Students puppy love CFP for map<br>Our reporter Zhang Peng<br> <br>Teenage pregnancy, is not a new topic, but in a "painless," said a birth in a hospital operating room door of Beijing, when a reporter saw a picture of this young face, the still feel deeply shocked. This hospital has recently launched a "student package", is said to be not yet fully mature for the physical development of student populations,http://wx.jazzsynth.com/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=105&page=", expensive.<br> <br>These girls waiting outside the operating room will not exceed 20 years, after which doctors also confirmed that part of college students and high school students is now increasing the number of abortions in the population, especially after the annual summer and winter, will form a small peak. A vocational high school girls waiting for surgery, pregnancy and abortion in the face of such "painful experience", extraordinary calm, and even indifference, she said he this time be regarded as "self-taught", though it seems a bit late. According to her, "self" is basically rely on the network, including the choice of abortion methods and choose which hospital to such details,Veste barbour, and this at this time to provide them with the help of teachers and parents, but it was completely kept in the dark where parents had the child outside of secret isolation,http://samuel.troncon.name/spip.php?article38, but now they are the child's sex secret isolated.<br> <br>"In school boyfriend not ashamed."<br> <br>Their own experiences<br> <br>Millet (a pseudonym) is a 17-year-old vocational high school girl, in waiting times for surgery of nearly an hour, she easily and casually chatting up reporters, and without the usual nervousness people think, not even for this girl hide and be ashamed of things, it seems to her, this is very common, and classmates, she is not the first one. "We basically have a boyfriend class girls, there are also outside of school, those who did not feel quite ashamed of her boyfriend. Our class has had several people chasing me!" Said when she was a little proud. " everyone meeting topic is generally 'male and female friends,' 'yellow piece' learning to talk, talk about ideals?'ll be laughed at old-fashioned! "<br> <br>90 students of sexual attitudes in some eyes of adults can be described as somewhat "ahead", online articles being sought, to reach more than 40 million hits a blog "As a 90, 90, after watching sex and love" from a high school students hand, which wrote:. "Boys can get together to talk about sex love, with his 'favorite' girls open to hotel rooms, and more courageous, risking girls do take people to the house, you can disregard everything to follow his 'dead must be love' of people, you can put all the pain and all the consequences behind while parents but always kept in the dark,scarpe hogan,http://technoresto.org/cgi-bin/forum/dcboard.cgi, do not know their children all day wondering what to do What, because the children are very obedient at home, like ...... "<br> <br>A survey in Beijing Women's Federation, the survey of 13-19 year-old girl, and 8 percent have had sexual experience, 3% had been pregnant. In May this year, the first national survey on adolescent reproductive health of women and children by the State Council office and other units of the announcement: 22.4 percent of unmarried teen sexual experience, wherein the ratio of first sex did not take contraceptive measures up to 51.2%.<br> <br>Ahead of the sexual attitudes led directly to an increase in teenage pregnancy, the Beijing Maternity Hospital family planning section chief physician Meng said that in recent years, teenagers do more and more abortions, the clinic saw the smallest only There are 13 years of age. Beijing Modern Hospital Distinguished experts IPPF director also told reporters the South, now unwanted teenage pregnancies mainly between ages 19-22 years old, there are some sixteen-year-old high school students to do the flow of people.<br> <br>Network Power<br> <br>Students in the popular "Experience sister"<br> <br>Faced with pregnancy, millet did not reveal panic, but there is no help to parents,woolrich sito ufficiale, her first reaction is to check the internet. "We studied the physiological junior class, it seems things talked about pregnancy, but long forgotten, but that's okay, check the Internet to know everything." At that time she said, according to the online control of your own symptoms: menstrual wrong After almost a month, boring, disgusting, eat, this is a symptom of pregnancy, according to the last of her pointing users to the drugstore to buy early pregnancy test strip, a try, two red, and she was pregnant.<br> <br>The next step is how to deal with this problem,http://e-teikan.org, and parents and teachers can not find it for a 17-year-old girl, apparently some difficulty. "Those who move the online branch of everything, fortunately I did not hear them ......" According to Millet said,http://blog.ky4z.cn/?uid-17692-action-viewspace-itemid-130, that someone recommends using bandages tight abdomen, do intense jumping movement; or a balloon inserted into the uterus, then cheer, prompting the uterus strong contraction; there is to the drugstore to buy something called abortion drug "with beads stop",barbour paris, only tens of dollars, can mysteriously do away ...... she finally dared to act rashly, because the class she One of her best friend from the Internet to find an article called "pregnant Emergency Handbook," the post, let her firm determination to hospital for surgery.<br> <br>Reporters said the Internet to find the millet this post was friends touted as "textbook version pregnancy Emergency Handbook", a variety of considerations a female college student with their own personal experience to write abortions, posting a small quiet person claiming this year facing graduation, due to multiple pregnancies abortion, I hope after pregnancy did not dare tell his family do not know how the users can learn emergency treatment, to avoid bodily harm. Post detailed descriptions from pregnancy tests to carry out all aspects of the Notes surgery, and uploaded a cost of abortion statements. At the same time there are a lot of "intimate" reminder, such as how to leave teachers will not arouse suspicion, the day of surgery you need something like, she hope that her younger sister not to repeat the wrong way. Article attracted thousands of thread, a lot of friends said to save the download, because this is definitely not something the classroom. Posted therefore be friends called "Experience sister."