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"Listen to the words of my mother." Reporter Zhou Mengying Drawing What DragonSoft at 8:30 on August 12 (Reporter Zhou Mengying Xiao Ziqi) want to eat today, tomorrow, what to wear, how and colleagues, what a friend should not pay ...... your life, whether by their parents so unavoidably to "protect" the? Because what have to rely on my mother decided that 27-year-old Liu Li (pseudonym) does not get along with others, resulting in two years, he quit his job 26. All the time in the care and control, over their parents' love, "is to protect or obstacle? User talk: 26 years resignation Anything "Mom final say." On Wednesday, who lives in Jiulongpo District of Chongqing Jinlong Road Liu Li (pseudonym) submitted a letter of resignation to the unit, and this is her last year from the date of the 26th resign. "Finance is just miscalculated her prize, she felt that 'you offend me, I quit'." Turning to the reasons for her resignation, Liu Li's mother Miss Mao a bit anxious, "if she played in advance call me to say, I can give her ideas, will not be traumatic to resign thiophene. " It is reported that 27-year-old Liu force since graduating from college, have replaced several dozens of work, many of them state-owned enterprises as well as large multinational companies, no matter where she was, Miss Mao is always the best route in advance to help her good to go inquiry units The best restaurant near the unit, and even how to get along with Miss Mao and new colleagues as well as "hands" to teach. "Mom asked me to call at any time where, what to do, work and interpersonal problems should I report on, and then said to me The solution." Liu Li said in an interview with reporters, "She totally put me 7 , 8-year-old child, what should help me solve, beginning Fortunately, more and more want to later contradict, but found no mother once ideas, they are completely unable to deal with work and interpersonal, only then change the environment. " [Reporter interview] Mother: do not let the child is precious to sweep Seeing her daughter Liu Li resigned 26 years, Miss Mao inevitably some impatient, so she took Liu force to re-attached to a hospital mental health center for help, but the doctor's diagnosis allows Miss Mao somewhat at a loss,http://wx.jazzsynth.com/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=63&page=2/a%22, the resignation of former child constantly fundamental The reason is actually in his body. According to Ms. Mao introduced, because it is the only child,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000000905019.html, Liu Li's childhood home is treated as a treasure, what do not let her do it, "home with us, and she need not sweep these clothes, in case fell touched how do ? " "I've eaten more salt than she had ever eaten meters, I gave her to make a decision, you can make her less take a lot of detours." Miss Mao told reporters, introverted daughter character itself, in order to not let her suffer, Miss Mao almost every twenty-three hours should make a phone call to ask, and more content to "Where," "what" "encountered" and "I can help you do" is. But now,doudoune parajumpers pas cher, Miss Mao not only worried about her daughter's work, but also worry about her daughter's marriage: "She will not do housework, surrounded by friends I do not think the fly, now no playing with friends, how a husband out Oh?" Daughter: Mom blanket but once they found themselves leave nothing "When I think that would be more overbearing mother so blanket, such as a department not doing well, she would have to let me immediately go to cram school." Liu Li said Miss Mao arranged everything for her, and she just " condemnation "button. Liu Li said,http://www.aginghipsters.com, whether it is to go to school or go to work, take it all the way to the car, eat Which face, what to buy mom a stationery are well in advance to inquire, after talking with colleagues at work, often dialogue will also be transferred to the mother "look over" to Miss Mao advice. "In fact, halfway also want to be themselves, but failed each time." Liu Li said, when work in an IT department business dinner, she decided not to tell Miss Mao, in that party, she found impossible into the discussion topic, while he will not even toast said, "If my mother,http://www.vegeta.jp/cgi-bin/recipe/noahbbs.cgi?sessionid=&thr_num=1&namae=&email=&mode=paging&prev=0&next=11&pstart=0, maybe you can tell me what to say." Children: excessive "protection" into the shackles of the parents can not "love" in the name of life interference "To be honest, parental love has made me breathless." Jiang Yong, who lives in Yuzhong District Court 7 of already 25 years old, and every time out and classmates friends, must go home before nine in the evening. "Otherwise, my mother will 'serial killer CALL', until I get home." Wang Silei often feel there is no freedom, and sometimes go out with friends, parents will be like inventory spy ships,http://www.menqiu.com/bbs/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, so she was very embarrassed. Now, Wang Silei around friends and colleagues are aware of this situation,tn requin pas cher, and often with the party are due to "tutor strict" and no longer notice her, let her get humiliated. "Children are not pets parents, there should be a separate space. When parents care about their children, not always in the name of love interference child's personal life, beyond the normal scope of the bundle." Tang Yue work in early childhood in Yubei Area Western kindergarten, she often found to send their children food, clothes or toys send parents. "Even some parents privately told me, do not want their children and certain children to play." Tang Yue said, over the parents 'protection' Sometimes children will bring great psychological burden,moncler outlet, let the children lose some judgment and thinking. Parents: Children always need to worry about their parents deserve guide Asked in detail about his son's favorite meal, at any time to worry about their well-being, a son not around my heart at sixes and sevens, the total can not help but call to ask whether well, son of official private matter to be "into the act" ...... lives 9 Li Mei Jiangbei District Jinsha waterfront since his son was born, has been so worry to over 24 years. "Parents control their children is justified, this heartfelt love is normal." Mei said, today's young people, although the age grew up, but easily influenced by others, she was worried about his son accidentally take a detour. "Children can always pay attention to