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  1. The therapist has to do lengthy rehabilitation. Reporters interview recently, the ocean in her mother's arms and laughed together. Shenzhen Chinese Commercial News reporters Fan Guorui and She Yangyang can not speak, but can communicate with mom soul.<br>Very concerned & nbsp; & nbsp; the child was born just two months was diagnosed with cerebral palsy serious, since her husband disappeared, leaving her alone with the children. As she try to earn money,http://bbs.xwsj.org/home.php?mod=space&uid=159, while the utmost efforts to recover the children, 5 years never stopped. Rehabilitation is hard, the effect is very small. Day after day of frustration most people have given up, but she never has not the slightest slack. She always optimistic,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/brandcouture/od-bag-452u.html, calm, tough, fate brought her a special fortune to achieve a rapid growth of his life.<br> <br>Shenzhen Chinese Commercial News reporter Deng Xiaoqun<br> <br>If she had no children or have a healthy child, she will live a carefree life of abundance and even around the world; now she has a child with severe disability, she felt, together with the children during the struggle, no longer boring and mediocre, more respectful love life. "I was only a child loves his mother." Faced with the praise of others, her smile is always so calm, calm.<br> <br>Ocean mother, living in our city. & Nbsp;<br> <br>Disability baby is the mother of an angel<br> <br>So far, the ocean still remember the age of 36 my mother gave birth to his son's situation five years ago: the little guy 8 pounds 6 two, shiny black hair, extravagant, eye Wuliu Liu, cry loud and clear voice.<br> <br>In those days, the ocean is full of happiness at home. Dad in extremely limited circumstances came time to leave baby son flew back from abroad, the grandson of hope for many years more than 70 years to see who had the grandmother toothless mouth cover strong again laugh. However, the next day, there is always something wrong child.<br> <br>Two months, and when a doctor's lengthy mother was the child really is a problem: He's a little hand is always anti-sheets obliquely upward move, the reflection angle of the bow, the body can not keep straight; hands are always tightly grabbed the fist, stiff limbs regularly, particularly angry when it is breaking are breaking not move, occasionally accompanied by cramps ......<br> <br>Mom and Dad to the hospital with a lengthy, lengthy doctors diagnosed as "severe infantile cerebral palsy." Cerebral palsy generally mild, moderate, and severe levels, lengthy doctor gives the highest degree of disability of "four."<br> <br>Children with cerebral palsy refers to children due to various reasons (such as infection,http://oar.marine.ie, bleeding, trauma, etc.) caused substantial damage to the brain, can cause movement disorders, mental and other aspects is a need to invest heavily, or even need a lifetime of disability rehabilitation .<br> <br>Out of the hospital, ocean father was petrified, unable to drive, ocean mother drove back home. Home laughter gone, everyone knows the meaning of the diagnosis.<br> <br>Soon, her husband went abroad, sent her an e-mail: "give up the child, give him medical treatment prohibitively difficult." & Nbsp; & nbsp;<br> <br>He was diagnosed one week after the first, lengthy mother cried every day, crying to headaches, tears to his eyes dark and what can not think, can not do anything, even forgot to ocean feeding. She thought the same as her husband chose to give up, and even thought about how to make the ocean without pain to leave. Can see the ocean a plump little face, innocent eyes, leaning his arms attachment is satisfied appearance, and became the mother of a small child darling little angel.<br> <br>Mom lengthy reply to a message to her husband: "I'll give you a look impossible!" Her reply, so lengthy father disappeared since then, no news.<br> <br>Arduous rehabilitation difficult if Buddhist sutras<br> <br>In fact she became a single mother. Since then, she will be a person with cerebral palsy children, left alone to face the economic, time, pressure on the physical.<br> <br>Previously, my mother did not need lengthy economic worry,http://www.specialistoiljob.com/cgi-specialistoiljob/news-clip.pl?n=30, now work a top priority, because it is her child-rearing and to treat the child's only source of income. To accompany the child recovered, she apply to the unit the night shift. During the day the children run around in various hospitals and health institutions, home to his family to do exercise at night waiting for him to fall asleep and then go to work at night, sleep add up to only forty-five hours a day.