<br> <br>After learning the "lessons sister" of the experience, millet just think with the end in mind, in the introduction the students, she chose this private hospital, "because she was six months ago is in this to do the surgery." "Student package" of cost is 880 yuan, is to come up with some money in the past.<br> <br>Interests debut<br> <br>Girls Helpline more established private hospital<br> <br>The IPPF specialist hospital director told reporters the South,http://mapledeal.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=12868760, he found a lot of surgery to a little girl on a special understanding of the flow of knowledge, or even know more than adults are more, I asked, are coming from the online search. "For a variety of abortion formula also we know very well."<br> <br>However, such knowledge available online, many are one-sided, even misleading. Their source of knowledge networks and even adult sites, which in turn is 90 after a student's notable features. Recently, the China Youth Daily Social Investigation Center of China through the public network, a survey of 3032 people showed that 72.5 percent had experienced sexual problems. For teenagers understand for "knowledge" of effective channels, 79.2% of people preferred the "Network"; "books" ranked second (72.5 percent); ranking third is the "companion" (56.0%); followed by " Newspapers, television and other media "(47.0%);" school "and" parents "came in last, respectively, 31.9% and 30.5% of the options.<br> <br>Difficult to obtain systematic knowledge from formal channels is many children confused. Reporters also learned that Beijing a number of "early teenage helpline", but one call after reporters found that the main task of these hotlines,tiffany gioielli, without exception, are some of the private hospitals establishment of family planning departments, customer service is to help who sell their abortions, pull them into their own hospitals, the phone is a young girl foreign accent speaking, neither the doctors nor the relevant professional knowledge, it is difficult to provide any substantial help.<br> <br>The second Beijing hospital psychologist has a "boys and girls hotline" for young people in terms of answering questions, the doctor on duty psychologist Long Chunling doctor told reporters that today's children have problems in this regard, first of all help the network, and then classmates, or such public service hotline. To consult a lot of students,http://jibun.atmarkit.co.jp/ljibun01/rensai/genesis/046/01.html, after plenty of sex, not scared to take safety measures, some anxiety and tension after pregnancy do not know how to do, there is the sexual orientation occurs at "neutral" and "pseudo-mother" fashion impact blurred ...... she will provide assistance and psychological aspects of some of the recommendations for the children, but does not ask them how to do it.<br> <br>Parents of children separated from each other secret<br> <br>Reporter in the interview that, like millet such children, when talking about pregnancy, abortion these things, never thought to teachers and parents for help, but do everything possible to hide them, Long Chunling doctors also pointed out that the children's sex rather confusing to users unfamiliar or psychiatrist to talk, parents adopt a "killed not say."<br> <br> Why is that? Who wrote, "As a 90, 90, after watching sex and love," Bowen high school students revealed the truth: "'Let my parents know I'm dead,' 'to let others know shame is dead', which is the majority of children The first reaction, wounded heart can not get timely protection. Some parents in that situation very extreme attitude, this will cause the child 'secondary victimization' ...... "Many parents of these things attitude is blamed, punished even abuse, however, they fail to realize that the child had occurred such a thing, and the lack of family education are not unrelated, resulting in the children only after cramming things Internet, but it was too late carry on.<br> <br>Beijing Women's Federation had 1500 households survey showed that: 74% of parents avoid talking about sex with their children, the children were able to explain only 3%. Parents avoidance in exchange for the withdrawal of children: to understand the nature of knowledge or experience problems, 85 percent of students online searching, help parents and teachers account for only 30%.<br> <br>China Women's Federation Women's Institute of Historical Research Office Xiao Yang, the parents will not be the correct attitude towards sex is divided into three kinds: one is talking about sex, to face the child's problems do not know how to answer; the second is always thinking about self-taught, that "we had no one to teach,http://www.postyourasian.com, is not it over yet," but ignore the concept now of the whole society and attitudes are not the same; Third, ostrich type involving sex took the child, "isolation" open, hard life and life to be blocked.<br> <br>Similarly, schools for the children to solve the problems of the confusion did not provide much help. Millet told reporters, physiology lessons they turned out to be junior high school physical education teacher to teach, and what did not remember talking about, when the exam is an open book, facing the book copied on the line.<br> <br>CTR up to more than 100 million times, "hilarious sex education lecture" teacher - young Beijing Normal University Experimental High School teacher Zhang Chao said that it is not no sex education, in 2008 the Ministry of Education issued a "health guidance outline primary and secondary education." , but sex did not ease, not the system. Children may know a part of something, but did not say through, they will have a curiosity, only to discover that some people wanted way off.<br> <br>Today, the children's early maturity has been beyond the imagination many parents, a new survey of Chinese Academy of Pediatrics endocrine and genetic metabolic disease study group showed the average age of puberty girls of 9.2 years earlier than the previous generation four five. Teachers and parents about sex is a direct result of this isolation, precocious children to parents and teachers far separated outside their "secret." & Nbsp; & nbsp;<br> <br>Teenage pregnancy increased once again reminds us that in advance of sex education in the battle of ideas and behind, the children are the biggest victims.<br><br>
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