<br>"Divorce former persuasion" intervention system prototype is now in Dalian<br> <br>"Go and persuade them to leave it!"<br> <br>Experts believe that a third force needed to restore balance to make marital status<br> <br>Chief correspondent Xinmin Juan<br> <br>If two impulsive marriage before divorcing parties was pulled down, the outcome may not be exactly the same. Now, some communities in Dalian, the "pull" what people try cautiously: "Perhaps they pull it, it saved a family."<br> <br>Faced with the reality of rising divorce rate, as well as experts from the civil society in the appeal: "Go and persuade them to leave the."<br> <br>"Get away from the door of the coordination of all do not want to"<br> <br>50-year-old Wang Fen is a mediator spring street Winco community, her job is to do the petition and civil mediation. "There is also because I wanted to divorce her door, some would like to consult legal issues." According to more than five years of work experience, she can find the crux of the conversation with the parties, the "if it is because of the contradictions short caused by the parents in, and marital relations not broken,http://www.kh.rim.or.jp/~goburin/cgi-bin/custombbs.cgi/, we will be coordinated. "<br> <br>Coordination of benefits a third party to find a non-relatives, they will occupy in a neutral position for both pros and cons. "We do not want the relatives of the two sides involved in the matter, because they come with their own prejudices." Once dispel the idea of divorce under the mediation of the community, Mr. Zhang said. He admitted that he was at a relatively impulsive divorce case, but mediation last community make him rethink his marriage, and now he believes their decision to divorce is wrong, "Fortunately, this step go first."<br> <br>Wang Fen think, to find community to the people, not really want to leave,http://periscopewebvideo.com/user/115702/fbconnect, "they also need a talk channel, and this channel is smooth, it is very critical."<br> <br>Shahekou District, Zhongshan Park Street is also trying to persuade the parties before the divorce. "Divorce impulse type a lot, if they are not into the community, it may be off, but if you came in,hogan outlet,http://www.shzjw.net/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=34805, we could save a family." The streets of Social Services Branch Zhang Chunmei said.<br> <br>However, they are also faced with a question: "can take the initiative came in much,moncler Outlet, but we can not find people to go,http://kehuelga.net/diario/spip.php?article3177, after all, related to people's privacy." So she hopes should have a sound mechanism, so that there is a demand for people to find the door to solve problems faced. "Or you can go the necessary provisions of conciliation proceedings before the divorce."<br> <br>High divorce rate<br> <br>The high divorce rate is the main reason for divorce before civil try persuasion,hogan outlet,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=. & Nbsp;<br> <br>Dalian Municipal Bureau of Civil Affairs statistics, from November 2009 to October 2010, the number of marriage registration Dalian is 51,800 pairs, the number of divorce registration to 12890 pairs. Divorce statistics only did the number of registered marriages registered in the Registry, do not include the number of court sentenced isolated. Nevertheless, this ratio is still about 5 to 1.<br> <br>October 2003, the new "Marriage Registration Ordinance" after the implementation, as long as both spouses agree, they can apply for a divorce. Divorce registration requirements the new "Marriage Registration Ordinance", than in the past of "Marriage Registration Regulations", the parties are no longer needed to provide "the unit, villagers 'committee or residents' committee issued a letter of introduction." This means that the legal party to the divorce agreement with more independence, so that the divorce became a real sense of personal things.<br> <br>Expert analysis, Dalian divorce rate rise the following main reasons: First marriage greatly enhanced autonomy; the second is to simplify new regulations on marriage and divorce procedures, improve efficiency, and thus also led some young people to get married hasty, impulsive divorce Phenomena.<br> <br>Marriage registration office wanted to set up a "meditation room"<br> <br>"Impulse" divorce a few. Yesterday, the Dalian City Xigang marriage registration office staff said, "There are two people to divorce wearing slippers and pajamas, to see that this is very emotional to divorce, everyone in a fit of anger, it is generally in such Under the circumstances, we will persuade a few words. "According to regulations, the marriage registration office is not obligated to do mediation work, but faced with this situation, they will still fight for something, after all, marriage is not a trifling matter.<br> <br>Marriage registration office staff said, "easy divorce" does not mean frivolous. Everyone knows that marriage is the result of a careful selection.<br> <br>"We intend to establish a 'meditation room' at next year conditions allow, encountered such a party, there are specialized personnel to guide them, 'meditation', and then make a choice."<br> <br>According to media report, Shanghai marital crisis intervention to some areas has been launched specifically to persuade couples to divorce. Members are professional social workers and legal service providers, to explore mechanisms to reduce the blind impulse divorce.<br> <br>Hasty divorce abroad have begun to treat attention. In 2005, Korea introduced a provision couple filed for divorce must be approved according to the Korea National Statistical Office reported that the divorce rate in Korea, the first decline in 16 years,http://www.burnish-club.com, hasty divorce social atmosphere is changing.<br> <br>We should intervene against the family crisis<br> <br>Peking University Professor Mu Guangzong population in the interview with this reporter, said that divorce before the "persuasion intervention" very important, "the past is relative intervention,http://repository.tufs.ac.jp, because the position and level of questions, not necessarily make the party convinced by social organizations have come forward certain credibility, through memories and feelings outlook repair, check the provincial himself, Wake responsibility to rebuild a happy family. "<br> <br>He believes that in real life, some divorce is "passion divorce" and "capricious divorce" and "party fault divorce" and "cognitive conflict divorce", and other negative emotions like in the past, and other cognitive reset like, and not to non-bulk is not the point, so it is possible to save, and it is avoidable. When the confrontation between the two forces emerge, we need a third force to balance.<br> <br>"One of the key family health is a healthy marriage is a healthy marital relationship, which is the axis of a healthy family where husband and wife relationship greatly affect the parent-child relationship. Many children living in conflict-type family or single-parent families in divorce, it is incomplete the family,moncler outlet italia, the child's physical and mental health and personality is very negative. Social organizations have a responsibility concern, repair and reconstruction of the relationship between the health of the family. We will not only focus on the reproductive health of the family, but also to focus on the moral health and social health of the family,woolrich outlet, from all-round promote the healthy development of the family angle. "<br> <br>In his view, especially for families with children who have been breaking the marital relationship is difficult to avoid harm to the child, so the population sector and civil affairs departments need to join forces, we must focus on healthy marriage,http://www.kkr-nagoya.jp, must be carried out within the family crisis intervention for the several dimensions of integrated family health up.<br><br>
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