timely detection of problems, be correct guidance." Who lives in Dadukou Shunxiang a street pole Liu Yung year has been 58 years old daughter who manage the size of the transaction, she is now in the band 4-year-old granddaughter. "Today's young people of plenty, have not experienced suffering, lack of caring heart and interpersonal skills, so the parents of restraint is very important." Liu Yung said pole, although now very dependent on their own daughter, but she thinks this is safe. "At least she did every decision will ask for my advice, the size of things there I make a decision, you can prevent a lot of unnecessary mistakes." Psychological experts: Adult no "weaning" prone to cause personality defects Deputy Director of the weight attached to a hospital mental health center status Professor Lee told reporters that in recent years, to the psychological clinic "unweaned" Young people more and more, most of which exhibit extremely sensitive and anxiety symptoms. "Like Liu Li this is her mother the micromanagement." Lee case, he said most of the family is now only one child, parents fear their children are tired and worry about, so anything want to make their children well, which is very easy to form overprotection, so children will not be in adulthood, "weaning", leading to mental retardation, personality development is not perfect. Children benefit from the status of psychoanalysis, in children under overprotective parents, often with ambivalence, will eventually lead to anxiety, and other symptoms of sensitive, can not make a decision independently, but the lack of interpersonal skills. "Most children begin their parents will resent this protection, but if the parents still insist that their children will not let go of this over-reliance on the protection." Education Experts: Parents can not replace life children learn to let go business Vice president of Chongqing female talent research, family education expert Li Anna said that parents should grasp the bundle of the child, not a substitute for child business life. The right to establish their own education is the pursuit of life,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001048678.html, so that the power of example to influence children. "Parents are a child protection nature, they often fear of children suffer, bullied, so the child wrapped up, and continue to meet the needs of children." Li Anna said, the consequences of doing so is to let children grow up unable adapt to the social environment that others should be like parents unconditionally obey their own. Once the difficulties, it will indent parents embrace, unable to face the storm of life. Li Anna suggested that when parents bundle child should grasp a degree, do not let the normal care "change the taste." "Great big issues of principle of non-parents can make suggestions to them for reference, do one assisted role, do not help them make a decision." Li Anna said, as for the child's habits, leisure, entertainment and so on, parents It should not be too much interference. "Give the children some independent space, learn to let go." In addition, she said,woolrich sito ufficiale, parents should have their own ambitions and the pursuit of life, not to focus excessively on the children. "The right education is actually the power of example", Li Anna admitted that "parents should be more concerned about their elderly life, showing the positive side of self-reliance to the children, with their own actions to influence them." Hot friends: @ 322 winner takes all: I have the same. Himself had a son, he has not weaned. @ Light say: Parents can not do without children, the parents need to weaning. @ Rain dripping: Now you could not bear to let go, the future will not let go of his life. Liangjiang Survey: What to eat today, tomorrow, what to wear, how and colleagues, what my friends do not care about their children parents should pay ...... perfectly justified, may unavoidably care and control, over their parents' love, "is to protect or obstacle? Once the child is grown up adults should have an independent space, parents should no longer bundle children, affecting normal life for their children. Parents of the child protection is a nature, it is to let the children detours to avoid the children make mistakes, this bundle is important. Parents should grasp the bundle of children, issues of principle can make suggestions, but the child's daily life, parents should not be too much official interference in private affairs. Topic extension: Parents 'protection' What are the symptoms can cause excessive? "Neet" Kids spoiled by their parents overprotective, in the process of growing independence has not been cultured. Wait until the age of responsibility, they refused to be independent, long-term attachment, parasitic in the parents who rely on their parents to solve everything, now form the "Neet." "Marriage is difficult." In addition to daily life, study and work, marriage and children's events also often parents "focal point." Overprotective parents make their children's marriage status also have a strong desire to control, and therefore make more requirements on the spouse and children. The parents and children on the marriage, love, understanding certainly different, often put their ideas,peuterey outlet, ideas imposed on children, resulting in the child a "marriage difficult" situation. "Easy inferiority" What to wear what to eat,http://sarasa.coron.jp/bbs/joyful.cgi, that his friends, what to say ...... at long overprotective parents, children tend to become weak, shy, afraid to face new things, not take the initiative with people, lose a lot of learning and training opportunities. At the same time, long-term lack of decision-making and judgment,http://s011.dzzj123.com/news/html/?147039.html, will lead the children self-confidence is not enough, resulting in "incompetence" of the self-evaluation, the breeding of inferiority. "coward" Cowardly not born, babies do not know fear. But with the improvement of cognitive ability, children come to know the risk, but the attitude of the children treat dangerous, but it is the result of ambient effects. Over-current protection is one of the major errors parenting parents, since today's children are mostly only child, so parents are always careful, for fear that child has a problem. Children with a little risk-taking behavior, parents will be very nervous, constantly remind kids to be careful. Under such overprotection, the child will become more and more timid. (Edit: SN053) [see Sina news Win iPad mini] 

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