waiting for me here was better, he brought her out playing, she want to go, where to take her to play. Juvenile countries, wisdom, young then national wealth, Junior strong Guoqiang. Faced with this social phenomenon of children left behind, no doubt on the future development of China is extremely unfavorable. How can we give children a happy childhood left behind in recent years, governments at all levels to actively explore --- Five departments issued a document care of children left behind Left-behind children enjoy "Three priority" treatment Last January 10, the Ministry of Education and other departments jointly issued a document 5 children left behind in infrastructure, better nutrition, and transportation needs will enjoy the "three priority" treatment. Ministry of Education, the National Women's Federation, the Central Comprehensive Management Office, the CYL Central Committee and Chinese committee jointly issued "on the strengthening of rural compulsory education of children left behind in the care and education of opinions" that, to build rural boarding schools through scientific planning priority boarding to meet the needs of children left behind, to ensure that every boarders have a standard bed; improve nutrition for rural compulsory education in the project areas to improve student nutrition program implemented at the national and local organizations organization and implementation, to establish accounting and registration of children left behind in the dining nutritional status archives, give priority to children left behind in the dining needs; to give full consideration to children left behind in the number and distribution conditions and other factors, a reasonable set of schools or teaching point, give priority to children left behind can be the nearest commuter school, for public transportation can not meet the region, to create the conditions for providing school bus services, protect children left behind by priority. The document also proposed to establish a comprehensive archive of children left behind, the parents and guardians of migrant situation changes one by one to register and update; carefully chosen willing and responsible family, take the form of fully managed or hosted half the care of children left behind. It will also establish the age of 16 school-age children left behind in the registration system, to ensure its integration into education and other basic public service system. In addition,t1vJuE357l, the public security department steadily promote the reform of the household registration system; Ministry of Civil Affairs of the difficult "children left behind" as the focus of the rural subsistence work ....... Comprehensive Xinhua News Agency However, the following problems faced by children left behind still worrisome Guardianship ineffective, nine-year compulsory education is difficult to guarantee Chinese National People's Congress survey shows that after entering junior high school, left behind a significant decline in the rate of children in school, stay in school children was only 14 years old was 88%. Lack of comfort, health concern Coastal Province, a survey showed that 19.6% of left-behind children feel inferior, 11.4% felt discriminated against,hogan outlet, 9.5% had a feeling of being abandoned. The problem of inadequate social care Lack of family warmth makes psychological aspects of children left behind had a great variation, they exhibit more in character with varying degrees of depression and withdrawn, difficult to integrate into normal peer group ...... (Edit: SN094) 

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