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  1. <br>The evening of March 18 this year, Nanjing Qinhuai District occurred father accidentally killed 13-year-old daughter's tragedy. Twice divorced, with 13-year-old daughter had each other father Qianqian Jeong, because Qianqian truancy week day and still not back and furious. After her return home that night, he was beaten with steel pipes daughter; daughter was vomiting blood, he picked up her daughter rushed to hospital. Because of his injuries, Qianqian killed in the early morning of March 19. Subsequently, Jeong was arrested because of intentional injury and transferred to the prosecution. Recently, Jeong accepted in prison when prosecutors review painfully admit there is a problem of education, and now he just die.<br> <br>Correspondent Miuling Yan Cheng-hua Yangzi Evening News reporter Jia Xiaoning<br> <br>Tragedy Flashback<br> <br>"Dad, I was wrong, I'm no longer afraid of the next." This is the daughter of former coma with Jeong said the last word.<br> <br>March 18 evening, truancy week's daughter has not yet been returned, Jeong drank alone moping 4 two liquor. Daughter home but refused to admit, shortness of breath Jeong picked pipe beatings daughter, daughter hit straight vomiting blood, was suddenly aware of the situation right, and quickly picked up her daughter to hospital, this time it is a thunderstorm.<br> <br>Although the hospital to rescue, but all too late, around at 1:00 on the 19th, the doctor declared Qianqian death.<br> <br>"I played too cruel, I could not think." Jeong recently accepted review of prosecutors repeatedly said that he does not need to be forgiven,moncler sito ufficiale, now just a death.<br> <br>What makes strict father outbreak?<br> <br>Daughter weariness and puppy love, the father heart pain triggers<br> <br>In fact, Chung is not the vicious abominations of the people, life, he can actually be said to be a very favorite daughter's father. In the end is what makes him so lead to tragedy?<br> <br>When young Jeong did not make good reading, so dealing with her daughter's learning, he did not expect her daughter in the future by reading the family line, but he wanted her to at least reading for high school graduation. But in junior high school just do not want to go to school Qianqian, before being hit, has no more than one week in class, which makes Jeong very angry.<br> <br>The daughter's puppy love is a heart touched Jeong nearly 30 years of pain. Jeong told prosecutors in 1986 was himself sentenced to imprisonment for two years, because adultery sex crimes. He was seventeen years old, junior high school had not mixed on society, with a teenage girl in love,http://kehuelga.net/spip.php?article3144, did not know each other's age, the two had a relationship. Because someone under 14 years of age, this in his eyes "normal love" has become a crime, and thus he jailed. In recent years he met a little girl then, the other to work in a supermarket, drug abuse, forties, and even children are not - he does not want this happen to her daughter.<br> <br>However, by the look Qianqian network chats, Jeong know Qianqian and a 20-year-old young puppy society. He had warned that the youth, but also to his mother with her daughter to the hospital,http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, in the end because no investigation into her daughter's objections.<br> <br>March 18 that day, coming home and refused to admit Qianqian, sparking a variety of anxiety and anger Jeong mind ......<br> <br>Father and daughter also happy past<br> <br>Then behaved daughter, the father of her daughter obedience<br> <br>Jeong had two marriages, Qianqian Qianqian mother after giving birth, did not take long and Jeong divorce. In order to better loving daughter,http://tiffanyrin.blog.shinobi.jp, Jeong fight to the custody Qianqian. After the divorce from his second wife, two married wife gave birth to a little daughter and mother live together, while Jeong and Qianqian only had each other. Jeong past has no stable job, mix in the community, the company has opened a fortune, but the company went out of business a few years ago.<br> <br>Regardless of their economic condition, Jeong is loved daughter. By Jeong friend's words, Jeong hurt her, especially when the rich daughter is obedience to what to buy. Even now as they used to the conditions, the material is able to meet his daughter try to meet. Just before the accident, her daughter and society in order to avoid dubious human contact, Chung quit his job and devoted daughter at home pick-up.