<br> <br>Extremely difficult child rehabilitation. At first, the doctor told her: "Your child is to recover his lifelong journey of life is like to Buddhist sutras, full of frustrations and tribulations along the way.."<br> <br>He started training. As the baby's ocean, training small hand to the splint, all with a small arm leg straps wrapped up, and then an adult's body pressed on his little body, legs pulled into a word; while the other adults with their feet slam his hands, let the children lying on a slope, so he kept practicing rise. After six months of high-intensity training, lengthy hand, shoulder grow a thick cocoon, together purple green together. Sometimes, children not tired, practicing the practice with sleep. Can not let him sleep ah, only forced to wake him to continue training. Child refused, crying desperately, crying mouth dry, his voice hoarse.<br> <br>Whoever looked like the devil training will not help shed tears, but almost no one saw the ocean mother cried, she gave her son called common battle "comrades." She always used original way to comfort the child, do not want to continue to train and picked up crying ocean mantra: "lengthy love my mother, my mother loves the ocean." At this time, the children will magically quiet,hogan outlet, wait a while to continue the devil training.<br> <br>Training so hard, but the child's progress is very small. Looked up, and occasionally hand holding a bottle, this child will be born to normal operation, the ocean often need to go through a year or so of training to do, really be prohibitively difficult. And when children have small progress, mother will shed tears of ecstasy. In her view, this is a providential gift of old, this is her own "little fellow" together to overcome major issue!<br> <br>Four hours of sleep every day for months and years, lengthy mother's health was finally out of the question. There was a time, twice within two weeks of her severe headache, dizziness, jet-like vomiting, especially the second, attack Shihai was sent to the emergency department 120. After examination, my mind did not grow something, just vasospasm, but to her sounded the warning bell. She decided to resume once the favorite swimming.<br> <br>Every day no matter how busy, lengthy mother should take the time to swim 1000 meters:. "I was the only healthy, I can not have a child's future left him ten million fortune, but I want to give him a healthy mother, able to accompany him to walk more a long way. "<br> <br>Not without joy<br> <br>Home every day, the first thing my mother ran to hug a child. Ocean mother said: "Do not look now, he will not speak, but I am particularly attached to,woolrich outlet milano, a little can not ignore him."<br> <br>Ocean home on the balcony planted with a variety of vegetables, wheat vegetables, beans, cucumbers silver, which is the mother of the son of planting pollution-free vegetables, basically meet the child's needs, but also a beautiful garden. This home, people feel full of warm, happy, and no gloomy feeling. This is the ocean mother painstakingly create a world for children. Ocean mother said, everything he has done, is to be happy ocean.<br> <br>Every birthday, ocean mother would take him to the studio to shoot birthday photos. When the camera, people will be curious to look at the disabled children, then ran to my mother always explained to the people: the child has cerebral palsy, I hope you can understand, I would like him to be patient when posing him.<br> <br>Ocean mom doing, in fact, well-intentioned:. "On the one hand is to get more exposure to the outside world ocean, more importantly, give yourself a chance to exercise, so that their courage to face the eyes of others in fact, this is every child with disabilities Parents have had a psychological threshold. Only physical and mental health of parents to train children with disabilities the child has no sound body, but can not let them lose healthy mind. "<br> <br>Ocean mother and nanny often push the child out to play, my mother's cheerful,http://kagome.fan-site.net, child charming smile, attracted we are very fond of the ocean. Every time out for a walk, adults,http://www.cckad.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=158904, children are scrambling to hold him, tease him, the ocean as a small star, he often gratefully want to go home too!<br> <br>Happy lengthy infected several district near many of the parents of disabled children. Previously, they worry that other people know that they have a disabled child at home, with little kids come out, but to see the ocean cheerfully running around with impunity, but also to gradually bring out their children. Now, in the park near ocean home, often you can see a lot of disabled children get together for a walk, and the scene is quite spectacular. Today, not only have a lot of normal ocean junior partner, there are many people with a disability.