<br> <br>In Jeong memories, daughter Qianqian is a good boy. Qianqian childhood is own up your bed, wash clothes are their own. When the birthday of the family at the hotel to celebrate his daughter,hogan rebel, Qianqian once told Jeong said: "Dad, we are all the same boat people, you did not five years old my father, I did not remember he had a lack of maternal love, we both want to take over. "<br> <br>Prison introspection: deep love playing too hard<br> <br>Education rebellious daughter would not understand the method of playing<br> <br>Recently, Jeong suspicion of intentional assault was Qinhuai District Procuratorate approved the arrest, without the slightest regard Jeong comments, he said he is a "crazy", deserved. Jeong's heart can not forgive myself, after Jeong roommate has a Buddhist jail inmates, Chung asked him to copy the Sutra on paper, read 108 times a day to Qianqian salvation, hope that their daughter can go with Confidence a little.<br> <br>"Which father wanted to harm her, just the way the right way." Jeong told prosecutors. On her daughter's education problems, Jeong is indeed a problem. The first one is too pet, he also opened the company has done boss, life has considered wealthy, so the material can meet the basic requirements of her daughter. Daughter eat cola chicken wings,http://www.webloop.info,air max pas cher, he dedicated to learning, with students gathering daughter, he always let his daughter very face,http://forum.tagks.com/default.aspx?g=posts&t=3341183, he felt "poor rich daughter raise children." The traditional concept of perhaps no problem, but the specific use, Jeong behavior overdone. And ultimately lead to a fuse tragedy is too Jeong favorite daughter, to take care of her daughter, she quit the monthly salary of 5,000 yuan work, all send her to school every day, losing sources of livelihood. The second is to play too hard, according to Jeong own account, his daughter's family violence for a long time, he grumpy, educate their children there is no way, wrong things hit, Qianqian resentment of his father more . Jeong himself told prosecutors, one finger fracture he played Qianqian also once played plaster, Qianqian too ugly,http://uoindex.com, own the plaster torn down.<br> <br>[Expert analysis<br> <br>How rebellious youth education and care of children? Yesterday, Nanjing Foreign Language School childhood education psychology expert Wu Rong teachers analyzed the case, but also for all the family of the child's parents of rebellious advice.<br> <br>A & nbsp; in this case to resolve<br> <br>Two mistakes, let fatherly love turns to hate dislocation<br> <br>Wu analysts say, Jeong actually loves his daughter, but the daughter is not education.<br> <br>First Zhengmou Fu traditional concept adopted daughter,http://gookuma.seesaa.net, in fact, cause now he and his daughter inside the first gap. Jeong rich past, responsive to her daughter, the current economic conditions to die, material, and in the past can not be compared to satisfy. This 13-year-old Qianqian, it is likely to cause the illusion is no longer love their father. This has also been confirmed in Jeong there: When Jeong money, two daughters have purchased high personal accident insurance, but then continued to pay the money, put both the insurance has stopped. Qianqian thought his father only stopped to pay their own insurance, strong views of his father.<br> <br>Further, Jeong wishful and unhappy life itself are pouring in her daughter's body, eventually evolved into the single daughter love the way - Henda. Thus, the goal of both sides for the love of a severe dislocation occurs. Father wanted to fight the way through so that children can avoid detours, so that children become "daughters" to reflect their love; and daughter, believes that his father simple and crude, that is, do not love themselves.<br> <br>B & nbsp; Parenting proposal<br> <br>Rebellious children did not move, and to promptly seek help<br> <br>How to educate rebellious child? Wu Rong recommendation -<br> <br>First of all, parents and children to establish a harmonious relationship, the relationship is more important than education. Parents should establish such a relationship in time, let the children feel loved, respected and understood.<br> <br>Second, parents should self to grow, along with the children grown up together. In fact, the parents to educate their children is a process of self-improvement, the parents in the process of self-improvement,moncler outlet online, and set an example to the children, to give children better recognized.<br> <br>Third,http://ktxlog.emmanuelc.dix.asia,louboutin pas cher, it is to find more ways to educate children. Rebellious children mainly in his unwillingness to accept things the parents give parents if by other means, rather than a single beat or nagging, to understand what the child wants, maybe you can get a multiplier effect.<br> <br>"No way to take a child, many parents now turn to psychological experts, if Jeong and daughter Qianqian found that they have not be able to communicate, as soon as possible for help to psychological experts to ease relations between the two sides, perhaps tragedy can be avoided." Wu told reporter.<br> <br>& Nbsp;<br> (Edit: SN091)<br>

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