<br> <br>Ocean now almost 5 years old, but in sports, barely able to reach the 5-month-old child's level. The outcome of other children can be made a month long, lengthy it takes a full year. But the ocean mother said he was very happy, his face all day hanging super charming smile, his smile even make healthy mother of envy.<br> <br>"My only hope is that he can be happy."<br> <br>Rehabilitation of four children with severe cerebral palsy is tough, it has been called "presidential level." Although mother and son never stopped fighting, but the ocean is always very slow progress. Other cerebral palsy children can march forward, the ocean is often running in place. Lengthy mom who wrote this text: "In 2007,moncler pas cher, I dreamed that one day he could walk; in 2008, I hope he can learn to sit, will hand; but today, I have no idea much, I only hope that he can be happy. Maybe some people think I'm too pessimistic, no goal, but the face of reality, in the face of overweight four degrees of cerebral palsy, quadriplegia, I do not want to give him too much pressure on himself,http://taroato-hokuto.sakura.ne.jp/joyful/joyful.cgi?mode=res&no=12494, as long as the pay, efforts , the result is not important, it is important to give yourself a healthy mind and happy life. "<br> <br>Mom ocean optimism,louboutin soldes femme, tenacity, brought her unexpected life experience. lasting bonds with the old Chinese, it is one of them.<br> <br>Guolao born Chinese family, very charitable and medical skills, family nine people are acupuncturist, half a century of practice saving countless lives. When Guolao know the ocean and mother story, offered a lengthy free acupuncture treatment, the treatment effect is very obvious.<br> <br>After long observation, Guolao found that mothers face difficulties ocean calm tenacity never complained, with good behavior,tn reuqin pas cher, and there is medical knowledge, then offered her as close disciples.<br> <br>The decision to change the mother's life trajectory ocean. She studied Western medicine, Chinese medicine from this field into the profound. After two years of concentrated study, with her savvy and diligence, in Guolao intentions under the guidance of her mother I have learned a lengthy apprenticeship, is known for acupuncture "Little Kathrine", can treat many diseases.<br> <br>Because too many people come to seek medical attention, shortly before the help of friends, she ran to her mother in Merlin opened a clinic. Now my mother liked lengthy career, she said that whenever cure a patient, it is a lengthy plot merit, heart on Duoliaoyifen relieved. Of course, it can be a little more revenue for lengthy high medical expenses in the future capital to deposit points.<br> <br>Thanksgiving "God's suffering."<br> <br>Reporters interview asked about her husband. She told him no resentment and hate, because to know him, he encountered difficulties bypass man.<br> <br>She said that a child hospitalized in lengthy hospital, dozens of similar cases of small patients, more than half of families with children of divorced parents: "This is a fire pit, into a dead one, into two two dead, one is able to escape. I am a mother, the whole world of people have fled, I can not escape. "That year, she even want to be around friends and relatives all walked away, she did not want to drag anyone, because she knows, so compassionate.<br> <br>She did not run away, never had stopped lengthy rehabilitation, many two-parent families are not necessarily able to do. Let maternal mother ocean full harvest, when talking about this a few years of life experience, she always on Thanksgiving. "It started as my mother could not accept the reality, all night crying, for her, I can only show strong; later strong for our children, because my emotions would infect him, so I have to pretend to be strong for a long time, and. actually self-fulfilling prophecy, I really became an optimist. "<br> <br>She said that in the lengthy process of rehabilitation, the original is always concerned about the child's progress, but did not find ourselves rapid growth: "If it is not because the child was sick, I realized that the body will not have so much energy, not only independent raising a child with cerebral palsy, because the child does not affect their work, and I learned acupuncture to recharge. "<br> <br>The child's future,http://haustechnik.pl, ocean mother had very serious friend said: "struggle ocean life needs, hard work, by me to help him complete, he just does not have any burden, happily through life we were together. I work, he enjoyed, I will not let him have stress and worry. 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